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Bro aisi baatein bohot logo ke mind Mai aati hain but bohot factors hain jo wo public tak nahi pohochte ... 1. Low confidence 2. Low support 3.low courage... Nd many more... Hope shwetabh Sir take this comment genuinely...🙂🙂
@@nitinkumar-tg8ci obviously genuine bro... There are lot of intellectuals sitting out there.. but due to their own mistakes or factors mentioned above they are one step back from recognition..💆
Bro it's his philosophy And everyone has it's own perspective for the world . But being kind person gives u happiness, not the world . So why to give pain to ourselves for the world .
This man brings positivity to next level... Instead of watching bollywood movies why can’t everyone go and watch people like sandeep maheshwari , shwetabh gangwar, Dr vivek bindra, sonu sharma and many more live
I suggest everyone to read the rudest book ever ...you will get the reality check of this world ... I have read it already and again i m reading because it is a kind of book which is your true companion .
*Lessons:* 1.) Conforming for seeking acceptance is *NOT* kindness 2.) Acting in order to be liked is *NOT* kindness 3.) Kindness clears your conscience, it gives you *inner peace* , clears your thinking and improves your mental health. 4.) Accepting abuse is *NOT* kindness. 5.) You will find *uncultured/psuedo-intelluctual* people in all walks of life, so you have to prepare yourself to deal with them. 6.) Being *open-minded* is being kind, being *willing to learn* is being kind, trying to understand the other person's *point of view* is being kind. 7.) Treating everyone with *respect* regardless of their age, sex, gender or standing in the social hierarchy is kindness. 9.) Kindness is *NOT* a virtue, kindness is a *practice* . Edit: Thanks for the likes, I have recently started my own Channel, and it would mean the world to me if you'd come and check it out. Thanks! 😊
The important thing I learnt from you today is that when a person treats us badly despite our good behaviour, we should leave them instead of feeling bad all the time . Thank you Son.
Bowing down ---> Submissive (not kindness strategy) Kindness ---> Not accepting other rude behavior, but helping others without expectation from others.
I have encountered so many rude people in my life. So rude that they can abuse/insult anything, whether its people, nation, beliefs etc. Once this one guy XYZ was making fun of gods and goddess when one of his friend invited him to a ceremony. I asked him, why would he do so, just to make someone feel bad, you are bringing down your moral that low. He replied..."I neither believe in god, nor give a fk about morals." I also don't care weather he was an atheist or believer. The thing is i always used to see him sitting alone in a corner and feel bad for him. I become his friend and that's how my friends also started talking to him. But soon enough he started his BS behavior and all my friends started maintaining distance from him. When they saw me hanging out with him for the first time, people expected him to behave exactly like me, because they expected that if i am friend with someone, they must be good people. They were expecting a friendly behavior but then started keeping a distance from him. But i was the one who never expected him to be a good guy. My only concern was to not let him feel alone. And soon enough he found some more rude people, people who were laughing on his pathetic jokes and were matching his vibes. And very soon he stopped hanging out with me, obviously i was just a boring and temporary friend who never resonated with his mindset. He was actually a university rank holder and not a complete idiot. So that shows even the intellectuals can behave like JackA55's and you should never expect any thing from anyone. Always remember the Buddhist story of zen monk and the scorpion. *AND ON A VERY IMPORTANT NOTE ------ This also doesn't mean that if a person hurts you more then you can take, then please don't make yourself depressed enough over the process and move on.* 😊
@Alvee Sadman he didn't say that "just being a loner means that he is an ..". just don't sync with another person just because both of u are loners. In first case the person is toxic and hence he is left out. In ur case u had to suffer toxic relationships and hence u chose to be alone. The guy is talking about a specific person, not loners.
Who else noticed, this person used to be a "gaaliyo ka betaj badshah" in his early videos, now using beep even on word 'chutiya' (@7:56) this is maturity.😂😂
Because his followers are increasing and he’s affecting many people’s life. Many young people look up to him. So he can’t abuse like before as he’s role model for many people now
Sir , I have learned Soo much from you I'm learning so much I have been in dark places and I don't know by faith or anything I started watching your videos and it has made me realize Soo much Thank you so much sir
Suggested your book to many of my friends bro.....promoting "the rudest book ever"....i think i am one of the brand ambassodor of your book.... Love you shwetabh bhai😎😍
Bhai book average hai on the bigger level, most of things you could figure out on your own if you introspect yourself after each big step you take in your life. Bhai me par ye nahi bol raha ke book bekaar hai, I have myself bought this book. Just saying its mostly for naive people.
@@tree3946 bro India mei parenting hi aisi hai, society hi aisi hai ki ye bool ek zaroorat thi. Haa some of the points are basically common sense. But that is what every self help book is. It is a good book
After Bhagwan Shri Krishna then sir Sandeep Maheshwari then my father I admire sir shwetabh gangwar most. They all change my mindset and perspective for the way of living and dealing with the world. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is the exact thing my parents told me. My mother always said: " Jahaan izzat mile wahaan jhuk kr izzat do....aur jahaan be izzati ho wahaan apni izzat k liy khre ho."
