I'll tell you the truth, I desire to be a wife and have been preparing. Howbeit, the more intimate I become with our Lord Jesus, the less I prioritize being married.
As a Man here is what I heard... If I want to bee Boaz, I have to become a high value Man that exists within the place of God's Visitation; To take this a step further, I believe this means, that I should not just always be where God is, but I Kyle Robinson, must be a Place where God visits. My life must be a field from which she can glean! And I will never become Boaz in my place of Comfort!
Any man can work hard and position himself to be able to financially produce and become a provider to his wife and every man should! I call that being a Man of Material Resource. But are you have Spiritual Wealth??? Do you have an abundant understanding of God, The Things of God and His Word and how the Soul & Spirit work so that you can be a Man of Spiritual & Psychological Resource??? If the field you have can only give a Woman money & Material things, that's not a field a Woman of God can glean wisdom, life & revelation from.
I was dating a girl and my sister who didn't know about her had a vision that she was God's will for me.. but I didn't have money then .. she dumped me . Started dating some guy with one small car.. now I can buy that car every month .. in two years God has really blessed me .. if only she waited ..
It was God's will for you to have her heart revealed. Now that you are successful, beware of the gold diggers. They will come. Test the spirit.....That girl would've zapped you dry. Dating her was a blessing so your eyes could be open
I would love to hear a teaching on how the church/pastors/leaders, males specifically, are discipling these men to actually BE a Boaz. That would be wonderful.
Honestly!!!!! Cuz everyone have advice for the women but my God at least the women trying to live right! These men don’t even wanna be in the kingdom and if they are they trying to bring shame to these women. Can we just have the women talk to women and the men deal with MEN. Cuz WE ARE NOT THE PROBLEM!
Sis I was driving crackin up !! 😩 esp w: the phantom bridesmaids !! More importantly, I’m so glad God healed Charity’s heart ♥️ & I Pray He Brings her Boaz in this season If he hasn’t already 🫶🏾🙏🏾
And then when they do marry the husband becomes the lord of their life and before you know it , the walk that they nurtured with The Lord, while they were single, has been forgotten!
The Charity story is killing me 🤍😂😂🤣 this is why I’m fasting and learning to be patient with God…I know I long to be a wife BUT I don’t wanna get too excited and crash….so I’ll just stick to trusting the Lord. I’m 18, and very ready to be married but I’m praying and trust that the Lord gives me clarity and identity. ✝️
Even though I really wanna get married I’m not too concerned about it now…God is allowing me to enjoy my singleness until he knows I’m ready🤍 God makes the best decisions so I’m gonna stick to his plan.
@@rangili1 I might be really young, but it doesn’t mean I don’t have desires. If anything, I think it’s great that as a woman my age, sees a Godly marriage in my future, unlike most girls my age who glamorize worldly things.
It's how Prophet Tomi mixes the Nigerian accent and mannerisms with the British accent for me...I definitely had a good laugh!...And of course learnt a lot!
I'm a single male. This message spoke to me as a follower and as a leader as well. This message spoke to me on so many levels. God be Glorified! I'm saying hi from Arizona USA. God Bless you all.
God warned me when I was going to the UK many year ago that "you don't go there to do black church". Till I left 4 years later and returned to Nigeria, I edified the indigenous Church. When God's purpose is not known, we will be busy with own thing and even praising ourselves.
That Charity story felt like my story. The other person has free will. The man I received a prophetic word about is now living with another woman. Obviously, I would not want to live in sin. I stood on the prophetic word for nearly 4 years. It was crushing. I’m 47, never married.
Whenever God shows you somebody , it's better to thank him for your husband but be open to somebody else showing up .the focus shld always be on God and not on a person - because they hve free will like you said. I also learnt the hard way. Now I'm open to God's choice but if not I know he can bring something better.... so I make sure I'm still putting ,myself out there but thanking Him daily for his choice.
@@millicentlewis-enulue2137 just Raise your son and try to live a full life as best as you can and develop a relationship with God along the way and in the meantime wait on Him.
