By making these video you are trying to influence others. You are not realistic, you just try to add propaganda in the youngster. Marriage is not for everyone. In real world girls are spoiling the life of boys. I see a very good people left job because his wife is not caring the babies. You donot know what problem boys are facing in current economic scenario. I see old people like you are saying to make baby, human being is not for reproduction only. One couple should have one or zero babies because giving birth is not only responsibility of father and mother, one should think whether his child will survive in the next world where AI and ML will take all jobs and finance.
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Aapki baatein hi mujhse sbse behuda lg rhi hain sir ..bht izzat se yeh baat keh rha hun.... main regret krna psnd krunga but itna dukh aur doglapan ke rishte ko na nibhaunga
You are right ye faaltu ka views badhane ko gyaan de raha maine kitno ko unmarried dekha door mat jaao padosh me hi aise kayi hai jo unmarried hai Jo Khushi she life jii rahe.
@@K9_Jerry it's because of our unrealistic demands. everyeone wants minium 2bhk flat in posh society. shiny privates school for children. parties, holidays. once you die without child your whole money unfortuntely goes for the same people who have more than 2 child.
@@sortcapsregulatory7911 if you till 16-17-18 completed 12th after that graduation if your further studies in law,ca, doctor then it takes a lot of years from study to proper stablish that profession . Have you entered job market ? How to earn- multiple sources of earning money? Any there for step by step guide you,help you? Any fruitful relationship? How to raise child? how psychology effect on child till 25-30? Have you enough money+ knowledge to have choice to raise your child or save your partner in any way? Are you street smart? You have to play that part eventually. It's 60 years plus togetherness more or less.
Sir I respect you but on this topic I don't agree with you sir .Ek sawal he kya insan sirf shadi aur bachche aur settle hone ke liye peda hua he kya ?? Insan ko bandhano se mukti ki jarurat he faltu ke tante palkar khud ko aur kisi aur insan k bandhan mat badao . Life sirf maje marne k liye nhi hoti he .
@@vivek8580 that's OK bro but don't you think that shadi k bad life jand si ho jati he, roz ki vohi khatpat, mathaphodi , ldai jhgda , aap kro to bhut sochsamjkar krna kyuki me bhugat chuka hu shadi ki barbadi aaj bhi nind nhi aati , goliya khani pdti he .
@@vivek8580How many ambitious women do u see around? There are only 20% of women who has India’s workforce participation. Many women leave their job after getting married or discontinue after having children while men aren’t allowed to do that. And those ambitious women look for ambitious men who earn more than them. They don’t look down. This uncle tells everyone to find a career oriented/working wife but he should know the statistics of working women population.
@@vivek8580 i di really appreciate the things you have said but one thing i need to point out that having a family and baccha ko palna is not actually low level goals but may be they are basics .....
@@pankajtanwar155 shaadi zaroori nhi h but aapke jaise kehena toh stereotype h Sir. Most of couples ki compatibility nhi hoti, acche lgne ke baad zindagi hoti h, sbko apne life se alag cheezein chahiye hota h, sbki react krne ka tarike, rehan sehan alag hota h. Duniya mein har tarike ka insan hote h, atrangi falana dimkana, wo ladka ladki dono mein hoti h. Toh aapke jaisi khayal jis ladki ki hogi, usse aapki banegi. Sath rehena lambi time tak aur shaadi, farak nhi h. Agar farak h toh bs social responsibilities aur security ki darr. Aapke kharab experience ka mtlb ye nhi shaadi kharab, partner galat chunte h bs. And also many indian girls and guys in many states or cities i have seen has a specific mindset or behaviour, jisse pati ya patni k sath bnti nhi h, toh apne dimension expand karo, search for someone outside ur boundaries, i have seen many indians marrying foreigners and staying happy. So dont restrict ur thought to one section in society
No need to marry....its just a compromise ....market is father of your child.....5-6 relationships before marriage.....then dulha and dulhan into traditional dress😂😂😂😂
In our Vedic times nearly 25% of population chose Bhramcharya after taking Deeksha ( Sadhna to channelise sexual urges/energy to some other things). It was because everyone is not suitable to get married. That was the wisdom back then. Compulsion to get married at present time comes from the Mughal period as security of females becomes most important and the way to secure them was to get them married.
