ISTHEMBU EP13 | POLYGAMY | He dumped her Live 

Kwesinye iskhathi kumele nazi ukuthi yini isithembu awukwazi ukthatha ama girlfriends bese uwaletha kwi show bese uthi isthembu leso uma kuyisthembu kumele alobole uNdlunkulu kuqala before athi isthembu ay lento yalabafana ababhorekile

If I was Enhle i wouldnt be pleased that he chose me, I'd leave him too! You dont allow a guy to do that to another girl. And mind you, Litha had no idea that this guy had a gf. This was so heartbreaking to watch indeed!

She is still young and she couldn't even defend her self...She is hurt big time and I don't think she will trust anyone after this.

i am a man and i don;t approve this, one day this boy will have a daughter and this game thing will hit back to him severely, never felt so bad and this young gal don"t deserve this. may life give her the best and may this experience open her eyes.

This guy does not know what he wants, am 100% sure this relationship is going down the drain !

UEnhle had no reason to attack uLilitha like that, she could see that she didn't know about her, she was nervous and didn't even know how to react. Tumelo is a typical narcissist who only cares about himself. Enhle I would be very worried if I was you. I hope CMTV makes a follow up on uLilitha coz she is so young and she might not know how to handle being humiliated and rejected on TV. We might see it as a non issue but for a young girl who thought she had found love it's a big thing

Litha was such a sweetheart, she didn’t deserve any of this. And I hate how Entle was addressing things towards Litha as if she knew about her🙄🚮

This was heartbreaking maan...Some boys are ruining our name as men...I wish Litha would heal,focus on developing herself and take a break from relationships, she is so young and inexperienced. As for Tumelo,you are still a boy and you will reap what you sow.You must kiss Enhle good bye she is a goner....Big up to the presenter always professional 👏👏👏👏

I feel sorry for Lelitha I hope she heals because she's young and beautiful, she'll get someone her age that will love her. From isthembu to angisakufuni

Tumelo & Enhle are good 2gther after this the Guy should start saving 2 marry her💯 To CMtv please do another show "Gikhulelwe"🤰

This guy doesn't know what he's got in front of him. I'm glad Enhle stood up for herself. She deserves waaaaay better!!

From isthembu to angisakufuna😂🤣😂🤣foolish boy

I really feel sorry for Litha. As a guy I feel very disappointed by what this guy did to Litha. Message to Litha, may God heal your heart and give you a good partner.

Ntsiki can switch to another language as if nothing happened. What a skill🔥🔥♥️♥️

This is proof that indoda empofu nesithembu izinto ezingahlangani🤞🏾

The presenter ☺️🖤💖💓🖤 she is very beautiful ful n have a gentle voice 💖💓🖤🥺

Enhle is wasting her time. this relationship is over. the guy is still gonna cheat.

Polygamy is when you pay lobola to the first wife n ask another one to be the second one, lento oyenzayo mfanakithi yibufebe nje bodwa uphazanyiswa yilamehlo wakho wekati abakubuka ngawo uxhaphaza occ ngaphandle....mshiyeni nonke bocc niqome insizwa hayo hayi lokhu....next time nifake amacontacts wabaregrected sibangene thina esibahloniphayo abesfazane

The Xhosa hun doesn't understand english bakwethu

These boys should rather secretly cheats n grow up first. The lady seems matured than this boy

For Enhle to Hurt him🕯🕯

This guy is arrogant. Also how old is Lilitha bathong!?🥺🥺 She looks so young

This guy is still going to see Litha even if he say he's gonna leave her behind her back he's gonna see the girl

this guy deserves an award for his perfomance...

thank you CMTV much love from eSwatini🇸🇿🇸🇿🇸🇿we love your work ❤ 💜.....but I hate what the guy did to the second girl,I mean why did he call the her to introduce her to the first girlfriend while he khow very well that he don't love her🥺🥺💔this show left me heartbroken xmm

Waze wabukisa ngengane yabantu lomfana😢😏

Yes girl you learn uou grow . Litha the coolest Xhosa girl in this world all the best sweet girl . Vuka ne degree yakho like any other heart breaks. This one too will pass ok . I have no words for the other 2. As for me you cheat . You out forever.

"I hope uzong'xolela" isn't an apology. This guy is just Egoistic and arrogant. Nexxy on the other hand, she's a star ❤️❤️. Her understanding of people and the way to address them goes way beyond languages and I love her for it

Dis kids are very young,they suppose to focus on themselves and their future. Kuyadabukisa ukubon izingane kubafana. Kunzima shame 😔 izinsuku zokugcina

The host❤❤😘I just love her

I heard Enhle saying danone to Lelitha lol...I was also gonna leave Lelitha and stick to my beautiful Enhle 😍

What I like about lelita she looks like respectfully person then this mamkhulu I love the lelitha did. she never entertain this mamkhulu

Enhle, you don't have a man. Run. You are better off alone.

