INFJ Loop Theory and a Possible 2nd Idea of Reality | Maybe the Truth is Somewhere in the Middle

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I did a video on the INFJ loop and recently moments in my life have made me have a different idea about the reality of the 360 loop or maybe it is in fact something else. Let me know in the comments below what yiu think and most of all I hope this helps. - Marty

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@espressocoffeeshine4346 9 месяцев назад

I don't think you could have made this video without engaging in some Ti. The so called loop is when the Ti fails define what your Ni is saying is not up to snuff. Then we remain in the state of contradiction rather than getting to the state of non-contradiction. But you are correct, it is often a back and forth process, and we use abstract thinking during that process. So when we get to the state of non-contradiction. We can't even articulate it to the face value people in our lives.

@sh33pyyy 9 месяцев назад

You didn't even have to explain what the INFJ loop was for me to get it. Immediately when you said it wasn't really a loop, I knew exactly what it was going to be like. I imagined it as an idea, or thoughts, constantly ricocheting between two opposite walls (quite surreal I know). And this is how I see the loop myself. Your idea ricocheting into the first wall, will always lead it to the opposite wall, and thus will begin this "pattern". Eventually yeah it will stop ricocheting, but it really does feel like we face this problem quite often.

@marty_glenn 9 месяцев назад

Yep. It is like that. These the type of comments that are the better of the best because it shows a way of not looking at a video and its message; having an open mind and a mind that is not all about the video and the message but about the 'self'. TYWC - Marty

@adamjona98 9 месяцев назад

Welcome back indeed Marty, good to see you. This one was very clear and concise, I could tell you were in your best levels of performance at the making of this video, with an ease of mind. We are the most creative at our greatest lack of stress, the sense of having to defend ourselves. You seemed to have fun again! 😀

@JonLo-e5b 9 месяцев назад

Thanks Big Bro for slowing down this video and provide in depth clarity to the cycle/recycling of how the thought process for.....everyone..😁🤗🤗!! Crazy how it's 4 points in that cycle!!... Was paying attention to the color coordination big bro used at the beginning of the video too! Side note: (Not sure anyone else caught the box illustration and the outside cycle revolving around the box...)? It's crazy though that big bro can still refer back to past videos posted without editing this current one and explain and update his own thoughts and advices for his viewers/subscribers/friends!!! LoL.... whether that being sympathy or empathy.... slowing down this video....definitely must have been big bros Fe function...LoL 🤣🤣🤣👊👊!! Jon

@MichaelMurolo 8 месяцев назад

We have SE, based on our past traumas. Every infj is different, the loops are bouncing back and forth, causes your mind to never shut off, racing thoughts, extremely paralyzing, i have to manage the shadow functions, infj rage, avoid physical confrontations due to the fact, ill easy cause major bodily harm. Normal people get mad and get stupid. I get mad and i already know 7 different ways your going to the hospital. We use dark psychology without even being taught it.

@jamaalhorton2343 9 месяцев назад

I clicked on this Video because I am INFJ and I’m in a loop as I type this! I’m talking to old people I no longer communicate with. My daughter keeps contacting me after I told her to” lose my number “ I’m surrounded by Narcissists and I keep going back! I have to refocus!!

@marty_glenn 9 месяцев назад

Responding in kind. As horrific as it is and as sad as I am to say this, again, responding in kind to a simple RU-vid comment: your decision is the correct one and to refocus would be the appropriate action to take. I would like to add this if I may… Say this to your daughter : “ I am your father. Not your fuck’n friend. I love you unconditionally and if you need me I will be there to save your life. Always. Please do not ever forget that. I will trade my life for yours. Believe it! Unconditionally! Now with that said, the level of disrespect you show me is deplorable and will not be tolerated and for that reason I do not want you in my life on a daily basis. You can treat your friends in that manner but you will not fuck’n treat me in that manner. I am your father. I am not nor will I ever be your friend. Friends do not give their life for yours. Fathers do! Unconditionally. I love you. - Dad. “ If you cannot. I get it. I have nothing to add but it’s sad and I hope it gets better soon but your refocus is on point. TYWC - Marty

@annettesinclair5495 9 месяцев назад

Marty l am a INFJ female, 80% l can lead with my head but when l get hit with my intuition and sencing others reactions or emotions to a situation and if my emotions are high or overwhelming l can begin to lead with my heart then make bad judgment calls because at that point l am not seeing the big picture l am just stuck in the emotional well. Where usually l am a big picture person but that is when l am leading with my head. I have big heart always l try to keep it under wraps but unfortunately it causes problems. That passionate emotional side does allow me to be a great writer. But on the whole it sucks. It's not fair l see everyones emotions and reactions and states of being all the time. Tonight it got me in trouble again. I was getting into a relationship with a great guy emotions ran high and l got stupid. What is the solution? Please let me know if you have one

@toshamoore3437 9 месяцев назад

The abyss¿? So sad. The abyss, sounds like a place where nothing's connected functionally to the point where it breaks physically....motor? Question to that, temporary or permanently?

@NurSa3id 9 месяцев назад

So you made a video but didn't put it up? I was waiting bro... but I understand, it's not easy, putting yourself out there...

@marty_glenn 9 месяцев назад

I know. I know. These are them now... TYWC - Marty

@MichaelMurolo 8 месяцев назад

Your correct.

@42222 9 месяцев назад

Hi marty, are you familiar of antinarcissism? Not to be mixed up with covert narcissism. I thnik it describes INFJs very well.

@marty_glenn 9 месяцев назад

Yes I am familiar with the term and it is very sad: "Describes a person with 100% no self esteem." I have never seen or met one; I do not believe you or anybody will ever meet one. TYWC - Marty

@42222 9 месяцев назад

@@marty_glenn From what I understood from this Vaknin guy it goes like: I'm a covert narcissist so I don't care about you at all because I'm self centered. But because I'm also a masochist. I have no choice but to help you (as a form of self trashing) with whatever you asked of me. Resenting you while doing it the whole time and hating you for it afterward. That's a wild combo to have. It's also funny how from the ouside it would look like you are helping someone and feeling good for doing sth. good for someone. While under the hood there is something else going on entirely. And the person doing this might even think thats whats going on himself because thats what he's being told all his life...

@marty_glenn 9 месяцев назад

Sam Vaknin? I know his work very well. Look on my channel since I have covered him in depth. Do not believe a word of this: Anti-Narcissism It is not true and cannot be substaniated by anything meaningful. I am a narcissist and I have a self esteem and it is healthy. How can I be anti-narc? See my point? - Marty