Honestly, also managing money properly! We are a family of 9 and one income family. We homeschool our kids are 1 to 17 and our food/home need budget is $800 to 1,000. We are mindful about our family activities, what we purchase, and we fix things rather than tossing and rebuying. My husband fixes our cars, many times builds our furniture, or we purchase furniture second hand. We take two long distance road trips a year together. We save and make wise money choices. Sometimes we just need to be more mindful about our blessings.
As a female that has seen 100’s of all color pilll content, I can assure you that this is not redpill at all. This conversation has been the most biblically solid masculine/feminine teaching I have heard. Keep it up!
I was a walking wreck when I met my husband. Took him through the ringer and back and we've stuck it out and put God first and cleaned things up. 11 years married now to my best friends with two boys. He said he stuck around because beneath the pain he saw a human being that he always saw as resilient and he cared for. This man y'all. Keep speaking this truth!
Okay but your wife is right about the laundry thing.... there is a certain way to fold things so that everything is organized in the drawers so you know exactly where everything is. It's just a thing. As a SAHM of 5 young kids, my systems are what help keep me sane.
@One Man I disagree. There are certain jobs that a man takes on that a woman does not and for him to do it best, he has to do it in a way that makes sense to him because it will impact him the most. In those cases, the wife should accept that way of doing things. It might not be the way that she would do it but regardless it is the way that it will get done. It is the same with certain jobs that women take on especially if they are also the ones that take on the primary role in that area and then are the ones primarily impacted by the way the job is done. If the woman is the one who primarily dresses the children, her system is what should be followed when it comes to folding laundry.
Marriage is a bad state contract that cucks men of their rights and legal protections by giving women full power over all his possessions as well as the ability to rip away the children at a moment's notice because she needs to find herself.
I have always enoyed Zack’s perspective. He definitely pushes Ruslan back in the best way. Most of those times of pushback from Zack is exactly what I would be thinking (ie the whole virgin male crisis thing) He’s Definitely as asset.
I don't think people get it. No woman's going to hell BECAUSE they worked. No man's going to hell BECAUSE he couldn't make enough to support his family. We were given 10 rules for how to conduct ourselves here, on Earth. We were given no rules for getting into heaven... because we can only be saved.
“BOSS BABE” IS MY FAVORITE LINE FROM THIS CHANNEL 😂 shoutout to you and the team for promoting biblical manhood and holding men accountable to treat these women righteously and highlight their amazing qualities through our spiritual development and leadership in society
I love that I was able to be home with my children. When they went to school, I did also, and my husband encouraged that. However , I didn't work until they went to school, and I was home by the time they came home. I wouldn't have made it without him. We are a team . We are going to be married for 21yrs now and together 23yrs. We always put God first. Our children were raised in the church, and it wasn't an option.
I thought the same thing, when he talks it makes logical sense to me. Why would you push men not to marry? Then we’d continue the cycle of fatherless woman 🤷🏽♀️ while also pushing people to live in sin(most men will still be having sex) or do they just not want kids all together which would push the de population agenda. Very strange.
@@BlessGodStudios question how is it S.I.G.N language? Hafeez was literally rude and overtalking and never answered a direct question. God or Christianity isn't the ultimate authority in state sponsored marriage, that was the topic that was debated.
@@ghost_illmatic Bingo. I like him, but he wasnt too fair in the debate to CGA, & went off on some tangents rather than addressing the points directly. Same as the JustPearlyThings interview, but anyone "anti red pill" will clap their hands, amen & crown him champion since they're biased toward him.
You know what caused the gradual downfall of the Church and in a macro sense Christianity? It's when the masses began to gag 🤐🤫 the Church for sharing uncomfortable truths and the Church caved in to the external pressure of societal norms into apologizing for the truth. The most sobering realization I personally encountered is: When you take a stand for something you will at some point be misunderstood by some or many. It has been very liberating to accept this. Jesus our Saviour was misunderstood and misrepresented by His own Judean Community, and still He continued His ministry. 🙌🏾 Barakha 🌾✊🏾 Salema 🙏🏾💯
This is an interesting convo, I feel like women who get offended by the “boss babe” concept are offended because they feel like you’re coming for their purpose/dreams in life.
