I had a friend of a friend call me up randomly one day, sobbing, saying that if I didn’t come get her daughter that she was going to hurt her. The tone of her voice sent chills down my spine. I kept her on the phone while I left work and told her to put her child in the room and go to another part of the house and wait for me. It took me 15 mins to get there and I was praying the whole time that they were ok. I got there, calmed the child, rocked her to sleep and spent hours talking to the mom. She was so overwhelmed and sad. Idk she decided to call me, someone she barely knew, but I’m so glad she did. I’ll never forget that call or that situation. We need each other. All hands on deck when it comes to these kids. If you’re feeling like this please reach out! To someone, anyone. And if you’re called, please take it serious and respond asap. Bless these babies. May they Rest In Peace.
Know what else exists? a belief in Christianity that children below a certain age automatically go to heaven no matter what. Many people who have killed their children admitted to this being the reason. So get rid of this belief and these type of things wont happen as often.
The struggle of single motherhood is real! I know some of the thoughts that can occur because I’ve had them. I love my child with every ounce of me but being a single parent is NO JOKE! I didn’t get pregnant until I was 30 and then my daughters dad died two weeks before her first birthday so I was forced into being a single parent and not a day goes by I don’t wish we had her daddy back. Rest in heaven to those beautiful babies. So sorry 😢
@@ricolewis2949 y'all bash the ones that actually had someone who left the mother to be alone tho this is why women must tap into using discernment dealing with men even the so called good guy can have tacky ways and hidden just like men that will sit up there and complain about their baby men don't know how to pick good women either they want the girl who's hot in the pants but don't want the decent one that has her head on straight and a bit boring because she's focused on her priorities
@@ricolewis2949 postpartum depression is real and no woman knows if she will get it or not. Stfu and lend a helping hand to single mothers in need instead smh
Women, I encourage you to take care of yourself and your mental health. Devoting your life to your kids and abandoning yourself also hurts your children. If you're a single mother try to find your village. My prayers are with this family 🙏🏽
Unfortunately it is near impossible to find a village. Do you know how badly single Black mothers are judged and shunned??? Every single thing we do is met with some sick interpretation of us trying to "get ahead" or "use the system" when all we are looking for is help. Your family abandons you, the other parent is mia. We put too much pressure on mother. They don't eat or sleep. Their entire lives resolve around providing for and taking care of their children. I know a mom now you drinks herself to sleep every night then gets up and goes to work. She picks up her kids, drops them off, then goes to her second job. And how is her situation seen? Instead of applauding this women for working too jobs, she is immediately a drunk. She shouldn't have had those kids. She should have done this or that. You cannot win here.
@@niamarielove I understand. I'm a single mother as well so I feel this. The only thing you can do is push forward. Take care of your mental health because your kids depend on you being at your best. It sucks, yes, unfair? Completely. But we can get through it. 💪🏽
@@jessicachanae9977 Yes we can, but some of us can't. I wish I had known this woman. I could have told her I've been there and I understand. I would have loved someone to just support me and not judge me. I could have been that for her. It's so horrible out here.
This comment section is fucking ridiculous, how are you contextualizing and sympathizing a killer? If this were a man; the critique would be endless, no one would mention "mental health" as a way to sympathize.
My mother went through postpartum depression while pregnant and after giving birth to my baby sister. We are 21 years apart so yes she’s older now. She told us about the horrible thoughts that would go through her head and if you know my mother , she’s a blessing compared to other mothers that I know. People really don’t understand the stress of having children. Sometimes people can just snap because of depression, lack of sleep etc. Women honestly go through a lot physically and emotionally.
@@layparisss Umm for one , don’t tell me what I shouldn’t do on MY POST. The fact of the matter is, DEPRESSION can and have caused people to do horrible shit. Mental illness is a real thing. The sweetest people can SNAP and God forbid that YOU go through something in life that causes you to do something that you never thought that you would do. Did I say that she was right ? Fuck No I didn’t so obviously you didn’t actually read my post. Demon or not , she obviously has mental issues because anybody who kills their children can’t be in their right mind ESPECIALLY if they are known to have been a great parent prior to that.
Women must learn that trying to be Supermom is not doable. It’s a myth. We need fathers and family to be involved. They made “single-mother” something noble and it’s not! It’s hell for most women who are doing it alone.
