People are complaining that girls don't have to have a personality and that's because men don't require it in order for a date. Like Aba said at the end, it's only about looks for men. If the hottest girl put something in that men didn't like they still wouldn't have rated low. Eye opening for me. I also notice this everytime a simp does something like give an egirl money for nothing in return, and men's response is always “she's not even that hot for him to do this.” Implying that there's a threshold of attractiveness where men will excuse a woman's behavior/do something for her. This is why I don't feel bad for men in bad relationships. You could have avoided it but she was too attractive to really let go of.
To GET the date requires something we liked seeing at the top. Actually talking to you during the date, or after, requires something in your skull between your ears.
Only about looks for men?!? 🤣 A woman who looks way below average can easily get some options on dating apps, whereas a man who's less than a 8 will struggle or get very limited matches. Come on now, all these apps are based on appearances, stop bullshiting.
A woman's purse is like a door to an alternate dimension. You never know what she might pull outta there. A shoe? A Glock-19? A map to the lost city of Atlantis? WHO KNOWS?!?!?!?!
Weirdest thing I've ever seen come out of a woman's purse: I was at a busy train station in Paris and this woman in full on African regalia reached into her bag and pulled out a whole ear of corn and started eating it. It wasn't wrapped or nuthin. Just straight from bag to mouth.
Weirdest thing I saw in one of my ex's purses was a bag of marbles that were half bouncy balls. I asked her why she had it and she said, "I mean, you never know, right?" She didn't mean for a weapon, either -- chick carried knives (plural) and was MORE than capable with her hands. I just imagined her using them to throw behind her Hana-Barbera style to make goons chasing her trip and fall with a "bwahmp" sound effect. Not the scariest or most dangerous thing I've seen, but for sure the weirdest.
I saw a woman pull a roadside flare out of her purse. I don't know if she was going to some weird rave, or she was going to burn someone's house down, but she was so nonchalant about it I always remembered it. She took it out because she was emptying her purse looking for something else, and just popped it back in after and walked off like it was nothing.
@@drejaquez That's exactly what I was thinking. My mind was going mad trying to find an explanation that made sense. In hindsight I wish I'd gone over and asked. It coulda been an epic story 😂
@@jumpingsloth3963 C'mon man, I know what a roadside flare looks like. And trust, I did a double, triple, quadruple take when I saw it. This wasn't some split second glance. I was staring at it for like almost 30 seconds straight just like, "What in the ever loving fuck could she need that for?!" Like I told the other guy, I've always regretted not walking up and asking.
All jokes aside King Solomon dropped ALL the game brothers need to maneuver around these women in modern society! The fact that Proverbs is so undeniably relevant to modern society proves that these dudes really were prophets lol!
This is why I left dating apps completely. It’s all about looks for men online, and it creates a “gaming” mindset where you’re rewarded with serotonin to the brain with each person you connect with- which psychologists have said make you start to dehumanize others and see them as a number instead of an individual. The moment I left the dating app world and allowed organic connections to happen in the real world is the moment I found my soulmate.
A problem also with the apps is that women search by filter. In real life, many tick boxes don’t matter. Eg, if a woman is 5ft 8, she might be attracted to a 5ft 6 guy. Or 5ft 10. She’ll set minimum height 6ft on the app. If 60k is a good salary, she’ll put 90k min.
Appriciate you saying that. I keep thinking I will eventually need to game up to be on apps, but now I am like. No, not for me. Has to be organic natural and in person connection. I think that experience would ruin me I been through too much already.
Surpsingly I found mine in a dating app. Probs cause I was in the wrong environment to date, so it allowed me to meet someone that has similar values and goals to mine
That's ridiculous. Just because you found real life connections doesn't other people even can. Interaction in the outside world doesn't lead to this outcome
I was on a date and the girl had what looked like a Jason style hockey mask. She opened up her purse to pu on make up and I only got a glimpse. At the end of the date, which was actually hella nice, I asked her about the mask. She showed me it was a plastic (bendable) ninja looking mask. When I asked why, she said "I dont want the security cam to pick up my face at my ex's apartment complex. ....
@@motherinmaat6947 If it was you...I would have totally fallen for you, but my cat mysteriously got run over after I forgot to call back. A ninja in a Suzuki went straight for her. I took it as a sign to change my ways and go into witness protection. I did not like the cat and I would have totally gone for the second date but my grandma said a ninja showed up at my her house at 3am.....You're sexy AF but I want to live......
