It’s funny how she says being skinny is racist but she’s being racist by basically saying all black women are fat. Just buying into harmful stereotypes.
Skinny black woman here. I’ve heard this my ENTIRE life! “You skinny like a white girl” , “Men don’t like bones, Bones are for dogs”. The craziest part it was always other heavier black women who made me feel like I didn’t fit in. I’ve never thought white women would grab on to these ideas and try to make them mainstream. It’s insane!
Because they’re insecure that they’re fat and unhappy lmao… and I’m saying this as a slightly overweight woman. Even 200 lbs as a tall woman is much worse than I used to be, and I’m trying to correct that for myself.
I've dated a few slimmer black women and witnessed a lot of that same verbal abuse 1st hand. I've also heard stories of incidents I've missed. It really doesn't stop. It's always some heavy black chick shaming the slim black chick. It's crazy.
I saw this on Twitter and I found this offensive. I was in a health crisis and I lost weight for me and I went on the keto diet and went and lost 158 lbs. I feel proud of myself. She needs to check herself.
Congrats Kimberly Ann! My wife has lost 150+ pre-diagnosis of collapsed hip and now needs to lose 75 more before hip replacement surgery. THIS (and worst) is what excess weight can do to the body.
Good on you, grrl! I have a close friend who lost almost the the same amount as you & I witnessed how difficult it was for him, so be proud of yourself! 😊
I did the keto diet 6 years ago and I lost 60 pounds in 3 months. I was walking 5 miles a day and felt great.. Until i, against my better judgement, took an antidepressant for 6 months and now gained weight and have had withdrawals for almost 5 years..
I caught that too. I'm listening to her speak and I'm trying to process what she's saying. Because on the surface her words don't make sense, I have to look at what she's implying. The implication that black people are the only ones who are fat is ignorant along with the ignorant statement that losing weight and slimming down is racist.
Great video bro. As a former fat person, keep bringing these type of videos in order to give me more motivation to stay fit. I don't care about what the fat community says, whether they can accuse me of being fatphobic for being skinny or if I'm racist for being healthier. Have a good one brother.
Honestly, if what you're doing is making you happy, go for it! It's none of their business. Your hard work to being healthy is not doing any harm to any of those people. Those people are bitter, and want us to feel guilty because we're trying to better ourselves, whilst they take the easy option by trying to make everyone feel bad for doing something completely normal. If they can't be bothered, that's not my problem. I'll be focusing on myself, and not judgmental hypocrites on the internet who don't even know me.
Great job! Same, I do not look the same as I did last year, and you're right, these videos motivates me also to stay fit! And btw, I didn't lose weight for what others saw, no one said anything actually, I lost weight for what I saw in the mirror... Keep healthy, fit and safe and happy new year from Norway :)
Racism is hatred based on race. Fat isn't a race. You're a BIGOT of you don't like fat people or blondes or tall or short... etc etc This chick is a moron
The 2nd one said desirability was a motive for weight loss. Has she ever heard of the BBW genre of porn? There are plenty of people who are turned on by fat women. Hell. Some women are aware of this and purposely gain weight to... Wait... Increase their desirability with that target audience. Thanks Capitalism.
I've been a avid hiker for many years, and have been on a few different mountains. I have never saw a obese person out in the middle of nowhere, usually you have to take care of yourself to walk a good distance.
Even with my limited hiking experience I called bullshit in my mind when she said that. I'm glad there's somebody in the comments with the credentials to verify my educated guess. It just seems impossible to be an obese hiker.
Bro I'm fat AF rn from health issues ( mystery autoimmune condition that's causing hot flashes, dizzy spells, fatigue, swollen lymphnodes,full body pain, nausea, headaches and cough once i see s rumatologist and find out im shedding these pounds even if it kills me)and I'm outta breath going up the stairs, she's lying about fat people hiking 🤣
@@doyouliketacosiliketacos5139 I'm really rooting for you, seriously. I used to weight 372 lbs, and I'm a female, so I was big. I could barely walk across a parking lot, had diabetes, chronic fatigue, depression, drug addiction, and I smoked. Nothing like almost dying to make you wake up and realize you want to live. All my issues went away when I stopped doing drugs/ quit smoking and lost 220 lbs. I'm so proud of myself. Hope everything goes good at your rumatologist, and you can be on your way to a new life
What pi$$es me off is that people bash the Victoria Secret model body bc they are apparently malnourished, starving & unhealthy HOWEVER being overweight is apparently MUCH better/healthier…WTF???