I am a 23 year old mom, before I got married I thought starting a career and working is very important to me - never did I think that a baby would change that desire. I do enjoy working, like proverbs 31 describes a women providing for her family - but in a much different way than the man. After having a baby, I cannot imagine leaving her at a daycare and not being with her, I would 100% much rather be at home, not matter the cost. When another human comes into your life, it really changes everything and for the best. Sacrificing and caring for a helpless human is the greatest calling I have ever had - not chasing a career that in the end wont mean much. Applauding everything discussed in this video 👏
You know you can walk and chew gum at the same time right? You can still want a career and want marriage and children, you just have to talk to your husband and see where it fits in both of your lifestyles,and you can make the decision together, at the end of the day,you are going to have to have an income to fall on, your husband can die or you can go on separate ways,are you going to not have any financial stability until you get married again?. Women ,life is not made of two boxes where you have to choose one, and you are blessed to have a husband that can afford to have you stay home and attend to your child until he comes home and contributes to his part of child rearing , not everyone has that luxury, so you wouldn't be able imagine,because you are not given that situation,but when you are given that situation,you will imagine that.
@@purplelove3666 Did you actually read my comment? Where did I say that I don't have a job? Where did I say that I "have the luxury of staying home"? Where did I say that I dont have a career? No where, I actually work 2 jobs, on top of being a full time mom. My husband also works full time. In my comment, I am saying that my desires changed greatly when another human came into our lives which I think is a great thing. As a believer, I want my desires to change to be God's desires. Discipling another human is the most important calling in my life and I will do anything I can to be the one to guide, lead, and teach my child. I believe more women's desires should change to cater their children and family - not their own successes. Chasing success is completely different than doing what is necessary for your family.
Christianity is the only true red pill content. The blood of Jesus IS the red pill. I think what you're sharing on true masculinity is massively important in our generation, and anyone who disagrees doesn't understand the full implication of effeminate men. The word pattern comes from an earlier etymology of "patron" or "pater", which means "protector, defender, advocate, model". The Heavenly Paternal figure- God- is the Pattern through which all things have been fashioned, ESPECIALLY man who is made in this image. Society is growing further away from God and simultaneously emasculating men with wrong ideology, malnutrition, and xenoestrogen toxins which boost estrogen and lower testosterone. Satan has a specific agenda against men because this is the foundation of the family. The Paternal is the pattern, the maternal is the material. So the Father leads and acquires resources, then the mother stewards and sustains the resources. The destruction of the family unit is rooted in this godlessness and emasculation of men, then taken to the next level with feminism, liberalism and LGBTQ ideology. We need Godly, masculine men to help restore the pattern and strong uniformity. Keep it up Ruslan!! Satan wants people to think all of this is just "red pill" so Christians don't even pay attention to its importance 🙏
Thanks Ruslan we really need your voice in this male space. I am witnessing Christians following redpill content. I've seen the redpill encourage divorce for one of my good Christian male friends. So pls speak on we NEED YOUR VOICE!
I appreciate this episode so much. For a long time I thought my and my husband had it wrong that I had to be a boss b*** or I wasn’t being a good wife for the house hold by not being one. Before anyone comments, my husband never encouraged me to be one, he would say, that’s not the kind of women/wife he wants. But unfortunately watching tv and movies , it’s not what’s put out there for us to see.
I 100% agree with you, Ruslan. Def would rather be home with my daughter. But I'm a single mom so I can't. And loved the clip with the woman speaking. She was spitting 🔥
I've got a CDL, not an owner/operator, I make $65k-$70k a year which is really good for just punching a clock and driving. The area of the country I live in, that is 1.5 x the average. I'm cool with that
Hey ruslan….this was a much needed video! I will say tho, when you say that women are “usurping” men’s incomes the connotations leans heavily on unlawfully taking or forcefully taking men’s income. So, I kinda understand where the commenter was coming from. Also, there was a video that you did with Allen Parr where I specifically remember him applying nuances to the conversation about black women wanting a husband that is a provider but are forced to become ambitious educated pillars within the community for the community ( I can’t remember verbatim what he said but those were his sentiments in response to the conversations about women choosing ambition above family)
I love my mother was a stay at home mom. Literally save my life when a man attempted to kidnap me at age 5. I desire to be the same when I have a child. There is a time and place for everything! If it’s not for you then listen and receive what applies to you and moves on. No one is saying women should be destitute and poor. The Bible is clear on gender roles let that be your standard. Not Ruslan, social media, society, or a movement, but the word of God.