I literally hate how self absorbed, shallow, and air headed people are on dating apps. It’s such a turn off when someone is constantly on dating apps and swiping. It’s all a game and just for validation, especially women
This is exactly why I got off all those apps years ago. I can't speak for the men on the apps, but I know for a fact that a great majority of women only use those apps for their own narcissistic needs for constant validation. It's entirely self serving, and extremely selfish, and I refuse to be a cog in their supply chain. Women get more than enough validation in their everyday lives just for being women. How narcissistic do you have to be to need more than that? It's insecurity at the end of the day though, as narcissism is merely the mask that covers insecurity. The women on those apps need to grow up and stop playing with people.
"A picture of me eating, because I like to eat." Genius, absolutely groundbreaking TBH. I'm going to go take a picture of me sh*tting and put the same spin on it.
Aba and I have similar philosophies, but I swear Preach is secretly related to me. I react and then the camera pans to him doing the same face. Also seriously? A hammer? Best from my bouncing days was a socket wrench. She clearly came to beat some chick's face in.
I have similar habits as Kristen (no drinking, smoking, partying, and typically called boring) and am too scared to use dating apps cuz i feel like all they look for is a hookup and I'm not interested in casual flings but the only other option is to meet ppl organically, to which I ask where and how? I'm an introvert and most of my hobbies can be done alone (reading, painting, bingeing netflix, etc). All the organic love stories I've heard or read happened at a party of sum kind and I don't like crowds of ppl i don't know 🙁
I know it's hard to do it when you're introverted but have you tried looking in smaller and niche communities like maybe a painting class or even a library?
I see a pretty good amount of people who seem serious and have similar attributes to this on some apps. It's about using the right ones, Tinder is for hookups and validation but in my experience a lot more people are actually looking for a relationship on Bumble. While I can't speak for all men, I personally am looking for something long term, so some of us are actually trying on here. If someone seems like they're on there for fun validation and it's just full of booty pics at parties I'm not interested, I'd rather sit home with my s/o and practice guitar while they read their book.
I kinda wish there was an app just for introverts but you know it would be way too easy for people with bad intentions to still just slide in and fuck it all up. Maybe make it really easy to get your account deleted if you start talking about sex right away or plugging your social media, then have a thing that shows you’ve been on it a while and it actually means something.
One day we were at church and told my mother in law I was getting hungry she reached into purse and said straight face "You want a calzone." Real story that's right calzone
Some people go to church all day…..I could see packing some snacks. A calzone….lol. But she anticipated someone would be hungry…..that’s what we do as women.
It's probably racism, or colorism. I think Jubilee is racist no matter how hard they pretend to be progressive I see their prejudice through their fakeness, but that's me.
Some ppl in the comments were saying she had resting B face but i agree they ddnt get the benefit of an in person til later. They all reacted to her positively once they met her so thats good :) i jus wish she had a better outfit and plucked her wig better she was soo lovely
Men: well how did y’all come to that conclusion? Women: we basically guilt tripped each other by putting ourselves as 5 and forcing others to move us up
I suppose it was by the profile, and we had the luxury to see how she carries herself, whereas the dudes didn't. She was the best overall package, someone- you-marry-type. My experience is guys in general lean to the fling types of women, not relationship type of women. But her profile will pick out the guys looking for something more serious.
i think there were some assumptions based on the IG handle from these particular jubilee guys. but I concur, she's a hidden gem and will likely attract a long term stable relationship.
You have to realize most people, male or female, are messed up and don’t have a good head on their shoulders. She seems to be a great person who knows what she wants. Most people think they want that but don’t realize they’re not there themselves. It makes sense why she didn’t score high. This is the reality we live in unfortunately. Dysfunction is the norm.
I don't know man, I feel like dating in America is a nightmare. The pickup lines thing, the dating apps and shit, the hot pics u need... Like damm can't people just talk normally and have normal dates? Everything is so EXTRA there. Déplorable!
No cuz it’s all a show and no substance for any of them. Cuz they want a distraction from their normal lives. They want to be whisked away instead of actually living in each other’s lives.