@@fatimahrahman6158 I say this all the tim mfs need to stop acting like they can do everything on they own , that was my mother problem so much she disable my father from even being a father , the system is fucked up. I am single mother I know my child need his father.
This should be private but it’s life so oh well me and my was then newborn brother was taken out the home for 8 months because my mom was depressed I guess from post partum. I actually thankful she told someone her thoughts and got herself some help before letting us back around her be cause things like this accidently happen
Family don’t care. Rather talk down on you than help and speak encouragement. Said she was always with her kids, that probably wasn’t her choice to never have a break. Somebody watched it happened 🤷🏾♀️ RIP Babygirl and Babyboy.. Truly Heartbreaking
There was times when my daughter was a newborn that she would just cry and cry and cry and every now and then I’d feel the temptation to just cover her face and shut her up. My postpartum depression was rough. I’m glad I was able to fight those feelings, but I also do have a great support system and husband who helps me when I need a break. Ladies we need help. We were not meant to take care of a baby all on our own.
I remember this happened to me. My oldest son was teething, and he just wouldn't be quiet. This was my rainbow baby. I lost a child prior to him almost close to my 3rd trimester. I've never gone through this before, I tried everything, and he just wouldn't stop crying. I yelled at him, and he cried louder then I cried. I called my mom and told her I needed her to come get him, because I wasn't thinking straight. She talked to me and came to give me a break. I was so thankful for my mom in that moment. My son was born premature and he fought a battle to even come home to us. How could I feel that way about him knowing I prayed for him to live and fight for me. I couldn't lose him like I lost his brother. The mind can get the best of you. I didn't realize I was suffering from postpartum depression. He is now 8 and I have a 2 yr old as well. My whole world. Glad you made it through : )
So happy you both got help. My baby never cried as an infant except once. On day 6 of his life, he was constipated and never pooped. The intensity of his screaming and knowing it was pain causing it was horrible. I didn't want to hurt him but the emotions I felt were overwhelming. I will never forget it. I think about mothers of babies who have colic and I pray for them. It must be unbearable 😫 So glad you both had the strength to ask for help. Also glad my now ex husband was there, I was crying too because I couldn't help my baby. It sounded like he was being murdered. He finally pooped and never cried again for about 9 months. He was so easy. My pediatrician didn't believe me when I told him my son never cried. It sounds like cap but he was so content and happy. He whimpered a little bit and open and closed his hands when he was hungry. He would wriggle when his diaper needed to change. Now he is 16. Still the easiest child ever.
Girl...I'm so happy I have my dad and my husband because for some reason my mom don't take stuff like this seriously. She's the "snap out of it type" I called her one day when I was feeling like this and she would not budge. She wouldn't come, I couldn't drop my baby off nothing. She said give her two weeks...I didn't have two weeks and as a woman I thought she'd understand and I was afraid to tell my husband how I was feeling and he was so far away on work so I called my dad. He left his job, came and told me go take a shower and lay down...now my dad is 6'7 and tbh I used to be scared of him because he was big burly mean construction worker man lol but he came. He cooked...he kept that baby until my husband came home and we all sat down and talked and it felt like I wasn't holding my breath anymore. It takes a village...I'm so thankful for that.
The enemy is getting into these people and taking over their spirits. Just pure evil in this world. The neighbors heard the screams and cries so why didn’t they check??? So horrible 😔
Perilous times are here. The devil comes to kill steal and destroy (John 10:10). The devil roams like a roaring lion seeking whomever he may devour (1 Peter 5:8). The devil possess people to commit horrible crimes knowing and unknowingly. Watch and pray, the devil is after our children. Those children are now with the Lord.
I think she snapped people there were complaining about her children making noise they don't have to worry about that no more I thought the same thing no one checked
I call that "super mom syndrome." Mom's need their time too. Your kids can't be your whole life. You have to find a healthy balance. Heart goes out to the mom and the kids.
Once they come in they are your life. You have to change your mind set in order to make it through sometimes and some women deal with not being able to keep up with these men in the street. Feeling like there children are slowing them down .Once you get your mind adjusted and accept the fact of where you and that your babies are your first priority it becomes easy. I went through some adjustments in my own life.
i called it murder the mom is not a victim so tired of single moms killing their kids and getting the she had it hard raising kids on her own narrative if it was so bad why she didn’t kill her self instead of killing the kids and continuing living her life FOH
@@cuteandred1 you have to change your mind when you're marriage to and nobody says that a man is a woman's life(at least,in our reality) so why having children is different?!? Saying that a mom needs a moment to herself, doesn't mean that she doesn't love her children or that she's neglecting them. Learn the difference
@@cuteandred1 A loving & attentive mother doesn’t kill her kids to chase men. This poor woman had some type of mental breakdown or psychotic break. People that kill their kids to “get rid of them” do just that: Get. Rid. Of. Them. The fact she held on to them inside the apartment means she just snapped.
