Iyanla Vanzant On Working With The Braxtons "I Did What I Was Supposed To Do" 

Because facing the truth is hard to look at. Especially when you have been trying to hide it from yourself and others. People don't like to own up to their hurts and when they hurt others or even heal. They rather continue to ignore it then keep living but eventually you have to

beautifulsoul Lawd 😩😩🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ the girl has an opportunity to c herself on TV & can critique herself but she’s still blind. Yeah, it’s hard for her. She doesn’t seem open for change just proving she’s right.

Or act as if she didn’t TRY to help them.

That's cuz she's tough&don't play n most people can't handle that

I think because she gets up close and personal with the root of their issue and they don't like that. I heard her comment once that people don't expect the intensity of what she does for them so it is a shock. Then internally they have to decide to swim or get out of it.

Fabulous Divo So true, if it’s one thing anyone should never do is disrespect an elder.

Sounds like a Dr. Phil diss 🤣

@@unicornmommy1496 Grow up.

@@Glitter359 We will pray for Shawda Davison. That her understanding will mature.

@@MadameNoire Yup! I deal with it in the work place all the time 😑

They do question Dr. Phil all the time tho.

@lindsay Can you explain?

She teaches you how to identify your root problems.

It's important 🥂

I love that she never has to raise her voice or cuss or throw a drink. She doesn’t even read people. She says what she needs to say calmly and she stays true to herself. ❤️

Say that!

The truth hurts they better deal with it lol. Iyanla is THE TRUTH!

That's a fact. Thanks 👍

And her hair too! What is that hairstyle?!?

​@@ShanikaB The hair, makeup, outfit-- everything👌

I noticed that two.

Always!

She's always glowing and smiling. That's the work of the lord.

Or she. Everything ain’t masculine energy

That part ✔

Judith Jackson I know exactly what she meant by that... what Tamar did is a curse.. she gonna have to touch her feet for it to lift off.

Tamar is currently on Big Brother doing the SAME thing she's done to her family...

@@tbetters2012 yes, I know Tamar is acting for the 📷

Tamar should have never agreed to that. She already had her mind made up about Iyanla. Tamar did what she does best. 📷, lights, Drama.

She has confirmed by her actions that the REAL did the right thing in letting her go. She is such an embarrassment to women. She is too old to act the way she does. I Tried watching Big Brothers but I couldnt take her AT ALL.

She is definitely the type of Auntie we all need.

*GET RID OF ALL THE UNDISERABLES 1ST THE WOMEN AND MEN BY 'ALL' MEANS AND STERILIZATION FOR THOSE IN THE MIDDLE GROUND FOR BOTH GENDERS*

Neither will I. Proud AF

✊🏽❤️

Amen, Amen. 👊🏽

Amen to that sister!

VERY!!!!

Tamar has childhood trauma and PTSD. Why didn’t Iyanla speak about this without bringing up her being molested 🤔 it doesn’t matter who Tamar disrespects. She’s not a child. She literally said “what about me-what about my feelings. What about how I feel. No one ever cares about how I feel” or something like that. This only shows how mentally unstable and damaged she was. Tamar even apologized to her sisters and Traci thought it wasn’t sincere enough...

@@MarquesTheProducer she did but Tamar did not know she knew this…..so editing cut that part out. Traci said the same thing happened to her…..apparently someone told without Tamar’s permission

Journey you do realize Tarmar has an history of sexual, verbal , emotional, and spiritual abuse. Until you walk a mile in her shoes please be quite. She is a work in progress like us all.

@@MarquesTheProducer Exactly

It's very true and sad...

Amen!

Don't she though

I can agree. It’s important that black people have black therapists. Accountability is important and I’m glad Tamar owned up to it, however, people still expect Tamar to be accountable for what WEtv does. Iyanla triggered Tamar by bringing up her molestation. That’s why Tamar went off on Iyanla. She suffers from childhood trauma so it should only make sense 🤷🏽‍♂️ Iyanla is literally using the fact that she’s an elder against Tamar...being an elder means nothing. I get disrespected by my parents all of the time and they make it seem like because they’re elders, it’s okay. The same applies to Tamar. Tamar was her respectful of Iyanla the first half of the episode. I don’t think I seen her speak about childhood trauma which is one of the leading factors in the relationship of The Braxtons. Tamar is so childish obviously because of the way she was raised. She was abused, molested, spoiled, and mentally broken (because of her mother/father) ...

Plus Dr Phil guests and topics are beyond crazy a guy thinking he's Batman " ...🤦🤦🤦 come on now ...GET REAL....

No comparison

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What she said!!!!

Truth spoken....👏👏

Very necessary. I learn so much watching her. Shit, she is my virtual therapist and she don't even know it. 😃

@@QueenNaestar I definitely agree with you, I think she's absolutely AMAZING ❤

I love that you owned your slight and growth. Excited for more of this from everybody 🥂

I had a similar question. Has Lady Iyanla ever given a definite answer to what her spiritual path is? As a believer in God I can understand the desire to know whether someone who sounds good is following God or a spirit.

Oh she called them all out nobody has ever done that they have yes men we see that on their shows

Crystal E. Yooo, I remember that show. Couldn’t remember the name til you said it. Thanks.

@@demim.9203 she been helping people...FOREVER!!! Happy Saturday, D!!!! Enjoy!!🤗

Crystal E. 🤗thanks

I was wondering when did I write this.. and I realise I didnt