As a married 38 year old man. I don't want a boss babe and I don't want a meek woman. I need a Dynamic woman who can be what she needs to be when she needs to be it. If It's my birthday and she wants to be sexy for me and meek she can do it, but I also want her to be able to turn up and hold it down if she needs to. And that is what most women are. They are Dynamic and have both sides in them just like men do. As human beings we can all be gentle and soft at different times as needed then we can also become monsters if need be, and everything in-between. The problem is too many people with too little experience are having conversations just because it's trending on the Internet and none of these people have really put too much thought into it and they try to oversimplify an extremely complex subject with so many moving parts. Because every single man you ask has a different ideal woman in their head with different levels or boss babeness & meekness, so there is no right answer everyone is different. And there's someone for everyone literally. All people are unique and all combinations of relationships are unique.
Like I used to say to my pals... don't marry cute, marry character. Just as quality is important to a fruit, character is just as important to an individual (man or woman)
It just comes down to logic. God is logical. Problem/scenario: Someone has to stay home with the kids Solution/Best practice: Women are wired to Nuture and are healing from having a child and are equipped to nurse and be gentle with child as a feminine being. Therefore, it makes logic sense from generation to generation for women to be care takers of little people and home.
Before I had my child I believed what you said in your comment. It isn’t true. Women have to be taught to be nurturing. They are not taught to be this anymore with some rare exceptions. We have all seen there is an epidemic of mothers who clearly don’t care about their children or how they are raised. You can say YOU are nurturing as is my wife but this is not the norm and should not be made out to be. Look up any child statistic you like. Test scores, teen drug use, out of wedlock births, teen crime. Women are directly at the heart of the cause of this. Women can afford to be naive about this fact but men cannot. Men need to be vigilant and don’t just assume a woman cares about his legacy (his child) because “nurturing is in her dna”. Either it’s in a woman’s dna and they have found a way to override it in mass or that caring nature is learned and a good mother teaches her daughter to be. This is one of the many harsh truths a man learns when he takes the red pill. Personal responsibility , self improvement for one’s self first and foremost, and not becoming a victim of a broken system is what the red pill is all about. Anyone who says anything different is lying.
@@rjames4497 Thank you for your reply. I agree. We must all be taught. That is why God tells us He is our Father, Jesus is The Teacher and the Holy Spirit is a wonderful counselor. As it is with all of us, we must be taught. Train up a child in the way he should go so that when he is old he will not depart from it (Proverbs 22:6). Again in the Bible we see teaching emphasized in Titus 2 (Older men teach the younger men…older women teach the younger women…). The very word disciple means learner. So we agree teaching is necessary. Still the wiring and ability is there and is uniquely designed for male and female. To further expound on my original point, I’m talking about wiring, as in original design by God aside from the fall of sin and immaturity and immorality. I am highlighting the essence of the female design as evidenced by our biological makeup. As I like to call it when I became a mom the first time, I met the mother version of myself - that mother aspect was within me and in some ways developed (matured from other life experiences) and there were many ways I was absolutely not and had to surrender my will and learn to care and think in a completely new way. Nonetheless, I knew no matter how inadequate I felt due to my inexperience or previous thinking, God had created me to do this as a female - to be a mother, to be a nurturer, the wiring was in there, I had to learn to become what God had intended. I hope that makes better sense as to what I said earlier. I also hope it tenderizes you to extend grace to other men and also women who are struggling to mature and become the better versions of themselves that God intended. Both males and females have to mature and develop and learn to be who God created us to be. On another note, I do respectfully disagree with your sentiments on putting the central responsibility on women for the fall of youth and society in the particular ways you mentioned. The ways Women are broken have contributed and so have broken