@@teasjab5559 Yeah, he nervously not getting the point and not caring. Despite being nervous, he was still extremely disrespectful and disregarded all the points. He is not dealing well with his reality.
Deshawn seem like a good person to his cousin and it was also proven by the lie detector that he didnt steal Jaramias money but Jaramia doesn’t want to believe that and keeps accusing him of stealing. It sounds like he hates the truth
@@thehoneyeffectblah blah. Two things can be true & when we are adults we are responsible for managing our trauma. That’s a part of growing up. Having an explanation is not having an excuse. He needs to be an adult about his life & if he doesn’t know how, seek help! He can afford it since he’s living rent free and CLEARLY has a strong support system. People with far less are pulling themselves from deeper & more detrimental circumstances.
He’s so annoying! The dude took you in at 15 and you complain about having to help him pay a bill a couple times? GROW UP. Anyone else would put him out, he should be thankful.
Issue here is kids shouldn’t have to “grow up” that fast. I get it’s getting “normalized” but doesn’t mean it’s right. Cause his parents failed him. You should not be required to work as a teen. Causes kids too to grow up quicker than they should. Having a job for spend money as a teenager is different then having a job to help pay bills so you have a roof over your head.
@torry24 At 19 he can't even by a beer, he's still a child. Just because you say he isn't doesn't make it so. Sounds like you need to grow up yourself.
He is 19 now and he needs to stop treating his cousin badly and with disrespect. Sleeping with his close friends in his cousin own bed is intentional hurt. He’s like a dog that bites the hand that feeds him. Calling his cousin a thief, refusing to apologize, disowning him, refusing to apologies, refusing to say that he loves him, and calling him out on his finances when he barely contributes! C’mon boy. His house his rules
I honestly didn't even think there was any money stolen there was no money to begin with. This confused child was trying so hard to be cute but I'm so embarrassed.
Jaramia is disrespectful & don’t nobody want to deal with him so he’s throwing the blame on everyone else his mama messed him up with confusing him by giving him another man’s name and possibly letting another man in his life & he praising her . The Lack of respect he gave his cousin is insane 🙄
Jeremiah is so childish! Mean spirited. Ungrateful. Plays victim like everyone else is the problem when it’s him! They got the same face we all knew they were related lol
I do not think you all are extending Jaramia enough grace, he’s young and dealing with not being accepted and alienated from his father’s side. That would take a toll on any person. He has growing to do and I believe he will. Deshawn seems like a good person to have in your life. I hope he’s appreciative of him.
Thank you Cause what they fail to realize is at 15 being put out and pushed away just makes you put up walls to push others away so you dont have to feel the pain of them walking away again.
When he started bouncing on the sofa the first 2 mins I knew he and his little 18 year old self was full of drama I do hope you could get counseling he is a veryconfused. Young man on every level
Such a shame. It’s really not his fault. He needs to be talking to his mother about the entire situation. And if you and your mom have such a good relationship, why aren’t you living with her?🤔🤦♀️
Honestly, leave this young man alone. This looks like disorganized heartbreak. He’s been through YEARS of core rejection which has formulated his perspective. Grant him grace.
Exactly why I don't help out family or even speak to them now. No thanks. I help YOU out and you slander my name??? He'd come back to ALL his stuff on the lawn and in the middle of the street
I am glad that Karamo said what he said and Im glad that he has his cousin as his keeper. Its self-sabotage and this is hugely symptomatic of people who have experienced neglect as a child and can debilitate growth in every aspect of life. Neglect is a form of abuse, he is a teen and was abandoned 4 years ago, child abuse stunts emotional growth at the age of abuse...he's basically still 15. He needs therapy and healing, not condemnation. I think that many people in this comment section have v little understanding of mental health and it was honestly disappointing reading through many of the unempathetic and ignorant comments. I think he will be ok with help.
This little boy is a mess! Laughing at his dad’s message and then at the DNA results….he’s just a childish kid. Idk how old he is but his mentality screams little kid. He’s out here trying to live as an adult but he’s far from it. He definitely needs to learn accountability when he’s wronged someone.
After being rejected and talked about all your life from one whole side of your literal bloodline its hard to receive genuine love from someone who’s trying to give it to you.. He doesn’t know how to accept it because he was never truly shown what that was. Mom gave him up at 15 but its evident no one on his dad side showed him any love or acceptance. Thats why he wont place any blame on his mom even though she’s kinda at fault as well. Im never leaving my child for 4 years in a place where he isn’t being treated properly. If he wouldve still been with mom, learn how to accept love, him and cousin would have never been in this situation.
Let’s talk about Deshawn. The dude is a good guy and it’s evident he cares and loves his cousin. He’s mature enough to let the hurtful remarks his cousin said about him, his family, and his uncle go and still stand on his bond! He didn’t waver, not once. Still saying I love you. Still saying you my cousin idc. Thats a big thing to do. ❤
This made me cry because, at the end of the day, his cousins still love him through all he put them through it was awesome. I cried, I just hope they can be close and show each other love because it can't be one-sided and I pray that he. Heal from his situation.
I’m glad Karamo went deeper in the end. J needs a good mentor, job, and therapist to help him grow through his challenges. The cousin is solid and grounded and his biggest support. Even his dad is “ showing” that he wants connection. Mom is there. Karamo is a gift.
is he messy? yes. is there a very clear need for acceptance that be directly tied to that? also yes. he’s young yall. if this was a lil girl yall would have way more empathy and if this was a stereotypical straight kid, yall wouldn’t even be able to pinpoint the “messiness”. give the kid a break.
No mess is mess you lgtbqia people love pulling that. That lil boy is messy as hell and really went on national television and tired to paint his cousin who helping him in a negative light.
