I just got out of a long distance relationship of seven years, and it was good and bad. But I got ghosted the day after her birthday and i haven't heard from her since yet I'm still feeling alone and I saw a girl who I called out because she only talked to me when she was bored yet I even asked her out and i saw her today with my cousin who doesn't talk to me. I'm tired of reaching out to people and get pain in return but everyone else gets happiness, friends, everything. I'm alone
@@odysseusstallings5535 yeah I man understand what that feels like. It’s gonna take some time because it would hurt even when someone would respond an hour later. My long distance relationship did that to me. It wasn’t always long distance btw because she was here in Chicago but moved over to Texas for two months with her mom but came back to stay with her dad. I was talking to her for a total of 10 months but 2 and half of those months we were dating. Our breakup for me wasn’t too painful because I know I did the best I could even though I was the one broken up with. Long story short if someone continually disrespects you (like not responding) leave em you deserve someone better for you. I gave all I could for this girl I helped them move out for like 2 weeks, I gave her my sweater and bought her a teddy bear, I sent flowers over to her while she was Texas and even offered to fly over and stay because she got dehydrated and probably could have died with scarred me badly. Then after I sent her flowers there was one hole day and a half where she didn’t respond to me💀. Dude I get it. And she broke up me like the 23rd of august for a different reason. Apparently I wasn’t calling her and trying to talk to her even though she doesn’t text me first or call me at all when she was over here and through text I was encouraging her with her at her new school because she was scarred. And I asking how she was doing and telling her about my day. It was a lot bro this girl really sucked to talk to sometimes like conversations over text would hours with only like 6-7 messages sent I hated it. Regret is I shouldn’t have called called her but Also I had to talk to her dad and get on good terms because we got caught because she gave me a hicky on our first date! I never even met her dad you know how much guts and confidence it takes to do that. I was prepared for like 2 months waiting to talk to him. But dude ik I feel alone too I have friends or I guess acquaintances but I don’t feel connected to anyone really. Now I’m praying I get accepted into a college or university man it’s a lil stressful but I have faith that God will get me somewhere I need to be in my life. He is my provider. Dude just try and heal the best way you can and whatever’s is best for you. God bless!
Currently going through a heartbreak and it hurts so much. My heart feels so heavy and I pray everyday for help to get through this. I sometimes feel like I’m loosing myself. I keep praying that this will pass soon. In Jesus name Amen ❤️
@@latreselatrese4179 God is with you pray tell em to remove the pain and lead you to where you have to be and feel and he will not let you down. I’m here for you if you need someone to talk too it’s always good 🙏🏻
Currently healing from a heartbreak.. unable to sleep most nights and breathe most days but with God's strength I'll some day find my strength. Update: I’d be lying if I said I’m no longer suffering but yes it has gotten easier. However, I’ve started to realize my judgment in character is poor. I ended up trying to buy my confidence in someone else and it ended up being the worst mistake of my life. Self love is all the love you truly need. Praying for everyone on here and thank you for all the kind words.. ❤️
God I pray that you heal the hearts of all those who are or have been heart broken. That they know they are loved no matter what! They are beautiful and worthy and special! In Jesus name Amen!
This is the third time this has happened- I’m in a dark place, crying out, scroll through RU-vid, come across one of Steven’s messages and it’s like God himself speaking right into my heart 🔥🙏🏼
Jesus I pray that you would reveal to Emily the common threads so she can close this door for good and walk in the fulness of what you have for her. AMEN!
Hi Emily! I was reading some of the comments. I hope u are in a better place! Remember that nothing is permanent. Nothing is perfect. Nothing is personal. If you need somebody to talk with .... Let me know. Sending u good vibes from NYC. 😊
Quit looking for confidence from people who have their own insecurities. Quit compromising your values to get your needs met. Start looking for validation from God!🙏❤
Trying to heal my broken heart, Feeling worthless, useless, Embarrassed and so deeply hurt😣 Praying God will help me thru this and Make me a stronger person. 🙏
Hi Crystal, sorry to hear. But I promise you, it will get better. Cry and talk about it to God, your best friend. It really helps. I'm 5 months into my heartbreak journey. My daughter and I went on our first vacation alone, our 1st Christmas without him. This morning I woke up thanking God for another day and to help me to ease the pain in my heart. From 5 months ago to now, I promise you, you will reach the summit, so that you can reflect and see what lies ahead. It's wonderful to discover you again, to give time to you again, to enjoy what you love and like. Make yourself pretty, go to gym, meet new people, have fun with you. Because you are special and worth it. Stay blessed and please don't give up
When anyone walks away, spouse, kid, best friend, put your trust in God. He will sustain you. It might take a minute to get your footing. Keep praying and keep walking. God has confidence in you even when you dont think your enough.