men. If we are completely honest there are many nuances at work. If I can be truly transparent I honestly get very sadden how men of the red pill community are eager to fault find women and bypass the glaringly obvious responsibilities men bear in the fall and the redemption of the family - My point: men were created to be heads of households and thereby as leaders they do in fact hold the lions share of the responsibility of correcting the ails of the community. If we look at leaders of any organization, a solid leader will take responsibility for the success and failure of the organization. So it is quite disheartening and baffling how such “aware” men can’t see how they have had the power and abused it and they also have the power to course correct but rather shame and blame women. Again, a solid leader will accept fault and look within to access what he can do to turn things around. A solid leader will not fault the subordinates for not following or trusting him. A solid leader will figure out the problem in his leadership, re-establish trust and rebuild should things be going amiss. And they are. So I say that in an effort to empower men to see their potential to lead us all to a better place and it’s not finger wagging women. It’s taking a humble servant leadership posture and getting things turned around. Men are the head of households and should act as such. So if you want women to be better. If you want women to submit. Lead well. Love well. Teach well. Serve well. And you will see a turn around in the family from the head down. That is how it works. The power is yours. And lastly…Fingering pointing did not work for Adam in the garden of Eden and it will not work for men of today. God will ask men to give an account of how they lead their homes. He will examine their hearts and hold them accountable to His standard. Of course God will do this for us women too. So the best thing a man or leader can do today is look at the man in the mirror, humble himself, submit to God, and become a Godly man worth following. Repent (of being absent from homes, misusing women for selfish sexual pleasure, defiling your own bodies and being immodest, abandoning the post of head of home for selfish ambition etc.) should it apply for those men. Teach other men how to submit to God too. Teach them to lead well and love well. Aspire to be like Jesus. And should the male find a wife, be ready to love and die for her like Christ loved and died for His church so that he could redeem her and present her flawless. If she isn’t your wife, treat her as a sister and not a potential hook up or not. More brotherly and sisterly love is needed between men and women. Be gentle. Be kind. Teach philia love before sexual love when men see women first and foremost. We are co-heirs in Christ and not enemies. Let’s build each other up and correct gently when we see each other stumbling. What you focus on expands. Focus on a woman’s potential righteousness rather than her current ratchetness and how you as brothers in Christ are able to help redeem her to a Godly being by your example and words of truth. Respectfully, I hope this is well received. Blessings.
Women in the workforce has altered the perception of many men that having a wife means that they don't need to provide, that being a provider has now become optional. Which in many respects has factored into a lot of women adopting a more masculine state of mind. Ultimately, this creates an impasse for both men and women.
I think one reason some women are not responding well to this type of content is because we’re sick of hearing submit submit submit constantly as if everything that goes wrong at home will be fixed if only we submit enough. I’ve been Christian since I was 6 years old, waited for marriage, married at 20 and just had my 22 year anniversary. I have submitted myself into the ground in my lifetime. And I know the reaction will be nO oNe tOlD yOu tO dO tHaT… but yes they did and it wasn’t society, it was my Christian leadership, Christian in laws, Christian husband and Christian friends. Great example when you said when a woman gets a raise it’s hard for her to still understand her husband is the head. I’m sorry but when a woman gets a raise it is often HIM who becomes insecure and starts being mean to make himself feel more dominant. Yet I’ve never heard that addressed, only her all the time always, she needs to submit that explains everything all the time always. Instead of promoting modern stereotypes as Christian, how about focus on real Christian principles like humility and kindness no matter what your exact home life is like. Nothing in biblical times comes close to resembling a modern stay at home wife. 1950s propaganda isn’t Christianity. Our relationship with God is in our hearts not in confirming our life to a modern ideal.
