Insecurity Married Rejection When Amanda and Michael Pittman Said I Do | Dear Future Wifey S5, E512 

I never seen a man look at his wife while she speaks, like this brother looks at his wife. It's so wonderful! You just see the love!

I don’t care about being right, I just care we get it right! This statement is so powerful. Lord help me to remember this!

The spirit of rejection is SO EASY to plant and SO HARD to uproot, but it can be done.

I am a saved woman and I TOTALLY agree that kindness is the greatest and most important characteristic in any relationship ❤️

I am reminded once again that REAL LOVE is possible and i refuse to settle for less than i KNOW and DESERVE!!!!!! When you hear a man say "I DON'T CARE ABOUT BEING RIGHT, I JUST WANT US TO GET IT RIGHT" gives you hope that it is possible to get an authentic and genuine partner. I am looking forward to my HEALTHY LOVE, waiting and working while God allows us to meet!

This was sooooooo, good, I just told my Husband the other day, you will no longer speak to me the way you do, he said I will say what I want, I said well you won't be talking to me! Until you can learn to speak to me with Kindness and not hate. So this was right on time, so many key points that hit home. I use to not know my worth💖

Amanda opened the doors of The Church!! Had I not already known Christ, I'd have given my life TODAY just at her well spoken words. This couple hit my heart!!

Lawd! Now, THIS is relationship goals!! What an amazing couple. After the heaviness of last week, it is great to see such a wonderful example of how to communicate and grow together.

I love the way they look at each other 🙂 So.... God used Michea's confidence to help Amanda get confidence in herself and overcome her insecurities. And He used Amanda's kindness to help Micheal overcome past rejections? If so that's pretty cool. I liked how Amanda talked about unrevokable love - a great prayer point 🙏🏾.

This is a really sweet couple!! Did anyone hear their body language?! The chemistry, connection and wholeness of the two I could feel through the air waves!!! This is the type of stuff that happens when two ppl meet and its a fit, a go, and a God thing. Before these two open up their mouths, the presence of God goes before them and yet remains with them and yields the sweetest aroma that could fill any room. If we could bottle this couple as a fragrance, i would definitely wear their scent!!! I love that both create safe spaces to communicate, especially issues. I agree too, their is something so dope about a kind hearted individual!! I walked away from a past relationship saying,"Lord kindness must be a spirit that he didnt possess (bless his heart). The world can display acts of being "nice" but it is NOT equal. Kindness is a heart thing and its spiritual. I look forward to meeting my "kind" of person! Thank you again LRW, you simply rock!

YES AMANDA. So beautifully and prophetically spoken.... "This kind of love is not revocable, this kind of love is constant. It's not dependent upon how great I am, but dependent on your decision and your commitment to me." #thePittmans #confidenceinlove #confidenceinlife #kindnessneeded #kindnesswanted #kindnessdeserved #kindnessgiven It's nice to be nice I believe that When kind is who you are, gentle is what we will see! So if you're not showing up gentle work on your character to be kind.

One of my favorite bible verses to share with young people considering marriage or in the beginning of marriage is 1 Cor 13:4 which describes the attributes and character of love and one of them is kindness. So, when Michael talked about expressing kindness as more important than love, kindness is literally one of the biblical attributes of love!

Can we just take a moment and appreciate how they look at each other, like they've just met😍😍😍❤️

Omg I love how he's watching her whilst she talking about how much he is loving on her. Its so sweet❤😍

I can definitely relate to the wife . I’ve been very insecure about my appearance, but I’m working on taking care of myself so that I can feel better about who I am .

This couple is too cute! I've never heard of them, but I really enjoyed their conversation. She touched a lot of points that resonated with me. I felt ugly growing up but as I got older, I realized that I was an attractive woman. I also realized that how you feel about yourself feeds into other people. The way he loves her is so beautiful to see. She knows that she is loved, and I can imagine that it is an amazing feeling! Laterras, your interviewing skills are really on point. You know the questions to ask! Great job and beautiful letter. ❤❤

I remember this couple back in the day online, they’re pretty solid on their views.

Powerful show! I love how he just sits and looks at his wife as she speaks. You can see the love and care that he has for her. Again, I say, a powerful show!

