I feel sorry for this new generation... for they did not know (possessiveness and the idea of winning), what it takes to sacrifice all that you feel and have felt just to have that ultimate closure. Because ultimately, since the beginning of time, Love is all about virtue.
Those who were born before 90's were the risk takers, doers and were free. Tend to do all, give all their best in everything they want to do regardless of the outcome. Bahala na were a common phrase, one thing that separate these generation is that whether they make right or wrong choices in life. They stick to that choice and decision, no regrets. In short, they take responsibility and accountability as an individual.