Shwetab bhai aaj subah se 2 ghante padhai kar chuka hun light gayi huyi hai or fakat garmi me pankha tak nahi chal raha abhi 2 hours or padhunga Or sham ko online classes bhi hain. Aaj bahut din baad khud se satisfaction feel ho raha hai. Credit goes to you. You inspired me a lot. Thanks❤
I once asked my relative (bare Papa aged around 50 earning 7 digit salary) what's the best thing you have learned in these 50 yrs...... The only thing he said "be humble"....
Kindness is when you are humble with people on low social hierarchy level and also with the people who treat you well and appreciate you. Don't be kind with those who vicious people. They will take advantage. Guard up and always look for negative ones.its simple
I uninstalled My social media apps because of the toxicity there, to work on myself, I was kind of becoming a bully so I thought quitting them would be better option
This is something that should be watched by everyone....How the notion of being kind and wanting acceptance is CHALLENGED by the ideology he explained..SALUTE TO SHWETABH...
I suddenly I discovered Bhai was making it all with one bledger ...I mean WOWW ...god level dedication to the content and making best out of least 🔥🔥🔥🔥 just loved it ...
Be genuine do unconditionally for anyone if u want don't expect anything with time u easily grasp how to tackle situation set priorities work family according to this react to someone simple man. Sir explained it many times.
I was facing this from my last past year I was being kind to everyone but when it comes to me know once help me for it I just feel so demotivating even I can't express in words so you can realise what I mean to say .when someone needs me I am always there but when I need someone no one is there .it feels so bad it's being lonely in lockdown too
Amazing bro 🙌 my father is a great example for me . My father is not rich in balance account, but he is honest,kind , never seen him resentful. But I'm so unexpressive that i can't tell all this to my father .
I really like listening to you, you always help me upgrade my mindset. I'm just 16 and there are many things I haven't experienced yet. I'll come back each year.
Love to watch you video sir ....keep going ....i'm 20yrs old and it's been 3yrs now I have been watching your videos. And honestly I can see a lot improvement in myself. Thank you so much for my deep heart ...lots of love and support ...keep going .
Sir/Bro/bhaiyaa/ I came in this channel from the book review of your book at the channel of Seeken..... And really I found one of the best RU-vid channel in Self Help genre ever!
We really need these Samajhdari ke perspectives. He makes such things crystal clear which are commonly misunderstood. That's one of the reasons I never miss his videos.
Definition of kindness should be changed. People treat it as a sign of weakness. Sad truth of society..😒 . . . . Edit: Thanks for the likes. I have also started my channel where post self development videos. It would means a lot if you'd come and check it out.☺️
I agree with you most of the so called bully or smart people think being polite kind to anyone is the sign of weakness and people like this who think kindness means weakness don't deserve respect
@@PrTk_Scholar But we can now follow all these things what Shwetabh have suggested in this video. ☺️ And when we do , we will no longer feel that way again.👍
Exactly .Balance is necessary in life.We should think about ourselves than about what others think .Don't disturb anyone and don't get disturbed by anyone.As long as you are alive you can do anything.
Exactly. But rare people talk about this tit for tat concept. People in this era assume kindness as a weakness. Its not easy to be like gautam Buddha for a normal human being who have to deal with these materialistic things in life to move forward.
One of the most kind actor is PRABHAS.Just see his interviews.His humbleness.He just don't get away with his stardom.He will be always humble.I am not a blind fan of him but, I have never saw in any of controversies till now and literally never heard bad of him anywhere else.
*"We think too much and feel too little.* *More than machinery, we need humanity.* *More than cleverness, we need kindness."* - *Charlie Chaplin* I request you all to watch Charlie Chaplin's speech from The Great Dictator. It's amazing.
I realized i've been comimtting so many mistakes , I've avoided people and feel so lonely. thanks for deep insights , I've learned and changed my perception
One of the best videos of yours. I have read your book also, and I am thankful to you for writing this book. Not only has it changed my perspective but it also cleared my confusion that people are people. Indeed, you are a gem for the young generation who gets astray from their path but it seems like they barely take your videos seriously. 👍👍
Today i turned 20 on 23 june and i was thinking ki yaar logon se kind hone ka koi fayda hi nhi jab log mujhe use or insult kr rhe hai than i saw this video really loved and cleared my mind what kindness is thank you shwetabh bhaiya ❤️⭐️
Hi Swetabh. I was just watching the video, thinking about some people in my childhood were always roasting me when I never said anything to them, and then suddenly I got a message on whatsapp from my college junior . She wrote ," Maybe we will not meet again, but you are the only senior I talk to. It's because of your kind nature, your always ready to help attitude " and All my old past feelings vanished and yes, Kindness is really important. Kindness gets us things, moments money can't buy. Thank you so much man
You have helped me change myself ....i have exams in few days and i am absolutely prepared...My goal is to be CA and I wish to meet you when i will become a CA ...Thank you brother for all of your videos.