I remember dating a girl a few years back and after an all-night clubbing trip, on the way back to mine, she pulled out a whole fuckin burrito after I said I was kinda hungry. I wasn't even weirded out. I was damn impressed they let her in the club with it! 🤣 She was awesome!
When I first met my wife was at a high school party for one of her friends. She kept asking me to tell her stories bc I was good at telling people what they wanted to hear. After a couple hours I got the feeling she was in to me so to confirm I told her the worst story I could think of. Not like depressing just bad. She hung on every word. That's how I knew she liked me. 4 years later were married and doing pretty good.
Agree. I liked her the most. But I'd also say, I think she's the type she is really appealing in person but maybe she can't put that across a dating app.
As a 62 - year - old "white male" I find this channel funny as fuck. I love how Aba & Preach show the toxicity that this "new world" has produced. I commend them on caring on exposing the truth that the documentary Ideocracy showed us years ago.
When I stopped thinking with my pants, I realized that a lot of women never had to be interesting and would probably not date themselves. Edit: love how they all liked the profile of the cheeseburger girl and it's the one I would have say : "no thank you!"
My husband put a damn hotdog bun in my purse before I went to Safeway. I didn't find it till I was paying, I was so confused, I thought someone did it inside the store and called him freaked out. He couldn't stop laughing, I told him I pulled it out in front of the cashier.
Shorties be out here calling themselves Life Coaches with 4 aborted babies on their belt and two times as many failed relationships. You could say the same thing about some brothers though, calling themselves Alpha Males but they living in they basement.
The amout of manipulation and compliment fishing going on simply from those 5 women trying to rank themselves was head splittingly annoying. As a woman, I don't do this bs. I may have depression but I know I am not a 5 and I won't put myself there to try and emotionally manipulate people into feeling bad enough for me to put me in a higher position 💀💀
Why do you have such an insidious spin on what you THINK they were they doing…. you are a nhilistic. No one’s going to put themselves as #1 first but maybe you would
@@user-lt1jd1ye3v It's not what I THINK is going on and I'm not putting any spin on it, it is very obvious and clear what they are doing. And you can tell that the women putting themselves in 5 or 4 don't actually feel like they belong there, but they want the validation of others and they are acquiring that through compliment fishing and manipulation. And it's funny of you to comment that I would put myself at 1 after what I said. Maybe read the whole comment next time, you look stupid.
Kristen is the only girl I'd give the time of day. She seems like a decent woman with a great personality. Abba was spot on with his assessment of the IG link and tbh I can see why. Women like her are a rare find on these apps. She's the only one I could see a real relationship with, which is why a lot of people might think it's a fake account. She's what you call a dating app unicorn. She's a real woman with a lot to offer in a relationship and just wants to find the right man. She's on dating apps only because that's the cultural norm atm and doesn't want to miss out on something great that may be out there. Tbh she's probably going to regret the dating app thing after a while, but she's checking it out to see what it offers. She's gonna find it one day but I can't say the same for all the other ones.
@@NeighborhoodStreetrat She may she wants a connection not seen on online dating, and doesn't like it... But has a profile, none the less. I know you say she'll regret it, I'm just saying there could be another reason she has that profile. You're probably right, but I can't just be certain, y'know?
@@antithoughtpolice7497 I get what you mean. I'm making a lot of assumptions based off this short video, I could be way off. My assumptions do come from experience but that doesn't mean they're correct.
She's too wholesome for online dating, I'd tell her to ditch that if I were her friend. It's much better for her if she kept on meeting people organically and going from there.
Weirdest thing that was fished out of my bag was a bullet. I thought they were gonna apprehend me at the airport when they saw it on the scanner. They thankfully just confiscated it because it was inside a small red cloth bag (sewn shut) and they understood that it was a safety charm from old superstitions. It was something my mom insisted we keep in our person and so I just forgot about it in my pouch. I don't really believe in the superstition itself, but I did want her to have peace of mind so yeah. Years later, I forgot about it until I was gonna fly. Gotta admit that was scary as hell.