Life Is Short Storm are Temporary Love Is Life Health Is Wealth Tomorrow Is Never Promised GOD Is Never Late Jesus Is All You Need Amen & Amen & Amen 💞
Matthew 11:5 The blind receive their sight, and the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, and the deaf hear, the dead are raised up, and the poor have the gospel preached to them🙏 Guide, correct and bless us,JESUS
Currently going through a 6 year break-up with my ex fiancé. It feels like he gave up when it got too hard. It feels like those 6 years meant nothing. Currently moving out, getting my own place & completely starting over. Some days are better than others. Some days I feel like I’m drowning. The craziest part about it is I almost feel scarred. Like I’m not sure how to be in a relationship again. Like I’m not sure if I could ever even live with my future husband or trust a man again. I never ever want to feel this pain again. I’m traumatized.
It's get better with time. I went trough a similar situation. Time heals you . Now I don't think about my ex partner. And now I'm feeling like God is slowly healing and getting ready for a new relationship. Just keep God first and keep your head up
Im going through something similar! It hurts when someone betrays you, but God is there to sustain us! His loves us and his love powers us! He is a God of promises and he will come through! May God help you, sustain you, guard you, direct you, comfort you and give the peace, the strength, the serenity to discern what’s from him and what is not and give you the wisdom and love that everything is going to be Okay! God loves you!
I did THAT. I left an abusive relationship. I entered school again. I bought my own house. Now I'm alone, in another heartbreak relationship, my mother is sick, my daughter is struggling with mental health, my other daughter is experiencing trauma from an ex-boyfriend and I feel like I can't take anymore. But this is my THIS. God is going to use THIS to let me look back someday to say "I did THAT". Thank you Pastor Furtick
I'm sorry for your pain and hope you are doing better now. Heartbreak and life in general is hard. God is our rock and high tower. He will never leave us and forsake us. We just need more faith to believe that more. 🙏🏻
I needed this. I’m trying to leave a man, because he doesn’t respect me. I borrowed confidence from the wrong place, that is for sure! This message is right on time. In Jesus name. My higher power!
So we'll said Sarah....god bless you and your family with lots of love happiness joy peace patience prosperity good health and lots of success in your life and your family...god bless you
Hi, yeah, that’d be great. And I hope your situation gets better! I felt this message really made it clear we need to count on God, and find our confidence in him. This kind of confidence no man can give us.
I broke down and cried when I heard that..cried for all the times I sought confidence in wrong people and each time I was left hurt, depressed and worse off than before.
I wasn’t made for the modern dating world. My heart is broken again and God is the only one who has ever been gentle with my heart, he is so loving. I want to grow with someone who is willing to grow too, towards God, towards becoming better people. I want a relationship focused around growth towards Him…
After double digit years the man i called my best friend walked away from me in the weirdest oddest most random way when i needed him the most.Im still in shock and don’t understand why.I have to keep asking God to put forgiveness in my heart so that it doesn’t plant roots and sprout bitterness etc. It’s not easy but the more time i spend with God, the more peace i have about it.
Who's reads this Lord, pliz touch those who are in a battle for their health, finances, faith, marriage, Peace or something else. Fight their fights, win their wars & give them victory. In Jesus Mighty Name.Amen 💞💖💞
Crazy!! Literally yesterday someone said to me I am “unlovable” and that’s why “everyone walks away from my life”. My replied to that was “then you can walk right out with them” and they did lol but god is with me!! Amen!!
The "unlovable" part is a lie from the enemy. God has a way of purging the toxic from our lives so we can grow in Him! God is crazy about you and always will be!
Everh branch in me that beareth not fruit he taketh away and every branch that beareth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit -John 15:2 god bless🤍
People need to focus on God and heal. It takes years to heal and be ready for a relationship. Broken people make broken relationships. Its selfish to enter a relationship before you are healed and put God first. We are battling satan and his demons not flesh and blood.