What should have been met with wrath, was met with kindness! This couple is preaching 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

This episode was AMAZING!!! I love when love is represented in a way that represents God well. It was quite refreshing to see a couple that shows that marriage doesn't have to be hard. When you work as a team and as it was profoundly stated "try to get it right and not always trying to be right", the results on this podcast speaks for itself. Love their vibe and love their support for one another. To me, this is what Purpose Partners look like, and it has inspired me today that their is hope in these single streets. Thanks for another enlightening episode! You are bringing it in 2022!!

This has got to be my favourite couple I’ve seen on your show so far. Their honesty, transparency and the body language! I have chills. Plus the laughs because their energy just exudes comparability. Thank you Mike and Amanda. Thank you Laterras. This was great 🙏🏾

Enjoyed this podcast ❤️ Encouraging to see a healthy marriage. “Love is patient, love is kind” so in essence Paul was right ☺️Kindness is a prerequisite for love.

The love that lasts....the love that supports and cheers and stands....is most definitely a choice. Choosing your spouse/partner daily--to respect them, cherish them and build them up and hold them accountable--with love--for their betterment and growth...is definitely a choice. ♡

This conversation is so refreshing, the more I watch the better it gets.

I love this couple so much. They made me smile the entire episode. I DON'T CARE ABOUT BEING RIGHT, I JUST WANT US TO GET IT RIGHT". This is a message for every couple for every problem... My God thank you to the Pittmans for your the nuggets I have carried away today. Note to self...... I will share.

“ I don’t care about being right… I care about getting it right!”

Being kind. It's so easy to loose kindness when you encounter mixed emotions that include hurt, dissapointment, etc... Thank you to Michael for bringing this to our attention and reminding us to being intentionally kind with our responses. What a beautiful couple❤️, may they continue to experience this fabulous love they share with each other

I can listen to Amanda alll day. Her voice is so soothing and she’s so WISE.

Wow. The way they look at each other is so dang beautiful! The way they articulated everything and gave each other the space to talk freely and ohhh it was just so good! Great start to my Wednesday morning. ☺️

Umm, I’m supposed to be working (WFH), shhh, but I had to watch this. What a freaking refreshing episode. I smiled from beginning to end! The love these two have was oozing off my screen❤️

Amanda and Michael, thank you so much for sharing your “confidence in love.” So wonderful to see a Christian couple who both like and love each other. Love does not have to be grounded in trauma and continuous overcoming. Love can indeed be grounded in kindness! Great interview!

This is amazing! Love their story and how successful their marriage is from the beginning. Very respectable and Inspiring. She’s beautiful inside and out and he’s very respectable, sounds reliable and mature from very young age. As a 24 year old man this is uplifting.

I feel like God led me to this episode specifically - and I identify with Amanda’s struggles with insecurity and striving so much! It’s hard for me to separate love from works and I love that she wrote a book helping women to act from a place of already being loved supremely by Christ - this is going to break so many chains and bondage off women 🙌🏽💗 and her husband gives me hope that safe, healthy relationships and marriages do exist and are a reality!

He said he loves her because he wants to...Powerful! Adorable couple. They are intentional and purpose driven. Great example of how good communication should be in a relationship.

She’s stunning! I could definitely relate to growing up not feeling attractive & struggling with my self confidence even til this day. Also when you “look” a certain way, people tend to assume your insecurities are attempts to seek compliments when that is not necessarily the case.

Sidenote : I love the way they look at each other when they are communicating 😂🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 #Reallove ❤️❤️

Your Podcast, always shows me just how much God cares about our dreams. You’re guest are always divinely found! This just builds my faith stronger in God/ the father/son/ and Holy Ghost!!

Wow. This woman is so beautiful. Her looks are extremely feminine. I'm really into her femininity. She doesn't even interrupt him lol and, look how close her husband is sitting close to her. She makes him comfortable.

My God!!!! The level of understanding of how communication, kindness, respect, and love go a long way in relationships!!! And to be able to learn the concept of being open and vulnerable enough to have a conversation to resolve and not just to determine who is right!!! Thank you Pittmans for being the epitome of true relationship goals!!! Let God continue to use you both to guide and help us who are desiring to be where you are but as God sees fit!! You guys are phenomenal 👏 ❤️ 🙌 😍 Thank You Laterras....friend in my head!! LOL.....You have given us another elevated, genuine, and authentic episode!!! Blessings and Love to you All ❤️ 💛

This couple was such a breath of fresh air. I truly enjoyed this episode...WELL DONE!!