Marriage without financial independence is scary for both boys and girls. Marriage is not going to die. But why should a poor boy and a girl marry and how would they support their children. Sociologically you are right, but what about individual's psycholgy.
I need more clarity on this. My parents are well Seattled we have own house and property. They are government servent. I have recently started my business but it's in loss. Growth rate is slow. It's my second year of business. But I have loyal customer, the always come back. But foot fall is very low. my current age is 33 . And I live with my parents because I am the only son. I am not financially strong my my own income so I am scared of getting married. But parents want bme to do marriage, they say they will support me and help me grow. I am unable to decide whether I should get married or not.
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
99% of people need marriage , what the hell. Reasons of people not wanting marriage are not so simple. Leave it to the individual. Marriage as an institute is on decline and will continue for a lot longer.
Marriage is a choice, not a necessity! Everyone has their own priorities in life...we cannot impose one or two reason for not getting married on everyone as if they are the universal reasons...we should leave it to the individual to decide his/her own course of life...Sir i think aapka Survey Sample Size thoda chota reh gya! But nevertheless it is a nice talk!
Well said Sangwan Sir.I am a Doctor and used to say these things in family and friend circle .You are doing great service to the society.You deserve 1 million subscribers
किसी ने बिल्कुल सही कहा है- शादी एक ऐसा लड्डू है, जिसे नहीं मिले वो ललचाये, और जो खाये वो पछताये। हर शादीशुदा व्यक्ति के अपने अलग अनुभव हैं। उसको जनरलाइज करना मुश्किल है। जो शादी के बन्धन में लम्बे समय से है, उनमें झेलते झेलते इतनी सहनशीलता आ जाती है कि शादी की वकालत करना शुरू कर देते हैं। पहले एक कारण - बुढ़ापे की चिंता से लोग शादी किया करते, लेकिन अब सामाजिक व्यवस्था ही ऐसी हो गयी है बच्चे अपने बूढ़े माँ बाप कितना ख्याल रख पाते हैं? मनुष्य जितना अपने मन के सहारे जीयेगा, शादी के बंधन टूटेंगे। समय के साथ हमारा भी बिल्कुल west वाला हाल होना तय है।
Jin ladkon ko sachmein aisa lagta hai ki hamein to ek free ki kaamwali pakad ke lani hai, unhein to sahi mein koi nhi milni chahiye, better ki wo single hi rahein, kyunki shadi karli to faltu ki expectations rakheinge. Main bhi ladka hun, pr if there is actually a population like this, and that population feels against marriage due to lack of such kaamwalis in the market, then they better remain single, even better that they think this is the right decision now.
Right I know my cousin who's getting married with this approach he earns 30k per month with home tuitions and he gets so pissed off when girls argue with him let's see how the marriage turns out for them moreon financially independent girls are not willing to take shit from men
Free me kaum aata hai yaar, Agar, food ,medical, insurance ,vehicle, electricity bill , child ki care , home , clothes jewellery etc lena hota To kaam karna hi pata, Vo kaam husband karta hai , Badle me house hold kaam karna padta hai To free me to koi nahi karta ghar ka kaam, Ye galafwhmi dimag se nikal do
Sir, I have been following you since a few weeks now and i am glad i found ur videos. I m a 25 yr old doctor and marriage proposals are coming constantly now. I was confused and anxious about marriage and other aspects of my future. Your talks gave me a perspective for me to contemplate and decide. Ye baatein jo mere liye bilkul nayi hain kisi bade ka margdarshan zaroori hota hai jo parents se mil nahi raha. Thankyou and sending you warm regards.
