ISFJ tier-ranking the 16 personalities 

I am not surprised, my esfj sister is the best at planning events and she is currently planning her wedding. Her infp futur husband has been given a single task and she half expect him to fail at it😂

How lovely.. My ESFJ aunt probably plan her own wedding, assisting my another aunt's wedding, my cousin's wedding, always in charge at every family gathering.. They have such a good traditions taste and warm welcoming manner in planning any gathering occasion that hugs everyone's souls.. I love her, but as a blunt INTJ I might give her some near-heart-attack-triggering manner from time to time which I pretty much regretted even if she being really forgiving..

@@iwa2028 I'm an ESFJ and I would defintely not let anyone else plan my wedding if I ever reach this stage. I'd only collaborate with a ExTJ it they were my future spouse.

@@kevinlulu6683 i know.. It's probably a good thing that my aunt is the only ESFJ we have lol So she can have her freedom to be in charge..

Planning a wedding would be my nightmare - INTP

Her line was so spot on. If I got married, I wasn't even going to plan my own. Get a friend to get one of those online certs to marry us, go out some place pretty in nature with our friends/family, then go to a park for a potluck reception. Everyone can bring a dish instead of a wedding gift. I'm sure the bridesmaid and best man can coordinate so that we don't end up with five casseroles but no plates and forks. And if we do, one of them can make a run to the store, it's really not that deep. Do that for me instead of buying some ugly bridemaid's dress you'll never be able to wear again. I just have never seen the point of wasting so much money and effort on a wedding.

@@SatipatthanaSakuraDragona Gosh I admire you guys INTP in your own ways. But for this specific reason, I hope to never marry you ~ESFJ.

Aren't ISTPs the ones who consistently get placed in first or second rank in any tier list ever? :D I think they are similar to ENFJs in that everyone universally agrees that they are awesome in what they're doing even if you personally don't care about what they're doing.

@DerMichael Fair point. It just seems to me *N*J types get most of the limelight in these videos.

I love ISTPs😍- isfj

I'm down with ISTPs as I grew up with them. I'm just lowkey scared of their inferior Fe. (INTJ)

​@@DerMichaelokay

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 We just can't help loving you guys, so you get a better rate. Blame the common ground we can get to thanks to our cognitive functions that we share,

You guys are the first one I thought about, belonging in that tier. We can always rely on an ENTP to make a boring wedding more interesting.

Surely it'd be better to fire joust over the ice sculptures

Honestly that sounds like a blast (pun intended) but I say when ice jousting we use a ruthenium jousting pole so we can add fire on top of it THEN THE STAKES ARE HIGHER and for the prizes; winner gets a sense of pride, loser dies (win-win if you ask me) but that's just an idea, thoughts?

My ENTP ex once set himself on fire as a teenager. An ENTP colleague would duct-tape two large boards and go floating down the rapids as a teenager. Another ENTP friend once had to outrun a bear. I'm also surprised ENTPs didn't make the Deranged Danger list. The only way I can remain calm when listening to ENTP stories is reminding myself that they're there to tell the tale. Then I remember how much they get away with socially. Le sigh. (INTJ)

I was surprised she called ENTJs "unreliable". My experience with ENTJs is that they're highly reliable. They might, however, determine that another person's plan can't be done and not hesitate to tell them so.

@@aml7481 Depends on the ENTJ, some of them do have their 'head in the clouds' more than others...! ENTJs aren't always 100% ruthless efficiency, especially during their free time.

@@tabby_cat fr I always scared of this stereotypical ENTJs that everyone picture in internet.. But when I met my first ENTJ friend, my thoughts are: "Well, I guess intuitive will be intuitive" 😂

Seeing this, I'll probably just avoid marrying high Si user.. I would just become a burden to the point that I get (-10)/10 rating 😂 But honestly, out of my pure curiosity, why'd u choose to marry your (obviously) intuitive INTP husband when we intuitives tends to fail those high Si user's working standard?

Here's a friendly protip for dealing with ENFPs, coming from an INTJ whose best friend and ex-boyfriends are both ENFPs: if you want them to show up at 3:00 PM, then tell them to show up at 1:00. They're always several hours late.

@@iwa2028 heya! ENFP dating an ISFJ here, theres more to relationships than just perceiving and judging, all it takes is some mutual compromise and respect on both sides B) Besides that, functions wise, INTPs are relatively similar to ISFJs, there’s definitely a lot for them to bond over besides reliability

@@synbioshoshone745 I see.. Nice insight, thanks :) - loner INTJ (who's pretty much clueless about how relationship works 🗿)

Hi, ENFP with ISTP boyfriend here. This explaines how my boyfriend can seem so lazy and reluctant somebody (sometimes it's me) but then super quick and efficient doing and so proud and happy he finally does because he is forced to (sometimes by me) or has a deadline. I could never understand because I'm the opposite: I'm always in, I enjoy doing a job but I'm slow and run out of energy very soon. And I hate being forced or anybody telling me when to do stuff or having a deadline. Now it makes sense, thank you so much.