All of this is overwhelming for me. There are things I am very confused about or currently do not agree with as being feminine. One is that men seem to have a spectrum of masculine traits. That is some men are more masculine then others so it is a spectrum. Of these Ruslan touches on which are emotions. He said that men are encouraged to talk about their emotions more and he portrays it as a bad thing. I don't think encouraging men to talk about or understand their emotions is a bad thing at all, let alone biblically. Many times when we don't talk about our emotions and need to men just either do not do it or even understand how to say it. I've seen this lead to major communication issues with both my parents and my relationship with my dad as I would like to know how he feels but no dice and the lack of understanding causes fighting. Yes, the call to have self-control and understand time and place is key but that is a command for both men and women which at best to be done in different ways but it's not just men or women but both. If one guy does not have much emotion on stuff that's fine but if he does have more emotions isn't that also fine so long as it's not uncontrolled or wrong place or time? Some men are just naturally more sensitive than others and if they can still follow God and do what needs to be done despite it, that is they learn to not be cowardly or anything like that I don't think it's bad. And while it is true that say that women going to work is fine and not wrong and should not make their career their life, they also go and say that women you know would be or should be at home more, many times outside marriage. Women should not make working their life and this should also apply to men, right? As a man we are not defined by a career nor is a career the ultimate fulfillment. But I guess the ultimate context of the discussion is that women they are being told that the ultimate fulfillment is a career and housewives who are moms are being shamed. I still don't get why you would say a housewife to a spouse who has no kids still has to stay home and cannot work as that one still made its way in and is put in the same category as kids. But I'm just a guy who has more feminine traits as in I'm emotional and sensitive and always have been and probably will still be afterward. Is that a sin then? To be more sensitive or emotional? Beyond just self-control yea but everyone needs that so what should you do to not feel things.
Basically, if the shoe don't fit, don't put it on. They can't sit there an cover EVERY SINGLE exception and caveat. They're talking about a specific type of woman. Don't be so quickly offended. Hear the out first at least.
what about women who work because it's something they are passionate about? Maybe said female as a husband that is more than capable of taking care of her but she is for instance a nurse and is passionate about helping others, should she just throw that away because of marriage and babies?
The only woman in my house I am exhausted higher expectations, i work 35 hours a week, i cant keep up, my son has been my saving grace, I remind him what a wonderful husband he will be one day😊 Its my partner, male, who doesn't contribute enough. Im raising my son right.😊
Honestly I am from a third world country as you would say My father is a retired veterinarian now and my mom she's been the best both my parents are amazing My mom also does a small business but she's a very feminine woman and hardworking it doesn't matter how old she is now and experience pain in her 50s , she's still able to do everything that a mom and wife can do. My mom is definitely the strongest woman or person I know maybe second to my old man she lift things I can't and I workout everyday we are also a conservative Christian family my mom never completed school because she had to dropout and help support her younger siblings to finish school and provide food but she's very intelligent she's not gullible Also their 6 of us in my family I'm the 5th born 9 years age difference between me and my older brother
The difference between beautiful and hot is class….hot+class= Beautiful. take a hot girl and then wipe all of her stripper makeup off take her stripper clothes off and then put her in a classy outfit like she’s going to a presidential ball and then do her make up like she’s a Queen of a country, and not a Kardashian, and she will look beautiful instead of hot. It’s literally all in how woman carries herself… hot is what you see in pornography. Beautiful is what you see in a bride on her wedding day…. A hot woman could become beautiful, and a beautiful woman could become hot. It’s really down to the level of class that they have, and how they carry themselves.
"I dont want any man or any women to be alone" FIRE. The first thing God said was NOT GOOD in Scripture was it is NOT GOOD FOR A MAN TO BE ALONE GEN 2-3
I was blessed enough to stay home the first 8 years of my sons life. I wish I could have stay home with him. I FeeL like I've missed so much in 4 yrs, as well as he, missed out on being mothered.
The Red Pill brought a dose of reality to the lives of many Christian men who were brought up on Focus on the Family-type teaching about marriage and relationships. Men were told that if they just communicated a lot, were nice, and treated women very carefully then she would respect that and open up sexually to the man. This works in reality only if the woman is strong and secure. The Red Pill stated the obvious truth that many women have a natural and sinful side to them, or a hidden side to them that desires deep down to be with a man that exhibits “dark triad” personality traits at least in some form. The Red Pill told men to not listen to what Christian women say, but actually observe who they admire in the books and movies they indulge in (as seen in content such as the Notebook, Pride and Prejudice, 50 Shades etc). Christians should look to scripture (to “treat their wives according to wisdom”). Much of the Red Pilled community is recommending nothing less than the dissolution of the family unit, which would be catastrophic for the West and only result in nihilism and the advancement of liberalism. But this does not mean that Christians should totally disregard some of the valid points that Red-Pillers have made.
