God is someone you can fall in love with, and build a real bond. God is the only one whose love is in realest, purest form. Learning that language lately is the best thing i got to experience.
Thank you Rabbi Manis Friedman! When I realized that i am NEEDED, my perspective to life has never been the same. I probably have my own needs but it gets swallowed by HaShem's bigger NEED, every day becomes worthwhile living as I get immersed in serving HaShem and others. Certainly life is exciting 😊, worth living as I partner with HaShem to elevate His World. 😊
Thank you Rabbi Friedman!! ✡️🙏❤🔥 This connection with Hashem and Mitzvot is all we need to make it through!! As always, wish you and everybody here a fantastic day!! 💪🙂👍️🎶
my purpose is to come here and serve god,when we obey god and his word we are living holy,we can't create our own purpose because we didn't make ourselves,we were made by god and for god that's it your right about that,the purpose has to exist before our coming here,so god is the answer e anessa g
Todah, Rabbi Friedman. To be needed makes sense in a relationship. I use to think I wanted someone to want me. Now I think I need someone to need me. It gives me a clearer understanding of what I'm needing in my doomed marriage. Can you make my wife watch this video 😂❤
Good news, it only takes 1. It takes time to convince her that you have changed, but do not give up. If she is mentally healthy, she will stop testing, and you can enjoy the marriage you have always dreamed of. All you have to do is make a romantic dinner or take her out and say, "Thank you for being patient with me for (insert number of years of marriage). I am sorry that I have not understood marriage. Please teach me what you need from me, but remember I am a slow learner, so please teach me as simply as possible". Then follow up by saying this every morning and night, "Good morning. Please help me today. What do you need me to do today? Yes, spell it out for me. I am so happy that you are in my life". Follow up by doing what she answers. Then, "Good night. Thank you for helping me today. I appreciate everything you have done today. I love you. " ⚠️ Warning she will test you. If she is mentally healthy, she will stop testing you gradually and you can start enjoying the marriage you always dreamed of more and more. It will take time. Remember you have been hurting you and her for how many years? So be patient with both of you. She should melt quickly if you are consistent, but it will take years to repair the damage. Do not worry, healthy women respond in gratitude, giving, and apology as soon as they know they are safe or at least will watch this Rabbi's video and start getting the message. Good luck, do not give up. Seek counseling, especially if she is not mentally healthy. Try this for 30 days before you decide to settle for a sad marriage. Then update us. If you can do this for 30 days, you are going to reap the rewards for the rest of your life. Remember it is only 30 days commitment. When you see and feel the change, you will continue to live this way in a great marriage, with challenges and ups and downs, but never alone, you and her together against everything else. Looking forward to reading your success story in the future.
You are awesome Rebbe ! Reminds me of my chabad Rabbi minkowitz in Alpharetta. I live on a farm in North ga and there's a reform synagogue can't take it 😂 so I listen to your wise wisdom and it makes me feel at home! How do we get onto the zoom meeting
Gen 1;27 says God created man in His image, and then says “in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them”. If God doesn’t like to be alone, then it would stand to reason that man wouldn’t want to be alone either. After all, we just went through three different phases of creation with the intention for us to be like Him (the Creator). Talk about being thorough, to approach this step in Creation from three different angles. Wow. Thank you for your video Rabbi Friedman.
I am not jewish I am just am ordinary black guy and I am wondering if you hold seminars in the UK sometimes, and if so are non Jews allowed to attend. Thank you May the almighty open your mind for greater knowledge and peace.
I am not a Jew, of course, but I really like your teaching. I am a Christian. I see our difference is only on the new testament. I want to join the VIP only for a short time.
As a Deist (no theist) I never was confronted with a reliable proof for a theistic concept of a god , only for a deistic concept of a god. That counts especially for the theistic concepts of the three abrahamic religions, which I really cant follow as they sound like very strange fictions: + Yahweh created us humans 300k years ago, + Then he hide 295k years to humans, + Then he appears to a small group of people (Hebrews) and gives them the laws that are for ALL humans, while humans already exist all over the world. Rules that, if you dont obey them, you go to hell. + Same thing aprox. 2500 years later with his son. + Then it takes another 700 years till that belief spreads with brutal military superiority over Europe (Charlemagne killed in one day more pagan saxons than the Romans killed Christians in all the so called persecutions of Christians in the Roman Empire). + Then it takes another 1000 years till with even more brutality that belief spreads over Latin America with 50 million dead indigene people and the biggest genocide of humanity. >> Islam has similar issues like the Judea/Christian concepts.
Loneliness and being alone is a myth. Whoever you refer to as your higher power is always with you. The problem with us is we don't develop a real relationship with it the same way we would with people. The idea that it is something that is distant from us is also a myth. Its the only one that will be by your side unconditionally loving you for eternity. The End. lol
God is someone you can fall in love with, and build a real bond. God is the only one whose love is in realest, purest form. Learning that language lately is the best thing i got to experience.
@@ATM.offline And you can talk to it about anything like a kid would an imaginary friend only your friend in this case isn't imaginary. I love it to death and it feels the same for me. Ask it a question and then let it go. Keep your eyes and ears open and you'll get a response. Some may come quicker than others or it may just be that you didn't catch on the first time. Don't worry it's patient and it doesn't get mad if ya don't get it right away. Don't treat it like a stranger or a friend you talk to every once in a while and don't see for months on end. Congrats I wish you all the best in your new found relationship. Thats all it wants like Brother Manis says.
