In Search of Healthy Masculinity 

The most masculine trait is having the Ability for everyone to feel Safe around you

For me masculinity is chasing after your dreams in order to reach true happiness and then spreading that happiness to those closest to you. As a man you live to serve, both yourself and those closest to you

My definituon of Healthy masculinity: 1. Having Personal and social responsibility within reasonable range 2. Choosing your relationships wisely, and having pride in your relationships 3. Being proud of your passions and goals

What I dislike about both Feminism and the Red Pill is this notion that men/women can be boiled down to a set of traits. It is an appalling over generalization that breeds bias against people simply based on their gender. People are more complicated than a random biological assignment they get a birth over which they had ZERO control

I have shared my feelings and emotions before, they were weaponized against me in the most cruelest of ways, never again

Healthy masculinity isn't just about being strong; it's about having the courage to show vulnerability, the empathy to understand others' experiences, and the integrity to stand up for what's right. It's about breaking down walls of toxic masculinity and building bridges of connection and understanding. Let's redefine what it means to be a man - one built on compassion, authenticity, and respect. Together, we can create a world where everyone feels seen, heard, and valued. #HealthyMasculinity

"god never gives 2 people the same test" is what i believe, i believe masculinity should mean something else to other people rather than having 1 meaning

The greatest sign of masculinity in my opinion, is not caring about other peoples opinions. You cant please everybody, no matter what you do you will upset somebody, so just do your own thing regardless.

There is no such thing as toxic masculinity only toxic individuals, that includes both men and women. Masculinity like femininity is needed and necessary for any thriving society.

this video is extremely underviewed

A life lived to serve others, is a life well-lived! Making others feel safe and valued, having a strong work ethic, and loyalty to others are all traits of Positive masculinity!

The greatest sign of healthy masculinity is being kind and non judgemental with people around you

There is no such thing as "traditional masculinity". It depends on which culture you are born into. This is why anthropology is so important.

Masculinity is Whistler from the movie Blade!

Be like uncle Iroh

My vision of masculinity is mainly just about determintaion, discipline, capability, passion, and putting my goals above everything except family.

It seems like this video's target audience is the average person still searching for meaning in life or recovering from past failures. Watching content like this might provide comfort and reaffirmation for them. However, those who are already contented and benefiting in masculinity or femininity likely won't resonate with this message and might even perceive it as toxic. This video seems designed to appeal to a specific audience, and if you find yourself connecting with it, you're likely in that demographic. However, there could be individuals who find a middle ground between the Red Pill and Blue Pill ideologies, and they might resonate with this content in a unique way.

I think traditional masculinity is very attractive. Something I look for in a relationship.

I needed this after 5 years of watching your content and thanks for it as well my G 💯🙌🏾💙

If you like movies, a good example of healthy masculinity IMO is the character of Aragorn in the LoTR trilogy.

Men especially in America lack what many tribes, cultures.. etc… had. RITE OF PASSAGE.

“What ever happened to Gary Cooper? The strong, silent type…”

The greatesr sign of masculinity is to care for your loved ones and in some cases also to stand up for the weak, bullied, oppressed, and for injustice.

A strong body equals a strong mind 💪

One day, I woke up and wondered "Why am I not a man?" I was identifying as non binary, and I knew why I wasn't a girl. I had never wondered why I wasn't a man. It wasn't because it didn't feel right. In my mind there was a minimum amount of male gender roles you needed to be ok performing in order to qualify as a man. I didn't tick enough boxes so therefore obviously I had to be non binary. I had never given a damn about gender roles living as a girl. I would break gender roles just to flex. I grew up with girlpower and "women can do anything men can!". But no one said "men can do anything that women can". It wasn't "cool" and "radical" for a guy to wear a skirt or be emotional, as it was for a girl to be tough and wear a suit. Being a man to me looked like being a woman, but more restrictive. Can't wear this, can't act like this, can't do this, can't do that. Definitely can't be _yourself_ ! But that day, I realized that no gender police was gonna knock on my door. There *was* no minimal amount of gender roles. No one could *really* tell me who I was other than myself. If being a man felt right to me, it was up to me to decide my own kind of masculinity, what sort of man I wanted to be. And that is how I realized I was a trans guy. Mind you, I was 4 months on testosterone already. Everyone who saw me that day asked me why I looked so happy. What was I gonna tell them? "I can be a man!" Yeah, no shit, Sherlock, aren't you already doing that? 😂

i loved the "emotional intimacy part". however, id like to argue that men need people to talk to, except it should NOT be women. b*tching & whining to/with women can often break relationships. women stop seeing you as a warrior who can handle his own shit. i only say this cause ive experienced this early on in my life. if you need to talk to someone, it should be men. you need to have good quality friendships & relationships. talking to men only makes your masculine bond stronger & better. hence, i advise guys to not talk to their significant other/crush/female friends about their feelings. once in a while is okay, but when you do it constantly, it results in the woman taking a masculine role in the relationship. nice vid aperture 1!!1!!1!