HELP MY!!! My muscles are too big! I am a big tall man and my muscles are even BIGGER! I use them to get views but they HURT so much!!! Because they are heavy. Do you have any advice, dear ama
These are some possible red flags I've noticed in certain women for a while now. If you're looking for a good partner for a stable, healthy relationship filled with peace of mind or just curious, this could be worth a read: 1. Long (fake) nails 2. Fake hair (~long and/or bright colored) 3. Makeup (mostly heavy makeup) 4. Big earrings 5. Provocative clothing 6. Very active on social media (attention seeking content; thirst trap antics, etc.) 7. Questionable.. questions (e.g. "Babe, would you date me if I were a [insert animal here]", "babe do you think I'm pretty"..) 8. Tattoos/body mods/piercings (especially in weird places) 9. Most/all of her friends are male. 10. Promiscuous or Using se>< as a proxy for feeling loved and adored (this can be especially true for people who struggle with attachment issues/daddy issues) 11. S.I.G.N language (Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Need to be right) 12. Herd mentality/No sign of individualism (follows beauty standards, fashion trends, body ideals, bad friends or other trends without questioning or reflecting on their reason[s] for doing so) [often correlates with No. 2, 3 & 5] 13. Spoilt brat-like/elitist behaviour (e.g. people who refer to themselves as "bad b*tches", claim to have "very high standards" or are "high maintenance" ) [often correlates with No. 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5] 14. Materialistic [often correlates with No. 12 & 13] 15. Their actions don't follow their words (cognitive dissonance) 16. No sense of boundaries 17. Uses past events or personal information you gave when you 'opened up' to them, as ammunition against you during fights or quarrels. 18. Clingy, jealous or possessive (e.g. not being allowed to have any female friends) 19. Frequent quarrels over trivial things--it seems some people think toxicity makes relationships more 'fun or exciting' (or even straight up admit they enjoy toxicity in relationships) 20. Habit of lying (shouldn't be ignored [along with No. 7, 14 & 16] as it could escalate over time [often correlates with No. 10, 11, 13 & 15. Possibly with No. 6] ) 21. Has a tiny, little girl/baby-like voice (possibly due to trauma or abuse at a young age [Reference: Dr. Drew Pinsky - Loveline] ) 22. Expects you to 'mind-read' their thoughts and/or 'hints'--- (Quora; Do women expect men to be mind-readers?) *Their mentality of dependence and expectations is so high they use emotions to smoke screen this shameful behaviour. [Shouldn't be ignored. Could correlate with No. 19] 23. Sh*t Tests---"used to determine your frame. Frame is a concept which essentially means 'composure and self-control.” (shouldn't be ignored; usually continues indefinitely, may escalate over time [Often correlates with No. 11, 16 & 19. Possibly with No. 7 & 17] ) 24. Ultimatums (could correlate with No. 13, 16 & 18) 25. Can't/doesn't take 'No' for an answer (Strongly correlates with No. 16, possibly with No. 11 & 18 [Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person, may lead to tantrums, physical assault or other 'crazy' behaviours] ) 26. Comes from a broken/toxic/abusive home and/or lacks (proper) parental figure(s). (Often correlates with No. 4, 6, 8, 10, 16, 19, 20 [compulsive or pathological lying] & 21) *The issue is simply not just coming from aforementioned homes, but many don't seek professional help and/or properly work on themselves so they carry that mental/emotional baggage into their relationships. 27. They're often passive aggressive (Could correlate with No. 22. Possibly with No. 7, 11, 19 & 25)
28. Bisexual ("People with loose sexual boundaries like bisexuality, polyamory & pansexuality- sexualities where they can't really declare a major or stick to a specific type tend to be trauma survivors*." [*May correlate with No. 26] ) 29. Exhibits 'infantile/neotenic' behaviours when in need of aid (e.g. using a childlike voice* and speech pattern, acting "cute", naive; sometimes with a 'sensual' undertone - often used to avoid accountability, responsibility or get their way) [*Not to be confused with No. 21; this one (29) is intentional while No. 21 is 'involuntary'] [Could correlate with No. 10 & 25. Likely with No. 16] ) 30. Frequent mood swings-- could be 'preemptively' identified with certain comments e.g. "Having someone who can handle your mood swings is such a blessing", "Need a man that can handle me (when I'm mad, act crazy..)" [Correlates with No. 19. Possibly with No. 13, 17, 18, 22, 23 & 25] 31. Really into astrology (has their personality, behaviours or actions based on zodiac signs) 32. Being "Free-spirited"; 'Hippie' or 'Gypsy-like'. (Could correlate with No. 8, 10 & 26. Possibly with No. 28) 33. Often/always plays the victim-- "When you're so used to playing the victim you don't realise when you're being the villain." (Often correlates with No. 15, 20 & 29. Possibly with No. 6, 10, 11, 16 & 17) For those who are perplexed about No. 1-5, google search for images of Saweetie or blac chyna or sumn idk These flags could be a result of insecurities, emotional and/or mental immaturity, childhood emotional neglect, attention/validation seeking, attachment issues, etc. Observing people's personalities, character and behaviours rather than focusing on their 'physical attractiveness' is a good way to overcome the halo effect. Also, like attracts like, so make sure to be self-aware and reflect on your actions/behaviour to grow and mature as a person. And be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself. These are just my observations & opinions and should be held up to scrutiny.
