I feel like there is a lot beautiful things can come out of Sne❤she's so beautiful in pain inside she needs people who will appreciate her without judging her flaws not everyone is perfect.. She need a Mothers love and proper counseling,, she will be on top believe me🙏🙏💕🌹
Powerful.. she touched me when she was talking about viginity ..that she didn't enjoy being one ..someone just took her innocence..she went on being a mom with a scared soul and heart..with right therapy she can be ok
Sne is spoiled nje. MaCele has been a mother to her but have you seen how Sne disrespects her. She can’t even take care of her own kids but she expects others to love her children. I’ve seen people like uSne, they are always victims hayi man
@@antheagurupira4933Sne is acting the way I was acting her behavior is similar mine ....I wasn't raised by my parents so I had e'anger ekhaya they thought ukhuthi ngyadelela but all I needed was uthando lwaba zali bami
I love Abongwe ...she's got a very calm spirit but you can see she's not one to mess with . Also she's incredible beautiful and self aware and unapologetic about who she is....❤
I will never allow my daughter to be in this situation. She must acknowledge that she is worthy, and beautiful. She will get a better man who will love her unconditional. Let's teach our girls to choose themselves and learn to stood their ground also to know that there is life without a man. They must learn to be independent and know that life goes on even if you are a single parent. We must teach them that education is the main man that we never disappoint you. Their happiness matters most. Fame doesn't make you complete and money.
Truly speaking she don't love Mpumelelo. She loves the fact that she will be Umamkhulu and being in a relationship with Mseleku. For a university girl to cry for being in unhappy and toxic relationship I give up. This shows that having a degree or PhD is not meaning someone is educated. Please grow up, learn to choose yourself, respect your self first and eliminate yourself from ti's union. Thanks God I'm Sotho.
Imagine she says the hole Country knows. What about you. Worse thing you include your parents in this mess. Respect your mom darling and stop humiliating your self darling
@@NqubekoKhoza. Having kids with someone one doesn't guarantee marriage darling and it doesn't make him marry. How many people are fatherless. At least they know him
For me it was refreshing to see Sne becoming a mother to her daughter, keep it up,do not stop,I can see that this girl will help you mature a great deal and make you stop your irresponsible behavior
She’s literally bitter and mean. Needs therapy and y’all praise that because it’s the norm for black people to be stuck in the struggle mentality you cannot phantom that self love ACTUALLY exists. FOH 🚮
Sne is my favourite this season😊😊she is human and needs love and support without being judged or reminded of her flaws.She is trying her best and needs patience.Noone is perfect and we should try to love people despite our differences ❤
Imagine taking your mom to go discuss relationship stufd, after you became careless and fell pregnant twice below the age of 30. Vuyokazi, go finish school and look after your kids, if you have to meet someone you will.
I noticed that She's happier when she's with her Mom. I think also it's because she gives her the attention she needs. I enjoyed seeing them together bandla ❤❤
We must again teach our boys that girls are human beings not some sorts of toys,that one must toy with their feelings. You can take this simple. This boy have a serious problem, having isthembu doesn't make you a man enough but it shows how coward you are and gaining ego from other people 's pain. If this boy loves himself, he could have chosen one girl. Imagine bringing an inoccent girl in this toxic and mess situation like this. You lack something boy, you have n't live and enjoy your life but you want to be a polygamist. I won't allow my son to do this. I always tell him that he must respect women and date a person he loves not the one he lust. Mental health is serious, he didn't learn from his mother. Who suffers depression and he doesn't love his mother for him to add more stress to her. You seem to want to please your father rather than your self darling. Be you Mpumelelo.
Love doesn't not hurt. Lerato ke mosa, ha le ikhantse le na le boikokobetso. Mayeni I think you must talk to your son sis. He can't go on like this and you took all his children and raise them. Yes it's a good thing to do but allowing one is fine not two worse it's different girls. Make him understand that it's wrong and takes a responsibility. Be a mother, I understand that parenting has no formula and we are not questioning your parenting skills. As a woman, you can relate to this story very well. He is hurting other people this boy, pray for him, guide him. I don't think he is ready to be a polygamist just that he is pleasing his father and want to be his favorite.
Clearly she's wants to be in it for the status provided she's the 1st wife even though she's "never been happy in the relationship since 2021" and that came from her mouth. She's willing to be unhappy for the rest of her life as long as she's 1st 😮😢😂😅
I don't feel sorry for vuyokazi , red flags are always there especially at the beginning of the relationship. she's old enough to use her brain and again she order than mpumelo, she acted like Jesus Christ wanting to change him. Ontop of that she fell pregnant again when she finds out that mpumelo impregnated tirelo #another-Red-flag ,but mogirl ignored it. This is an example of " you can't trap a man with lot of babies thinking you will win him", a man will give you tons of babies and marry someone else with no kids and who is still a virgin, to show you that he doesn't deserve you. Ladies value yourselves more and prioritize your education and dreams. Lot of Men this days they don't know what they want
Sne muhle bafethu, mangayeka lobuhlathi bakhe...I was even suprosed when I saw her south beach with her friends drinking outside some buildings nje on the road , couldn't even believe it
Vuyokazi! You are young beautiful and brilliant. Can you please detach yourself from this relationship. I know it's easier said than done but you'll thank us later. You will never be happy with U Mpumelelo. He has outgrown you just doesn't have enough balls to tell you. He loves Tirelo and is trying to find excuse. "Ubuza ibis ibhaliwe"What a cheek! MISERY MISERY MISERY in this relationship. You can make it on your own being a single parent.