The last lines❤

To answer/add, bare with me. "Finding a place for men in today's world." It reminds me of a bartender years ago who asked me "what are the women like where you're from?" As stupid a question, as honest and upright a guy i came to know him.. I answered, "please, in the name of all men, please don't ever ask that question again. No good shall come of it. But to answer your question(because he was dead-serious) 6 billion people. There are no 2 alike. Women nor us men." Keeping that in mind, we might share characteristics across the board. Those characteristics used to be comprehended due to personal scenarios in daily life. It was there, but only whens you moved forward in space and time, be it in your neighbourhood or at work, no different than today. But it was only then, when outside. Outside your home, or inside your home, but not in the comfort of your own silence and privacy, computing what Is happening. And deconstructing so. Now. Today. That comfort, while still present, no longer has boarders. Overload breaches. An overload of opinions, moments, voices, places. The breach; before today, introduction/absorbtion, was a scenario, solely instigated when having stepped outside your home. And ever since internet got integrated on the mobile phone. The capability of illness got integrated into the comfort of your homes. (*toxicity's workings: the introduction/absorbtion of a substance, maybe the bottle be filled with oil, words or views. Animate or inanimate) Which in turn lead to the mind being tricked into thinking there's nothing wrong with what you're doing or thinking in the place where you've always done so. So i think there's enough room for men in today's world, for today we have enough sex-changes. We just don't give Men, chances they need or want. Just like in a way, women didn't get theirs decades+ ago. Which is the time we live in, that also part reason i think. Because the development of the world that need to be done to get where we are, that need actual Hard physical labor, is done. The buildings built now, are for show. Popularity. Hubris. And yes to evolve we need more. But just like masculinity being misguided, do we need more? No. It's because we want to go further, we want more. So put those bricks down. Put those phones down. Take one week, 1. Pick 1, of the opposite sex to have an actual conversation with. Ask things You want answered. Not things you've been persuaded to ask. If that did something for you, you'll take another week. And not because i'm saying so. Take Your time

From listening/ watching to this video, it's evident that it revolves around confusion. In my view, the Red Pill movement brings up significant points. However, even the arguments presented in this video merely highlight a common ground but cater to different audiences. If we can find common ground and present the message appropriately, could be beneficial to mass . However, engaging with content from the Red Pill movement and then transitioning to this video can overwhelm an average person who lacks extensive analytical skills. It seems like there's a collective effort needed in the mental health sector, as many messages contain a blend of truths and falsehoods, leading to confusion and depletion for the average person. This pattern persists, whether it's individuals like yourself claiming to have the absolute truth and we all it's not true.

If anyone else here mention Sisyphus55 again I might lose it. This is a social commentary on a trending topic. It's not unusual that two creators would share similar idea. It's definitely not impossible that the title may be the same as well. C'mon guys.

Eye-Opener....

Can you make a video on how to handle your mental health? Please 🙏❤️

Masculinity is not the problem; misogyny is.

I feel like the Manosphere and Redpill movements are two separate things with a couple overlapping values. I’m a 32yo woman and I love Jordan Peterson, Tucker Carlson, Lex Freidmen, JRE, Tim Pool and countless other influential voices that showed me where the ‘red pill’ was and none of them are part of the Tate manosphere.

7:28 "In fact men with health problems actually marry earlier and are less likely to divorce" so men without health problems are more likely to divorce? 5:00 he was talking about Andrew T's accusations. I'm not a fan of AT, but I can't deny that all of AT's accusations were not true and he was free from jail after that. This is how a narrator manipulates you by only telling you their narrative side of the story. He fails to blame women for anything that they do which causes 50-60% of divorces and 85% were initiated by women. I do not disagree with all the things he said like that materialism is bad things for both men and women.

King Warrior Magician Lover by Douglas Gillette and Robert L. Moore is a good read for masculine archetypes.

The interesting thing with Tate and all of these other gurus is that, if you know what to listen out for, you can actually learn a lot of valuable lessons from them. Tate’s views on women and healthy relationships are undoubtedly wrong, but his emphasis on taking care of yourself physically, having good routines, working hard and associating yourself with good people is, in my opinion, absolutely correct. All in all, I think it’s wrong to shut them out completely, but at the same time you shouldn’t take his word as it rolls off the tongue. If you are not capable of telling the sh*t from the facts, steer clear of them. If you are, try to derive valuable lessons from these guy’s rants, because they are there. Just don’t get brainwashed lol 😂

A line from a translation of Tao Te Ching comes to mind, “know the masculine, but stick to the feminine.” I believe this expresses a perfect example of healthy masculinity.