My heart is broken my husband of 31yrs told me he met someone else. I can barely get through the day right now. I'm praying for my marriage to restore....and doing my best to trust God. Please any prayers would help 🙏 😢
Wow 31 yrs that’s so sad… I’m going tru separation and divorce after 9 yrs.. if they can walk away they never valued what they had… leave them.. the grass isn’t always greener.. the fun and lust will die.. hold onto to Jesus cast your cares on him❤ only he can truly heal and love us.. stay strong 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I used to look for love in all the wrong places and faces. Love used to be a physical thing and it took me awhile but I finally got it, love is not physical....love is so much more. Don’t waste your time on the physical. God will bring the right one to you when He thinks you’re ready. Love is a precious gift, don’t waste it.
I don't know how RU-vid knows my first real relationship just ended yesterday after he walked away without any closure. I don't know who this man is, but I'm going to listen.
I'm weary of the lessons. Every one walks away from me when I show them love and dedication. When I will get a break and just have a good, stable relationship where somebody appreciates and loves me back?
In my broken heart, I will trust in God. In my regrets, I will come to Him. In my imperfections, I will stay in His presence. Whoever reading this, whenever it is, I hope that you found peace in your struggle.
Not so! You can not control what others do....only what you do. You are responsible for you not what others do.....and they are responsible what they do...so don't take on another's guilt or wrong doing. All you can do is forgive as God commands we do , so then you free yourself of that pain and hurt . Yes it can be a hard process especially when you are hurting, but in time you can, and it is for yourself not them, cause it frees you and you shouldn't live with a hardened heart. That only hurts you...making you bitter and angry. Of course we want to do every thing we can to reconcile but if they have made up their mind and you see that ... you need to accept that cause you can't make someone love you if they don't.....bottom line . I speak from experience not my personal feelings or opinion. Sometimes in this life, we have to pick up the pieces of our heart and move on in this life. I will say, being in a close relationship with the Lord is everything .....for He is who gives us the strength and helps us through these difficulties in this life. And I'm so very thankful I have him in my life. With God all things are possible! "Taste and see that the Lord is good. Oh, the joys of those who take refuge in him . " (Psm. 34: 8).
Dealing with rejection from a wife of 20 years that I'm head over heals about. Tring to stand in the gap for her tring to love without expectations tring to be strong for our 15yr daughter and also our 18yr old son that just got married and going to have a daughter in a couple weeks. God comfort me.
Bryan, sometimes God allows you to go through things to shape you and be more like Him. We reject God all the time and He still loves us. It doesn't mean it won't hurt, it just means God is working on us. Stay focused on God, it's bigger than all of us. God loves you and k ows what He is doing.
@@tanj9682 thank you for that. I think the words you just said is exactly what God is doing with me. Tring to make me more like Jesus , Psalms 55.22 God is close to the broken hearted and saves those that are crushed in spirit, he will never let the righteous fall. Thank you God for being close. My wife and kids have left me. They are being selfish. You are all I have, You take me life and guide me into Your will.
How are you doing now? I’m in the same situation currently. Husband left after a decade together. We had an amazing relationship up until he started having an affair. I’m so broken but pushing through. I hope you are doing good.
May all who read this receive divine revelation and deliverance for their life situation and may today be the day that the glory of the Lord shine upon you and through you for all of your days forever and ever. In Jesus Name. Amen!! With Peace and Love. May you have a blessed day ❤️
God is giving me strength literally have had my heart ripped out, my ex left me, ghosted me. So many questions. No answers. God please keep me. God please fix me.
Currently going through a heartbreak , I feel so hurt ... I feel numb , I feel despair I feel unlovable if I'm being honest. I am doin my best to get through this heartbreaking time by finding comfort through prayer & seeking God's discernment to get through this , praying eases the pain a bit but , honestly my heart still aches weighted day with the memories & thoughts we shared together & at the fact that how can someone tell you they love so much one day, then the next don't. 💔 😔😪
Going through heartache myself but I know that I know that I know Jesus loves me! I pray for strength, peace and understanding of Our Lord's plan for us. In Jesus Name I pray Amen.
God will work in the midst of these circumstances to bring His glory into the situation and to assure that we end up in precisely the ministry/calling He ordained for us. The enemy may give it his best shot, but He is not able to disqualify us because God is for us and He will work His glory into each situation! (Romans 8:28).
Still haven't found my future partner since the last 6years of a relationship that I've been, I loved him but keep lying till I had the courage to leave him completely. I believe that one day I'll find an honest man to love me for who I am. Thank you for this wonderful sermon.