Yes you can marry. But choose partner carefully. Choose someone who matches with your aspirations, goals and commitments in life. Since you are a doctor,most important is he should understand your commitment as a doctor. Also better to have in laws who would support you to pursue your career , render help n support when you have kids in future. Don't go for glamour. Looks, guy working abroad with high earnings etc. MOST IMPORTANT never come under peer pressure. Best wishes.
From a woman's point of view.... Initial days into marriage for a woman are just horrible..... It's like ragging..... It's a different story maybe if it's just मिया- बिवी staying together but with all the adjustments in a new home with the foreign bodies like सास, ससुर, जेठ, जेठानी n all it's horrifying time for the new bride in India......So first the mindset of the boy and his people has to change drastically......then only girls might get ready for marriage... Else it's wasting a precious life ........
@@SBH3356 Agree.... But still the interference continues....and the in laws make sure that the life of the newly weds becomes a hell.... Hence I feel that the mindset of the boy and his people has to change....
You are absolutely right...i married in my twenties..and after two years of continuous mental torture I decided to leave that house ..now I am so much afraid to do it again as the mindset of in laws and other relatives are same...jese ek bachari aayegi ..dahej bhi layegi aur sewa bhi karegi ...aur apne bare me kuch bhi nhi sochegi...what a ridiculous thinking...seriously..are girl made for sewa???
@@Samikshakomal Areee ye pagal admi na bakvas krna janta hai Actually ham logo ko jab shadi krni hai tab krnge aur sabki apni apni kismat hoti hai Jab iswar ne likhi hogi tab hogi jisse honi hogi tab hogi Unko bas bakvas krne ki adat hai
Highly psychological Analysis of marriage for both girls and boys,there should be more people like you, I send your videos to lot of young and old members of society,
After watching this video, I would like to say that if you are thinking about getting married, you should first look at yourself and see what kind of person you are. The person you marry may not be the same person you thought they were, and you may regret your decision later. Marriage is not a joke. It is a responsibility that you must take seriously, not only for yourself but also for your partner. So, please think carefully before getting married, and do not marry someone just because you are attracted to them.
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Wonderful video. And that concept mental plane and reality of every person is different is so true. I use to say the same thing to young people around me who think they have lot of time to mature,grow up and start taking responsibility. Young people nowadays are overgrown children.Very few listen to their parents and at 25 they don’t want responsibility especially men.Many young men marry for ‘bahu’ and ‘sex’ and its only after marriage they realize how tough it is. Counselling should be done by parents.This video will open parents eyes who are wasting time of their children in name of ‘ good girl’.
@@AdityaBiswas-yz3cc lagta hai tujhe samaaj ka gulaam banne ka bada shauk hai🤣 aur ek baat sun tu kisiko janam deta hai toh maut bhi tu hee de rah hai!
Shaadi kyu karni hai sir iska reason to dijiye. ? Shaadi k Bina bhi Insan khush hai. Sir itna hyper competitive world hai ,career hi itna stressful hai. Usme shaadi aur bache kyu add kare.
With due respect Sir, marriage is a commitment that not everyone is able to handle. Same with having children. Many people will still marry and even give birth to children, let's not object those who want to live without marriage or children. Also, I'd appreciate married couples being able decide whether they even want children or not, without others' judgement. [P.S. I certainly appreciate your explanation of the demography of sex ratio and its effect on finding a marriage partner]
chacha chutiya panti me PHD kar rakhe hai.. inke hisab se tinda khane vala kush nhi reh skta.. or shadi karke baccha paida karna yhi important hai jindgi me..
Sir...my age will be 34 on this February. I had been a Broken engagement last year spetember 2022 because of some circumstance the girl stoped relationship with me. Till day I am looking for a bride from past 3 years through relatives, Matrimonial site and By myself. Koi bhi ladki na ho baat karne mein intrest show kar rahi hai..aur nahi kishi ki source mil pa Raha hai..idharr age and time Aage badhte jarahi hai. Aap keh rahe hai ladko ko 27-30yrs age mein Marriage hojana chahiye but ek Boy ko carrier, finances, Emotionally, mentally prepare hone mein time lagta hai. Sir..Aap suggestions or guidance dijiye yeh matter mein
@@pallavverma5448 After reaching a certain age you will regret your life decisions. View it as you are there to take care of your parents but after a certain time there will be no one to take care of you or even talk to you because you never had a life partner and you never became a parent. If you live in a joint family them this doesn't apply to you but if by any chance you have a nuclear family you are doomed.