Litha is a slow learner im telling you uzobuyela.

I feel for Litha😭😭...as for Enhle leave this guy he is gonna embarrass you ..hes not even sorry..

I love the calmness of Litha and her personality general❤

This guy is crazy...how could he match the lady of Enhle's calibre with such a young kid. Umjwayela straight.

One thing i know about us bo Tumelo we always make the right decisions after we flopped

Lol ulilitha doesn't know English

Feeling sorry for Lilitha😔💔

This guy didnt research further about this sthembu thing the is no constructive points to convincce the 1st gf the neccesity of having 2nd gf within the relationship he failed himself

The new balance shoe 🔥

Yoh Thixo!! Why do you guys allow amakhwenkwe angalobolanga to this show? This is an embarrassment uyabona nje ukuba lomfana yinkwenkwe nje engakwazi nokuthetha.. Litha mntanam hlukana namakhwenkwe umncinci focus on your books

Lilitha seemed like such a kind soul I hope she heals from this coz people tend to become f boys/girls because of such heartbreak may she find peace

yerr i like this girl.. This is the type of girl i need in my life.

Ngifisa lomjita ashayiswe yimoto aqede angafi ahambe nge wheelchair, uhlulwa nawu sorry Litha I played u nxaaa

Mjita obefuna isthembu akakhulanga ayikho indoda enjena mxm, wena mjita mawuthola le comment yami uphendule. Awukhulanga mfanam, Iya kubaba wakho akukhulise akudodise ayikho lento yakho variii dankoo

This is a boy not a man.. He's an ungrateful brat,, voetsek wena guy,,, how can he embarrass Lilitha this way,, karma will sort you out. Wena and your 2 year gf nifanelene.. Too proud for nothing nibusy with f-words as if niyamangalisa...

i feel like the guy is being controlled by the girl

lomjita uhlulwe ukubeka indaba early from the start.... isisoka kule outie asikho

The thunder that is going to strike this guy is still doing push ups 🤞

I feel sorry for Lilitha 😍

msangano we Show lona 😂😂😂 wake wasibonaphi isthembu sasemjolweni ay naze naphupha nibancane zingane 😂😂😂😂

I hope that both ladies will find healing, especially the little one hle. As for Tumelo, I hope Enhle leaves him but I'm scared that if Enhle leaves him he'll go back to Lilitha and chances are she'll fall for his stupid ass, oh poor Lilitha

This guy needs to go back to school and learn a "way with words". He literally lost a battle he had absolute control of, just because he could "not talk to his women". These women just needed him to be a man, and have the upper hand!

Enhle if tumelo loves u he wasn't gonna bring litha on the show trust me I are no longer good enough for him u better leave him alone as well if a man really love u he'll do everything to see if happy not to hurt u or mix u with other girls,,,,,,u deserve better enhle trust me.

Nigga needs to come to KZN for some lessons on this, no back bone and no tongue game!

If Enhle go back to Durban again, will he go back to Lethu yo play again? Poor Little Lethu..

2 days to watch it🙄🙄🙄 I can't wait

Iyhooo Tumelo costing all of us how could you do something like that to the innocent child ayimani mfwethu uyabheda T man

The presenter didn't do her job or maybe she did what she did to bring drama. Personally I wouldn't have her to help me create a polygamy relationship because it shows she didn't help the guy to make them understand the kind of love he has for both of them, she just kept quiet, listened to him speak then she sides with those girls. You've made that guy realise that whatever he does outside he'll keep it to himself. You've made the situation worse 🤞

Other people don’t know the purpose of this show, they just come for fame, unfortunately they gain notoriety. There was no point for this guy to come here.

Enhle n Tumelo deserve each other hle bathong

This guys is very wrong, he should have told the side gore he has a girlfriend

Owakephi lomfana odlala ngeyngane yabo nje Litha udlale ngaye nje ngoba nakhu emncane lomfana udinga ukushawa nje

Yes girl you learn uou grow . Litha the coolest Xhosa girl in this world all the best sweet girl . Vuka ne degree yakho like any other heart breaks. This one too will pass ok . I have no words for the other 2. As for me you cheat . You our forever.

