1. Self -respect 2. Set boundaries - figure out reason for talk - if their something wrong , tell them but politely. -learn to say no - be with people who make u feel good/cosy 3.RESPECT IS MUTUAL! THANKS 👍
Hi Whenever I watch your videos I feel like you are infront of me physically and like a friend we are discussing about new topics.. I feel soo connected with your thoughts.. and every single video is like that -- 'yeah!! This is the topic I am craving for'. Words can barely express my feelings about you.🥺❤
So relatable... When I was in my primary school same happened with me... But I'm thankful to myself that I realized my self worth before things got worsened and didn't let anyone take me lightly in my high school...
Your way of storytelling, the way you say about yourself/any incident/any other aspect is just wow. Your intension of not only making yourself positive & better but also sharing your journey to inspire others is amazing. Your contents are worth watching. It's been a couple of weeks, I'm watching your videos and I don't get bored watching it 🙂
I respect you how you share your every small thing with us even if the thing was very awkward or sometime feels like ashmed ..you are first love of every introvert..❤️✨
I can totally relate your school time story!! Even I faced the same challenges and took exact decisions like yours to come out of that. Acha laga sunnke ki koi aur bhi hai jo mere jaisa path se guzar Chuka hai.. Btw proud of you drishti di ❤️ keep going
Drishti , I'm 20.5 years old . I'm lost . Financially not from a good family and not in a financially good situation right now as well. Graduated. Have a lot of bad habits. Want to improve. Trying. Falling down again and again.Confused. Don't know what do. Struggling with different things. I just felt like sharing these things to someone. Your energy feels very good through videos. So shared. 💛 Wish Love , light and positivity to you always. 💛
Dear Chetan don't feel down. I would like to recommend you few things.Just list things in diary which you want in ur life and take action.And see how will ur life change..
This video made me recall my my schooling days aswell i also did few awkward things for them however that quote was super amazing applied for all RU-vid videos "information is not knowledge, knowledge is gained by experience and experience leads to wisdom" thanks dristi di lods of love from my side💕
Hey drishti, iam really glad that you have changed a lot from your childhood. You realised that you were losing your self respect and stopped repeating those mistakes. But it really takes a lot guts to share your own mistakes. Keep going! 😊
Dii due to academic pressure i really feel depressed and i was a good student so my teachers n parents are expecting a lot from me .. but I'm not able to fulfill their demands and I'm not getting time for me .. from your channel i seriously got a lot of health you are like my mentor thank you so much Dii nh i want you ti make 1 more video on failure nd depression .. it will help alot 💗
Awesome video didi And apke videos dekhne ke baad energy level charge ho jata hai 😀 Knowledge ke saath saath ek rasta bhi dikhta hai zindagi ka 👍👍 Keep it up didi.
Thanks di 😀🫶🏻di mai apn mental health ko priority dena suru krdi hu ab phle mai har bat me ye sochti thi log kya sochnge mai ye ki to aur khudko sad rkhti thi but ab mai apn man ka krti hu jo mujhe shi lgta aur ye mujhe happy aur confident feel v krata h😀🫶🏻
I don't watch these kinda videos but i saw you in nova's video and apko dekh kr meeko meri best friend wali vibe aati h not only by behavior or way of talking but by face and expressions also . You both look dam alike. ♥️
Such a wonderful valuable content ❤️ Though I believe we're of same age but I look upto you as my elder sister showing me the right path to take and follow good values in life 💯
Actually, maine bhi khud ke respect ki dhajiya uda di thi when I was in school 😟 Anyway, great to have learnt something from this and as you rightly pointed, from the experiences too! 🙌
Such an informative video..Thank you so much for making this. And yes, I too follow couple of things religiously, which you had mentioned in the video such as, 1. Setting boundaries 2. Saying No 3. Identifying the vibe of the other person and deciding myself whether or not to be friends with them..❤❤
I went through a similar low self respect childhood in school, and also college, this video was an eye opener for me and also very pleasing to listen, thank you
Love your videos!Your videos always give you good vibes!❤ The major takeaway for me from the video is that I really need to improve my self respect on my love life..Like when I love somebody I give that person all of mine but often I don't get acknowledgement for my efforts in that extent(though the love is one sided, but I know her very long and we are good friends).. She always eulogise her crush's efforts in front of me though she knows that I love her immensely and put many Many efforts...But still idk why when her message pops up, I feel Happy though I know that all my efforts will never be acknowledged...
Didi these are the things which usually people don't care about or wanna teach to there kids but according to me in life these are those valuable lessons which are priceless.✨
I’m also introvert faced same problems but in different way ,,,glad to know that there people like me, and ur tips really helpful ..hope I wil remember them all the time
I just found your channel two days back while scrolling youtube. I love love love your content. Amazing stuff! Even I had some of these experiences and used to be the same introvert child. I relate to your videos so much.