@@devbratjoshixxqptjcxdl1445 He is true about such things. Those things like Long NAils etc i did not have experienced but so much BS. One Girl came to my place first Date and i made food. She started to talk about an OCcasion where she abused some guy (she told him she is interested just to get him pay for her clubbing + her making out with his best friend infront of him. I told her later to go and she was confused why i didnt want to be friends. She was proud of what she did in the past. Another Girl, i met her in Uni, had some deep problems regarding self worth and validation. She went from Date to Date just to get F****d and used that to feel better about herself. Or a Girl, who has Diabtetes (she was very petit and thin) and when i offered her to get a drink in the store, she went fro a coke and later told me she just wanted that so i dont judge her when she would go for a bottle of water. (Serious mobbing in the past for her being shy). 5 mins later we started making out and she was like "lets go to my place, we are more private there"
Someone in the comments said he saw a woman stop her car on the side, pull out a "red flare" to find something else in her purse and then put them back inside, and then drive off!! My brain shut down reading that comment.
Whenever someone says I’m a content creator or a model, then proceed to say “that’s my dream”. I instantly think they don’t make enough money to support themselves doing that, and think they deserve to make enough to support themselves doing that…. A lot of them think it’s easy work, and think it should just be handed to them….
Usually their selling themselves anyways.. especially if you look @ certain things they're doing and their Lifestyle... Out here being Human Porter Potters for NutCases in Dubai..
They think it's easy cause they don't see the hours of research, setup, and editing actual content creators do. They think a 5 minute video is a 10 minute venture but it could really be anywhere from a couple hours to literal years depending on what you're doing.
Haha...years ago my boyfriend said "where did that even come from?" as I pulled out something from my purse. He was like "woman always astonish me with the endless stuff that can come out of a purse that looks like it has nothing in it" I have to ask him if he remembers what it was. I have carried lipstick, maxi pads, diapers....I am a single mom too so I probably had a wrapped up dirty diaper in there at some point. That's not because I am a single mom. Ask any mom this probably happened to them if there was no garbage to throw in. I have had medicine, uvc piping in my purse. I have to keep thinking about it. I probably actually had a kitchen sink in it at one point.
@@pathetic2399 I'll take manipulative because now that I think about it, they were trying to influence the situation with their self deprecating thoughts but I don't think they were looking for compliments
I wouldn’t say manipulative, it wouldn’t work on the other women because the other women know and are doing the same thing. It’s more of a “let me front as humble, get these girls to like me by throwing meaningless compliments at them, then when I’m ranked higher than I originally put myself because I am obviously the most attractive here- I will look even more humble” this also saves from being embarrassed if they overestimate their attractiveness on camera for everyone to see.
@@rw7371 what you said is literally what manipulation is, trying to influence someone's thoughts or actions to produce a desired outcome. And to me, I can't follow with what you're saying either. I've seen plenty of girls throw shallow compliments. The ones they gave in the video were pretty thought out and sincere. I just think the girls are ranking themselves lower than others because for some it's instinctual to be overly critical of yourself beyond rationality. It's annoying to watch and it's played out but it's they're misconstrued way of being sincere
It doesn't matter what sex you are when someone sees "i dont know" in the what are you looking for section. Every sex is going to think youre confused and/or looking for something casual. It shows that she's not aware of what people think in the world.
“Une folle qui sait qu’y aie folle est moins folle qu’une crisse de folle qui sait qui aie po’” patnait, it’s midnight right now and I think I woke up my neighbours with my laughter when I heard you say that, sincerely, a proud Latino Canadian and Quebecer living abroad. Much luv and respect to you my brethren ✊🏽
My fiancé said that she used to carry teabags in her handbag…”because you never know when you need a cup of tea”. I would like to add, on the rare occasions I have delved into her bag, I swear I found Tutankhamun’s make up. Women don’t get rid of make up, they leave it all in bags and then buy more to put around the house!
