😱😱 after my 3 years situationship!, last night she was staying away from texting me, this morning she accused me of controlling after sending two or three texts! She didn't even texted me anything about Christmas night SO as of this this afternoon I officially broke up with her!
To all the people saying “oh wat if she never texts back” well ignoring her and letting her go is always better than being the desperate clingy guy that she probably makes fun of to her friends
Agree, I guess that means she was not interested. Did not message her for 3 days, when I tried to schedule something she was busy all week. Guess it’s best to figure that out quicker then later.
This dead ass happened to me with this girl today we haven’t spoken since the last time we seen each other and at work we made I contact and everything I juse kept walking them on break She came up to me and was so worried talking about are we beefing ? I dead ass laugh and said No beautiful. Lol all you have to do is let shit work out and if she never said anything that’s when you know when you stand.
A girl is either interested in you or not. If you suddenly disappear you do her a favor. If you chase her she’s gonna friend zone you. So just move on if they’re not interested in you
If she likes you, nothing will keep her from replying same day. If shes acting like this and the silence advice works, shes keeping you on the hook for an ego boost and not actually into you. Just be done dude.
"If she likes you, nothing will keep her from replying same day"...dude, you're living in another world. I've never once had that happen in my entire life.
What if a guy is super quick to respond, initiates convo regularly, seems interested...but when you tell him you like him, he says he's not interested in relationships? Why talk to me so much then?
If shes not responding 2-3 times just move on. I even unfollow them or block them. Some may say that's toxic but I dont need that childish energy with playing games leaving you on seen.
Over the summer, she ignored me most of the time (asked her a couple of times if she wanted to hang out & told me why she couldn’t. Somehow she can make time for other people…I guess she’s closer to them 🤷🏻♂️), I give her space & then notice that she’s with a guy once Fall comes around…I guess that guy’s lucky she isn’t ignoring him & will probably never understand what it’s like Almost at the point where I just assume every girl has a boyfriend & I have to be selfish (care more about myself than others)
The only thing is if she shows interest in you, be prepared that she might be broke, ditched by the CHADS or pregnant with another guy’s kid. That’s just my real advice. This is how chicks can show attention to you.
Im gonna give you some real simple advice be a chad not a nice guy what yiu displayed was being a nice guy desperate responding fast too much you should have ignored her barley responded also focus on your self make that money these woman nowadays modern age arent worth it i hope u feel better bro
I feel ya dude, dont be anything else but yourself its ok to be nice but its more important to be nice to yourself i wouldnt call it selfish. runnin after a girl often hurts more than just accepting that she is not into you and moving on. better yourself, workout, care for your physical and mental health and do things that make you happy.
I will share my experience. Girl just up and stopped texting for 5 days. I didn’t text, call.. just let it rest. All of a sudden I got a text then a call and she blew me up for a few days. She told me she appreciated me giving her space and found it as a turn on then said she wanted to hang out. We hung out however it didn’t go anywhere but I would recommend what he is saying on this one.
dose that mean. if you do that the same way for guys .that will happened too ? i because i am going the same thing . i don’t just simply mean . don’t talk them . but i stopped taking to them . after they left me on read and haven’t talkin to me for 6 days. now. all i do , don’t reach out and is just share videos and pictures of my dog. i feel like not putting anymore effort with them … :/ i just feel like i am a burden or a bother 😅. l definitely don’t wanna be cause :/
believe what you want but in that time she was getting so much attention / validation and catching bodies elsewhere. when that dried up, she reached back out to you to filll the void...... in other words, you are a placeholder. there's somebody else that she is more into and whose rules she will comply with 100%. when that person is available she'll drop you to focus there. and when that person gets tired of her she'll come back to you to feel the gap for the attention she needs. guys we need to wake up wake up wake up
@@JP-cx6th thanks and man to man I'm sorry you had to live through that situation....man if you heard my stories!! But this is how we grow, learn, adjust and come back stronger and better It's just a shame the games that have to be played nowadays, but I myself don't even consider any woman from my country, the United States, for anything serious at all. There are certain other countries that I like to spend time in and the problem becomes too many good women to choose from.... it's so refreshing when you know where to look and what to look for. Completely different energy.
Think about fellas. If she’s not communicating with you, then she’s not interested. Don’t ignore her. Don’t play stupid games. Instead, go find yourself a nice girl who is interested in you.
When you ignore her, dont pretend to ignore her, remove her from your contacts its not even worth being with someone who makes you second guess yourself. Have some respect for yourselves and find someone else
This ain’t during a relationship most likely before first date or few dates this shit happens. If she’s distant and cold during a relationship you cut that shit off real quick, most important thing is communication. If she ain’t your girlfriend, she’s talking to other dudes so naturally you’re not owed any attention.
