Majority of Kenyan relationships are caused by poverty, marriages of convenience are hopeless. Another person's Husband or Wife is a NO GO ZONE, this community sharing madness has become part & parcel of Kenyan culture.
I am not married yet and one thing I have made clear to myself is to keep off a married man. The women bragging how the man has given them a comfortable life than the wife are ignorant people. This is why: They have some financial void within them that this man is filling, in other words, they cannot give themselves that life. Secondly, in the process, they have brought kids into this type of mess. The man cannot leave them and can still not divorce their wife. The children of the other woman lack a consistent father in their lives. Children don't care about the sacrifices you are making for them in the name of having a married man in your life. When they grow up, and you frankly ask them how they thought of your decisions, they would have rather had a poor dad that was present in their lives than a "married man" that sired them and only appeared to bomoa their mother. The children of the other woman have their father as long as the mother is providing sex to this married man. In such situations, children are the victims while the woman is thinking that the wife is the victim. Side chics can be side chics if they wish but as a woman I will say without fear of contradiction that you are stupid to give birth with a married man. Take your pu***y there and get all the comfort you want but if you can, keep children out. Freeze your eggs if possible. You are all bringing children to the society that grow up with rejection and develop childhood traumas because they are too young to understand the nonsense. Ask any child that was born in such set up and many of them have voids within them while the mother is bragging to have the man .
@@jacintamugo267 Jacinta, I just felt mad at how these women are bragging. They are so naïve that they don't even genuinely know what this is doing to their own children. All they see is how they own the man and how the wife will do nothing. A married man gives a side chic comfort because he needs a comfortable place to have sex hahaha. I wish women opened their eyes
The other woman often relies on the relationship with her guy being a secret. If she wants to keep that relationship, offending the wife will surely end her relationship with the guy if not worse.
The wickedness being embraced around is sickening. Hata shetani anashangaa. These things end up in tears. The choice is yours of when you want to enjoy it.
Money talks, shit walks, everything in this world is about money. Many people fall in love, but absence of money make the love fade away😢😢Men make money first,,,