@@legends5066 I'm not telling to get married, I'm telling the consequences of not getting married. BTW if you are between 18-22 then congratulations to your premature thinking coz I also used to think the same but then I critically analysed the situation of life without a partner and with a partner and trust me no will take you seriously and everyone would be reluctant to offer you a rented apartment and when the parents are no longer there then your life becomes hell even if you are committed to your work and earn a lot of money but that will never make up for the need of real family members. Think critically not emotionally. Like in the video it is said that not everyone's life becomes a hell after marriage. It is only some of the extreme cases which gets highlighted more.
Very practical video sir. But one question. I have been married for an year now and my husband is abusive. He is violent with me and recently he actually slapped me multiple times and was physically abuvie with me. Should a women tolerate this also or move out of such marriage.
It is easier said than done. My parents are like if this happens again and again than it is a problem otherwise the guy might have been in some othe zone. He was pissed, you might have taunted him. He might have gone berserk so it happened. No support from them.
When he is in good mood, in a respectful, loving at the same time firm manner, tell him this is not okay. If we want this relationship to be successful, he must refrain from such behaviour. When u do this, convey it in a manner that you are not demanding (although i accept you have all reasons to be upset), at the same time be clear about the fact that this behaviour hurts and upsets you a lot. I am in no way supporting any violence towards one's spouse, but it is a fact that some men are programmed in manner that it is okay to raise hand on their wife. Now what we can do here is, if we see a scope of him learning that it is NOT OKAY AT ALL, and he is willing to improve, then one can have patience and help him come out of his attitude. But if we see a person is abusive inherently and is never going to change his ways, there is no point suffering in such a relationship.
In my case, my mother used to tell me to marry a woman with job(even she is ready to do all household work). She's not like what you said in this video.....but i'm the one who don't want to marry any sort of woman cuz i know that my mother don't know about these "modern woman".
He hasn't taken into account the issues of men in marriage 1. He says that the number of women doing domestic voilence cases are less but he doesn't even know the number of silent threats that millions of husbands are going through from there wives and in laws to take control of husband My brother who is earning well and his wife who is housewife was threatened softly by his wife that I know everything about domestic voilence case,just because my brother pointed out that she don't keep the house in order inspite of having maids 2. He didn't covered that its not men but women who are more choosy in marriage,they will see everything educational qualifications,looks, property,job,earnings before marriage but men don't see so many things
Very well said sir, I am mother of 20 year old . Right now I am not facing this issue personally. But when we look around in society, major issue is not about boys of Marriageable age but it's about girls. All Girls and their parents wants prince Charming with handsome salary package . Even if a boy with normal salary want to marry it's becoming very difficult to find girl. It's very difficult to change girl's parents mind set.
Yes,he didn't discussed that Girls and there parents are very choosy these days,they want good salary, property,good looks,good dressing sense,good qualifications Also after marriage girls want to take control of husband using 498A
@@sudhirchandra9790 right.. but what mn will get after fullfilling all these criteria ? In 10 years what will remain of that gal ? she will become disgusting old ldy but the mn will have huge money to enjoy.. not a good deal for mn with money
All logic wrongs. Har ek insaan aajad hai yha , wo apani choice or apane karm ke hisab se zindagi jeena chahata hai . Sabhi logo ko ek hi framework me nhi baithaya ja sakta ....... Sari bate gulamu wali h tumhari ....
Bhai life sirf shaadi karne ke liye nahi mili....human life is a chance to clear your bad karmas and move towards moksha through spirituality. Yeh alag baat hai ke society ne shaadi karna aur bache paida karna hi life ka aim samajh liya. If its destined to be, itll happen...else not and theres nothing wrong with either way.