I personally think that I had or have made bad decisions in life. It was not on me now I feel responsible for the man I created and also left after I found Jesus
I’m lost I believe in Jesus I had a beautiful daughter her father was emotional verbal and became physical so I allowed my daughters grandma to help so my daughter wouldn’t see it he won’t go I love to have a husband who loved me where is he bec 14 years I’m done so it’s easy to judge
Been on vacation (a “boss babe” needs a break at times 👍🏾) and just decided to scroll some social media and this looks like the episode that I knew was coming for a while, given the direction I’ve noticed that Ruslans been going in. Haven’t checked it out yet (about to). But I do have to lament that as usual, this is another conversation about “modern women” without actually having a conversation with one. Except this time, it seems you’re having a conversation about a female listener’s comments - which is a step in the right direction if you’re really looking for nuance about these issues. And it just so happens that women are better experts on women’s issues than men are 😮, so I’m glad you’re doing this… This will either be intriguing or disheartening to listen to, but I already agree with the commenter that said that your content is actually turning off some of your female viewership. (And yes, we love Jesus too, some of us with all our hearts.) also notice that your comments are filled with a lot of red piller “Christians” that appreciate your content, which is always a dagger to Women like myself who’ve been hurt by those men. Sometimes I wonder if women like myself - “boss babes”, changing the world in corporate and submitted to Christ while we’re at it - are not really welcome on your channel. Sometimes I wonder if you’re actually trying to position yourself as a Christian redpill-lite channel and I just missed the memo on the announcement. No offense. But then … maybe none taken..🤷🏾♀️ … anyways Lemme check out the actual video now lol
Tbh brother, you have great content and I love it. It’s really mature wisdom getting communicated. I think if ur thumbnails were different ppl wouldn’t make such large assumptions they can’t get past w/o listening to what ur actually saying. The thumbnails make it seem like u doin something ur not.
The problem is we do not know what to pray for God tells us in his word that we do not know what to pray for but that the holy spirit makes intercession for us according to his will so concerning the subject and to come straight from the word.
"The knight is a man of blood and iron, a man familiar with the sight of smashed faces and the ragged stumps of lopped-off limbs; he is also a demure, almost maidenlike, guest in a hall, a gentle, modest, unobtrusive man. He is not compromise or happy mean between ferocity and meekness; he is fierce to the nth and meek to the nth. The man who combines both characters - the knight - is not a work of nature but of art; of that art which has human beings, instead of canvas or marble, for its medium.“~Cs Lewis. The Christian knight in my estimation is the end goal of manlyness. The knight became the gentleman in our age.
Lust not after her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids. 26 For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adultress will hunt for the precious life. Proverbs 6:25-26
As a women married 35 yrs mother of 3 young men .the first time my 22 yr old brought up Andrew Tate , in a video he had seen. I amedietly did a deep dive , found the whole "Red Pill" mesosphere. actually it lead me to you. I Definitely would not put you in the red pill category, you are what we need . I agree with you , the red Pill do talk about main issues , but their solution are WAY Off . Thank you and keep being the alternative that we need.
Men are watching pornography and start at the age of 10. This is destroying hetrosexual relationships as men are expecting women to perform sexaul acts. Fathers need to talk about porn with their sons. Our society emulates porn in everyway.
True but women get train ran on them from age 13…. That is the bit that people won’t tell in church because they don’t want to offend anyone. True story. I am alway flabbergasted by Christian women sexual past.
I mean let’s be real. A nanny like 30$ an hour. Deliver groceries once a week and u got a nanny 8 hrs a month. It ain’t that cra. Or higher the kid in youth church to come clean and give ‘em 100$ a month.
I think a point that is not being talked about as much is our society’s hyperfocus on material goods. People say they “can’t” stay home, but what they really mean is they can’t afford the house that’s bigger than what they need, two cars, nice clothes, vacations, etc. unless both people are working.