For some reason this reminded me of the time when I learned what teabagging was. I was like 19 or 20, And my boyfriend's roommates were talking afor talking about tea bagging someone. No descriptions just saying tea bagging And that they don't think they could ever do that to someone. I said why it's not so hard. And then I threw a tea bag at them. I was like you just been tea bagged. Then they explained to me what it really was. Don't get why that's a thing. Aren't those supposed to be Easily hurtable. To this day I still think throwing the tea bag at someone was funny. been funnier if it was used to tea bag, But I don't think I could throw a used tea bag at someone Not expecting it seems rude.
I carry tea as well :-) also vitamin packets, vaseline, extra earrings, deodorant, a random can of tuna, and my mom used to carry a sewing kit lol.. you never know when you might need something
Yeah I'm with you on the reaction to "I'll light up your world." Statements like that to me signal "this is a girl who will never, ever, do anything to light up your world."
Grace’s response to the guys response to “don’t know yet” sums up a lot. When men assume all the risk, and a woman sees herself as a prize, has options, and so on, it’s not going to match up. People that truly want to date for a relationship want someone to be sure of what they want so no one’s wasting their time.
@@earnieboy54 I think that often translates to people only caring about their selfish needs to the point of using people or getting ahead of them. It's fine to look after yourself but not to act like you're so above everyone and be entitled
@@botep5529 its a party school where typically if you cant get into a major university in Texas (i.e. Texas A&M, UT Austin) you go there. So the campus has really pretty girls Ill give it that, but you find out what theyre there for and most of the time in my experience it aint great.
It made some kind of weird sense in context, but my sister whipped a shrimp fettuccine alfredo dinner out of her giant duffle bag of a purse at a movie once. She went all out and I suppressed a good laugh over it. It wasn't some TV domner either. I mean that she cooked the pasta, the sauce, and the shrimp, stuck it in her purse with no one the wiser, and starts going to town on a nice, cooked meal as the movie starts with the smell of pasta and garlic wafting in the air.
You're a walking red flag, I'm walking away, also anyone, be it man, woman or beast who ends every sentence with those extremely grating upward inflections is a hard no
@@marlom7882 I feel like that’s because in society your taught that men go after women that’s why most girls don’t got game cause they don’t need it. But if society reversed that I think girls would have better game because they’d then need it
@@mnkm5860 yea I know guys made a craft of having game cuss just like many other things over the years we had to hone it like to a fine point. Thing that gets me is girls *think* they have game and any type of criticism against women means you’re gay to them so…
To be honest I’m not looking for girls to be funny and witty as a requirement because most girls aren’t funny. Just be pleasant and don’t take yourself too seriously.
they should have talked about how to lowest rated girl was only there because they didnt want the obvious train wreck to feel bad. if anything she was the most datable because she seems like she understands a difference between loveable and fk able women to men.
@@zoulzopan honestly, dive into Patrice on O&A if you can listen to something while you work. I've listened to every appearance of his 2-3x & it still doesn't get old. Black Phillip show is also good & focuses on men & women, but imo you gotta know what Patrice is like before listening to those to be able to properly translate them to your own personality.
Ah yes, that time the bouncer seized my can of olives at the door, and the even more embarrassing part when he tried to give them back to me on my way out. Sometimes, we weren't planning on going to the club at all so went about our evening grocery shopping for dinner and then one friend in the group manages to sell the idea that tonight is totally a good night for the club and here we are showing our bags of shame with sausages, potatoes and olives😂
I find it so asinine how females will say “all men care about is looks” and go off and make profiles to specifically showcase their… sexual desirability. Every single girl has what they thought of as a “risky” photo (video specifically but also in general on dating apps). Hella wild to me.
What we're really looking at is the girls ability to market themselves to a totally random and wholly subjective audience. This all feels so transactional and wrong. "Dateable" is so subjective as to be useless. You're absolutely right to say it's 90% looks just like every other encounter you have in life. Personally the persons voice is a huge factor for me, so all these dating/hook-up sites are useless.