My saas 65yrs...sasur 70 yrs.... husband 35yrs...hum dono dr..govt job...4 nanand...mujhe gharse nikal diya..beti hai 2yrs...mere husband jese logon k future k baare mein kuch video banayiye..l m completely blind.... future kya hoga...un jese husband..mamas boy type k liye video banayiye
Aap ko kon sahan krega iss Ghar mey aap ka ye hi dos h aap padi likhi h aur independent h baki aapke charo taraf gober h Dr ko dekh kar hi duniya jalti h aap to unke ghar mey hi ho chahe aap apni aur apne baap ki tankha unko de do unko kabhi khush nahi kar paoge
Sir 1 baat toh sahi kahi aapne India is different than western world Food 🍲🍲is big issue....... Personally......... Agar aap khud cook karne me comfortable hain toh best hai........ Shaadi ki jarurat hi nahi hai.......... 😂
Sir, when you compare risks of marriage with cigerates, drinking, accidents etc. These are all the issues created by us and we have control to go in right direction, and law supports us if something wrong happens on these. In Marriage however its not upto man, if while marrying girl lies then men don`t have any provision. Law itself is blindly supporting women. You say start 10 years girls suffer and rest 30 men. Agreed on that. But girl can opt out of kids after marriage, even if she said yes before. If boy insists, u are divorced, lost your house, your parents house, till the time you die you have to pay alimony. She can quit her job or earn more than you and you still have to pay, and your child will still hate you because the child is living with mother and has only listened bad things about man.
Its very true. Thankfully, we got married at 26 inspite of people around saying that its too early. Had two kids by 32. Took a career break. Now they are grown up and I can finally focus on my career again and its not too late. If you have a partner, get married early and have kids early if you plan to.
26 isn't early,its right age My sister got married at 21 after completing her bsc,bEd and taking up teachers job She had kid at 23 and still continued her career as her in laws take care of her son She neither left her career,nor marriage nor having kids
Ek kaam kro na jab career hi pardhan h to no shadi no kid...Just enjoy life and career career career ....Why shadi nd kid....Ye sb pairo ki zanjeer h....Aage badhne se rokti h....
I have planned to have 100 marriages and 1000 Childers. Will you please marry me and help me reach my goal. Im 24 already married 1.5 year ago and have 1 baby and 2nd pregnancy of 5 months.
Zindagi me karne ke liye bahut kuch hai kebal saadhi hi hum indian ko first priorities after job dilkti hai ye saadhi aadhi tumhare sapne se badi hai kya zindagi me jo kuch socha hai pahle bo karo apne sapne hi poore karke na mare to kya jiye
Sir baat yaha probability ki h Agar risk 20-30prcnt v h galat hone ka to bhalai isi me h ki us kaam ko Mt karo Ye negative thinking nhi h Realistic thinking h Cost benifit analysis kehte h ise
जब तक कोई तयार ना उस पर दबाव नहीं डालना चाहिए क्या पता वह वो देख रहा हो जो आपको नहीं दिख रहा हो शादी तो इन्सान के अलावा कोई नहीं करता फिर भी उनका जीवन चलता है और अच्छे से चलता है क्योंकि वो खुद पर भरोसा और प्यार दोनो होता है ना कीसी और से मिलने वाले सुख से क्योंकि जीससे सुख मिलेगा उसीसे दुख
I do watch your videos but what is the assurance that early marriage is going to be happy...i think getting married or not getting married....early marriage or late marriage depends on the individual's circumstances...i agree that one should not glorify not getting married but you should also not shame someone who choose to opt out...its should be individual's choice
Sirf esa nhi hai Sir, problem is most of modern women do not understand the value of Respect. They know domination and submission in social situations. They tend to live their life in their twenties while thinking some one out there working hard towards his purpose will take care of marriage life. Problem is trust issues, and no self control over dopamine. Being adult is mis understood as free for thrill and pleasure instead of taking responsibility for developing trust, emotional stability and priority of mental health. We humans are intellectual enough to communicate and resolve things but we treat each other as replaceble and options. This is the actual worth of men for modern women. We men suffer from mental health cause we need to be ready to handle any of the life problems and definitely can not and don't want to engage with someone who doesn't understand the meaning ups and down. They tend to go for divorce when man gets down on standards because they come with high expectations towards life . Actual life is full of pain, suffering, hardships and struggle. Happiness, pleasure, lavish come after that.
