The ending spoke to me. I’m 34, I graduated from college, I work, and I travel the world but the only thing missing is a husband and children. But I keep faith in knowing that God’s timing is the best!
Thank you so so much for your transparency! As a 30 year old woman who accomplished my life goal of becoming an attorney at the age 24 I truly understand how hard it can be to desire something that is out of your control. Often times we think "what's next" but know that God always has you and nothing catches Him by surprise. Don't settle, what you want is coming 🫶🏾
Hey Asha boo, I paused the video at 10:22 because this was on my heart. I’m not sure if you have talked to your brother but if he does not reach out to you please reach out to him. I know whatever is going on is personal and you don’t have to respond to this because I’m still watching will make a separate comment. I see how close you are to your family and that’s a blessing. At the end of the day you and him need each other. You are his only sister and I’m sure he’s missing you. But men can be stubborn. ☹️😮💨 Carry on. 😘
Okay atp you know me 😭 we definitely have not talked and I’m not mad at him I do miss him but it’s the principle… but wow you are so right im def going to have to reach out to him I’m just so annoyed like I don’t want to be the bigger person lol but I’ll take your advice because it’s definitely bothering me.
You are easily becoming one of my favorite RU-vidrs. Everything you said at the end of the vlog is something we all need to hear and something most of us are feeling. You are truly a gem! ❤
I love the transparency, because it’s refreshing to see that people are living life, and we all have ups and downs! I pray that everything you consider to be a stumbling block becomes a stepping stone. Don’t stumble and fall, step up and keep on going! 🥰❤️
I love the transparency sis! I’m currently 30 soon to be 31 and I definitely resonated with the ending part of the vlog. I can’t help but think about what’s next in life. I too want children and just the whole family dynamic one day but I know it will happen all in Gods timing. Don’t beat yourself up about it sis but pray and ask God for the desires of your heart. After all he knows whats best for us and when we are ready for those blessings ❤
Asha , I am getting my pantry door the same way . But sister you will not need a new dining room table . You can make the room coordinate and it not all be the same color . Change the pictures to have some black in your dining area and take add two black balls instead on the brown ones in the tray on the table . Small things can make your great room flow
Hey Asha, let me just say from woman to woman I’m so proud to see all of the things you’ve accomplished so far. I am a married woman with kids (I’m 36) and it’s soooo many of the things you have accomplished that I have not yet. Sometimes I wonder how far I would be in life if I would’ve waited to have kids and be married, although it’s truly a blessing and wouldn’t trade it for the world. I used to always want that ring and kids and when I got it baby shit got REAL! You’re always gone be in demand and it’s always gone be about them kids and maintaining a happy marriage. So God’s timing is perfect and Devine. He is preparing your husband just like you’re being prepared for him. You both will be complete when you become 1. Until then write what your dream husband will be and watch it manifest ❣️❣️❣️❣️
I went to NC A&T. I hardly ever miss GHOE & we have so many exciting events happening on & off campus for us. If your college friends of said school aren’t able to attend, find at least one other (random) friend to go with you who knows how to have fun. It can still be a good homecoming experience
Asha I’m so happy you touched on that topic at the end of your vlog. You remind me so much of myself and that’s why I love your videos and vibe so much. I’m 24, graduated college, have the career, own car, just bought a home, all the things you can think of and at the end of the day I feel lonely. I just feel like as a successful young woman with standards, there are so many things I just can’t accept. Sometimes I wish I was born back in the day when the love was genuine and everyone had their own brain rather than following what they see on social media. I would love to have the man and the family but I’m starting to feel like that might not ever happen for me and it makes me so sad. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us! You’re such a beautiful woman with a beautiful soul!! You deserve the world and I pray God blesses you with all that you are looking for in life. ♥️
Hi Asha! First congratulations again on your new home. I love what you're doing with your new space. My Sis is an Interior designer so her space is always changing.😂 Have you thought about panting your doors black instead of replacing them. Also instead of replacing your table & chairs in your great room, you can recover them. Just some thoughts, again love what you're doing.
Thanks for enlightening us about the rich history on Atlanta. I've always heard that it was the Black Mecca but never knew the reason behind it. This is why I dont think things like EOO should be abolished because Black people are just getting started with wealth building.
I love your vulnerability. You spoke nothing but truth here. It is very hard out here. Bless you my fellow Taurus Queen 👑. The best is yet to come for you, we're speaking that NOW!!! Oh p.s been watching for a while now and I'm very proud of you ....
I totally understand where you're coming from. Im educated, professional and beautiful. Im 56 years old and find it difficult to find a male on my level that Im compatible with. I love to travel but I refuse to pay another man's way just to have companionship. I never figured I would still be alone at this phase of my life. Success is not as all its cracked up to be without someone to share it with. I dont agree with dating down but it works for some. Could that be the answer? Im 56 and Im still clueless when it comes to that. Where are our counterparts that are compatible with us? Dating while being a Boss is hard in Atlanta.
Love the transparency at the end of the vlog. You deserve it all including a husband and children it will happen in time trust me! Don’t overthink it! ❤️🤍…You have a lovely home,great family and a good job which I know you are extremely grateful for. It’ll all happen when you least expect it! God has got you! ❤️
Girl, your chat was everything. Everything you said was on point. I would love to live in ATL because being black in Atlanta you definitely have a chance to be successful.