Being with a “small boy who toys with your feelings” for five years then giving him two kids is wild. On top of that you’re still fighting to be 1st wife is crazy. You both have issues clearly. Like!
Go gal you stood ground this boy thought you going to be a walk over because you quiet but that didn't mean you are stupid and you going to take every rubbish he throws at you as a xhosa woman when we love we love wholeheartedly but when the bottle is full there's no going back you've compromised yourself already now it's time to focus on you and your babies and let everyone throw stones whilst they're in glass houses you haven't done something that has never been done before so forgive yourself and dust yourself up the best is yet to come this is not the end it's just the beginning strongs this is how we learn and this how we grow and make better choices in the future ❤❤
Just because you don't talk where you shouldn't, or you don't engage to others doesn't mean uyazitshela , i don't see Mpilo as umuntu oziphakamisile , i just see someone who minds her life and her business, and if that's what Sne is talking about she might just need to chill
Kahle kahle nifuna umpumelelo enzeni? Umpumelelos vision doesn't align with vuyos vision. Uvuyo got involved with Umpumelelo knowing his a potential polygamist. Uneskwele Uvuyo ngeke alunge in polygamy. Noma enga mupha that number 1 title uzohluleka phambili. Look at macele, she wants to be that Iyoh bandla.
Khona in KwaZulu-Natal a girl choose to be in polygamy. Not to be in monogamy marriage. She chooses to fight for her space, second best. Choose your self girls.
@@thembalihlemiya3395Ukhona mara umfazi ongenaso iskhwele...mna ndicinga uMpumelelo ngababantu babonisayo xa befumene uthando olutsha, that is why they had conficts...for sure she felt that uMpumelelo was in a new relationship...if she got attention from him i dont think she would have been jealous...uMpumelelo cannot communicate...if you notice on season 1 when he took Vuyo into this flat, her not knowing that there was a new girl in the picture, her being surprised...in that case was she expected to be smiling....
Same thing as Musa macele was complaining that umusa will be neglecting her as the 1st wife building other homes except hers so I think no Mpumelelo forgets ngovuyo so I feel you so I think that’s where the conflicts starts
She pretty , akaphakamanga you are a jelous sibling because she’s young and takes good care of herself , you too can be like her . The resources are there . Zinake uzithande pls
I like this for vuyokoz whom she has moms that have her back you can see baconcerned hle and they came all the way from cape town to kzn to support her ke I love this for her ,I wish I had moms like that uma unginyisa umjolo ngibafake shiqi 🤣😩💔
Vuyokazi admits that Mpumelelo doesn’t respect her , she has never been in her relationship with him since 2021.He is only seeing their child now , he has humiliated her on national TV, her family doesn’t even support her relationship but despite all this she is willing to go ahead and be married to him as long as he makes her the first wife. This is very sad 😢😢😢. Mpumelelo must have put her under a spell for her to believe that she is powerless and take this emotional abuse. I wish her light and strength
Isthembu is not a child's play. If uneskhwele cc khohlwa isthembu. You will never be happy. You will never accept no2, 3, and 4. This is not about fame. it's about your life, Vuyokazi
Sne is jealous of the love her siblings get from their parents. She's also fixated on external validation. If only she could channel that energy into mothering her own kids.
I honestly tgink Sne is agood person but often misunderstood..cz she is alws in guard I think growing up without u mama u feel I loved n think ppl are alws judging you cz you not their child thats y she is so defensive cz shes ol she has got n trying to look.for herself. But deep down I think is a nice person
My heart breaks for sophokazi why but why women or families lets teach our girls to love themselves first ahead of any man. She knows he does not respect her but she wants to be first wife. Whether you are first second or 100th he really has zero respect for you
You are pleasing your father boy. Do yourself an introspection and re_evaluate yourself. You have never being in a marriage your self yet you want to be a polygamist. How possible is that? Be yourself and live boy. Stop proving your self to your father. He will always be your father. You will feel the wranth of God boy. Kamer is a bitch.
I'm starting to think it was a competition between her and tirelo for the first wife position, look where it got them, both of them are not happy they chose to have kids with mpumelelo ai😢
@@kelebogilemotlogelwa1582Also the competition for a boy child...Maybe Vuyo saw how Tirelo got the attention because of a boy child and i think she wanted the same...remember she also did not go to the scan with Mpumelelo on her first child...
Yebethuna??😭Vuyo a re the last time she was happy in this relationship was 4 years ago? Yoooh I know it's hard to de-attach sometimes but eeeh yoh ae yoh achiii