Man, this was simply beautiful! The transparency, the love, the evolution of their marriage!!!! They look at one another with intense love. Simply beautiful!!!! She has given me so much courage to continue walking in my truth and sharing it with the world one day! Thank you yet again, Birthday twin!

I enjoyed this episode! It was 🔥. Laterras I like how you direct the conversation. I liked the articulation of their responses, powerful. LOVE is Patient and Kind💜

Amanda's testimony feels like a glove I can slide my hand into.. because my testimony is so similar to her past and insecurities. God keeps showing me that I am designed to overcome and live a continued life of Overcoming. Latteras you are appreciated beyond measure! Thank you for investing in your process to progress into your truth, as a result God can touch my life in a unconventional way so I can identify changes to make to be the God ordained...... "ME"

I love all that this show brings

This is a sharp contrast to last week. Both great episodes. Both helped me to know what is possible on either side of the spectrum. This couple is definitely #relationshipgoals

What a beautiful conversation! The title is so ON POINT! Your guests are really divine appointed. The Pittman's, thank you so much for sharing your story❤️

Of all of your episodes, this was so healing and good. Please bring them back. Pure goodness. Kindness and kind to my soul.

It was the way Michael looks at Amanda for me! 😍😍

This was so revealing to me, so inspired, I just read a post, with the same statement, but it lacked proven ground, Michael and Amanda just gave me ground. So I thank you, I love u because I choose to.

This was a wonderful episode. The love shines through these two. Just the way they look at each would be enough, but the way they talk about communication, they get it. Just more proof that you can learn from anyone even those younger.

My goodness. This blessed me so much! This was an amazing episode. I will watch this one again.

For ME this was the best podcast I’ve listened to... it resonates with me. I appreciate every podcast you’ve broadcast on this platform. Thank you.

A woman will cater To a man when he gives her the respect It is easy to do And the respect Is reciprocated And when you put everything on the table And it is understand There is no wrath And you create a safe space between The 2 In the Wrath the act of kindness Softened the blow To love and trust

The intro with the couple is so powerful I wish I had this teaching 20 yrs ago! Powerful 🙌🏾 💯 🙌🏾

I seen the short on this episode first and I finally got to watch this! As my career and life has changed so much they both offered so much but Amanda, said something’s that resonates so well with me because I was that person who felt unworthy, and even in my single season Michael said something to Amanda that we all should know how to translate what love is “ I love you, because I chose too” Amen.. blessings to you both!!

So many gems dropped on this episode! Beautiful couple. Kindness, 💯. Thank you Laterras for another great episode!

I love this couple so much. So genuine and pure. I’ve followed them on social media for years!

This was such an informative, awesome, and anointed conversation. I wasn't familiar with either of the guests previous to watching this podcasts, and I'm so glad that I watched. Their love for each other is so obvious and so beautiful. And the wisdom they both shared during the conversation was so enlightening. I've always felt that Communication between a couple is sooooo..... Important and soooo.... Necessary, and this entire conversation confirms that. May God continue to bless their union and their love for each other. I've been so blessed by this today. As a single, Christian woman, it renews my hope that their are still some good, loving, godly, kind men out there.

God is so intentional, each episode has been orchestrated so powerfully like we are truly on a journey....last weeks episode leading into this week's....communication is absolutely key

Awwww I love this couple. I’ve happened upon their videos for years. These podcasts always seem to speak to where I’m at. Love it 🤗

I love Michael and Amanda! ❤️So glad you had them on the podcast ✨👏🏽

I’m ready for another great one! Thank you Laterras & the Pittman’s!

This was so good! Just alot of selfless love and kindness and it's breathtaking....oh and I pre-ordered my book 📚

Well done Amanda and Michael Pittman. We need to see more Christian marriages win.

Please let’s take a moment to acknowledge how on point the intro is 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

This episode was EVERYTHING! I am 56, single, and this young couple taught me so much!!! This is exactly how a healthy relationship looks and should be. My prayer is that my children and grandchildren meet spouses that has the same love for God, character, wisdom, kindness and love as these two people have in their relationships. Thank you Laterras, and blessings to the Pittman.

Placed my pre-order immediately! Like the things I’ve heard?! The wisdom!!! It really blessed my soul. Thank you for this podcast!