I'm 57 yrs, struggled with my weight my entire life, but hey, I'm actually very healthy, want to lose 30 lbs but I ain't stressing if I don't as I've already lost 70lbs. I am who I am, and one thing I 1000% disagree on is this whole fat racism thing these crazy ass people are claiming! I swear as a mom, if that was my grown ass daughter saying that STUPID SHIT, I'd slap the shit outta of her!!! But I don't have to worry about my daughter saying dumb shit, I raised her with common fucking sense!!! Oi, this shit fires me up! Thank you for sharing, I knew there was a reason I didn't want any part of TikTok lol
I have read “Fearing the Black Body” and also read all the source materials for the book carefully. That’s why I can confidently state that no studies have ever linked fatness with being African -American. However, some people have misread the materials, and they are spreading their misunderstanding throughout the land.
@@Zeroshiki Exactly. Then they have the nerves to tell us to go back where we came from, like they didn't steal this country or people from an entire continent.
*My hubby has a very physical job!* My hubby works at a roofing supply company, and at times, he has to be on a roof (in the sun) and carry 70-80 lbs at a time. We say he gets “paid to work out”! Lol
I remember when I was a young boy my father had a best friend and he died from being overweight he was about 400 pounds and when I was 19 years old one of my girlfriends that I actually knew when we were young kids we started dating when we got older and she had been over weight all her life even when we were little young kids but I still liked her for her personality and her kind heart as well as her beauty but I'll never forget the time when her heart was giving out on her and she would wake up in the morning everyday with blood coming out of her nose and anyone that have common sense knows that that is a sign of dying she was 330 pounds with that being said I immediately made her go on a crash diet because I remember the situation with my father's best friend dying when I was a little boy and I was not going to stand by and see that happened to her knowing that she was dying and that's why the blood was gushing out her nose when she would wake up in the morning normally when that happens that means that the heart is collapsing if I would not have had made her go on that crash diet she probably would not even be here to this day for me to tell people this story ,,,,, this is very Ludacris 👎🏾👎🏿👎🏻 this is what we call the blind leading the blind fat or skinny people don't have nothing to do with racism what the world doesn't understand that when people like this talk and think of ideas and methods in their heads on what to say about their excuse for being obese especially when it comes to women because women being female are naturally emotional and sensitive 🤣🤣🤣
And some people like me are exercising their butt off in order to not let my illness pull all my joints out of their sockets permanently. Without exercising, balance and endurance stuff, and strength training, I would be in a wheelchair full time and permanently. The only things I have a phobia of are not being able to play hide and seek with my cat, not being able to help my dad lift heavy things, and not being able help my mom with physiotherapy. This woman is completely delusional.
I fluctuate between 200-250lbs based on how sedentary I am and how much food I stuff in my face. There was a study ways back that explained why of all sports Whites were better competitive swimmers. It had nothing to do with strength or physique, but that White swimmers have, on average, 10% more body fat than Black swimmers. This extra fat aided in buoyancy and thus Whites require less energy to be spent staying afloat and could dedicate that energy to speed.
What I just noticed is all these Fat Guardians of the Universe are relatively young. Wait till they REALLY balloon up (cause losing/watching weight makes THEM what they hate most) and need constant assistance because their weight has destroyed their ligaments along with the constant compressing of their organs such as lungs and heart. Their quality of life is going to be so awful (and lonely) as they age.
i mean- aside from some of the ridiculous statements some of these ppl on tiktok make- some people straight up can’t lose weight for legitimate medical reasons or they’re just built bigger because of genetic factors. all of this stuff on bodies (wanting to be skinnier, saying mean things to fat people or skinny people) on social media honestly reminds me of why i rarely use any other social media besides youtube. i struggle with body image, i used to be a little heavier due to being on certain medications to treat my autoimmune disorder i still struggle with. but anyways i digress :)
As a fat person this is so annoying. Some fat people are in such denial that they start calling any healthy person fatphobic. I am unhealthy and I can admit it and that it isn't good for me. I don't blame anyone who says I'm unhealthy and that they are not attracted to fat people because it makes sense. Do I think we should bully fat people every time they post a revealing photo? No. Do I think fat people need to stop accusing everyone of being fatphobic for literally any reason imaginable? Yes.
Speaking of skinny phobia, back in high school I had the drunk fat cousin of my friend try and fight me because...I was thin. I was only nice to her and barely knew her. I stopped visiting if she was there.
