She deserved every snarky remark. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
Crazy that Chris Harrison describes this as "a relationship that's gone south. A normal relationship that ends every day around the world" as she's talking about emotional and verbal abuse.
Key word domestic, that would include children, and child rearing is overwhelmingly carried out by women even in dual income households, so by default that greatly inflates that. Many of these studies specifically on intimate partner violence (not domestic) are done by self report, which gives you more insight since men are more likely to not report abuse they experience (especially sexual) but in turn since it’s collected through less verifiable means it makes it les reliable. Intimate partner violence can also be defined as threats of violence and verbal abuse. When we evaluate abuse the most concerning factor is homicide, and overwhelming women are most likely to be killed from IVP. Even fbi crime tables where they tracked relationships of perpetrators to homicide victims the person a woman is most likely to be killed by is her spouse or ex spouse, and secondly non intimate family. Another complicating factor is male sexual abuse victims aren’t often reliably counted since some data is collected by info that legally defines rape as penetrative, which leaves male victims raped by women unaccounted for. We shouldn’t be spreading around vague intel that distorts the many complexities of abuse
Funny going back and reading these comments. All the women are like "Jake is so terrible and scary!" and all the men are like "Vienna is crazy as hell and manipulative." Likely conclusion: They were both pretty foul at this point in their lives and we all are far more biased than we care to admit.
Thank you oml, these people don't seem to understand 1. We don't know them at all, 2. It's reality tv, 3. We cant project our feelings and trauma on other people. Imo they were both shitty, but yknow. We're in a day and age of gender war and as far as it goes to most its, "Man bad", "Woman bad". When everybody should be thinking "I CANT BELIEVE ITS NOT BUTTER!" Have a good day, hope that last bit gives anyome who reads this a laugh.
My view, coming in blind: She did something nasty and admits it, and her "apology" for it is saying "I did it because I know the real you and was beating you to it," this veiled jab at him, not an apology. He vents a moment of frustration about her constant talking about and over him, gets his turn to speak and she immediately talks over the top of him. He speaks up to try and get her to stop, and she does this little fake cry thing, then again interrupts him, contradicting what he's trying to say. They may both be awful, but she comes off as worse here.
I agree.. coming in blind i just searched but reality tv breakups and found this but the woman was obviously crying crocodile tears… The way she stormed off not listening, and he mentioned she never attempts to work things out either. Interrupts him too. The guy probably has his issues too but obviously from this video you can tell shes being toxic.
All these women in the comments are calling him a terrible person but ive been with someone who never lets you talk and its infuriating to end. He didnt even yell that loudly. He spoke firmly and was clearly fighting back the need to get up and walk away. I can hear the tears of rage he was golding back
And she instantly played victim by crying crocodile tears, instantly calling him the worst person she's ever met and up and left. She's not worth the time.
She deserved every snarky remark. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
You call this explosion? This shit is tame to what I've seen. Blondie kept interrupting him before he can get five words out, no wonder he's had enough of her crap.
This guy is my hero. He’s stoic and keeps it cool even under pressure and obviously while very angry. She only cried because she got put in her place on television to make him look bad. Elementary female psychology.
She deserved every snarky remark. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
@@alexh8613 Nah... people universally agree she was in the right, she tried to apologize and he handled it B A D... I believe her when she says he would have done it first. Also tabloids are just talk and exaggerate all the time, celebrities make shit up for money. If he wanted to fix it he could have.
@@azuresins6904 There's a right way and a wrong way. And she did it the wrong way. Just because he is probably a scumbag doesn't mean that she can be one too and not suffer the consequences of her actions
@@alexh8613 Okay so what she did was wrong. But that doesn't in any way justify the way he was speaking to her. I don't know anything about The Bachelor but I don't see why he couldn't have handled this situation like an adult.
@Giovanni DeBravo umm no thats not being a drama queen. Thats what having genuine love for someone that treats you like shit looks like. Shes bawling from the fact that she cant believe a man that she believed cared about her could speak to her in that manner. Hes abusive as fuck. you can tell. The verbally abusive ones always turn into the physically abusive ones. Especially when the girls get annoyed by their holier than thou attitude and narcissistic speech patterns. Im glad she walked out, she even apologized to him and he discredited by saying "you dont know me" ...hes the ass clown, shes just had enough of the bullshit and being blatantly lied about because of people like u who have the wrong idea
@@glennaoram4145 Oh please go away! You females will support each other no matter what! Nobody cares to hear the man's side of the story. It's always "awww, look at that poor girl". GTFOH
No one spoke about she did what she did to him, telling the story, thinking he would do the same because she knows him? How does that make sense? So she reads minds too.
If you watch the whole interview you would knownshe had an excuse for everything and would not let him talk for a even 2 sec without saying something about nothing She deserved it
Hmm... The only thing I will say is that I watched this season, I felt like he chose the wrong girl but you could tell she reallllyyyyyyyyy reallyyyyyy liked him. Like for real.... maybe that's why he chose her. He's a narcissist.