42:14 NO LIES told, all truths!! Love that you included this in your vlog to continue to remind us as Black Women and black people in general how far we’ve come and how much farther we have to go!
I definitely enjoyed the Atlanta rant. I def learned A LOT ! That’s why we love it here sis 💗🫶🏾 so real and transparent and don’t talk about nonsense! Really putting us down on a lot of things💗
I appreciate this video so much. I feel the same just missing that final piece my husband. I truly believe God’s timing is perfect it’s coming for us both Asha. ❤❤ On another note I love the sectional where is that from.
I definitley wish I would have experienced the HBCU experience but my pwi still did alright by me😂 I went to West GA too and graduated in 2020. I was tempted to go to homecoming too but I changed my mind 😩
I make 50k per year with no degree, non-home owner. It’s hard for me to find compatible men that I can submit to. So I know it’s harder for more successful black women. Other races can be SAHM and be taken care of. It’s a disparity with us BW that I hate.
A word sis. Love to see black women winning because it means that we are moving forward with our history. Black women will always be the mvps but still have a long way to go.
Asha it hurts now, but if let it all out to God and obey Him it surely gets better you have now but God sees all and knows good. You are deserving and so bright.
Love the fandelier!! I think your dining room furniture is perfect for the space. Yeah just finding black accents would make it all tie in together. If anything you could always do a black gel stain over your dining furniture giving it a custom look. I think you may get tired of all that black eventually though. Just an idea for the mirror and console table in that dining area.. put a larger square shaped mirror over the console table and put it on the back wall where the two pictures are now. This way it mimics the square shape of your fireplace wall and reflects the light back from that corner making the area larger. Maybe some sconces on each side of it. You might want a taller longer console. I love how you take your time to think things all the way through and get things that you absolutely love!🥰
I understand you not wanting to go because you don’t have the company of your friends. If there are alumni activities, I suggest going because that’s a great way to network and you never know what opportunities come from attending.
Love the Black History lesson. Some things I knew, others I was unaware of, but either way, I stay on the net arguing with folks, because even if I don't know ALL the history as a non-native, I can see and feel what they are trying to do in Atlanta, which essentially is...take it back. What I hate more than anything, are Black transplants who come here from other places and side with "others" on how Atlanta is ran. Atlanta is nothing like where these people are from, so they need to leave the mentality in their home state. We gotta stick together and make sure MLK Day is celebrated to its capacity with pride, as well as Black History month. They are trying to diminish it all, and they know that once The Civil Right Movement is watered down, then Atlanta will be a step closer to being "conquered." We cannot let these folks do that.
57:18 unfortunately that's the downfall of feminism...the "I'm a strong black independent woman and I don't need no man" has left so many woman missing out on their true desires which is family and kids for majority of woman. Most men that I've come across don't really care about how many accomplishments a woman has. It's nice for us and to share with other ladies, but it's not as important to men.
My biggest regret is that I did not go to an HBCU. I tried, but literally did not get any aid from the the school. I ended up going to the University of Washington which is a great school academically but I have no fu college memories.
The end touched me. God will send your person. Pray and God will you what your heart desires. God never intended for us to be alone maybe he’s allowing you to enjoy your successful life. So pray about it everything will work out in God’s time.
Exactly Asha very much true , wasn’t our story!! .. man that runs deep … people need to go back in history and learn Frfr !! To add about Atlanta .. that’s why the highway exits are jack up , preferably downtown .. do some research on that … mind blowing ….. it’s so messed up on how they do us and continue to do us Love ya vlog ♥️
Hi Asha! Me again We have 4 daughters one son. 3 of them are in there 30ths. I'm going to say to you what I've said to them. Dont let your age or society dictate on when it's time. To become a wife or mom. Think about it like this. It's GODS decision let him send you your husband. Until then enjoy where you're at and stop looking for whats next. Think about how great of a wife & mom you're going to be. You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders. So keep praying, keep trusting & keep prepairing and watch GOD do his thing. I'm praying for peace over your your life.
Girl you said it, I agree with you 100 % regarding black women. In a lot of cases we are single parents. Also when I went to Vote I felt like a took my ancestors with me. My dad got to see Obama I wish he was here to vote for the first black woman. My dad encouraged me and my siblings to Vote.
Love you Asha ❤. God bless you and keep your faith .. You will have the kids ,the family in Jesus name 🙏🏾. Everything happens at a appointed time .. Thank you for just being real ❤
The men that be on yall level want women they can control & lets face it, if a woman got her own & that man comes in the room talking cash ish she can easily walk away ie Taylor Swift what BS you think Travis can come to her with?? Corey Holcomb just did an interview & he basically said he likes the women to not have as much as him!! So he can control them🤦🏾♀️ So women with the ish together might have to settle but if he got a job & can help with bills then I don’t see what the problem would be
Amazing Vlog thank you for ALWAYS keeping it real with us ! You have such a beautiful soul and you deserve whatever God blesses you with. He has your book written in stone Asha you are still in the intro 🫶🏽