Your voice is still a superficial element. Meeting someone on a dating app doesnt mean the relationship will stay shallow, it gives plenty of opportunity after the first meet to make the relationship more meaningful if the people find themselves to be compatible.
dating apps are advantageous to people who don't have many opportunities to meet people. I met my wife on one of em. There is also a big advantage in that the intent is 'clearer' up front, you are both showing up to a date with a (usually pre-expressed) goal of evaluating eligibility for . If you go run into someone at the gym or wherever you spend your time, you don't even know if shes single. Its got a ton of flaws for sure but its not 'useless'
I worked as a cashier. The lady I was ringing up went in her purse for her wallet and she pulled something out and she went “so that’s where it went!” It was a sandwich. Idk how long it’s been there, I didn’t ask.
Food would have to be the strangest thing I've seen. I used to know a girl that put fresh, crunchy tacos in her purse everyday. She said it was to throw off drug dogs because she, and I quote, "keeps a small bag of meth in her purse to practice self-control". I don't know what's worse. The tacos, or the "off limits" drugs. Either way, it's kinda genius for a junkie.
I used to work with a woman who kept a box cutter in her purse. When I asked her about it she told me "Oh, I only have it incase I get groped. They have just asked me to give them a vasectomy and I want to be prepared for it.".
craziest thing my friend found in a girls purse was the used condom from after they just slept with eachother, they got in a huge fight saying she was trying to trap him and then she was crying explaining because she was sentimental; bonkers! practically surreal.
The weirdest thing I seen a woman pull out of her purse was when Hilary Clinton pulled out the hot sauce, not because it would be weird to carry hot sauce but because we all know she wasn’t carrying around no damn hot sauce and just used that to try and get black votes with it 🤣
The weirdest thing I've put in my "purse" is a Jaw harp. People are surprised when I whip it out and start going "boing boiioiiioiing boooiiiioooiiiiing"
10:56 I actually think it’s refreshing to see women have some humility. None of them seemed overly fake either. Also- the men do the same thing. I saw this big time in the men ranking Men lifting video. They also sometimes fight over being last. Here’s the thing- Men and women are just PEOPLE at the end of the day.
If a guy or girl is looking for something real, quality, and long-term/end all be all, especially if they're sick and tired of investing time and energy and having nothing to show for it...after narrowing down who you're attracted to, those details end up mattering quite a bit.
These girls are the reason I am going to hang on to my marriage for as long as I fucking can!!!!! My heart goes out to the guys out here chasing these girls....
Me too! I have several lip balms and glosses, deodorant, wipes, a tiny tube of laundry detergent in case I get something on my clothes, hand cream, sanitizer, tissues, gum... you name it lmao. A lady has to be prepared, okay?
"I didn't think guys would place that much emphasis on my little don't know yet tag, its just because I actually don't know what I'm looking for" I am surprised you guys didn't jump on that lmao, she literally said she is surprised people looking for a relationship might gloss over her because she might not be looking for a relationship. Honestly, I don't think it is as marginal as you guys think in this very specific case. Dudes that are going for a relationships on a dating app view it a little more in-depth than people going for hook ups. I know when I was looking for shit more serious than hook ups I would most the time skip over the people that stated it was for hookups/don't know, because as you guys said most I don't knows are just to shy to say what's really happening. Look at the other series like these that you guys have viewed even, the guys usually place the Asian girls in first or second on those.
Yeah I agree I don't think the guys based their choices only on looks because it looked like they were really analyzing the potential dateability. These women made terrible profiles
And honestly they all look to be about the same ranking in looks in my opinion. There was one girl that was like a point higher than the rest. And one that was a point lower. But the rest of them were about the same.
If someone says they don't know what they're looking for in a relationship but I already know what I want, it's an automatic "no." The best way to find out what you want in a partner without wasting someone's time is to find someone who also doesn't know what they want. Obviously you don't know what you truly need in a relationship until you're in one, but don't go after people who already know and waste their time (The relationship isn't doomed to fail if one person doesn't know but it's definitely more likely to)
I always swipe left on "don't know yet'' cause I agree it does sound like you want to just sleep around. You don't have to want something in a relationship but if you're not looking for something serious then you need to be up front.
Most people don't look that deeply, online. If you hot, then, for most people, it's a swipe right. If you ugly, then it's left. Just how the game works. Aba's comment on pictures is it. Just remember attraction is subjective.