Advice is good, you don't want to be needy, but because you wan't to keep self respect. What happens next in most cases is you will never hear from her again and it is obvious since she didn't want to hang out in the first place
Win win situation. Don’t chase her, if she’s into you, by not chasing she will be even more into you. If she’s not into you and not playing games by ignoring you, then you win by not chasing and looking desperate and needy. Either way you get to keep your dignity and she will respect you for not being a simp.
Yeah you right bro women not a loyalty women are sneaky they will taking a good guys kindness for weakness but I totally agree with you dawg I need learn how to ignore her I don't bother nobody just stay my own lane being my self.
This is advice for like a young 20s dude to get more attention from some chick trying to play games. If you’re into that, go for it. But know it’s probably not going to lead to anything. The girl you actually want to date won’t play this shit, she’ll just be straight with you and it should be easy, no mind game bs.
Exactly these girls are literally fatherless hence their constant need for validation.. Me personally, I don’t feel like validating every hole in the ground I walk by .. “Hey you’re not completely gaping or anything.. No definitely not” .. 😬
While everything you said is completely right. The last part is a bit iffy because you can make plans with a girl for the next day and she says “yeah I’m down”. Tomorrow comes and you say absolutely nothing to her and vice versa. You never went out with her because you both didn’t text eachother meaning she really didn’t have any interest in you in the first place and after all that nothing really happens and you both completely lose contact with eachother. Very strange world we live in
Absolutely. That’s the cruelty of life. The worst part is down the period of a few months & she comes running back to fall in love with you, she’s already had another man’s kid or she’s broke. It means you are her piggy bank 😈. Either way, with the high divorce rate, don’t put too much priority on relationships. Chicks this days are not into relationships.
This is solid advice. If more men did this - Women would learn over time that we aren’t down to play their games anymore. A lot of men nowadays would rather stay single and focus on themselves and their careers than put up with a women’s trivial bs. Can’t say I’m not one of them. Not worth the headache and heartache right now. If she requires too much effort to even talk to casually?? Delete her number, bro. Cultivate self-respect and move on.
Going through this now. I set a boundary with her saying I don’t like how when we hang out everything is one sided and etc and then when she replied she just said ‘okay sorry’…. Yea that hurt a lot and I realized she only used me for attention and validation
She’s been replying slower, I reply slow too.. few days later i told her imma respect her space and focus on things; she can reach out when she wants.. she replies that she “has been busy but likes me a lot and can’t wait to see me again”.. but actions speak louder than words.. imma still give her that space and told her to reach out again when she’s not busy.. if she does reach out. I’ll set a date again THEN.. let’s see how this goes
Good!! Be happy.. just to show you she never had a high interest in you anyways she was just gonna keep wasting your time for months on end forget her forget her.. it's more to life than women
@@Deek2Conciouswhat being a sexless basement man depressed loser who who probably hates his life do you understand wtf your even on about Of course he wants to date
I did the exact same thing of reaching out to her and being there for her. She never respected or loved me back. I made a tough decision of just letting her go, not waiting till a week. I just know it was already over.
This applies for both. Imagine what would you do with a woman who hits you up and you’re just not interested. If the energy ain’t reciprocated, don’t fixate. JUST LET GO.
"...you're gonna be amazed at what happens next" or not, and she keeps ignoring you because she took you not saying anything to her as you not being interested. 🤪
Gonna give everyone a quick tip. 99% of girls nowadays AND MEN are just addicted to notifications. Try to hang out ASAP but don’t be desperate. Show her ur a busy man even if you’re not. Give her occasional compliments and really think before you send that next text. Don’t be stuck texting all the time or calling all the time. Try to hangout and make plans asap and you’ll be good to go. If not you’ll stay in those messages and won’t go any further.
Mate i made all the mistakes and lost the girl i loved, its so backwards. The more effort i made, the more she pushed me away, the more love and care i showed, the more she ignored me even tho she complained no one cared, she rejected it and accused it of being fake when you give it to her 🙃 The more time and attention i wanted the less i got. Then the excuses and lies started. Looking back at her acrions now and researching about it, a lot of her traits were narcissistic :( all i know is i loved, cared and tried to support genuinely, just to get left mentally and emotionally destroyed over two years of manipulation, mind games and other stuff 😞 Why is love in this generation so fucked up 😢 Seems like all the attention they get from social media feeds their ego and makes them feel superior, they are so self centered and lack empathy. They just use you for their own gain, then replace you when a new supply comes along. Thats my experience anyway 🤦🏻♂️
The lesson I learned from these comments: this advice only works if she's either interested in you or you are the best perceived option for her. Prove me wrong.
It's been a week and 1 day. Tomorrow is school. I can't wait to show her how happy i am without her. Edit: LMAO. I looked at her for 3 seconds and she stared directly at my face and quickly looked away.
In my case, it takes almost 5 - 12 for her to reply, or sometimes she will only reply 5 to 7 times a day 😢,.. Is she giving me value? After she told me, she showed me where she lives?