Mine is the story of: I was shown and met someone indicated as the ‘one’ but nothing materialized . Years laterI asked the Lord what happened and was told ‘he chose another’. I asked if I was ever going to be married. He said: Not until your older. I’m 59. I just let it be in His hands. I neither married nor had children. I won’t grab at anything that’s not given by God. A poor marriage can be a big fat mess.
When the lord speaks to you. It is always consistent with the word of God. The bible says none shall lack their mate Isaiah 34:16. The bible also says God said it is not good for man to be alone. Except you are under a special covenant or you are born without the desire for marriage. God's will for you is to have a spouse. The bible says test the spirits. Confirm God's word over and over again before you hold on to it.
I was told I needed to pray for someone… I do believe God has a husband for me. A man of God ❤ not just a man who will have God in his heart first, than me… he will honor me in our marriage and I will honor him as the Bible says we ought to. I don’t live my life waiting for a mate but I’ve been working in my relationship with God as my first love.
I told my future spouse the prophecies. He was open and felt I was the one.I may have messed up as he has been in my life for years. Yet I believe that God will do it despite the problems and delay, disappointment, etc. It is hard to hear some of this. Yes, you have prepare as woman but why is it always that women have to do all the work? We have to pray, fast, declare, etc. Yes, we have do that but what about the men preparing? Why is it that the woman is just the help meet? Yeah, I want to help but were women only created to be a help meet for a man? I know that we were created for God himself but i mean in terms of marriage. Shouldn't a man help a woman a bit too? Yes I have cried a lot. I believe that God hears my cries. He knows how much I have tried and have been in cycles that I didn't know or understand. There is no manual for singles. I have been trying to change by working on myself internally.
That’s it. I came to that awareness and was sharing it with a friend last week; count the cost as a single before you marry, especially for the lady. You’re literarily laying down your life, aspirations, goals and so on to the dictates of another; your husband. And that is heavy stuff! Are you willing to let go of your rights and opinions for another to determine for as long as you’ll be together? Feminism isn’t God’s standard. Submission IS GOD’S STANDARD! Submitting to your husband as unto The Lord. I thought about this and I somewhat felt if people really choose to do marriage God’s way, we will have less parties on Saturdays and less divorces… Honestly, if single ladies count the cost, the real cost of marriage in God’s way, many won’t be in a rush to marry. Marriage isn’t fantasy, it’s commitment that requires a lot!
How can a woman being treated as the human she is, created by God with a right to have her life respected - feminism - not be the standard of God? You people are insane when you bring this nonsense into church.
@@greatnorthwestbear you are correct about what the Bible says. In a perfect world, the goal and ministry of child bearing for women works. In reality, it doesn’t always. However, your comment does make me think as a single mom and leader of my family (spiritually and financially…) because I’ve been frustrated in “feeling stuck” when this is what the LORD calls me to do at this season. LORD help me and guide me and grant me more wisdom, knowledge and understanding. In Jesus name, amen. ✝️🙏 1 Timothy✨ 11Women should learn quietly and submissively. 12I do not let women teach men or have authority over them.b Let them listen quietly. 13For God made Adam first, and afterward he made Eve. 14And it was not Adam who was deceived by Satan. The woman was deceived, and sin was the result. 15But women will be saved through childbearing,c assuming they continue to live in faith, love, holiness, and modesty. Footnotes: a2:9 Or to pray in modest apparel. b2:12 Or teach men or usurp their authority. c2:15 Or will be saved by accepting their role as mothers, or will be saved by the birth of the Child.
Tomi, you have me cracking up! "If you wonna find Boaz, you need to get off yoaz". Lol!! I love every word you spoke in this teaching. The Lord has been doing alot of work in me, helping me understand why I've lived the path that I have. There has been some "dad issues" that have lead me down this path. Here I stand at 49 and coming on 8 yrs single. Never in my life did I ever think I would be without my husband to partner in life with. You said something that made me think, "have you counted the cost of marriage?". It helped me to reflect and look at my heart. I have & I know that I'm supposed to be married but my choices were wrong choices because I didn't include God in the equation. I wasn't taught to talk to Jesus. Holy spirit has taught me so much during the last 3 yrs & now, I know what to do. I pray God blesses me with a man who loves him as much as I do. I haven't met him as of yet. God bless & Merry Christmas to you & your family 🙏🥰🔥🕊
Great teaching! A Bride must be ready. Even Jesus is coming for a Bride who is Ready to enter in. Women we must work on ourselves and possibly while we are working on ourselves and in obedient contentment in Christ Jesus and His Word we may be found!