She tried to set her children on fire before ! She was charged !! She cut off all smoke detectors before she tried to burn the place down with her children in it ! She should have never received custody again !!!!
Depression is real, mental health is real, nervous breakdown is real and without the holy spirit you can’t heal any of it…..9/22/21, I’ve gotten so many responses on this statement but guys please understand this … I understand, that’s not my only thing… I’m just saying the state that she’s in is that of one where she’s needs faith… I am a mental health therapist and a minister.. I preach and teach GOD+THERAPY! Honey I’ve been there.. I’ve suffered from depression, I’ve also had postpartum… yes you do Need to talk to somebody but baby when you tap into that inner you, that secret place where the Holy Spirit resides, true deliverance can take place then healing by faith and therapy! I never said you don’t need therapy, you need both, but ELOHIM IS FIRST IN MY LIFE…. I wouldn’t have made it without both! I also had a tribe, I’m fortunate I know but that’s not the most nut I also ASKED FOR HELP
@Meghan M. what god? There are several “gods”, several “lords” bc those are just titles, no one and I mean no one can claim they kill in the name of Jeshua or Yahweh or Elohim …
Many of us suffer in silence because when we ask for help… most times instead of getting the help, we get put down about our decisions that led us to the breakdown. So for everybody who gets asked for help, just help. We know we f’d up, we know our decisions is what led us to this point…. But we are asking for HELP. That’s all. It takes ALOT of courage to ask for help.
The issue is, y'all seen so many stories of this, yet never learn from it. This has been an issue for so many decades, yet a choice people still want to make. Why is it that mothers who do this are still victims but fathers who murders children are evil monsters?
I think she may have had a mental breakdown and felt overwhelmed with being a mother, work, and the stresses that come with life. This is why Its good to wait to have kids or take breaks in between your busy work day. Many times so many single mothers are on the go and never take time to rest and regroup. From the pictures, I can tell she seems like the type that was a happy woman who loves her kids. But depression and feeling hopeless will have you taking it out on those around you. Black women please stop suffering in silence.
@@ebonyeyed08ti witch would make her mentally go deaper into depression. Also do you know how many kids in foster care are awaiting homes? To many! Her kids not just going to out right get adopted. It waaaay more to it then that!
@@StopBeingRacist we didn't normalize anything. Patriarchy is valid because it has been valid since the beginning. Besides, he said "Traditional family structure" which implies that he is speaking about a two parent structure meaning patriarch AND matriarch . If your great grand parents are still alive (all due respect of course) speak to them...we all come from those Traditional family structures. This single parent crap is some new shit. Matter fact, it's senseless to bring children into a single adult family anyway so it has nothing to do with gender
@@sonyabolden9652 you women got sensitive. He never mentioned gender but while we are at it A man handles life stresses much better than women. Why don't yall knock that feminist shit off!
@@mathieutyler00 bad kids are a fault on the parents part imo. If a dog attacks someone the owner gets in trouble. Likewise, if a child under 16 acts a fool, the parents should held accountable.
I cant believe yall are justifying this like wow ... I dont wanna be on the same earth as people who think its alright to justify two kids losing their lives
@bestself Interest I can attest. Came from a victim blaming family, where the women routinely scapegoat men. When my father passed the 31 of August, I could see where the women felt an entitlement over him more than they felt he needed to be a father. What's more, this past year, black women had to be confronted with Breonna Taylor (no justice) and then none stop coverage of black males, who should be our father's and protector's(but don't show up like that for we women), being brutalized by the institutions that work hard at keeping white women like Lori Vallow intact. I'm sorry, I'm gonna say this woman probably asked for help over and over and folks treated like she "complained too much" or "was too loud" or "angry". When a black woman does this, her circumstances were extreme.
@bestself Interest really? So now you’re going to blame everyone else but her? How about it’s time for these women to close their legs and stop having illegitimate children??? There’s the answer to this problem. No one forced her to have them. Her body, her choice!!! She chose to have those kids and she chose to kill them.
