There isn't enough content in the world for one person o have their "own" show. They can be the host but they will always bring people in to help fill gaps and offer new commentary. Oprah's show was mostly about who she brought on.
If people can’t handle the truth, they’re really not going to like that brutha. Because he hits you over the head with it constantly. Some of us embrace it, while others consider it assault.
Facts!! One of the most important aspects we all lack is self awareness, but of utmost importance is the understanding of what emotions really are and how it differs from feelings. People always follow their "feelings" and get their "feelings" hurt because they don't understand the true nature or interaction between emotions & feelings, let alone how it makes them behave.
You can tell who is dropping gems, and whose mind is being blown. Overall, it's a good mix for conversation; it just doesn't work when the toxic voices outweigh the reasonable ones.
Finding yourself is the best way to get and maintain any kinda peace. I took years off (willfully single by choice for 5or6 yrs) after a failed marriage. Now I am at ultimate peace because I found me. No stress, no drama, just peace.
Self-awareness saves you a lot of time and energy. Once you know yourself to the core, you can tell if your character, morals, and goals will align with the person you are getting to know. Being self-aware has a depth of perception that supercedes you. It also helps you navigate and sense things intuitively. Again saving you time and energy.
I’ve been in this trip for a minute of self-discovery and writing activities books to help people learn themselves and their own patterns. My last relationship caught me off guard so I had to revisit my own lessons. ☝🏾❤️
I, can not watching these videos. They, help anyone person to look at themselves. It, talks about women and men. This, is so enlightens to me as a older women to hear these kinds of conversations. Just so positive.
Very true. Lots of ppl don’t know themselves and the levels of emotional intelligence they have. It’s crazy to think how many relationships with strangers are made before the person actual knows what they need in another human before feelings progress. Great topic 🔥
One of the main reasons why a lot of people are so desperate to always be in a relationship is because they can't stand the idea of being with themselves. If you love and highly understand yourself, then you are more likely to choose someone who is right for you, and being in a relationship is actually fun, and not a task.
Love this! When you start to expand externally from your internal discoveries, that's when you learn to take more control of your life with your choices and stop blaming everyone else for your lapsed judgment in that specific situation! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 #nickbillions #1percentwisdom
I learned me own seasons and worked on myself. It seemed to automatically fix my relationship as well. Finally got married after 12 years. We are better then ever today.
God gave his chosen ones a will of our own…I believe the brother was also look for the word discernment…discernment of one’s self images before look into/identifying another individual’s
one of the big things comes out of more severe complex trauma is borderline personality disorder and what is the key characteristic of that they can’t regulate their emotions once their fear gets triggered they go from zero to hundred in a ammo second they become irrational and they don’t know how to regulate their emotions so their at a childs ability when it comes to to regulating their emotions so healthy attachment leads to regulation of emotions they’re are so many people suffer from this disorder e anessa
in a relationship there are three stages stage 1 all the beautiful words and actions appear there are no problems and everything is going well this is the time when both partners feel energetic and excited about the future begins stage 2 this is where the difficulties begin you start to notice each others imperfections and argue at the most trivial thing some couples may feel disheartened and consider giving up however this stage can overcome if both partners can work through the difficulties and issues together it’s in this stage that the foundation and compromise begins to fall stage 3 the most beautiful stage this is where real love emerges you have learned to solve problems without shouting or arguing you both know how to treat each other e anessa
you see the self is illusive you can never know thyself. that’s like trying to look directly into your own eyes or kiss your own lips. impossible the self need other just like the back and front go together it’s just what there’s is not.
I get where you're going you need others to reflect you so you know what you will and won't tolerate I think ppl who he's referring too are those with trauma who don't know themselves so they mold to fit others which they pressure themselves to be loved so they destroy their boundaries ppl who are trying to be accepted don't learn the reflection because they are just trying to be accepted
yes it always hurts when we love someone it is because when we love someone we always have expectations of being loved back in the same way we are loving that person when we find that gap between expectations and reality we feel hurt it is really painful when someone doesn’t acknowledge our love the same way we do people tell me this where love is there’s pain you really need to carry both because it can go either way especially this generation there’s a lot of pain out here
right now we are all like rubber bands and it will be our love not our anger that heals the world rubber bands are made to be flexible and to endure just like us this is where we are we are made to endure to be flexible now pull again and they did again and again one teacher even used her free hand to block her face we can endure hard seasons we can absorb change be flexible and stretch ourselves further than we thought imaginable but not forever lest we break for my staff in that meeting and for many of us in our lives we don’t see and end in sight largely because the problems and issues are far bigger than us and we can’t do anything about it what we can do however is show grace to ourselves and to others you are trying your best the woman next to you is trying her best the kiddos in your classroom is trying their best and your boss is trying his best but we can only stretch so far and for many of us we are walking fearful that with the next request or burden to bare we will break we can solve most of the problems the people around us are asked to endure but we can give them and ourselves some grace which in the end might be the only thing that holds us together
The take home lesson is that people need to be aware of their emotional SPC charts 😂🤣. What are your UCL and LCL ? If you dont have that personal understanding then youre liable to be outside of your controls and out of spec.
Tripp be finding the way to say the most obvious shit ever. Its not a reflection of him, its a reflection of society. To have to be the person to find ways to say "To have a good relationship you need to be a good person" to full grown adults is insane.
being single gives you a wonderful opportunity to figure out what truly makes you happy and gives you the perfect chance to get to know yourself better being single grants you the time and freedom to do whatever you want on your own schedule and allows you to put your needs desires and ambitions above all others not being in a relationship will help you realize and understand that your happiness does not have to depend on someone else’s presence you need to be able to be happy alone first and love yourself in order to give your love to someone else and have a successful relationship
Where was the lie?! It’s lacking in most people, b/c they simply avoid criticism & don’t self-reflect or seek therapy soon enough to catch these toxic behaviors before they become personality & reputation.
Not gonna lie. When he says people don’t know “how much space they take up” I don’t know what TF he’s talking about. Sounds like some frackle-knackle psycho-babble bullsh**. 😂
What he's saying is that people attempt to move into relationships without knowing how much impact their own attitudes and behaviors have on the people around them. It's like a man driving a full-sized Cadillac Escalade trying to parallel park without understanding how large his vehicle is relative to the space he's trying to park into. When he bumps into the other cars, he thinks "they parked wrong."
He’s preaching to me. 🩷💯😮💨 I now know myself as a woman and what I want for myself in order to be happy and healthy mentally. I wasn’t like this in my previous relationships. I’ve been single for almost 3 years and I had a lot of self reflecting to do.