Aren’t you somewhat concerned that everyone views you as a “tool”, especially when it’s your closer friends/relations? -INTP

Did you just call me a tool

@@entropy8634 to a high Se user calling a spade a spade is far more preferable than calling a spade a flat plane based digging implement. Both my parents and my in-laws are at an age were they need support from their extended families. The fact that I am usually tasked with helping out on DIY and technical issues is fine, I get to help the people that I love in areas were I can achieve good results. Just don't ask me to be at their beck and call every week.

@@DoubleA73 Everybody is a tool to somebody for something. Understanding that is neither a bad thing nor marks any particular person out as special. This whole series of videos is about how one MB type views and uses others. And no, I do not see other people as tools to do my bidding, but knowing who to ask for help when needed without abusing that person or help is a life skill.

It's sad that she has to be so careful to not offend mistypes

​@@aiuchiha111 I'd like to pat myself on the back for not being an offended mistype but I just end up rambling in NiTi which, honestly? Might be worse for an ESFP

I don't think she does anymore. It's sad that mistypes gave her a bad impression cause I've never been offended by her skits whatsoever and I would never respond aggressively anyway. But I start being tired of the reccurent INFJ teasing in video ngl. It was funny at first but it really start looking like an actual grievance she feels the need to express now. And honestly I find it sad for those who have nothing to do with it like me. Especially because I'm pretty sure the actual INFJs have nothing to do with it but get a bad representation. Beside that I don't really agree with the placement and the justification. I think the type should go in really reliable instead.

I’m an INFP and same lmfao. 😂

​@@kyurei4478Technically you could put any type in any tier depending on where they are in life but then there'd be no fun video. Some of us just have to go in high risk hazard so that everything fits together at the end

A Thinker could do that as well, maybe because not enjoying something, and not being good at it and/or willing to do it, often overlap.

Maybe you can explain what was wrong with the INFP? Because I really DID have a sad face when I heard her say that. As long as the bride or groom aren't evil (very unlikely with an ISFJ), I would want to try and help.

@@nerysghemor5781 your “help” just might not be up to their standards- INTP

@@nerysghemor5781 Oh dear...I am probably the worst person right now to talk about anything concerning INFPs being heartbroken by 2 INFP besties and the latest one broke our friendship after 10 years because she prioritised her boyfriend and I pointed out I feel lonely and I have hard time with the change of our communication pace...resulting me ending up with 8 different pills per day and start therapy, as my depression went insane after he made her block me and literally message me to let it die in my birthday. So yea...not the best person to answer that... But if I can say something as objectively as I can, is that you guys have different priorities than us...more personal. Your Fi is dominant so you focus on what matters to you. If that's us, well, lucky us. INFPs can be very dedicated but lack of the grip some situations might need you to show. ISFJs are very very strict with organisation, so we work in different pace. Also, as sensors, we are more into acting on our ideas, something that intuitive types most of the time might hold back from doing...for their own reasons. We are more focused on practicality, efficiency and tangibility. Also something my personal experience with XNFPs (and Lord, I have so many in my life), taught me that they tend to be enthusiastic about something but dropout soon and try something else. They also go from clingy to ghosting very often (especially ENFPs), so this lack of stability in the relationship is difficult for us, Si dominants. Also, perceivers in general are more of the types that will improvise to what comes and they are more flexible with change, while we aren't comfortable with that really. This isn't necessarily bad. It's just different than how we work on things.

@@entropy8634 Savage, yet fair.

@@entropy8634 The thing with having Te even in the inferior position is that once you get older, even as an INFP you can actually learn how to take feedback and it can really light a fire for wanting to do better. Some INFPs never learn this. But I was raised by wolves (Te-doms), so there was no choice in my house. 🤣

Untrue. We're actually good at roasting the sh*t out of people on behalf of someone who's too nice to do it themselves. I have to tell people off on behalf of my ISFJ Dad all the time (he's genetically incapable of being rude or something). In return, he bakes me cookies, though, so we're basically just trading. 👍

@@Hollyucinogen I think I am a quieter INTJ. Sure I could roast people but you have to piss me off in the extreme for that mode to get activated. I usually just sit and observe and be like this entire situation is fucked. Time to go back to my special interest.

@@richardmartin7904 Yeah, I agree. It takes a lot for INTJs to get to the point of being willing to go that hard on someone.