What’s a lord? Someone has rulership over a person. The Lord never says that’s what marriage is. He said if u want to rule YOU SERVE. The issue is the immature male man who refuses to allow the Lord to heal his heart from many things that he needs to be healed and delivered from.
Lord please prepare me well and perfect as I wait for my spouse....Lord prepare me to be a sanctuary pure and holy ,tried and true with Thanksgiving I will be a living sanctuary for you ❤️
There were so many reminders God gave while listening to this. He revealed so many truths to me in the years 2019-2020 about what I needed to change and improve. I had a moment too where God had revealed a man to me and when I finally met him I knew immediately that he was not going to choose me. A few months later he was engaged and then married. I also knew that I was not ready even though I had tried to make myself so. It was very, very painful. My mother worried that I would have to be hospitalized because it affected me so deeply. But I overcame it thank God and I am stronger and wiser for it. This is such a weighty teaching. All women should hear it.
Hi Andrea, If that man was already in love and in a relationship with someone else (subsequently engaged and married within a few months!), then he wasn’t for you. Maybe the LORD showed him to you for a reason but not necessarily for marriage (not for you to marry him…). If your heart desires marriage, continue to ask the LORD, continue *growing in His Word* (John 17:17), and may it be according to your faith. In 2023: Fast and pray, cling to Him, and have faith that He is working all things together for good (Romans 8). (I will do the same with His favor.)❤️ Be blessed sister. Don’t let any man or any circumstance get you down. Put on the garment of Praise to combat the spirit of heaviness. GOD bless you.😇🙏✝️
@@jflor7 thank you for your words of wisdom. I also came to that stark realization soon after the announcement. He was not for me and God wouldn’t reveal a man to me to tease or hurt me. It’s very likely I misinterpreted something and ran with it not knowing he already was pursuing her. I had felt the Lord dealing with me to be more intentional with him and to devote more time in my word and with fasting. There are still many layers to be uncovered Thank you again. That was a timely confirmation.
Wow, that was heavy... What a trial!!! Here's cheerin for ya, OVERCOMER!!! Praise the Lord, this was an intense testimony of His grace! Whew... Them fiery trials are not easy... I know from experience that trials have broke my health at times.... Peter was not mincing words when he said "FIERY" trials... and in Isaiah 43:2... When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee. You either feel like you're drowning or burning... but God.... God keeps us.... He'll neither fail, nor forsake us.... Praise the Lord!!!
This is a great word. And honestly some of the examples where great but full of traditions. God meets us wherever we are and it doesn’t matter if you cook or clean up. God will pair you with someone with the exact same issues to work them out in you. Marriage is a HOLY MATRIMONY to display His perfect union among them 3 in one. I’m tired of Men Giving words mixed with so much of themselves! Sound like you think we should be perfect or everything that a man wants! This is completely erroneous. Man should have balance!
I felt the same way from the short clips I watched. Ruth and Boaz is not the standard for marriage biblically first of all. Saying a woman has to find her Boaz is definitely not something to teach when the Bible says when a man finds a wife. Definitely sounds like more culture based teaching and I don’t like it. I wish people would stop making this story the standard for marriage. Boaz was old enough to be her father. She was 40 and he was 80. This was a story of redemption. This is not the standard for marriage. We gotta stop making women think they always have to “fix themselves” that’s the Holy Spirit’s job through faith in Christ Jesus.
This video made me become a paid member! I laughed, screamed, lost my edges, grew them back and LEARNED 😅You said we could message you after joining but I don’t see where.