I want to connect to you. Like I wana talk to you once. Just like that. Because I get your vibe. Please let me know if it is okay with you. Thankyou. ( I am a girl from Ahmedabad, mother on one, my name is Manali)
Wow kafi had tak relatable video tha, isi baat pe subscribe kar dia 🥰 ek time pe me bhi dosti ke piche pagal thi,one sided friendship,unko meri koi value nhi thi,bas mere samne queen banna rehta jaise bas wo hi sabse mahan h jaise koi movie ki heroine ho wo, aur me side character,aur me kya chahti hu kya pasand hai kabhi jaane ka try nhi kia,bas apni life career bf baate krna rona dhona,n me samjhti aur sunti thi,jab samjha aaya yaha na value h na respect,to ek din in sab toxic friendship se me nikal gai,aur un logo ne ilzam lagaye ki me badal gai,fight bhi ki 🤣 kafi akela pan bhi lagta tha,but ok ab khud ke sath time spend karana pasand hai 🥰 aur khud me improve bhi kia hai aur bhi karna hai ❤️ khud ka best version banna h 😘
Didi...you know what...you exactly give me the thing that I want and I should not say but I really think like you...whenever I see your videos I get only one thought that our thoughts are somewhat same type...like the way u talk and think...I really like that...lots of love from south india...I commented now because at the end of the video u said that u will reply even we comment after 4 years ..I guess u will❤❤
Me comment kiye bina ja rahi thi but last me apne kaha ki aap 3-4 yrs baad bhi reply krte ho means aap ye comment read kroge.. Meri school life till 10th aisi hi rhi he, i can relate with every single word. Really apne ek dam sahi kaha mene bhi no kahna seekha aur ek boundary set ki aur seriously vo log to shyd nhi badle, actually idk because me unse kabhi nhi mili aaj tk but aage jitne bhi mile na vo sab literally apni limit me rehte hai or utni hi respect dete h jitni me unhe deti hu.. :)
I totally relate to you ...i was also switched from state school not to icse but cbsc and same things happened with me too .... ...i know my worth and today i speak far better English then they do
I am not an introvert but yes I am underconfident. because my English speaking skills are not at par. but after watching this video I feel it's ok I will improve myself... so, thank you so much for this video. it really helps lots of individuals. ♥
Hi, This video made me recall my school days that people bulling me , they don't respect me ....Their meaning of friendship is about drinking and smoking...I understood all these things after 3 years so I decide to leave the school after my 10 and make some amazing friends who gave me respect and also respect my feelings . so I leave my school 2 months ago( I'm just 16 now )......this is totally worth it for me because I found some new friends who always encourage me for my dreams and goals .' This only because of you Didi ........I started To give respect my self ........😊😊( Waiting for you hear di :)
You know what ! Even I had a bad schooling period. Same as you I was also studying in an ICSE school but from the very start till my 12th. My school mates were just obsessed with English like they used to judge everyone be it teachers or students for their English speaking skills. I was so scared and self-conscious while saying anything. I wasn't that good at speaking English. Unfortunately this is not the only thing I had faced in my schooling years. When I was in school, I had a very low self-esteem, judgemental school friends, average student etc..etc. It was only after schooling got ended I realized that..I was never dumb or stupid. Making mistakes is a part of learning process. But those experiences has affected me a lot. And I'm still learning to overcome those fears and judgements.
Drishti video bohot accha hai sahi kaha tumne jab tak hum apni respect khud nahi karenge to dusra to bilkul bhi nahi karega and tumhara neckless bohot accha lag raha hai☺️
drishti dii thank you so Much I can Totally Relate. my story with You I am also in 12 TH standard I am so Underconfident I have Hardly One Friend but but I want to inprove Geneuinly not ( kisi ko dikhana ke liya friend banana) but Genuinly feel Ho. to.... I learned this thing in my EXEPERIENCE OF WHOLE STD 11 ... thankss so much... you are the BIGGEST REASON OF CHANGING MY LIFE 😊
U have an amazing clear mindset, soo well said....really knowing & valuing yourself is an Art and You are the Artist. Every time I watch your videos i can just feel your confidence, clarity in your talks. #keepthisup ❤❤❤
Yaar...yeah video muje pehle kyu nahi mili 🥲 Toxic people can really destroy ur life...it's better to stay away from them. Thanks Drishti...osm video ❣️
Di , whenever I watch you I remember my school days mine also same 🥲 but know I'm also change, and loving myself first ❤ wish i found friend like you ❤ good luck for your chanle
Hi Drishti,I Love all your videos. You have a great flair of explaining your knowledge. And I can see the amount of hardworking you are putting in your work. Really appreciate your work, from the bottom of my heart. Keep going sister. You are meant for the skies.
Drishti di....u r my inspiration like literally needed a influencer like u which is my virtual big sister thanku🙂🥀...nd ur hand movements are so beautiful.😘..love u keep growing nd glowing..💫🦋♥️👏♥️.
Hi, i am really relating to you since i started watching.... i also go through same issues but after listening to you it feels like i am not alone. All the best!
This is so relatable. Even I had toxic friends till 9th grade. (Except for a few friends who were actually genuine and decent with me. Some are still my best friends) And they used to use me and disrespect me. But when I reached 10th grade I found one friend who is genuine and straightforward. And she is my bestie till date ❤️ And after that my list of genuine friends added on from when I started my PU. That is why I always admit that I have always enjoyed my college days more than my school days because I got the respect I deserved in college.
I have been following you for so long on social media but as you said you reply to every single comment , so just thought to share something . I love your videos & the way you express yourself . When you communicate seems like you're directly communicating to me. I have read books you suggested and I must say they were quite good especially "Attitude is everything" , it's my fav too. So yes, keep growing ...lots of love !! ❤
I had already seen this video a while ago but I watched it again because "That Incident" happened to me today. I'll not disclose it but it was similar to yours. Btw the video is amazing and it gave me the right path to walk on and I'm feeling really Positive,Thanks to you😄
Your videos your journey makes me confident di it's because of you i gain the confidence in speaking and in interaction your are such an admirable person di thank you so much for having in our life i have a learn a lot from you thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏😊😊🤗 Love you di ❤️❤️❤️
I can dam relate to U💯I too used to be that pleaser to get fit in bt when u know u r one of kind❣️u get rid of that inferiority complex & embrace your real Worth.Good work 👍👏
One more thing ma'am how to maintain consistency to do study ya learn something new please ma'am if you are able to make video please ma'am make it 🙏🙏🥺❤️
Same mere maine bi bhut galtiya kiya achai ke chakkar me hmesa apne apko hi galat mana h thanku so much for sharing this pls ap ise or detailed me bnayiye