I have been lied to. My career has taken a backseat since having my daughter. When I was growing up as a child, my dream was always to be a house wife to take care of my husband and our children. That slowly changed when I was constantly told that going to school, getting a degree to work a high paying job is what would be fulfilling. I have been living that but now, all I want to do is be a stay at home to take care of my child, my husband and my home. I am prayerfully hoping that God blesses my husband's work for us to be able to do that. Especially nowadays with how they are indoctrinating kids in public schools.
Outward appearance is the least important factor ... among the important factors. Don't chase that 10, but don't try to force it with that 3, either. A great personality and shared values aren't going to "make up" for it if you find her ugly. You'll end up making a fool of both of you.
Can someone enlighten me on what is meant by "red pill" or "red pill community" in the context of this video? I have always thought of the "red pill" community as those aware of the Truths in reality that are not widely accepted by mainstream culture.
I’ll start by saying I agree with 95% of what is said on this show, so I’m on your side. That being said, I have an honest question to see if anyone has insight. It was mentioned that now women are usurping income from men. I have also heard it said that men aren’t active leaders in some churches because women have stepped up to do more (I believe out of necessity). Why does it seem implied that men can only succeed if women step aside? Why not come along side each other?
Unless we start getting into arranged marriages, I don’t see how a man can get know a women before finding out if he’s attracted to her. How do we even start talking?
It’s more of a matter of self control. I don’t think the solution is to pretend or not acknowledge that you’re attracted to a person. Truthfully speaking that’s how we dictate who we even want to speak to or are interested in wanting to know better. As a man, you can get to know if you are attracted to her by practicing self control, and actually getting to know her, asking great questions and establishing proper boundaries so that you don’t end up progressing with her based on physical attraction alone. I feel that’s the summation of what Ruslan when he says don’t pursue based upon her being hot. Without self control , physical and mental boundaries, you will move based simply on lust and that won’t help you to discern if she’s actually a good woman for you. Lust will have you seeking what will lead to a “good time” not necessarily a strong marriage. It is self control and diligence that will push you to seek those qualities first before committing emotionally . Lust can be a giant blinder.
@@Truthispower200 thank you for this eloquent comment. I agree with you and I would also say that men can be very logical when it comes romantic pursuits. How she looks is a big factor and you notice that immediately. I don’t think going initially for looks would strongly lead to fornication or lust. Some men want the hot young lady who has a good head on her shoulders, great relationship with her father and and is a disciple. Both can be there, it just seems like the narrative is for men to pick between the 2 and one of the options is bad. She can be a baddy with good character. All baddies don’t dress lowly.
People need to be willing to take time to get to know people....instead of looking to slap a label on them.....that is what is missing....get to know people in depth.....
When you began to start speaking on Redpill stuff, from what I saw, about 6 months ago, I knew this day would come. When Kevin Samuels started his youtube channel, he wasn't "dunking" on women. In fact, KS spoke mainly to young men and if you watch the videos, he was extremely hard on men, called them all types of derogatory names about their weight, their income, their social status. But, KS eventually changed his tune because he realized the problem was not with the majority of men but the majority of women. He started speaking to women and what he heard was what he eventually started doing shows on. The problem wasn't men wanting the "baddies" because men still dated average and even unattractive women. It was the women who were demanding the top 1% to 5% of men. It was the majority of women being promiscuous with a select top % of men. It's the income gap fallacy. While the CEOS of the fortune 500 companies are majority men, the bottom 50% of income are majority men as well. I knew the feminist who have long infiltrated the church would attack you, accuse you of being a redpill misogynist , and push back on the entire narrative, trying to debunk that men are struggling. Just because the CEO is a man, the top 1% doesn't mean the bottom 80% of men have it easy. What KS found out as well was that the average man was not only incapable of attracting the majority of women, but that man was actually "invisible" to women. The most elucidating KS interview was one titled, "Candid Conversation with “Born Again Virgin” Christian Feminist." If you have the time, I suggest you watch it to get a look at the average Christian woman. Women say there are no men, but what they mean is simple: there are no men "good enough" for her. There are men. There are average guys around her, guaranteed. She doesn't see them as worth anything though. They're invisible to her. I hope you don't back down and continue to look into the redpill community. Their prescription of men fighting back with more promiscuity, more licentiousness, more debauchery isn't it and won't help anything. Redpill guys need Christian influencers. Hafeez and the roommates have lost the algorithm. They're getting 2-3k views for some reason, I'm not sure. Goodluck on this. I will contribute what I can financially. Women may not listen to you, but men need Christian influencers who are not preaching from a pulpit. Don't get me wrong, Christian men need pastors but they also need discipleship from successful men who have navigated this world. I have much more to say, but I've already written a novel here.
