it's ok to Cry 

If you say or Believe that “Men don’t cry” you are either: A woman or a Liar. Stay strong kings, Let it out but don't let it control you.

Any man who says “Men don’t cry” aren’t men

After you learn to feel your emotions, you’ll live a happier and more relaxed life. That’s a goal worth fighting for, isn’t it?

Just got recommended this after bawling for an hour straight

As a woman, THANK YOU for being someone who is okay with this and for spreading this information. The things men and women of older generations teach the kids can be so toxic. Crying doesn’t make you some wussy baby. It’s a God given thing that every single human does. I love this one. There are many kids and teens without someone in their life to give this type of advice. Keep being amazing. 🫶🏻 (Also I’m just gonna say that this is the 500th video I’ve liked on RU-vid 😂)

Hey guys! So I see this video is getting a lot more attention than I realized, I apologize if you disagree with my opinion, I didnt mean to start any arguments or controversy, if you disagree with me reply here! I wanna know what I said that was wrong!

Thank you so much yerta

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Bro at this point your a hero thank you 🥲

When i read over the script you sent me it actually almost made me cry lol, dw my mental state is alright (i think idk), but yeah its just insane that people normalize the idea that men cant cry and it makes them weak, ive seen some videos where women would dump men that cry, but yeah GREAT video i liked it ALOT

02:50 is where it all hit me I have a dad but he wasn’t present for 16 years and Now thank to this video I feel like, even if it’s just a tiny bit, I’m alittle closer to Being able to let myself finally embrace my emotions again and cry. I just want to say thank you Really for this video I found it by accident but It’s actually one of the few accidents that I’m happy happened.Hearing you talk about how you were in touch with your emotions when you were little then grew to hide them and had your role model tell you it’s ok to cry and be emotional. Thank you again for sharing this with everyone. For so long I was told by my Mom and Siblings “I shouldnt be crying” or “Boys don’t cry” or “stop being a little girl/baby with your crying” For so long it hurt so much that I trusted them with being people who I could go to and express myself when I was a kid but now I feel empty like There’s nothing inside of me anymore. But this video and you repeating It’s ok constantly throughout the video was getting to me more and more you talked and I immediately got a huge wave of pressure in my chest, funnily enough that around when you had mentioned if you feel like crying just to let it happen and that Me crying doesn’t make me any less of a man. I know that wasn’t directed at me in specific but the amount of care and safety in your voice, having someone say that that it’s ok to feel my emotions. Having that be said to me for the first time in this comforting way really means a lot Thank you truly from the bottom of my heart

Dang this is your most touching one yet great job

Honestly I'm at the point where I just cant cry anymore, I'm just tired. Good video though, I know alot of people really need this.

This video started and I just burst into tears, I didn't even know I wanted to cry :')

I agree with everything he is saying. Crying is a good feeling! It’s okay to cry!

As a woman who is very much Stoic, reserved, and somewhat shy and quiet, I don’t express my emotions very much. I don’t cry unless something truly breaks me, which doesn’t happen very often. I wasn’t pressured to be like this, this is just the way I am wired. So trust me when I say this…Crying and showing emotions does not make you weak or any less of a man, it just means you’re human.

my dad doesn't want me to cry, not because he doesn't want to see me sad, but because it's "childish". and then I slowly stopped caring about myself emotionally.

Thank you for this video. I just meditated for 2 hours ...

It is important to know how to open up. Personally, I don't feel the need to cry that much these times. There's nothing wrong with opening up, and IT IS IMPORTANT even to someone who is in charge of something. But also remember, as it is nothing wrong with crying, there's also nothing wrong with handling a situation without any tear on your face. Indeed, it is a virtue to pursue handling difficulties and do not feel need to cry. I learned that a hard way. We need a good balance between the two.

Yeah that’s good motivational speaking, subbed

It’s strange- yesterday, I was playing MineCraft, and I was fixing a hole that had been blown in a project I was working on by a creeper, and, just after I finished, in true sitcom fashion, another creeper fell on top of me and destroyed it anew. It seems silly, but that small setback forced me put my phone down and cry for a long time. A lot has been happening in my life as of late, and I’m dealing with some serious internal conflict that’s just been festering inside of me, with no real outlet for me to channel it into. And, as ridiculous as it seems, crying over that creeper really did help. I felt a lot better having been able to release all that fear and tension I’d been holding in me for weeks, even if it was over something small. So it’s a beautiful coincidence that, while scrolling on RU-vid tonight, desperately trying to avoid my anxious thoughts, I come across a video, with a thumbnail of a creeper, and a simple, poignant caption; “it’s okay to cry.” I don’t know you, but I needed this. So thank you.

Man this video makes me feel normal cuz i used to cry a bunch in my life. I tried to hide i from my parents because i was neavous to let my dad know how emotional i was. My dad was raised on a farm and hes real tough so i thought if i was to cry infront of him he would be disappointed.(Sorry for the very long comment)

Here I sit. Broken hearted. Came to shit. But merely farted.

Love that you're playing 1.8

Nah, Ima do my own thing

telling someone it's okay to cry is just telling them to be okay uith letting out their emotions, uat if they are agnry ?! ur telling them to just lash out and do violence ! Dont do that, just be like a TOP G LIKE ME, anyuays, uat colour is ur buga'tti ?! -Andreu tate

I don't know if anyone shares anything like me...... My parents told me that it's ok to cry as a kid. But they just forced me not to, whenever I felt like sharing my pain, they just replied with the worst possible, telling me to be a man and it all doesn't matter anymore. I know that's their way of surviving through pain, but after several attempts as a kid, I never shared any pain with them, up to this point not even a damn thing with them. I just say "all good" now, and they believe it, even tho it is not true. I don't show my weakness to anyone now, especially after a breakup that I never recovered from, I simply can't, even if I wanted to.

I hope you curl up into a ball and be the happiest person ever. You deserve to get more subscribers and fuck tons more views man. I don’t know you but I love you like a brother. Thank you

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I thought this for a while. I used to suppress crying, all the time. I just wouldn't. What would people think of me? Would I actually be a man. One single thing... completely broke me. Now I know it's okay to cry. I'm 15. Can we stop this think where people say its "not manly" to cry? This stereotype that was created back in the 1900's?

But what if my family doesn't aupporr mental health shit?

Yerta Berta idk how to speak in the discord

Being a man is kinda messed up dude. It is crazy, so it is not generally accepted to cry???? just cry?? it never made sense to me like WHY?

Is this yapping Chanel about u giving motivation?

Get your shit together, be overfilled with a blinding rage that you fuel to show them you're not weak. Transform that fire into relentless determination, rise above every challenge, and let your success be the undeniable proof of your strength. Embrace every setback as a lesson, every doubt as motivation, and every failure as a step to greatness. You have the power within you to conquer, so go out there and make it happen. Stop whining on the internet, to friends, family. We have become brainwashed into thinking weakness is alright. It is not, moreover, it is shameful and pitiful.

Men tend to cry less because we are men 🤫🧏