Is it selfish for a mom to travel alone? | Japan Vlog

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I was anxious to leave the kids again. Mom guilt is so real and this mother-children setup is so habit-forming that you begin to doubt yourself when you finally find your wings back again. But guess what I realized while I traveled alone? It wasn’t even anything related to mommyhood at all. Well, there are bits. But what I felt deeply about was something that surprised me. Watch and tell me if you’re the same.
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Комментарии : 41

@231moimoi 4 месяца назад

No it’s not selfish. We take care of ourselves so we can give more to our spouse and kids. Love the vlog!

@ruthsarsoza 4 месяца назад

love the realization at the end re husband and kids - that is the design tlga ‘no as ur not meant to be with ur kids forever like ur spouse :)

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio 4 месяца назад

Yes ❤

@bagtalesandmore 4 месяца назад

No! a refreshed and reenergized Mom, will come back a better mom, better wife, better person!

@annajariel3123 4 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing your Japan trip. It gave me a reason to have a time for yourself and not feeling guilty. 🥰

@Ambrose_MTG 4 месяца назад

Thanks for sharing. It's normal to feel anxious about leaving the kids, and mom guilt is tough. I'm glad you got to travel alone and found something surprising about yourself. It's interesting how experiences like that can bring out unexpected feelings. I'd love to hear more about what you discovered and how it made you feel. Just remember, it's okay to take care of yourself and grow, even when you're a mom.

@arkijona_ 4 месяца назад

i did this (first time ever) last year in osaka! 🤪 and honestly i really enjoyed it! 🥰 i was so ready to get lost too! 🤭 i love travelling with my family but going solo is something moms should try too! ❤️❤️❤️

@msjiggsaw 4 месяца назад

I'm a forty-ish mom of five adults. I definitely needed alone time a few hours every week when they were younger. It then extended to a full day each week until finally, my husband allowed me to travel to Canada to be with my family for almost 6 months! It was the breather I needed and made me see that I am more than just a mom (of five). So don't feel guilty. We need to take care of ourselves first before we can care for others.

@mariacorazonperez4934 4 месяца назад

Ms. Rica, your so fortunate to have some me time out of the country but also educate about ASICS brand, I soooooo love ASICS tooool bits…..durable, dependable, sporty w style brand that every one want to have….. and deserve…. So blessed Ms. Rica to be one of the delegates…. Sana all may CHANCE… God bless…

@charevelferranco3349 3 месяца назад

always reflecting on your vlogs. God bless you Ms. Rica.

@cynthialeones307 4 месяца назад

I always look forward to your vlog, so relatable 🙂

@jannelserrano9394 4 месяца назад

Love the realizations at the end of the vid ❤

@christelleviloria3774 4 месяца назад

How I missed your vlogs Really inspiring!

@RalphVincentV.Aquino 4 месяца назад

Welcome back to Vlog Channel Ms. Rica ❤🥰

@GEORGINA1013 4 месяца назад

Happy for you, Rica. Happy birthday 🎁🎂❤

@mayl4440 4 месяца назад

Totally, I agree all your thoughts about it.

@desTINAsyonPH 4 месяца назад

This is it! I miss your vlogs 😢❤

@PascualJ-pq6fj 4 месяца назад

Rebooting ourselves makes up perform better and feel better about ourselves. Cheers!

@marccolomayt82094 4 месяца назад

Happy 40th birthday po dear Rica, best wishes again! ❤❤

@gzeL12 4 месяца назад

I think getting away sometimes is good. Sometimes we denied na we are ok and then we have moments na super overwhelm na pala tau as parent. My hunby and I will be living for begas trip for almost 48 hrs just to be with us again and recharged. Kids will be behind the grandma. And yes we need it to takecare of ourselves so we can takecare of others well

@PINOYSHOWBIZLATEST 4 месяца назад

Wow..enjoy PO!

@longjohntravels 4 месяца назад

I would say to answer the question of the title of the video definitely not selfish! Everyone deserves to have fun and it looked you did certainly have fun. I particularly liked the arts and crafts part.

@spicysummersvlog4834 4 месяца назад

I understand Ms. Rica about dun sa depency na kasama ang husband, parang pag matagal mo kasing hindi ginawa nakakapanibago din talaga. And about sa tanong na is it selfish to travel alone, i think it is not, kasi you are still an individual, a person who needs a break sa everyday routine, and it is called self love so you can give more love and care to your family kasi narecharge ka ulit..

@svbinv09 4 месяца назад

Thats what I was not able to do before being a mom, traveling alone. Now I'm a mom of 2 under 2 and its really difficult especially that I'm working. That's my goal po. Hope I can do that by the age of 40. 😊💖

@epzco591 4 месяца назад

20:20 very well said👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@ast6453 4 месяца назад

im actually feeling this right now. going to europe alone. and the mom guilt is so strong. 😔

@Justminagirl 4 месяца назад

Not a selfish move. Its part of life. 💪

@doriscruz8934 4 месяца назад

Heck, NO! I’m a mom, and travel alone all the time My son is happy for me.

@tingskooshisantos 4 месяца назад

Oo! We so deserve it, sometimes, though! haha...

@celecadaycapili648 4 месяца назад

Hi Rica can you upload more of your journey being a mom and a wife ..

@princesslulu7294 4 месяца назад

No.. me too.. kz gsto q ng me time.. pag ma stress aq sa work magbbook lang me ng flight going to somewhere else den after 3 or 4 days na refresh na yung utak ko.. uwi na ulit tas kinabukasan balık work na ulit😍.. minsan nmn kng available sla lalo na anak q pag vacation edi kmi 3 ng asawa at anak ko magta travel.. pro minsan pag stressed me Ako lang tlga😁.. at masaya nmn alone😍❤️

@DeekuddarulAtaladparaiz 3 месяца назад

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@Angmillie7 4 месяца назад

I always love japanese food kaya gusto ko talagang pumunta ng japan. Dapat May last week but need mg spend ng money for renovation sa c.r and assessment sa anak kay minusan ang budget for jp.😢 so for now ipon ulit. Hopefully by July na ako tutuloy kaya almost lahat ng pinoy vloggers na ng feature ng jp pinanonood ko😂❤ btw count mw in sa 40s❤ love this era.❤

@tanjunelleanne 4 месяца назад

Hi! What's the name of the hotel you stayed at in kobe?

@joancadayona2290 4 месяца назад

Same here, may I know the name of the hotel in Kobe pls? We are planning to go there early next year. Thanks

@RicaPeralejoBonifacio 4 месяца назад

naku i forgot na hahahah will check again

@donateloh6894 4 месяца назад

You'd be judged whether you do anything or not anyway so go ahead and just do it. Everyone is a judge, a critic and even a hypocrite, lalong lalo na ang mga marites. 😅

@quenniebulayo9267 Месяц назад

What IV drip did you get po?

@singko1978 4 месяца назад

It's not coz it's ur rewards for yourself

@reizyryl 4 месяца назад

I don't know but everytime I see u sa church parang angtuyot ng aura mo... I don't know what you're going thru pero wala siguro nasasabi sayo nyan.. need mo mag paka fresh..iwasan ang pagtatalo sa bahay .. kada galit or inis or init ng ulo nakakatuyot yan sis.... Be fresh wag kapapastress sa bahay ang ganda ganda mo pa naman alam mo ba idol na idol kita nung bata pa ko meron pa akong Album mo na kinanta ko nung nagkontesa pa ko.. "we belong together... You and I forever....." "Nothing can keep us apart"...

@GEORGINA1013 4 месяца назад

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