I sometimes just stare at Scanty when he’s commenting on issues like these. This guy speaks a lot of sense. The generation today have little to no morals and have now sugarcoated wrong things as the order of the day. Scanty, you speak facts
Very true. Character can never be hidden even from afar. You don't need to cohabit to know your partner. I don't know who is teaching Kelly that mentality. He's totally lost.
People sey what they want know i have married for 16 years and I still learn everyday I find new things about my partner I mean my wife. So if your girlfriend move in with you and you think that will help you to know her better is a lie you can never know everything till you guys get married even that one it's not easy
Marriage is not for two perfect people but two imperfect people who understand each other and are both willing to make it work by adapting to each other.
I know for a fact that adwoa dont mess around even just listening or watching her!! She really understands what relationship means.... n i love her for that!!
I agree with Scanty and Bree Living with your gf or bf is a no ! They take you for granted and whatever they used to do for you they don’t do again. Like they take you out, buy you gifts 🎁 living together they stop everything because they see you everyday. So I don’t think living together as gf and bf is a good idea. 😊
My boss back then lost his place to fire. He wanted to stay with his girlfriend for a week while she got his place back together. The issue was supposed to be simple because he got the apartment for the girlfriend and furnished it with tv, couches, fridge, bed, everything. Charle the girlfriend’s father refused. So he went to stay with his sister. See this life 333rh. The person you even trust to be there for you will show you pepper. Until you’re married to a person, don’t live together under 1 roof. Have some foolish pride for yourself. Because people show you what they want you to see. People dey pretend and lie on a daily.
Scanty is smart ! .. You know most of our problem is the type of women or men we go in for that’s why we feel we should be under the same roof during courtship to actually realize what we anticipated … instinctively speaking there are individuals you have strong intuition if you accept to start a journey with there’s a high possibility it will end in marriage even though they aren’t perfect they will definitely be within target but then you will never choose them
i agree with direct kelly. There're some subconscious things about people you need to know and that is only possible if they move in. But it shouldn't be a long period of time. No one can hide it for a long period of time
I agree with Scanty. Such situations usually end up at Ante Naa on radio😂. Y'all must be serious. What compels you to build your own house when you're already living in a rent-free one?
Staying with someone or not. You can never know someone fully. You get to know what they want you to know. Aside from the basics like how clean or hardworking and so on the person is. You can visit for just few hours and you can also get to know certain things from friends and family. Staying together, naaah In my opinion.
Scanty just says all these for catchy appealing whiles on set ,he does it opposite in real life,just like Sheldon lied to us to fear women and later got himself one😂💔
See, either ways, if it will work, it will if it won't, it won't. Why should you pretend in a committed relationship? If you put a lot of people relationship in one house, those relationships will collapse. It takes a lot of things to stay with someone. Even married people get fed up with each other. This topic is neither here nor there
Our youth is really fucked up oo😂😂😂 why should a woman move in with her boyfriend ( a man your parents may not even know about). I feel it's a disrespect to the woman's parents. Why treat dating like it's marriage?😂😂😂 Whats the meaning of Bride Price?
i am married but listening to your conversation. i want to know by our culture, can a lady leave the parents' house and move in with the boyfriend? we should bear in mind that, there is friendship, courtship and marriage. My stand is that it is very wrong to move in with someone you are not married to and when a comes to your family for a lady's hand in marriage, brings honor to both families.
I even remember director Kelly once said he needs freedom in a a relationship in one of their videos About commitment You can check out what he actually said over there😂scanty is the best ❤
Ebi like Adwoa doesn’t want to draw a distinction between the happenings in relationships and wedlock.😂😂😂😂 She wants to enjoy in relationships as she would in a marriage. Adwoa, you’re warned!😂😂😂 Our little siblings watch.😹🤝
In as much I wouldn't want a partner to stay with you before marriage for valued reasons. But the other guy is making very valued points. The others couldn't defend their opinion
The underlining word is whether it is a "NECESSITY" Before I proceed to make comments we must understand that every individual and the amount of time they need to get to know someone depending on what they look out for in the opposite sex. With that said, the necessity depends on the individual. 1. As Dir.Kelly was saying there are certain attitudes, behaviours or characters that can become obvious when you live under the same roof with the person but that is not the only way you can do so. Involuntarily or unconsciously people become their true self even on phone conversations the only problem is if you are not seeing well or looking out for only the big stuff. 2. If a human being will want to pretend regardless of he or she living with you or not they can actually do so. People can live a lie their whole life and no one gets to find out. So living together is not a guarantee you will know the other person as it may seem. 3. We must also know that the dangers of staying under one roof.
27:40.....scanty poured alot wisdom, that was the basis of his argument from the onset.... there is no dignity in paying a price for something you've already owned...it doesn't even make sense.
If u are still here in 2024 let me get a thumbs up..... After scrolling through the comment section I have come to the conclusion that director Kelly advise should not be taken and scanty's advise should...kudos to scanty and bry for speaking facts❤❤