Wow, she could of let him talk but he didn't have to get so upset with her.. if he's like with her now imagine how ir would be if they was married wouldn't last.. seems he might have a bit of a temper.. didn't think Jake was like that.. ya, never know
From this limited reaction that I see between them, Jake really makes it seem he manipulates the situation to make Vienna feel she’s the problem and she tries to speak up about it but he constantly finds a new way to manipulate her. Instead of himself being more aware that he is making the relationship toxic, she’s the issue and his always right. I don’t need to see much to know this is how he reacts because no one forced him to say stop interrupting me and letting Chris know this is how it is all the time
@@tatyanaanglin4834 I have not watched it since it came out like 13 and a half years ago. But it was one of the most memorable seasons for me lol. Same with the Ali Bachelorette season that came out a few months after Jake's season. 2010 was an entertaining year for the show.
She kept interrupting him though. I would have done the same. 🤷🏾♂️ Toxic people constantly interrupt people when they talking. Toxic people luck communication skills. Sorry
He is the worst person you could ever date. A nightmare. What a rude, condescending, manipulative narcissist. She has class and emotional intelligence and deserves so much better than this cynical goof.
True - He's clearly deceptive - and this is what happens when you call out a narrcist. They can't let you win. Then he justifies his actions ? Seeing this side of Jake Omg Wow - Scary.
Seeing that side of Jake is scary. Wow. I think Tenley dodged a bullet, along with the other 25 women. I'm behind on the bachelor so I'm binge watching them.
The man dodged a bullet, she couldnt even let him speak. She had to controll the narrative and you can see it with the fake crying, a pure manipulation tactic.
Lmao everyone so quick to jump on her side he literally asking not to be interrupted as she depicts the behavior of constantly doing it in there relationship. She did it twice when he started to talk boo hooo . You had your turn to talk now it’s his .
I saw this on fb and now im on RU-vid watching both her 10 min vid and this (his) 2 min vid lol. From an unbiased persons perspective and never seen the show: she seems believable, he seems cold and changes the subject around on her a lot, but yes i agree getting interrupted sucks and women do cry a lot during arguments, whether on purpose or not P.S. men in these comments not all the women who cry while arguing do it to "win" or end the argument. I cry when mad, sad, upset, overwhelmed and i dont choose to. Us women do not have 30 years of hardened emotions ok 😂
I didn't. I was so shocked. So revealing. I thought he would be everything he said, and when she said he wasn’t a pilot anymore, and moved them to LA to pursue an acting career. Then when he snapped at her, you saw that she was telling the truth. Not saying she doesn’t have immature tendencies, calling him a fame whore could have been said more diplomatically. but I think she handled herself pretty well in this, and I do think she loved him, it is shocking when you fall for someone, and then you realize that they are abusive. I think most girls have been there at some point.
This woman is a clear narcissistic manipulator. This man is clearly trying to be civil and she just won't stop being emotional and refuses to let him get his side of the story in. This is clearly what bad women do to prevent men from trying to get their side of the story.
She deserved to be talked to like that. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
This is just a two minutes clip from a lengthy interview, and throughout it, blondie kept interrupting him before he can even get five words out. No wonder he's had enough of her shit. Get real.
He looks like an abuser. While she's obviously got some growing up to do she's definitely right to walk away. "Once you know, you go". She _does_ know him - he's a narc.
omg, she should be so grateful she didn't end up with an asshole like that! if he is like that now and on national television treating her like that? wow.....GIRL RUN!
She deserved every snarky remark. What kind of scumbag goes to the tabloids to talk about how there is no emotional connection, while they are still dating. Just break up and be done with it. But to sell him out to a magazine is disgusting
@@kalebanth8323 nothing political argument about it. It’s an observation of the common qualities of Trump supporters. That is a character issue not a political issue. And yes I absolutely called it. You’re an astute observer Kaleb. Haha. Yes you are embarrassing.
In this 1hrs. Netflix mini series in 8 parts, we want to know the reactions in this dramatization every week in March and April that it's over between Jake and Vienna now Ali and Jake needs a bond together, We need to know about the Netflix Mini-series for 8 weeks called Jake & Vienna and then about moving on to his new girl.
Any girl who ever dates him should see this first. I am so glad I don't date anymore. (I'm not married, not gay, just blissfully single) I would RUN fast and far from anyone who ever spoke to me like this. fucking scary shit.
Generally speaking, you have to lack self-respect and integrity in order to be willing to be on the bachelor to begin with... so neither of them should be surprised at their situation.
seeing him so removed and her so emotional is very telling. he is cold and unfeeling and self absorbed. anyone that doesn’t see that is unhinged themselves
Oh man, randomly watched this season for the first time and a part of me was feeling strongly that he did NOT deserve Tenley… so watching this is satisfying and also disgusting…
You think that’s bad how many innocent women went to institutions wrongfully? How many raped or murdered by the hands of men. Cry me a fuckin river dude.
he does everything to gaslight and guilt trip her. hes trying to make her seem like the bad guy for his own reputation. sorry son, it aint workin. hes manipulative and likely an abuser. bet.