I'm sorry for being out of topic. My ex left me, she was also my first best friend, i never had a person like her before, a person that i can talk to freely without any hesitation about my problem, now that she left me i don't have anyone. Even if she broke up with me, i still want to be her best friend, but it's too late, she left me and i don't know what must i do, what should i do?
Communicate the best you can first, if she doesn't return the energy "then" think about moving on. Communicate my bros, you don't know what's going on in her head unless she communicates it to you. Understanding is the way to go in my opinion.
Guys, shes not interested. Dont play this dudes game. If she was into you, nothing would keep her from replying to you same day (allowing for work or school where she literally cant reply) BTW we know the ignore trick, it doesn't work on a quality woman, just insecure girls who want an adoring fan club. If by chance this works, run, shes still not interested in a relationship with you, she just wants your ego boosts.
It’s sucks to feel rejected, but insisting on getting attention from some stranger that isn’t interested in you is actually irrational if you think about it. Regardless, it’s painful and it’s difficult to keep from reaching out.
We treat people like they a literally stupid, I better text her to let her know this, let her know that... look, unless you've said otherwise she knows you're interested, she knows you're down. She's making her mind up... let go, cut the communication and make her mind up for her. Simple
What happened next …. New guy comes into play lol 🎉😂❤.. if you really like a girl don’t ignore her if she ain’t replying to your call and text for 3-4 times then move on meaning she don’t like you…. She’s not interested… next…
Well it's clear that he tried to show you that he liked you and you didn't like him back. So why should he waste his time on you? You dropping him is actually a favour that you've done for him.
WTF! "but couldn’t show it." I'm sure he was trying to show YOU or gave you many hints in the texts he sent you, but you chose the immature option of Ghosting him, didn't you? This confirms more and more Girls lack Accountability!
The ugly truth is that we as men need to grow ourselves in every aspect of our life - physically, mentally, financially, socially. Only then 7+/10 women will be interested.
Also, its possible she is genuinely not interested...which is okay and in that case delete her number and move on. I had a girl switch up on my recently and would go hours between texts...i literally deleted her number and moved on. Its simple as that fellas. Have more self-respect than to continue to subject yourself to bad behavior.
If we ignore her were the bad guy. No matter what men are the bad guy. If we text her we are pushing it and she hates us but if we ignore her we don't care. Nothing is ever good enough for for wimen
If you find yourself constantly texting and calling and not getting a response from her… Take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror and say I’m better than that…
Trick: Never have one woman you're texting. Test and attempt with multiple at once, when one gets pissy or distant, you won't care at all and carry on texting the others as you already have been, then if/when she does reply you raise attraction and you have more options, rinse and repeat. Don't be simpy for one girl and put all your eggs in one basket - stay strong fellas, it's all a game.
I think I’m going to be enduring this problem a lot.. tbh I’ve always been very scared of showing affection and caring about others because I keep getting hurt, every single time. I don’t think I’d ever be able to reach out to a guy, it just makes me feel unsafe and vulnerable. I just keep overthinking, if he’s just playing with me, it’s all a prank, he actually doesn’t like me that much and will probably break up with me soon. I know I sound I bit cheesy saying this, but guys, please understand that some of us might be very interested, but just don’t have the courage to do so, or they are very insecure about themselves and think they are not worthy. We want a lasting relationship as well, not all of us are bad and just wants to play around.
You can't ignore ger if you caught feelings for her. You block her and move on. Keep your self respect. He's telling men to play games with a woman who is playing games. That's beta.
The point I’m at, we’re texting every day constantly, going out, come back home and raw dogg, sharing stories. I can’t ignore her for a week, I know for a fact that she will cry and freak out. We’re not even dating yet.
I did it. She awkwardly stood 20 ft away from me for like 5 minutes and her friends kept trying to make me notice her by quickly shouting my name and turning around to make it look like she said it. I pretended I didn’t hear them or notice her at all.
Don’t listen to this guy. Gauge the women, not the situation. She may well be worth the effort. It used to be common for a woman to play “Hard to Get”. The thrill of the hunt, is also enjoyable..
I dont understand why people say this fake shit. No girl is gonna chase you because you ignore her. I pretend women dont exist daily and guess what.....same shit i explained above.
Dude there’s a difference between ignoring someone and giving someone space. Ignoring is not talking to someone when they are talking to you and like not reaching out and all that. Giving someone space is not insisting conversation for maybe a few days to a week for yourself or the other person get get their shit sorted out. You still acknowledge their existence without ignoring them. Tip, strike up convo in a text or irl. If they seem disinterested, give ‘em a bit of space for awhile, then try to tel to them again. If it keeps going like that and the other person makes no attempt to continue the convo or reach out, then they don’t like you Simple like that As a girl I wouldn’t want to be ignored 😅😅