I think that’s how it should be cause that’s what we do in real life. I don’t scan and approach a stranger in public off her personality I do it off her looks cause I don’t know her. Attraction first personality second.
@@Kirbystare1992 nothing wrong with finding someone attractive or not. But don't be out here trying to belittle people you not here for that and that's the actions of a little pathetic person. Date whoever you feel you are attracted not but I hope you marry someone at the end of the day you like personality wise and will stay faithful and loyal too.
@@Kirbystare1992 yes bro. You should never 'end up' with a person your not attracted too. She also rejects/accepts you based on your look (partially approach). Personality and all that comes after.
That's the thing. Dating apps are such an easy place to leverage/focus on your looks that it's honestly an immediate red flag. I'm definitely not a top pick as a dude, but I stopped using them when I realized just how rare it was to see someone who presented themselves like a normal human being instead of leaning into vanity. Just made my skin crawl after a while That & it seemed like every profile I saw was either a dolled up "dime", or a land whale. As a dude who's definitely on the leaner side, bigger girls just aren't on my radar lmao.
Well atleast they are brave enough to put pictures of themselves out there. I have anxiety when I post pictures on social media I always worry that they'll be used by someone to do harm to me so I only post quotes.
@@summerrose8110 any object used to attack is a weapon, any weapon used to protect yourself is a self defense weapon. Homicide is a legal term literally denoting the taking of a human life. Killing someone who is attacking and gRaping you is homicide, but its justifiable homicide. Self defense is literally the act of protecting oneself from grievous bodily harm, this is not limited to a specific weapon. You're a moron if you think tasers or mace will truly protect you. Tasers are not always effective, if both the prongs don't embed in the body the taser doesn't work. If a prong misses the taser doesn't work. If a prong is stopped by a jacket the taser doesn't work. If the prong hits their jeans it doesnt work. If the shirt is too thick the taser doesn't work. On top of that there are some people with which a taser is ineffective. Then cartridge replacement are about $40 apiece. So you shoot one, miss, reload, fire again you just used $80 dollars. If you use the non-projectile tasers you've allowed someone to get close enough to grapple, stab, or use their weapon on you. Mace is a deterrent at best but won't stop someone who truly wants to do bodily harm to you. A hammer is also a terrible choice because you've allowed the threat to get so close already.
I think Drake had a verse about the cost of only going for pretty…but that being said, having gone through the whole dating app thing and being in toxic relationships and finding common denominators (one being my lack of knowing how to create and maintain boundaries), is that myself and most men will definitely look past a TON of red flags just because they’re so attractive. My most toxic ex and mother of my child was very attractive and knew it and exploited it and was very unfaithful and emotionally abusive and manipulative and I overlooked ALL of the red flags leading up to me leaving. I dated a lot and went through therapy following that and learned a lot of about the dating pool and the woman I’ve been with for about a year now is probably a 6.5 rolling out of bed, a 8 with make up, but she’s losing weight and honestly will be a 10 when she reaches her goal, but besides looks she has a heart of GOLD. And sometimes I just look at her and think About the peace it’s brought me and how in love I am with her personality when compared to my past experiences and on her own merit and it’s just amazing. Fellas, break free of the chains of thinking with your penis and you will open a door to true happiness
Weirdest thing I saw come out of a woman's purse during a security check was about the size of a game console. She told the gate guards it was a breathalyzer. Court-ordered, I'm guessing.
I woldnt necessarily say that it was just for the cameras, i think that the guys understood the assignment was for something more long term and them putting someone on 5th doesn't mean that they wouldn't match. Of course the way they say things must be a bit more formal and careful thanks to the cameras, but i do believe that, from the nature of the game, they really paid attention to those details
For a relationship, looks get you in the door, but personally, character, and the chemistry that forms, keeps it going. But people often have instant chemistry face to face, that they wouldn't have online 🤔
That's why I rarely turn down dates to go grab a coffee or something. It easier to know if you'll like someone face to face than on endless chats via app
That edit right after " because I'll light up your world." Thank you for a much needed laugh. Short time watcher but busting a gut at your humour and appreciating the analysis you guys do.
Wow I'm so glad I'm too old to date , too tired and can't be bothered . Social media has ruined the art of dating . Much more fun in my day . Fun to watch this though , thanks you two gorgeous lads xx