Ok so if i pursue masculinity in my own way and it fulfills me why am i scared of rejection, i couldnt care abt being hated, its not something that phases me but the fear of rejection especially from a woman can be paralyzing

bro what are you using for creation video?

Healthy masculinity is not feeling fragile when your gf asks you to hold her purse while she ties her shoe or something

Embracing true masculinity means finding a balance between strength and sensitivity, and ensuring our actions uplift rather than diminish others. Let's redefine masculinity in a way that celebrates both courage and compassion, where being strong also means being kind.

Imagine showing this video to the veterans who fought for the world we live in today. They wouldn't begin to understand either side, with all the new made up terms.

Peace Be Unto You and May The Odds Be Ever In Your Favour 🤍.

what is the social definition of a man? amazing video by the way. it speaks a lot of our modern society.

I'm "masculine" by most metrics. I don't care about it. I find people obsessed with it cringey. I like feminine dudes. Masculinity has no value to me

Is there more implications as to why men with health problems tend to marry earlier?

What always frustrates me is when influencers say "red pillers say/believe". A lot of what was said in the first 4 minutes already is false. Examples: 1. "Followers also attribute women's desire for an emotional and sexual connection to an influence from the feminist matrix." -Usually I can at least figure out where the misunderstanding comes from. This time I can't. A. No, we don't think women's desire for intimacy does not come from the feminist matrix. B. We also don't believe in some feminist matrix. We do describe how women tend to go along with popular / other women's beliefs as a "hivemind" so maybe that's where that came from. C. We also aren't "followers". There is no "red pill pope" or something that we all blindly follow. The whole reason why the red pill is so fragmented is because we don't blindly follow. This is something others like to ascribe to it to avoid confronting the actual observations and arguments made by dismissing it as some form of religion or cult. The moment you say "red pill believes" you're probably wrong, there's many different groups with all kinds of differing opinions inside of the red pill community. D. No, women don't have a deep yearning to convince men to consent to exploitative relationships. Women have a deep yearning for comfort and security that due to modern culture expresses itself in exploitative ways. Will they due to their agreeable/conflict averse nature be more manipulative than men? Yes, but that is not a yearning to exploit men. That's just a part of being conflict averse and neurotic/avoidant. Which is a horrible combination when you give them the societal and legal protectiveness and privilege the likes of which only aristocrats could have matched. Being manipulative and spoiled tends to lead to controlling and manipulative behavior, not healthy relationships. 2. A. "Red pill believers" - No. B. Saying red pillers "reinforce their worldview" by drawing on evolutionary psychology is about as accurate as saying physicists test their theories through seismograph. Sure, when applicable they may use it to support the theory, however it is only one tool of many and few treat evolutionary psychology alone as enough evidence of anything. Physicists don't test their theories of about the wavelength of light through seismograph, neither do we. C. Finally an accurate statement, though immediately followed by a strawman (at best). Correct: "Women evolved physiological mechanisms to deceive men into generous partners and help their offspring survive." False: "And since all women supposedly have this Machiavellian instinct it's justifiable for men to have their own Machiavellian mindset." - To begin with, physiological mechanisms are not the same as instincts. So this isn't just wrong about the red pill even internally this argument is as sturdy as a paper sieve. Aside from that Red pill does not justify. The whole red pill metaphor is about swallowing the bitter pill of reality so you don't continue to live with comforting lies. It is not about our moral compass. Each person decides for themselves right and wrong. We may point out a belief that's blatantly false or proven wrong/dysfunctional, but we don't tend to force our beliefs on each other. That tends to be more the incel communities. I was planning to make a list for all the points in the video, but every half a sentence is filled with a paragraph of falsehoods and obviously biased/false information. Honestly a little disappointed. I'm used to thought provoking content from this channel, but this is just such a poorly thought through video without any self-reflection of your own biases on the subject.

🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 *🚹 Qualities associated with masculinity are questioned in modern society, leading to confusion about men's roles.* 01:05 *🧠 The video explores the concept of healthy masculinity and its place in today's world.* 02:44 *🔴 The Red Pill movement promotes traditional masculinity, emphasizing self-reliance and skepticism towards women's intentions.* 04:22 *💰 Manosphere influencers like Andrew Tate profit by perpetuating traditional gender roles and exploiting men's insecurities.* 06:38 *🚫 Evolutionary theories used by the manosphere to justify their beliefs are flawed and don't reflect modern society.* 08:14 *😔 Toxic standards of masculinity contribute to emotional distress, particularly among those who don't fit the traditional mold.* 09:13 *👥 Masculinity, when chosen freely without societal pressure, can have positive attributes like resilience and emotional responsibility.* 10:10 *🔄 Enforcing rigid gender roles limits individuals' potential and can be detrimental to mental health and relationships.* 11:47 *🛡️ Embracing a diverse range of identities, regardless of traditional gender norms, fosters a more inclusive and fulfilling society.* Made with HARPA AI

Health masculinity is doing what you want, simple as that. Don’t let others say what you should care about.