I really enjoy your videos man. You structure them really well and you have a good balance between their video and your commentary. Most channels that do this just run their gob all the way through with their loud ass voice. I appreciate you being chill
Coming from someone who used to be considered obese at a few points in their life, I can't wrap my head around this logic. Sure, it's never fun being overweight. People look at you differently, and absolutely, you're going to be far less desirable. The thing is, it was all my own doing by not exercising, eating a lot of junk food, and generally just not taking care of myself. I never once looked in the mirror and thought, you know what, it's perfectly fine for me to be this overweight, and the whole world is the problem, not me. It's fine if your OK with your weight but it does not give you the right to call everyone else out that their racist because they don't desire you. When I was overweight I never thought to myself why am I not desirable. I personally have no attraction to people who are overweight, but that's just me we all have our own preferences and views for what is desirable. All I can say is I hope these people are doing these videos purely for clout views and that they don't actually believe the absolute BS that these people are spewing
Just here to mention that there are millions of people who hate fat people simply because they’re fat, race not even factored in. I gained 80lbs from a medication I had to take in between brain surgeries. I had so much hate thrown at me online from people who had cheered me on before. It was heartbreaking. Multiple times I had men and women say things to me when I was out and about, which sadly, wasn’t often. Between how horrible I felt and how horrible people treated me, I barely left my house. The only thing that changed was my weight. I’ve lost 50lbs of those 80lbs and I’ve already noticed a shift in the way people treat me and speak to me. I just sometimes think this world would be so much nicer if everyone practiced ✨ minding their own business ✨
Someone should tell her the reality that it's easier for her to change herself (become thinner) than try to change the entire world (to make people adore fat people).
Tiktok seems to be filled with lonely, angry, mentally unwell ppl that no one else wants anything to do with. I'm proud to be fatphobic; I LOVE being thin, attractive and, best of all, happy.
"You know wine and women is all I crave. A big legged woman gonna carry me to my grave." - Albert King "I love a fat chick with a body enormous. It ain't about the weight, yo, it's how they performin." - Redman
I'm definitely fat-phobic. Being fat would be acutely hazardous to my health. I stay lean because I'm in constant pain if I even have a normal weight (missing my first lumbar vertebra due to an unfortunate miscommunication with a horse), and because it's required for my profession. I'm a 5'1" female, and I'm an animal behaviorist. I specialize in rehabilitating problem horses and aggressive/dangerous dogs, and also train K9 officers with military and police applications, and participate in search and rescue as a K9 handler. All of these require me to be *much* stronger than most people my size, and have high stamina, high pain tolerance, and quick reflexes. If I was overweight at all, I'd either be lunch, trampled, or passed out exhausted in the woods somewhere with my search dogs by the time we hit 24 hours on foot. If they think you can do my job while significantly overweight, they can come visit my kennels and give it a shot. Good thing they have extra padding, because I don't have a bite suit that size, however.
What gets me is how scholarly all these women think they sound. They speak with such authority, using the same terminology, as though what they're saying is established fact. Their anger and defensive, almost nasty attitude has to be covering up for some pretty deep misery. As an aside, I can't help but notice that the ones you feature seem to almost go out of their way to appear odd-looking, with the huge glasses, or nose rings, or weird hair and makeup. It screams, "Look at me for something other than my weight." Very sad.
They also try to speak for everyone rather than owning their statements which would at least acknowledges that other points of view exist. I find it ironic that they will wear makeup and dye their hair but criticize people for exercising and eating right to stay healthy and yes, look more attractive.
If me not wanting to be fat is fat-phobic I’ll wear a damn ribbon ! I’m a 115 lb went up to 198 pregnant with twins. My frame can’t hold that up ! To much and uncomfortable af
Yahoo I once weighed 230 now down to 160 I hated myself for being that big people have so many excuses why they get big mine was grif after losing my husband in 2006 food was my escape but I woke up and did something about it.
I had a GF that ended up doubling her weight after breaking an ankle. Doc ran some labs on her and discovered she had an undiagnosed thyroid issue so her put her on meds. 6 months later she was back to her fighting weight. And yes, she loved to argue and fight which is why we broke up. Nothing to do with her weight. He should have tried antipsychotics as well.
Weight is pretty important to your health when your legs are swollen to the point you can't walk and absolutely killing your joints. That doesn't scream "healthy" to me.
Oh, yeah, you can be skinny and unhealthy for sure. You can even look skinny and be fat on the inside so to speak. And if you're not overly fat you can still be healthy. But it's way more likely that you're slim and healthy (disregarding any non bodyweight related health issues) than fat and healthy.
I truly feel scared for young people who watch videos like this. I’m just not sure what the world is coming to. I’ve been skinny my whole life and I guess I’m secretly hated because of this.