@@Hollyucinogen - One of my ISFJ colleagues once handed me the phone without a word because the person on the other line had a dumb request and she knew I had no issues telling them "No". I felt seen 😂

@@aml7481 Based 😂

Get her involved in something, as small as it can be, it will make her feel better HAHA

@@evarootbeer22 noted, will do 😅

I have ENFP friend that have an XSFJ mom.. I could definitely picture her concern as much as yours in your comment.. 😅

Or, in a more constructive approach, she has a full year to change her mindset about how she should relate to ppl.

Let's find out. ISFJs who read this, what do you put in YOUR safe?

The chats with my best friend 😅@@dearkristin I am not exactly sure that I am an ISFJ (could be ISTJ) but there was a time I was worried that someone would leak our chat 😄

Remember that episode of House when it was revealed that Cameron apparently still had the frozen sperm of her late husband in her work locker? some doors should be left closed

A locket that was my mother's when she was a child with my grandmother's picture in it. A tract that my papaw gave people who visited him when he was in the hospital. A note a dear friend wrote to me a few months before he died in an accident 32 years ago. And a few other things that I won't share publicly. -ISFJ

@@dearkristin Embarassing memories

Sounds great ❤

Ability to do their own taxes

ISTJs do escape rooms?

​@@aml7481 There have been sightings of ISTJs having fun, although it's mostly hearsay.

😂😂😂

A Catholic one ?

ISFJs can't disinvite people, only add (to their great inner distress)

My ISFJ friend invited her entire church to her wedding

South Asian weddings have AT LEAST several hundred people 😭

Maybe not the best type for event planning, but you guys make for lovely friends. I ❤ INFPs. -ISFJ

@@9dodger9 Aw thank you, I love you guys too! ISFJs have so many qualities I admire! I've really been pushing myself over the years to learn from the example of ISFJs, and to get out of my comfort zone when it comes to loving and caring for others. I really admire you all, and I hope to overcome some of my own weaknesses by becoming a little more like you! ❤

@@JadestonePony That's very sweet of you but we are very far from perfect. I did my own tier list of favourite MBTI types once (wasn't made for public viewing) and us ISFJs weren't in the top tier. We are dreadful in new situations and generally react badly to change, especially if it's sudden. INFPs like you were in my top tier though! You guys are so lovely and pure and nice to be around. I also often get this feeling with INFPs like *must protect at all costs!* You guys tend to be sensitive, like us, but have more beauty about you.

@@9dodger9 Aw, please don't sell yourself so short! Whatever flaws or weaknesses you may perceive in yourself, they are part and parcel with all your good qualities too, and they all make up the beautiful you! While you admire the beauty of INFPs, you are perhaps like a tree who is admiring the surrounding flowers, not recognizing your own beauty for what it is. I know for sure that the world is better off with ISFJs in it.

@@JadestonePony That’s very sweet of you! I’d expect nothing less from an INFP. 😊 Don’t worry I don’t think we are useless or anything lol, just that I wish some things came easier to us. Doesn’t mean we can’t work on those things though! I very much like other ISFJs I’ve known, but maybe I’m more critical because it’s my own type so I can see our weaknesses more clearly.

Specifically who they would rely on to help plan a wedding, not in general.

❤ for sci-fi love! -A probable INTP No thoughts of a Betazoid-style wedding ?

Never! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

My ISFJ husband hasn't seen this video yet, but I can guarantee that'll be the first thing he notices. I (INTP) would probably have created a break on an earlier syllable so that the Y isn't lonely. 🤣

No I’m an istj and it’s bothering me too lol

@@erinl422I think it is an Si thing in general

My ISTP friend would be bothered by it, too.

I didn't know what you were talking about because I watched this on my phone and didn't actually read the tiers, but now I can't unsee it. Thanks a lot - ESTJ

Some pressure 😈

❤ -just needs to be deserved, whether about vendors or in-laws

People seem to have a quota that depends on how much they rely on "positivity" to go through their day.

I find people who just complain about things instead of doing something about them or just being grateful for positive things annoying. If I complain about that it makes me sound like a hypocrite, but you did ask. It annoys me when people complain about humanity/society being stupid or whatever because they never mean themselves. They're geniuses and everyone else is stupid. Sure, whatever you say. - ESTJ

Nice, I'll try that

Aw, that‘s so cute ❤ and yeah, many isfjs are mistyped as infjs

What area of study?

@@jameswilkerson4412 Psychology (3rd year), then criminological and forensic psychology for me and clinical psychology for her.