If I was in this situation, I would either leave or accept the new girlfriend.. Cause he is gonna continue seeing her, I can bet on thst.. It's going to end up being very toxic relationship..

my name is Tumi, and lentwana yidada . i think Litha has already healed by now athole intwana e grend

This guy just need to grow up, that's all I can say

You know what our presenters, please next time you need to ask the guest when he or she paid lobola cause you're just engaging yourself entweni ezingenakhanda nomsila. Ipolygamy yenziwa ngumuntu olobolile owokuqala unkosikazi besecela owesbili hayi lento yalomfana ojabuliswa yikubukwa kwamehlo wakhe. Lento yakhe yokdlala ngabantu besfazane ayisebenzi imbi vele we as guy don't support his deeds cause lentombazane esilahliwe iphulwe inhliziyo izoyaphi njalo izobakanjan ksasa, izokwazi na ukuthemba omunye umuntu wesilisa ngoba nje lento ayenzayo yibufebe bodwa akuyona polygamy. Vulani enye soapie yemjolo ningahlanganisi yesthembu nexinto zobubefe....byeooooooooo

three months-nyanaaa with someone's feelings. i can't let go too

My advice to you star if the boyfriend come with another girl as he wants to to share him it's the signs of trouble in future balekha ngenyawo zombili coz your life will be a mess

As for Enhle you still gonna cry... u dnt have a man

Oh 😭😭 I feel the pain of litha...uthande umntu athi yena benidlala yho hayi💔😥

I’m pleasing with the show to get an advisor after the show…you can’t have a small immature boy insulting the polygamy culture like this… first being lonely cannot be reason enough for you to want polygamy second you connot want polygamy when you can’t even afford yourself… it’s disrespectful nje finish… the reasons of wanting polygamy should be valid not a small boy who just want a threesome comes to the show and want polygamy… let’s not only want trend and money but let us also educate these young boys that what is polygamy and even the ways of how to go about if you want polygamy… thanks

this is sad sham Litha didn't know about the 2yr relationship. Enhle naye must relax, this young girl didn't know about her being in the pic. ..This gent is cruel sham 🤣

The presenter is on point in terms of language

I watch from zed which in full is Zambia so please sub tittles though l hear a bit of your language so please sub tittles

Like why would you play with someone's heart and feelings like that 😒

Guys I need Enhle's RU-vid channel ASAP! I'd like to follow her.

Her nails are giving me anxiety🚮 Why is she even attacking Litha, she must just deal with her boy fwii

It is what is before it was what is was sendichazwa yi parenter mna

Ngimfuna ngempama lomjita😭

Some other guys are clueless sometimes ai ai 🤨guys before u do something do a research think about other people how they gonna feel about it ...niyasphoxa crs u don't even understand what u trying to get yourself into don't take it as a joke

Yoooh lomjitha une degree of coward 😢😢 he is mercilessly

I just love the way litha is ignoring Enhle

Lili you are a beautiful Queen 👑 run for your life my dear.

Yhooooo Litha guys😔😭💔 may she find peace bathong 🥺 she is so young and this experience will haunt her forever🙁 After God... fear this gender😳 I also support the main, she was really disrespected yhuuu! If I were her I would leave!

He didn't even bother to apologize to the poor girl. This f boy will pay

Judging Enhle by almost everything she said to the guy I see a smart lady who is going hurt poor player so bad that lady knows what she wants and as for the player um out of words he is downgrading our dignity as gents damn!

Lafa nesiko lethu madoda🙆‍♂️🙈 umuntu usithathaphi isithembu engakwazi nokuthenga inkomo yodwa le angiphathi ukugcagcelwa kungaphezu kokwenza uyagula lomfana.

I think this is a lesson to most girls

Confused boy 💔💔sorry Lalitha you deserve someone who will love you. Enhle leave that stupid boy🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

Isthembu kanjani o sa nyala le ngwana oo WA batho🤣🤣..what a joke

In this case this show suppose to have some sort of cancelling hayi ukuyekela umntana wabantu emncani kanje azihambele with that heart broken💔 what if uyazilimaza?🥺💔 Lena yona intwana ingamasimba xeim I don't wanna lie ayikho lento iyenza kulomntana💔

I feel the guy will regret his move not so long, Enhle left him why, that was never declared and that alone can be tip off, of the coming blazing wild fire, Enhle's character is nasty even if she's pissed she has to control her anger, to me she's self centred and only cares about herself, she's not even considering that her departure led to the situation righ now all she's doing is spitting fire than trying to understand what really happened so that going forward if there shall ever be going forward atleast she knows here shortfalls. Enhle does not even promise or assures Tumelo that she's close all the gaps for the benefit of their relationship. To Lita, don't lose hope sometimes things happened to safe us from the worst. Tumelo when you are wrong admit and apologize for the wrong doing, and where possible explain why and how you've gone wrong, but don't compromise your integrity by allowing the uncalled for, love yourself and stand for your integrity.

@33:33 Tumelo was very weak!!! supposed to stand up as a man. this lady will never respect him. he cannot even stand up to her... she calls him asshole😂😂😂, saying 2years down the drain. what an embarrassment. no back bone 🦴🦴🦴

He used obviously more than 10x ...... 🤔

This Guy is a Heart breaker, his gonna break your heart girl, don't feel happy

Isengumtana marn lona Jonga wea 🤔sehluleki wenze into engenziwa yindoda ungumfaz marn uzomkhumbul lomtana