I asked God today to comfort me and this video has helped me realize so many things on how I should cope Your videos has always helped me learn more and more about God it has gotten me so much closer to Him. Thank you Steve much love
Thank you for this message. Im grateful for this message. I’m currently going through a break up and I’m 4 months pregnant. I have been struggling with my faith. I have been struggling mentally with all of this and preparing myself to raise my child alone. The father doesn’t want to communicate. I’m not sure what he is struggling with or facing. I’m praying for confidence to be able to break the cycle that I experienced while growing up. I pray I will have the strength to love support and provide for my child. Please keep me in your prayers I walk this journey.
Maegan!! I can't imagine how you must be feeling, but you are so beautiful and so brave! It can be terrifying and so distressing when people disappoint us in the most crucial moments... But you are being forged in the fire and will be the light on a hill for many women (as well as your child) for your strength and incredibly inspiring courage. ☺️❤️🙌🏽
I went through that 6 years ago and God has been sustained my girls and I... Trust God and you will never lack... Your going to be a great mom... I am raising 2 kids alone, working full-time, a business owner, working in ministry and working on my 2nd degree. Trust me focus on God and your healing you will come through it all.... Just know someone on the other side of the world in praying for you and the blessing you are carrying.
Currently going through a storm. There’s so much power in letting all of you go and offering your full self up to God and trusting in his word. I’ve been watching Steven furtick, Sarah jakes and Michael Todd sermons for the past 3 weeks and it’s been such a revelation in my heart. The pain of the heartbreak is still there, though knowing the God will sustain me through it gives me so much reassurance. Healing has to be uncomfortable, it will be painful but with it comes so much wisdom and hope. It’s a process. And it will come to pass 😭
Someone I was SURE sent by God, has been suddenly removed, no explanation, no words.. I’m confused, abs sad, but realize this is when God gets our attention. I’m praying and spending time with Him to truly know Him, and have God search me for any unclean thing abs heal me broken heart.
Matthew 11:5 The blind receive their sight, and the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, and the deaf hear, the dead are raised up, and the poor have the gospel preached to them🙏 Guide, correct and bless us,JESUS
I SOOOO needed to hear this message right now. Thank you so much for reminding me that Jesus is my lord and the only one who can truly validate me as he is my creator.
I have never seen so much heartbreak in my whole life, these testimonies are real ,I've gone through things most of my life also, had no idea how many others have also, God says turn back to him, this is for everybody... I actually thought of my heartbreak but seeing these others is no longer about mine, I will pray for the world with yu ....
I pray anyone watching this Abundance of love and happiness is coming to you all you have to do is say i can i will i must. Peace and love to your beautiful sweet soul♥️.
Please pray for my marriage. I think it’s over and I’m defeated. If it weren’t for my youngest daughter I would consider ending my life. This burden is too heavy and my soul is exhausted.
I've been in your shoes. My children saved my life, through the grace of God. The marriage was toxic, and thankfully didn't survive. With God's help, I got through it. I'm much healthier and happy now.
I've been in your shoes. My children saved my life, through the grace of God. The marriage was toxic, and thankfully didn't survive. With God's help, I got through it. I'm much healthier and happy now.
Proverbs 3:5‐6 Phillipians 4:13 2 Corinthians 4:5‐7 &16‐18 Psalm 18:2 Psalm 18:28 Joshua 1:9 My favorite Galatians 6:9💜 Never give up! These scriptures have gotten me thru the most difficult times of my life. Many can relate to your pain, you're not alone...NEVER GIVE UP!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Open the Bible. Pray and seek him. You will find rest. Give it to the Lord give it all to him what ever you feel. He is one that will never abandon you. He has you in the palm of his hands. He has a plan for you just wait!!!! Jeremiah 29:11
I need it to hear this I need it to know that I'm going to be OK. My Strom will be over soon and God knows all and if they walk away from me the most important person is with me my God. Thank You Jesus Thank You Pastor Furtick 🙏
Man I just went through something I thought was going extremely well from one eve to early next morning to hear “you’re not what I’m looking for. You don’t make me feel how I want to feel” It hurts, but thank You God in advance for healing, grace, and mercy 🙏
My husband left 14 mons ago, he is a bivocational preacher & wants a divorce but wants to stay friends. He says he doesnt love me anymore. I told him he would have to file for divorce bc God is not giving me peace to file, but he doesn't want to file & look like the bad guy standing in the pulpit. I love him so much, we have been married 20 yrs & he just suddenly walked out with no discussion at all. Ive gotten closer to God during this time alone but im 57 i don't want to continue to live alone. I want somebody to love me, i want my husband back but God doesn't seem to be intervening for some reason. For those that will, plz pray God brings him back home to me. Thank you!
