I'm a femme lesbian. I remember being in middle school and all the girls were boy crazy. If i got a "crush" on a boy, it would be because they were nice, funny, etc. It never had anything to do with looks. Then I went to girl scout camp the summer before freshman year. I saw this tomboy at the camp. This sensation happened in my body that I had never felt before. I was instantly infatuated. 25 years later, I've never had that sensation for any man. Compulsory hererosexuality is so programmed in people that they can't grasp that homosexuality is just as normal and requires no explanation.
Yes! I’ve never had intercourse with a guy and I knew from a very young age that I was attracted to girls/women. And I don’t like when people say “Sumthin must’ve happened to them” and my question to that is so what about the ones that something happened to them fa real who are straight? 🤔 They be stuck without a answer 😂
It’s something about the dynamic that you all that makes these conversations so interesting to watch. Thank y’all for being so open and vulnerable. I learn so much from watching y’all.
You should have asked him how does he know he doesn’t like men if he’s never been with one 🤷🏾♀️ .. It’s mental for me. I knew the first day a saw a masculine presenting woman that I was not attracted to men. Everything about her was flattering.
Yes.. it’s important to communicate the levels of comfortability because we are all different. I don’t like to be licked like a dog or sucked like a vacuum.. It’s a turn off to me but your ex may have loved it!
Talking about sex and all its intricate details is never easy. I truly appreciate you all for being so transparent and vulnerable with us about sex and exploration. The dynamic is great for discussing such sensitive topics. I appreciate you all so much and this discussion is very helpful for those of us trying to improve our relationships with women on different levels. Love you all.
This was the most informative episode to date (8/19)! Thank yal for being so open and educating us willingly. Please keep up this awesome safe space!✨ ~Blessings🙏🌹
I love the connection between the two of you this conversation was so vulnerable it makes me miss that spiritual connection I can only have with women. Bravo ladies😂😂❤😊😅
Aina was fighting for her life this episode lmao! I swear I feel that all the way tho im outside with y'all too! great episode as always great conversation and I never not laugh I be waiting on these episodes !
@@JustObserving313 Then how do you get through hard times with your partner if your only solution is to leave. It’s not about changing someone’s personality it’s knowing when situations from your past are not allowing you to grow as a person. Think about it, if you can’t allow yourself to be touched, you won’t be able to maintain a healthy relationship with anyone. Is holding onto fear more beneficial than dealing with what’s holding you back? The alternative is a life alone. In the end is it worth it?
Damn... This Conversation Is Not For The Singles Sleepin Alone 🔥 😅 🥴 Yes To Frequencies Playin 😋 Yes To Masculine Centered Women With Little Femininity 💯 Yes To That Descriptive Fantasy From A 🫦
Ok I would like to pose a part 2 of this and add different toys or interesting ways to introduce different type of sex or how to be more open to evasive things just to throw some things out there. Rope wrapping, shifting control, role play, spontaneity, what level do you open up Pandora’s box, like how deep does it go for the both of yall and or how closed off can it be. i always thought to give up control and trust in a sexual situation is such a sexy thing to me… 💁🏾♀️ I guess that’s tha Scorpio talkin 😌
Just found this space but gotta say, I feel like I found my tribe! OMG You are ripping thoughts literally out of my mind. I thought I was the only one thinking how I think on a lot of these topics. I have literally binged all the videos leading up to this one. Keep doing what you do and bringing what you're bringing! I love it here.
I'm in my voyeuristic bag today 😅 I don't have any comments except this one 🍵🍿 Edit: I straight lied to myself and yall 😅 I tore that live chat up honey! 🤣🤣🤣 **sips lemon water**
Just wanted to say I appreciate your podcast and look forward to yall's new episodes every time they drop. Thanks for creating a space for discussion for the Shellas
Tantric 🙌❤ ... Yes, the 90's blended with tantric sounds playlist ... but it has to be experienced with a mature partner. Synchronizing your breathing is a great experience as well as a "prequalifier" to see if you can connect on a deeper tantric level. Once you experience THAT level of security within your sensuality as a woman, your energy is recalibrated to a different level.
I am a verbal person I enjoy leading sometimes a person that can let go and just let me enjoy they is an extreme turn on if you’re uptight or in your head too much it ruins the mood . When it comes to me being with a masculine presenting it’s a must that you can relax and trust I will respect your boundaries but at the same time take you to a place you haven’t explored
I have definitely faked it but at this grown age I would just stop the woman and tell her it’s not it. 🥴. Communication is the key. Learning her body 💪🏼
How often have you ladies experienced your partner's surprise at being able to have multiple organisms during love making? It seems that women don't know what they are actually capable of in the bedroom. But when they discovered that it was like taking it to a new level. There was a happy shock and surprise!
Can someone please tell me what the hell “Pokémon” is??? In all of my lesbianism I have never come across such terminology I’m so confused & thrown off.
@@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast wow. & after all these years, you guys let that live like it was in the dictionary 😂 that’s the word that stood the test of time? An unsexy anime born term. That’s great.
This was a great episode and I related a LOT. I am glad you covered a subject that we shy away from because sex is powerful and communication is key. 🫶🏾👍🏾