It is not all for all women. It is because we have been conditioned by our parents and society that you must sit and rear children while the money must come from a man. I have seen even men who do not appreciate love and care offered by women. They simply ignore because they think it is a duty of a woman to give all of her to a man. In total it depends on person to person, his or her value
@@jattmoosewala83 I agree...and there is nothing wrong for man to expect love and care. All of us need that is so basic for humans. But I also believe that the norms we have made for boys and girls are so distinct that they fail to consider others...like boys should not cry...I mean why parents teach that to their sons.boys have full right to express themselves and cry when needed. As simple as that
@@jattmoosewala83 sir you can earn money and support others...but crying is such a basic therapy...if you don't want to show others that you are weak you can cry alone in a bathroom or some private place but you must...trust me
@@kritimisra4739 the problem is that the legal terms of marriage are fuked... On one hand they say that marriage is not a contract but a religious ritual so prenup is not allowed but on the other hand alimony is allowed... THE DOUBLE STANDARDS!!! The system is clearly rigged against men so men have started the movt MGTOW( men going their own way)
@@vnssn ok so basically the double standard is men and their family can take dowry but a woman and the children can not seek maintenance. Marriage has been fucked because of the people itself who do not know how to maintain that relation.
Sir, its not about marriage. It's about intercaste marriage, love marriage, marriage by my own choice, forced marriages, times where we weren't allowed to mingle with other gender and thus we couldn't develop that sense of comfortability to be with the other gender, ya fir jab hum chote the bolte the ldko/ldkio se dur rho n jb bde hue ekdm se bolte hn koi ldki/ldka psnd h? ofcourse wo b same caste m honi chahiye. and moreover hum bht cases dekhte hn apni khud ki lives mei kse shaadi k bad ekdm se kse surprises milte hn one by one about someone if it's an arranged marriage. we aren't afraid of marriage solely, hum darte nai hn marriages se na hi hum negative hain, hum bas unhe smjha nahi pate because wo smjhte hi nahi. agar do log pyar krte hn unka pyar tudwa dete hn for some stupid reasons like castes fir uske bad bdi bdi baate krte hn about religion and all and kaise maa baap ka decision hi humesha sahi hota hai. ap thoda sa dusri side se bhi dekhen chizon ko.
We better focus on our own kind of happiness whether it is about getting married or not..BTW there is more to this life than getting married lol . Marriage should be a choice especially in this overly populated country
Marriage and having children should be a choice but one cannot be alone for lifetime They will feel lonely and miss being loved by their partner Mentally and physically we need someone There comes a time and age for this
संन्यास स्वतंत्रता है। संन्यास घोषणा है इस बात की कि मैं अपने जीवन को अपने ढंग से जीऊंगा। मैं वैसे जीऊंगा जैसी मेरी अंतःप्रेरणा होगी। मैं दूसरों की मान कर न जीऊंगा। मैं दूसरों का अनुकरण करके न जीऊंगा। मेरा जीवन एक अभिनय मात्र नहीं होगा। मेरा जीवन प्रमाणिक होगा, मेरा होगाः मेरी निजता से जन्मेगा, स्वतःस्फूत होगा। और संन्यास का क्या अर्थ है? अपने ढंग से जीऊंगा ताकि परमात्मा के सामने जब जाऊं तो यह कह सकूं कि तुमने जो प्रेरणा मुझे दी थी उसके ही अनुसार जीआ हूं। झुका नहीं, समझौता नहीं किया। The Great Osho
Sirji mai toh ye sab issues dekh kar shadi Mai bhi nahi karna chahta. Ya toh sanyasi ban jau ya aghori. Inhi fields me akhiri end Tak chala Jana chahta hoon.