This message came right on time! I pray my daughter’s appreciates me or finds a Naomi, in Jesus name. In prayer recently the Holy Spirit said “wisdom.” I’ve been praying God bless both my husband and I with wisdom as parents. In addition, have our children trust and believe in His Word continually, in Jesus name. I’m praying for a Godly family to at least the tenth generation! I will be sharing this message with my adult children. Thank you Tomi, for your candid approach to the truth! 😂
It was ruined by her anxious and impatient heart. Even Mary pondered the things that the angel spoke in her heart. This is what needs to happen when God gives us a word.
My prayer for us all is to NEVER/ EVER/ exalt (make an idol) out of a prophetic word and all that comes with it above WHO God is...who Jesus is...which is Lord and Savior!!! Thank you Lord for our prophets and prophetic words...but Lord...they are not You.
I know the Lord is onto something big for me💃💃💃. Bumped into this video as I logged into RU-vid for my midnight prayer 🙏🏾. Lord, as long as I’m in your will, I’ll wait. Grant me the grace to keep waiting with gratitude 🙏🏾
I haven’t been single for a long time but I feel like since being saved and going through sanctification I’ve been enjoying being single whereas when I was in bondage it wasn’t that way. So I would love to be married someday and I do think the lord has plans for me to be married and have children. I’m just enjoying the single life right now and building intimacy with the lord. And I am 23 so I’m still very young.
Thank you, I’ve been single for 4 years now. If I didn’t have the Relationships that I did, I would’ve been single for 12 going on 13 years 🙏🏻 I’ve been Praying for Acceleration 🙏🏻 I know God has My Match, he said he has someone that will Match Me 🙏🏻
This word literally described the very process I have endured over this year, I fought God for 11 months on leaving and separating myself from the Orpahs and Moab as I could not understand what was happening and it consist of lots of grief, pain, and even torment/double mindedness until I FINALLY did what He said. And it was then and only then that I experienced healing, deliverance, and freedom which I am still walking and going through. I had been contending for marriage and my destiny, not realizing it would come to this at the end, I am in awe by how accurate this word is and in many ways relieved that the Lord would use you to bring clarity and understanding of why it was so necessary. Thank you for your obedience, I stand in agreement and will continue to heed to His instructions! Lord forgive me for being so hard headed. 😩
I watched this last year and it showed up today on my RU-vid space and I believe it was so fresh and real. Today is wonderful and you stated there’s a part two was 2024. Can you do a part two this was pretty good. I’ve learned a lot.
I am married happily learnt so much and this word is yet so powerful even to refresh mine and refresh others...was teaching on same subject last week and you have added so much value Prophet!Bless!
This is powerful. I been through this but it was the opposite. It was prophesied that I was going to get married. Sadly I didn’t want the person because he wasn’t my type. Bible said when a man found a wife. Now I’m 45 and yes I want to be married but I accepted the plan for God in my. I went back to school graduating next month and letting God take control of my life.
@@charitykabagambe3956 I was in the medical field for 23yrs. Because of two hernia disks and back surgery. I had to go into administration. I will be graduating In health administration with my bachelor. I believing in owning my own health agency helping the elderly in my community. Sadly when it comes to our elders they are not treated right in our county.
Gleaned wisdom on how to deal with prophecy (@Charity's story). It's comforting to know why God reveals some things to me in pieces...because I would definitely disrupt that plan and cause mayhem😅😂. My Father knows this daughter's weaknesses and does things for my protection, no matter how it may frustrate me 😅 And yes, I've been preparing and asking God to help me grow in the areas I need to so I can fulfil my role as a wife and mother.
I have been single since I don't know anymore when, but I think if I didn't have the Everlasting God and I had a man, I still had nothing. I have the most precious gift a humanbeing can have. What our God want to give me more is an extra precious gift.
Amen and Amen. So true, Pastor Tomi, and relevant for all Christian denominations today and the world today. Thank you for this powerful teaching always. God blessed.