Make sure to watch the full video. The message contradicts what one initially assumes

"Healthy Masculinity" Lmao

"hiding emotions isn't appreciated"? Idk where you live but where I'm at, if u ever get emotional in front of a woman, she'll hold it over your head later on at the worst time, no matter if it's been a long term relationship, idk where I'm from women are just not wired to stand an emotional man & men over here thankfully are still masculine 😂

You don't know what the term red pill even means.

Thank you. This particular video taught me many things of which I was unaware. I wonder, what is the link between the Red Pill/Manosphere and gaming addiction? There does appear to be one, possibly encompassing incels as well. (Interesting to note that autocorrect replaced incels with uncles.)

I'd probably change the thumbnail, the kinds of people who go on and on about being "red-pilled" aren't generally the kinds of people preaching healthy masculinity

Masculinity is standing bahaind your decisions. Which means in first place being decisive. To do all of that, you cant be told what to do and to avoid that you need to be step ahead and pull the decision before its too late and youre being told what to do. Its a mind game and everyone else is there for a ride, whilst youre the one pulling the ropes. But obviously this requires several times the effot to be done correctly vs the freeloading ride. Especially since you will be both helped and criticized along the road the entire time and its up to you to see it fit. This is a leader. Sure this can be a women too but honestly unless youre from a special place where its cultural for women to be leaders or youre just like that, women will want his man to be the leader even if she says otherwise, she wants that safety net of masculinity that ive just explained. Now no course will ever teqch anything like that and only the life will show you, which i mean actually women will show you this. The moment youre off course, youll be put straight back onto it if she means u well or off it for good if she doesnt.

I personally feel andrew tate is speaking truth more than what you have been trying to do with this video sorry this what I naturally feel

I've liked so many of your videos up to this one to where you straight up told a lie about Andrew Tate who is Muslim and has renounced a lot of those former beliefs. Get your facts straight bro.

If you want perfect example of what a man should be, look at Aragorn from Tolkien's Lord of the Rings

Red pill is a concept which needs to be addressed seperately and masculinity is another topic which requires a seperate analysis. It may appear to serve the purpose by mingling both but the whole idea of red pill gets blurred and masculinity falls into the misinterpretations with the burden of modern socio-political ideologies. The innumerable number of videos make this same mistake and end up failing to address either of them. It's only fair and meaningful to analyze masculinity after getting a proper groundlevel knowledge on "Redpill".

Sisyphuss 55 give him his credit

There’s no such thing as healthy and unhealthy masculinity, it’s masculinity and that’s it.

That thumbnail made me worry about my youtube alghorithm for a second

Why do you hate the red pill?

the comments here give me more faith in humanity. I was fully expecting to come into the comments and see a bunch of andrew tate bros, but you've all pleasantly suprised me.

The solution to all the problems in the world is to implement the religion of Islam🌹

I like your stuff but, you appear to have borrowed heavily from Sisyphuss 55 and used the identical title.

Sucks how you didn’t give credit to the original channel you stole this idea from. Sisyphus 55 made a video identical to this

Respectly roasted Andrew Tate with facts!

What we need is far less alpha males and vastly more sigma males!

Why throw Elliot under the bus mate? I was watching Elliot over 10 years ago and he has always considered strength and masculinity, you threw his name in with Tate as if he is jumping on the bandwagon. That was a poor take my guy.

This is video is necessary

Brother you really think Andrew Tate needs this little amount of money as compared to his annual income. Beside I agree to most of the video.

You can just apply Ockham's razor: The by far simpler explanation for the relationships we have is because men and women are the same on a fundamental level, not because of some exploiting evolutionary traits.

Wow

nice bud

I hope you're busy with a similar video about feminism.

This video is laughable. Such a mishmash of a variety of concepts and very superficial. Women good, men bad. We get it.

Don’t believe the woke narrative. Be a man 👍 work provide for your family.

I totally agree, it makes a man no less a man and it might keep your ass out prison

Theres no such thing as toxic masculinity to begin with.

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Ahahahahahahaha😂😂😂

How about feminists stop saying to “always respect women,” or, “the man should submit to the woman,” and say, “everyone should treat each other with respect, understanding that individual families can choose their own way of household, without toxic or abusive forms of treatment.”

Purple pill >>>

strong body, strong mind, work hard - Andrew tate

I absolutely disagree

Easy solution, you must embrace Islam

Slander with an agenda. Disappointing

I tried to post a comment about how unfair the system is and gootube blocked it 🤔

Hey there friend

I've had enough of this raging idiocy

The opposite of what u are is masculine buddy