@@SanghPath guruji apka kehna sahi hai magar mujhko Aisa lagta hai ki Mai bara kamzor, murkh admi hoon. Mai grihasthi nhi chala paunga. Ek sawal Mann me rehta hai ki kya mai shadi kar ke apni patni, bachche aur pariwar ko sukhi rakh sakunga? Unka achche se palan poshan kar sakunga? Unki raksha unko museebato se bacha sakunga? In sab sawalon ka darr rehta hai
@@shirshendrasinha5265 Then just find a passion like singing, making art, invent something, research something and live the life... Whatever you do, do it for the supreme god
Kya uncle..Not getting married is not syndrome, this choice is EPITOME OF CHASTITY.....you are married may be...that's why you are saying marrital institution is good.....actually ...virginity loss to someone is not good if the person doesn't deserve....Overall , Unmarried life is the best life whatever whoever say....goddess always with us...Who will take care of poor orphans who are not getting proper education and food....you peoples think to expense on own biological child, selfish an selfish cann't become happy...Today's many young peoples are mature enough than your time due To genetic and environmental evolution..We know the cause and consequence of any thing, even marrital drama too..Don't confuse that Unmarrieds are single...they can enjoy more than married counterparts..... ""Marriage is nothing but a drama, an illusion and a Lousy thing. Life is far more than a marriage. He/She Who has self-confidence does not care about marriage , bahu beti sasu mama etc, they get busy in own realm of errand"" -- RITUPARNA
Nowadays men don't take the responsibility of kids later on also. They want to remain the cchalia and have extramarital relationship as the zing in marriage is gone after childbirth and the wife doesn't remain the same girl.
Oh really....then why most girls hoe around and open their legs faster than chrome pages in their teenage and then expect their husband to be loyal to them and forget their past 😂😂
Mere khandaan mai 5 shadi hui hai abhi kuch time phle saari ki saari barbaad ho rkhi hai ksi pe case ksi pe kcuh or koi lde ja rhy hai or saare love marige kre hain 🙂 toh ha ab wiswas na hai muje bhi na krni shadi
@@raghavsridhar bhai ki muje parehsan krta hai or marta hai or khi jane na deta or mera bhai yaar itna bhdiya banda hai lekin stil or bhai ab oske lge pde hai gym tha oska vo bhi oss ladki ke naam krna pda chup krane ke liye or bhi bhut paise dene pde or ab vo ksi or ke saat hai or talaak bhi nhi de rhi har month paise kha rhi hai .🙂
Today, when the family system has progressively disintegrated and so have all kinds of relationships in general, marriage is no exception. Therefore, today's youth doesn't feel the same security in marriage system as it was for the previous generations. I think the issue of today's youth not marrying is part of our collective karma as a society for all our collective choices so far. Today's youth alone cannot be blamed for what's happening.
Saaaari galti aaadmi ki hain........saari losse talks aadmi hi krte hain..daaaru bh sirf aur sirf ladke hi pite hain...uncle ji ..aaadmi ki bh life pe farak padh taaa h shaaadi k 1 - 10 saal my......i request males..don't listen to him ...apne hi ghar my dekhlo...sab ...gharo mey bohot kalesh females k kaaran bh hota h!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!you got my dislike!
Bhai jab shadi karke fas jao ge case me iss uncle ko call karke bulao dekhenge kitna help karta hai. Jitna idhar youtube pe bakwas kar raha hai jara isko bolo deepika narayan bharadwaj se bhi baat kar lijiye inko reality pata hoke ye bakwas video banake sirf views lane ke liye.
Sir, no matter how hard and compelling reasons you mentioned about the prons of getting married ,still somewhere or other you are referring to marriage out of convenience . I am not totally against your viewpoint but there are some segment too for those marriage out of love & affection matters more than marriage out of compelled convenience !.