If you’re both aware of “you’re only accepting my notes to not make you feel bad” social charade, wouldn’t it be better if you unburden both of you by acknowledging it? So instead of pretending to exchange notes, you can do more genuine work of adding/altering to her notes the information you think are important? -A fellow INTP

@@entropy8634 You're right. Plans were initially that I'd summarize books ('cause I work and can't follow all the lessons) in exchange for her notes of what the professors'd say on the same topics during lessons. She ended up summarizing most of the books too, because she wanted notes in line with her Ti/Si, which sometimes differs from mine. She did use my notes on some topics, and I very much understand her need to follow her own logic in studying. I'm like that too. So neither of us used the other's notes exactly as intended, but we both benefited from them. That exchange kind of ended now since we're in different groups now (students are divided in 3-4 big groups based on surname initials).

ISTJs can be very direct and stern, so that might scare an ISFJ. It sometimes scares me too (INFP here). I find ESTJs even scarier though, as they come across as very authoritative and no-nonsense.

Isfj ❤ istj

My istj dad is really good at planning ahead and keeping track of all the details, whether it's planning family trips or finances.

But are you surprised? Our kind is not made for project plans.

I’m also INTP with ISFJ mother. When it comes to her judgement, I had the habit of dismissing it in favor of my own judgements based on logic alone. If it doesn’t make sense, it’s getting thrown out. But since she’s my mother and had the final authority, I was forced early on to adopt her standards and way of life. I’m now an adult, and sometimes thankful of the “common sense” she forced me to accept, like social skills, values of aesthetics, and self discipline. I do sometimes wonder if she’ll say “I told you so” in her head if I ever express this to her 😂

I'm in the same boat, but I'm actually quite agreeable, so she lets me slide a lot. Also, she married to an INTP, so it's not like I'm surprising... Her "extra child" both is her personal encyclopedia, and an extra source of grey hairs! 😊

@entropy8634 Absolutely. Growing up in an overwhelmingly SJ family made for some stressful years here and there, but I've learned that the SJ "tried and true" holds up to scrutiny far more often than not. In particular, my ESFJ father and I have come to respect each other's abilities and insights. We don't always agree, and even when we do, it's often a matter of following very different paths to come to the same conclusion, but we find we have far more common ground than not.

Unfortunately, I'm here boss.. an INTP. Hazard!

So spot on.. My INTP friend would probably do the same.. 😂

Spot on.. INTJ could just done everything perfectly if they intended to..

A lot of feelers don’t like how blunt thinkers can be

Yea, INFPs tends to secretly (or not so secret) have this artistic aesthetic soul

Think it’s due to anti-anxiety drugs or a mods stabilizer ?

This is highly relatable.. I wish my mind would just shut up, but when I play that scenario I ends up getting terrified by not having any deep calculating intuitive thought anymore 😂 Oh well, I guess this is kinda what people say "two sides of coins"

@@iwa2028If you're Ni dominant, that scenario will play out until you have a solution. What you're describing sounds more like the Ne inferior of IS-Js. From what I understand, the nightmare scenarios keep coming but solutions don't. If there are solutions, they're often childish, simplistic, and illogical. Are you British? Your grammar reads like someone from the north of England. If so, there are some interesting episodes of Red Dwarf where Kryten gets caught in these nightmare presages, and Rimmer often has doomy but unrealistic visions of the future -- his coping mechanism is to put up a permanent armour against threats that will likely never happen.

@@johnknight9150 well, in reality, I would never consider myself as high Si user.. I would pretty much struggle in the sensor world that just do practical job in a practical way as many Si would do.. And I struggle so much doing paperwork.. lol I think that should be enough to differ me from those high Si users.. What I mean is this constant planning would eat up plenty of my nap time.. not that it would terrifies me tho, but it would be so much better if I could maintained healthy lifestyle, so I could work w more efficiency.. then I thought about the wish to get rid of them and just do the job practicaly just like Si user would do.. but then the scenario of me couldn't have those planning and scenarios-forseeing kind of ability makes me uneasy.. That's why I think I just bear with it and just plan another way to maintain my relationship w healthy lifestyle.. 😂 Oh and no, I'm not a British, I'm an Asian, living in one of southeast asian country.. I thought I'm not that good w English and the grammar, but now u said that, can I take that as a compliment? Haha But I'd still love to watch those series that u mentioned..

And I appreciate ISFJ for being that considerate 😂

The Canon in D part 💀 But you're absolutely right.

Which instrument do you play?

Why not canon in D?

@@jameswilkerson4412 oh I play piano

@@afrosamourai400 because it's the most overplayed wedding piece EVER.

That's so sweet.. Thanks for trying to bear w our intuitive shenanigans.. 😂

😂

I envision something around sports or a road trip for the ESTP tier list..

I don’t mind a few nettles here and there. They have the right to grow too, though I understand why they can be harmful -INFP