'David was dumb enough to defeat the enemy that they were running from' just boosted my confidence that I can defeat every battles placed before me, through God. Thank you Pastor, God bless you. Love from India
Matthew 11:5 The blind receive their sight, and the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, and the deaf hear, the dead are raised up, and the poor have the gospel preached to them🙏 Guide, correct and bless us,JESUS
Hope you are doing better, my fiancé did the same 2 months ago. Kept the ring and broke up over the phone after 9.5 years together. Realizing you are so much more than whoever your spouse is, is insanely important. I realize my happiness was tied through theirs and that cannot be the case. Love yourself and they will love you.
My "Christian" husband walked out after 41 years, 3 daughters, and 9 grandchildren. He was a church elder and we helped plant a church many years ago. He found someone 17 years younger than me and they moved in together months later. Now they're married,, but not legally by state law because she's waiting on last husband's (passed away) pension. It would be hard to trust again. I struggle with why God didn't intervene when he hates divorce, but I guess maybe God didn't think I should stay with him. So confusing and heartbreaking.
I'm so very sorry sister that you going through this right now....know your not alone! Thank you for sharing this , as difficult as it is. I'm going through something similar. And the whole time of the last 4 half years thinking what am I missing? How can this be justified in the eyes of our Lord? My thoughts and feelings, for you is to continue to be you, do you and stay connected to to God our Father and Jesus or Lord and savior and holy spirit or guide and comforter. May you use what's happened to build you and strengthen you. My heartbis breaking for you and your family, remember you are not alone and others, hard to belive, are going through same things...For what the devil has proposed for evil and destruction, the Lord uses it for His glory and to build you stronger and mightier then you could ever imagine.
My husband has been having a parallel relationship, we been married 8 years. Hes been with the other woman 7 years. Found out last year. We've been trying for a child, they have a 7year old together because he believed a lie. I'm am hear today standing on Gods word that He has restored our marriage. It got so bad that some days he wouldn't sleep at home but God is doing His work. He now comes home every night and I will praise God till our final victory. It's not easy but the Holy Spirit is also doing a work in me, healing me, ministering to me as I pray and worship....I just felt I needed to share this with you. Hold on and trust God to bring him back and ask Him as you wait to minister to you... i have cried and questioned God but I'm hear today healed of depression and believing God for total restoration of our marriage and our baby...
I cried towards the end. Every word. This has to be from God. I dont normally watch a video more than 10 mins usually but i prayed recently to obey and heed the Holy Spirit's promting, even paying attention to every little prompting thenon. Just click though this was 1 month old sermon. How timely. Only God knows. See how faithful God is, All the time! Thank You, Lord! You are everything You say You are👍👏🙏🙌❤
Thank you, Pastor Steven Furtick. If they walk away it's because they were the the One and God has someone better. It's a difficult process but people know what they want. And they'll stay where they want. Simple.
I did that when I went through a pandemic ! With a lung issue and Lord 🙏 you kept me! I came to break generational curses of abuse and you gave me a this! Help me to walk away and keep me focus on you Lord! My confidence comes from you! Amen and Amen
Sometimes these past weeks i feel like I'm losing hope because of the trials I've been through but God never stops reminding me of His loving kindness through HIS word and ways.. that's where i borrow confidence and strength to continue believing and keep going
I did to ma’am I’m so lost without my girlfriend 😔 I always ask why isn’t she fighting like I’m fighting for her 😔 but I guess she isn’t thnking of me at all probably already has someone she’s talking to
Hi 😞 my partner and I going thru a patch and he went mia first time and now almost a week.. part of me ants to reach out again for closure even tho he hasn’t been responding for a week. Did u ever get closure… or did u move forward without ever finding out why 😞
Thank you Pastor. You reminded me just because my 2 brothers despise me for reasons unknown to me, I have a partner and his name is Jesus. Thank you. Today I needed to be reminded that I cannot make them love me, and God always loves me.
I’ve been growing in my relationship with God for 4 years now. I’ve heard a lot of sermons. This is officially, hands down, the message that spoke the loudest and clearest to me. This one hit me the hardest. Praise God. Thank you Elevation Church for working so hard to affectively speak life🙏🏼
Matthew 11:5 The blind receive their sight, and the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed, and the deaf hear, the dead are raised up, and the poor have the gospel preached to them🙏 Guide, correct and bless us,JESUS