@@jamesearlcash1758 Awesome you got to a level where the connection with someone is noticed. Just keep in mind that the someone is not an it. That’s the distinguishing difference i had to realize in my journey with One. He’s never an it, i can see Him as the purest form of a living being. And the purest form of love. A source where all familiar form of love, both feminine and masculine is from. As soon as you feel like that being is interacting with you, it’s good to ask him what he needs that you can do. That’s when i personally feel the best, not asking for things, but offering, even a little one can make him feel loved, it’s like a kid who paints something for a parent. What makes the parent happy, is not the painting itself, but the effort the child made, to do something good for the parent. Like even the littlest ROI can be valued greatly 😅. Glad to know there’s more God’s kids out here interacting with the Creator 🙌
What a question , your grandson, lol , there’s humour in that boy and extreme wisdom at that age , did you say 7years old? “ Zayin” 👑 crowned , straight light from G-d , it’s the crown of the VAV too connected on high as he chooses to do the natural thing , follow G-d . underneath that crown the. VAV number “ 6 “ the number of man , created on the 6 the day …. Your grandson , is showing signs of wanting to draw close to his creator . Gods knows how it feels to be alone , your grandson is is discovering loneliness . G-d gave us the mysterious gift of marriage . Your grandson is witnessing his destiny , looking at his parents and you . Thank you Rabbi , this post went deep inside 😢
That is tricky. I would say it's a personal line to draw. I think part of the idea of helping someone who is needy is to help then help themselves, not to forever be their aide. They can then help others more. Within a marriage the needs of our spouse are different. We don't look for them not to need us. We don't look at ourselves as being used since they are meeting our needs as well. If not we didn't choose a spouse who views marriage the same way we do. That's a different conversation.
Needs . but instead wanting to others what you want to your self ,considering them like you and not enemies ,or superior to him or upper him . they are no purpose in earth except success the GOD test. so whatever whats you are or what you release finally when time of transition come or death nothing last except your good behaviors and choices that =to success or failure. Thank you Rabbi Manis Friedman
On your first answer that God didn't want to be alone, and he wanted us to be like him. In other words he didn't want to be alone. But I found this to be a very human answer. The very idea, as you pointed out that not to be alone is just a creation. So these two answers kind of contradict each other. God would be totally fine without the universe.
I agree. It is a very human answer, and it shows some pride within itself from a Christian´s perspective. As a Christian I see God as the union of Father, Spirit and Son. God is not alone without us. So maybe we are created to represent the love between the Father and the Son.
Wait! Are you saying The Divine is married? 🤔 If so, I agree. 😁 I belive: "All human beings-male and female-are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny." "Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan."
Colossians 1:16 For by him all things were created, in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities-all things were created through him and for him. Romans 10:13 13 For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. John 3:16 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 1 John 1:9 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
I hate myself. My SPOUSE curses at me and blames me starting first thing. I cry all day. Im too poor to leave, i made the wrong choices. I want to go home, wherever that is. I have a purpose but i will die without achieving it.
I dont believe this guys trachings , but he is sincere and he does try to help people. He seems kind and intelligent......he just needs to spend his time more wisely.
This guy is a rabbi who's supposed to learn and teach. He has learned, continues to learn, and teaches Jews and non Jews. Some of the concepts may be new to you, though not to us. The more we learn, the more advanced teachings Rabbi Friedman can share.
This is a experiment to see if I show mercy when the creater came i called for the judgement my journey was on social media but I was banned years later im still hear as attempts on my life has failed as usual when i die every body will go with me anyway this is my sixth lifetime i will be back im eternal this experiment is over i showed mercy when i had the power to dominate
⚠Is Afterlife the same for Jews and non Jews? I doubt it, but I'm ready to listen to your texts on this point ⚠Is a *Jew punished in Afterlife* if they had killed, exploited, lied to a *non Jew* in this life?
If God need human, why didn't He create better people instead of bunch of lunatics? I am puzzled by all the evils people have done to each other throughout the human history. Why didn't God just create perfect human beings from the beginning?
CAVE ALMIGHTY AWAITING BEING THE GIVER OF GOOD, SHE THE ONE WHO DISPUTED; DIVINE DEPRIVED TO A RIGHTEOUS FATHER THEM SO MANY AT ACROSS WORLDWIDE, CALAMITIES OCCURING AT SURROUNDINGS OR AT WORLDWIDE AFTER DISPUTED. NEVER BEFORE
I can't keep her away from her mother's house and her nose is always in her cellphone. It seems like I'm alone sometimes, even after 7 years of marriage.
Amino acids exist in space throughout the universe more or less we understand so biological life is the norm so it seems and life is normal and somehow God therefore in some form has to exist beyond our capacity to use our technology to ever contact Him/Her/It
But… if you’re a homosexual, you’re still an image of God. And you want to marry your soulmate so to not be alone, because God said it’s not good to be alone. And then come humans who “know everything” about being God and tell you that it was your choice to be homosexual and that because God has an issue with homosexuals (who He created) then you don’t have the right to get married, and you should be alone… because that will make God very angry at you… not at them, because their godliness is guaranteed when they have a wife. One thing I know for sure: God’s image is not cretinous. To be a cretin is a personal choice.
Well, that’s the problem right there schools, schools are the problem we can homeschool now there’s no reason to put your kids with a bunch of other stupid kids to learn stupid things that they shouldn’t know about that they learn in schools.
BE CAREFULL RABBI; this arguments exactly are use to any religion, be needed, you have a propuse. Careful Rabbi, all fanatics need a propuse and every propuse needs a fanatic.
No. What’s the purpose for the addict dying of an overdose in a dirty toilet? For the child dying in its bed after 73 days of living? They who were massacred oct7, what were their purpose..? Taste horror and pain..? It is a bizarre idea in my simple soul.
I know they allowed me back on social media to watch me I'll play i will increase the destruction i like 90 degrees all the time im old and always cold