I love their body language, IJS

This was a fire episode! I thoroughly enjoyed the conversation!

What a beautiful couple! You can feel the genuine love, care and concern that they have for one another. I love the way Amanda leans into Michael when she's talking about something difficult. I also love that they look at one another when they are speaking. It validates the speaker and shows that what you're saying is important to me. Great episode Laterras! Keep being a blessing. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤

Good morning Laterras, and DFW Family 👋 Thank you for the new episode, which appears to be LIT 🥰 I started two new jobs yesterday (Thank you GREATLY for your prayers Laterras! 🥰) And so I will have to wait until much later today to be able to listen to the episode. This sounds like another great episode full of wisdom and knowledge. I'm looking forward to watching it later. Just from the little preview I just listened to, it sounds like the husband understands what "Commitment to someone" means, and that says a lot about him. Have a wonderful day, everyone 👋

This podcast just keeps getting better and better.

Absolutely amazing; the communication examples where much needed. Awesomeness

Such an adorable couple w/ lots of wisdom. A lot of great nuggets!! Blessings 🙏🏾💜

Oh, I Love the Support & Communication of this Marriage Definitely sowing seeds ❤️ Thank You ❤️ Kindness most Important Gift! Yasss~

This was so good, yet again 🙏🏾

This episode was AMAZING. I pre-ordered Amanda's book today and I cannot wait for it arrive.

Wow! What can I say that hasn't already been said? U got another good one here, Laterras. This was refreshing to watch and I'll definitely be rewatching. I resonate with Amanda as far as viewing my value thru my abilities. God has been working on me to change this mindset. I will definitely pre-order this book.

THIS HAS BEEN THE MOST SOBERING INTERVIEW I'VE EVER COME ACROSS! I don't know what to say, but thank you for this.

This was beautiful. Like drinking a refreshing glass of water on a hot day. I love that they talked about marriage besides the normal talking points that we hear all the time ( sex, money management, roles).

Another great episode! Order placed and looking forward to the book. Thank you again for providing such meaningful content.

After listening to the whole episode, Man I feel confident. Thank you guys.

This was SO good I had to run it back a second time! What an amazing couple… definitely preordering this book for myself AND a friend. Also, just want to say as a church girl I can appreciate those moments when Laterras is about to take off lol 🏃🏾‍♀️💨

This is a very good episode! Omg! Thank you for the nuggets! Whew

This was soooooo touching. I really enjoyed this. Pre-ordered my book. God bless them.

Loving the ending for Forster kids! Touched my heart, I hope to adopt one day.

🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 KINDNESS! That was a whole sermon and testimony in one!! I love Michael and Amanda. They are an awesome example of God's love for us. Thank you for having them.

This was amazing, such an awesome couple 🥰. Enjoyed!!

Great interview! Just pre-ordered the book. Can't wait to get it!

Laterras...thank you for your guests....I can so relate with Amanda such that her current self is something she's giving me to aspire to God bless you Laterras and a big thank you to the Pittmans

Great episode! Love this couple, an example of a healthy relationship. Loved it when Michael talked about kindness, resonated with me. Kindness is the fruit of the Spirit, if it doesn’t come naturally to you, pray to be constantly filled. I also love how they communicate, there is so much respect.

This was awesome. I'm grateful they shared and appreciate their love for them and their growth and ability to share with others.

This was a beautiful episode. Thank you.

Ms. Amanda Pittman, I came across your profile on IG on the feed and I clicked your profile to see you because what I saw resonated with me. I just finished listening to this episode and your story has resonated with my life story once again and has shade some light inclusive of your husband's and now I am able to identify what has been specifically ailing me emotionally. Thank you very much.

Last week’s episode was so heavy, but necessary. This episode is revitalizing and refreshing. I’ve heard someone say if you’re going to be with someone, ask yourself if I’m at my absolute best in my life in that moment, would I choose this individual. Things to remember.

This couple right here! I am here for it. 10 years in and they still look at each other with love!

This episode looks amazing! Commenting before I watch, as always. Now, let's unveil what's in store in this one 😍😍😍😊

Kindness is very important in a marriage. So good 😊

This was quite a talk show to listen to...thank you for sharing!!

Wow! Just mind blowing! This is soooo good🔥🔥🔥 Thank you so much for sharing!