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Is it bad if you start feeling... better? 

Megan Devine
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"You'll feel better some day." "It won't always feel this bad."
You're not alone if statements like this don't feel comforting, no matter how good the intentions behind them. If you don't feel this much pain at some point, what does that say about your grief (or your relationship)? Watch this video to find out.
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8 сен 2024

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Комментарии : 8   
@jeanmarieguitard202
@jeanmarieguitard202 3 месяца назад
At a year and a half since I lost my son to cancer... he also suffered severely from schizophrenia for decades. Thank you, Megan, for validating the depth of my pain. I hate my life and it is still nothing but a struggle to get through every day and every night. I have tried counseling, support groups/walks/coffees...and see no end to it.
@jeanmarieguitard202
@jeanmarieguitard202 6 месяцев назад
"You're supposed to come back now." Exactly!! Well into year two and still sooooo devasted!!
@jennifershort3104
@jennifershort3104 4 месяца назад
At 17 months in, I don't see how what I have gone through while grieving can become "correct". My home was sold the second day it was on the market, I had to move, and I found a job in the first month of 2024. Then, my car died at the end of February and I lost my job at the end of April. I have money pending from the sale of the house due to legal garbage or I would have a car. This has also somewhat contributed to losing my job...not to mention making it harder to find a new one. The waves of grief may not be constant, but they sit just under the surface and the secondary things that followed offer an opportunity for the pain to surface.
@THEBEARDEDMUKFILMS
@THEBEARDEDMUKFILMS 5 месяцев назад
Wow! My wife recently lost her father sadly a month ago to suicide, it’s crazy even writing that, but it happened, I’ve known him since I was 15, now I’m 38, wifey and I are high school sweethearts, to see her go through this has broken my heart, to see her pain, but I am there for her, is it easy?! FUCK NO, will it ever be? FUCK NO, Am I angry? Yes, but just like her I am grieving also, having a little 7 Y/O daughter and being strong for her and my wife and my own sanity has been challenging, but I am there support, hearing you talk on the topic Megan really brings things to a perspective, I really need her to listen to this, thank you!!! ❤ seeing my wife go through this breaks my heart for her and her mother, I try so hard to help her but this really brings a lot to perspective, I am definitely getting this book for her!
@pjones7012
@pjones7012 5 месяцев назад
Thank you so very much for sharing and you do so much that helps others. I keep watching this video and each time I understand more. Thank you.
@robynchittenden7333
@robynchittenden7333 6 месяцев назад
Thank you Megan, im in year 4 now and yes the pain is getting easier to carry, Leo is with me all the time, he helps me with the life im living and often smiles with me, i can feel it.
@Nan-59
@Nan-59 Месяц назад
THIS is exactly how I’ve been feeling.. I’m out 7 months. I’m done. I did ok. Just COME BACK, …N O W !😮😢 please
@chrisg1234fly
@chrisg1234fly 6 месяцев назад
Agree, but where I am different is that i didnt really care about life before my wife, I did all the life things because i was expected to, then she gave me something to care about, almost a goal. Now shes gone, 10 years together, I'm 50 and the whole 'not caring' is back again. I am happy to be unhappy. Sounds crazy, but like you say if its going to go ,it will go, if it doesnt, well thats fine. Her viewpoint was that neither of us could ever be as happy with someone else as we were together......and scarily she was right about a lot of this stuff. BTW, i have inherited many of her 'traits' which is sorta strange. Yes i believe shes there, waiting, knowing that there is a process that we both talked about and then it will be time, as agreed. Love ur vids.
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