I am so glad that I just happen to stumble upon this video randomly. This video was indeed insightful yet I had so many laughs I had to pause, too much belly laughter 😂. Thank you for sharing such prophetic instructions and biblical principles. My wisdom has expounded for the intake alone. I’ve leaned so much about myself 😂 thank you man of God.
I was prophesied that my hubby was someone I dated in the past who I still see at my congregation but didn't workout with him.I was told the relationship was gonna be restored but God is working on his heart still I am praying for him but tbh I don't care as long as I am doing God's will.I was surprised it was him as it didn't workout at first and he doesn't seem to be interested in me but I am going to keep praying as I keep getting the confirmations.
Amen 🙏🏽 Great story Prophet tragedy part had me 😭😭😭 but I receive “God is up to something this December for me” FINISHED ✅ Lord don’t let me get in the way of the quickening 🙏🏽
Thank you Apostle Tomi for this insight. From Monday I’ve been reading the story of Ruth and was led to write down lessons I’ve learned. surprisingly enough I was taken to proverbs 18 on Tuesday and Wednesday before this live. This was the revelation I needed to what the Holy Spirt is teaching me. This video is divine timing, God bless you 🙏🏾
I heard yr message yesterday,and when you said "find your Elizabeth" something came over me. God already sent this Elizabeth into my life,we both play the piano at churches met at our church,,and she came into my life when I was sick and needed help. I think The Holy Spirit definitely speaks through you,as I can see tgere are so many adds on your videos,which tells me,somebody does not want your message to be heard. God bless you prophet,and thankyou.
Honestly I've been thinking about this lately and didn't want to bother myself too much, but I think God has heard my thought, thank you very much Sir.
wow first time I heard the full story of Charity, It helped me to understand a situation I was in many years ago of hearing from God about someone who married someone else. Thank God I had sense enough not to say anything to him and he knew what the Lord was saying, however, the optics looked better with the other girl. As Tomi said, we all have free choice. And also, clarifies that God can bless an Ishmael, which he has in this instance. My key take away was the now place of my assignment is key, as well as my Naomi, as I had always focused on assignment and wasn't in church to look for anyone but to just be about my Fathers business. Thank you for this🙏
At 40:50, I was shown the exact same revelation. Holy Spirit had me focus on Ruth chapter 1 a couple days ago and was stopped on what Ruth said to Naomi. Your people are my people and your God is my God. I made it my prayer to be lead to this place of where he is to meet this Boaz. She saw in Naomi a God that is better than what she grew up. This Boaz wasn't on her mind but God gave her a surprise.
This was so good, I nearly threw my phone at the screen 😭😭😭😭😭😌😌😌😌You got to be prepared to leave!!!! God! Boazz in a brokeAss place the Prophet said!!!!!!! so Good
The Steve story was really sad, I can imagine the disappointment and pain for Charity, and how she moved away from the Lord after that for so long, most important thing is she came back to Him. I wouldn’t know how long it would take me to get back if I did that.. but thank God she came back, nothing worse than running away from Him, nothing is worse than falling away from the Lord, no husband is worth that. If I gave that prophecy and led to that I’d be feeling so responsible, I’m glad you never would do that after this experience!
Just ran across this channel for the first time. Amazing teaching!!! Best teaching I’ve heard about being single !!! I am divorced 24 years due to adultery on his part. I still have a desire to be married again. I’ve dated guys here in Moab who were way below my level … broke, cheaters, liars, etc. ..and I see that I’m going to have to look beyond this area. I was on dating sites before and I met men away from my area… small town America. I’m just not sure that God wants me to do that again. That’s the only way I can meet quality men on my level.
I wanted to come back here and share a testimony. I am so grateful for this video and your teaching. It opened my eyes to a lot and I was able to take the information and have new conversation with God about marriage and getting to the root of my true desires. In the end, I told God that I wanted to stay single and trust Him to keep me like so many single, godly women in the kingdom. The amazing thing that also happened was, I had been battling perversion mentally. That day that I talked to God, instantly it ended. I haven't experienced it since. Now I can focus on my purpose and growing my relationship with God. Thank you for teaching us about preparation, pros/cons, and our real heart motives.