No ks himself said in one of his old videos prior to becoming larger that when he makes videos about holding men accountable most people don't watch or interact with it. However, when he does for women that's what gets the engagements. Not to mention studies showing that there is a rise in single lonely men due to lack of emotional intelligence and other none tangible things that makes a relationship work that most Guys refuse to work on themselves about. I personally believe both men and women have a lot to work on, however these studies of some young men clearly going down hill in relationships are due many podcasters popping up telling men it's always only the women's fault. How does that actually encourage healthy dynamics between the two people in a relationship. Both genders are responsible for the trash state that relationships are in today we have a lot to work on. JP said yes women are picky, the #1 reason women are picky is because no woman wants to have a child with a emotionally absent and financially incapable man that would only cause their offsprings to suffer. It's a natural thing all females animals in the animal kingdom does. JP also pointed out that when men start to not get access to women they tend to become more violent, we see this being displayed largely in society today. What those kind of content from ks and the likes actually did is infantilised men making them think they are or should be entitled to a woman just because they like that woman. Back in the day when women couldn't work theirs fathers won't even give their daughters over to a Guy that can't afford to provide for her equal to or better than the dad could or have been providing for her.
Naw. KS was a hedonist- look how he died. Also bashing women is much more profitable and that is why he did it. Yes he told some truths- but these are obvious truths to anyone with common sense. Moreover it's NOT the fault of women y'all are failing at life and relationships. Just saying.
Redpill is extremely good advice at its core. But the movement has been over run with bottom of the barrel men who are full of anger towards women because they can’t get any. But all the stop playing video games and go to the gym and focus on your career and investing advice is great and anyone who says it’s not is full of crap….. but when it comes to women, it’s like the whole red pill thing is blaming everything on women… they are literally like the male equivalent of modern feminist who believe the opposite sex is to blame for everything. At the end of the day it is mostly bottom of the barrel type of dude who struggles with women just being discontent with their life, focusing their anger at women, the same way that feminist are usually bottom of the barrel women focusing their anger at men. Like any movement the most upset and angry people are always the loudest and end up representing the movement overtime. I think red pill started off as some tough love reality based stuff for young men in a world where everyone tells everyone they’re special and great a lot of young men needed to hear the hard truth and now I think they just want everyone to hear the hard truth and it is just gotten out of control and it is literally just become a fire hose of sad male anger directed at women mostly by men who have very little experience with women themselves who are angry about stories they hear about or saw on social media but very few of them has actually experienced any of the stuff they complain about themselves. because men who actually get out in the real world and date women understand that they’re talking about a very specific type of women usually, and it does not apply to the majority of women in the real world. they focus on a small percentage of women that usually basketball players, rappers and rich guys are dealing with aka gold diggers and strippers and onlyfans woman not regular women. So much of the stuff that they talk about in regards to women does not apply to the vast majority of women. But it works because most of the community has little to no experience with women, and they believe it all.
@@mynameis......23 I was being facetious. But you can keep your chauvinism Doesnt affect me. People are allowed their feelings. Even if sinful and wrong.
The true beauty of a woman is truly found within her character her heart her mind the depths of her innermost being. you can have a beautiful Woman externally but if it is joined with a shallow mind in heart then the beauty is pretty empty and vain. but the internal beauty of the woman the purity the innocence. And which can captivate draw the heart towards love and that true love companied with her internal beauty of her mind and heart gives proper perception emphasis reflection and magnification depth and genuineness to an of her beauty. Only shallow base guys bound to their base passions appetites and perceptions pursue and perceive a woman solely for the exterior decoration.
How come some types of women and men are more prone to be put places where they are hurt and used and that seems to be okay to everyone (or many) else?