I’m sure she cried out for help. Mother’s usually do before commuting such crimes. They are usually ignored it’s sad. Take time to help people when you can
“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.” Ephesians 6:12. Spirits take control of people and because they are weak spiritually they can not fight off the negative thoughts or feelings. This is why we need God in our lives. For, “The LORD shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace.” Exodus 14:14. We need to pray for each other and repent our sins. For sometimes we may not know what we have done after we have done it. This is why we must “Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.” Ephesians 6:11, 13
This stuff happens. I was 2 and my sister was 5. Dad came home and knew something was wrong, he could smell something. Turned out to be my mom gassing the apartment trying to kill herself and us. She was never meant to be a mother, dad however raised my sister and I on his own. Was very unusual for a single dad with 2 little girls in the late 80s to 90s. Wouldn't have changed it for anything, he was the best. Rip dad.
Exactly, reading through the comment section I was shocked by the amount of persons who was blaming her actions on demons, as if she didn't choose to kill her children. I'm really disappointed, what is wrong with people?? Blaming her actions on everything else except her.
@@masterofdisguise6499 think about it for a second dear. How can you possibly carry two children for 9 months, labor for whatever hours, go through hell ➡️nausea, edema, gestational diabetes, weight gain TWICE etc and say she CHOSE to kill her children 🧐 There is absolutely no way you can chose to do that. Unless she was on drugs now that’s a different story. Your mind has to be in the wrong place for you to do such a thing!!! The govt should offer mandatory help to mothers after birthing.
No nothing validates it, but there are several reasons that explain it. Depression and stress can absolutely cause you to hurt or even kill a child. People murder for less. I wish this never happened but the world we live in makes it easy.
@@ms.ladysanders3939 obviously you don’t know her do you ? Don’t tell me what’s obvious and you don’t know. I have an opinion just like you and everyone else.
@@ms.ladysanders3939 if you believe that is true based off a 3 minute video, I guess every person whose killed their children had a mental health situation going on. Do you think people like this shouldn't be held accountable?
This is what happens when fathers don’t protect their families with the shield 🛡 of god. And leave these women to bare the struggle of single parenting.
It’s not just about fathers. It’s the womens fault too! Gotta know who u r having babies with and it’s best to be married. If this child support crap didn’t exist I bet there would be less women having children. Stop having sex b4 marriage and wait… it will weed out a lot of no good men and pregnancies. Only real men will be fathers like they are suppose to and it won’t be hard to find if women set boundaries with these men. Men need to do the same as well.
@Linda Lowther couple of comments in here blaming men. Every situation is different but really both parties need to be blamed. Women just need to be careful about who they lay and have babies with if they feel men is the problem.
@Linda Lowther why are you going back and forth with me and being petty. Yes I am speaking for the comments that only is talking about men. The guy jus said this is due to fathers not protecting there families. That comment was strictly about men. I was saying it’s not just the mens fault. Just like when women complain about a man not tending to his kids after they break up or even if they don’t have kids… jus not being a good boyfriend or husband in general. U can’t blame the man all the time. If this situation has to do with a no good father than women need to pick better men and wait until marriage. Ppl need to stop fornicating and then their would be a lot less bad things happening period! I know what I am saying. I never said all of the peoples comments were just about men because they are all not! Everybody is not saying the same exact thing! Ppl can ask where the father is but like I said, if daddy ain’t right then women need to pick better men and close their legs until marriage. I am not downing this woman because we do not know the whole situation and if the man was in the childrens lives or not.
First of all being a "Single Mother" , that's one of the most toughest, challenging, noble position u can achieve. I really feel sooooo sorry for the sweet babies. We have to start saying we need "Help" as people.
@@nicolejennings8389 .........you can say that. But, if your relationship/marriage doesn't work out. What can you do about it. I soooo, agree about choosing a better mate. But, if a man wants to walk out. What do you do? I don't think anyone wants to be a "Single Mother". But, it happens......
@@nicolejennings8389 girl shut up people get divorced and separated all the time… and guess who society places the responsibility on to take care of kids? The mother
@@StylePink1198 I was raised by divorced parents and they're both failures sooo I stand by my original statement. My mom should have been smarter and chosen a different man to get pregnant by. They weren't mature enough to be parents or be married and that's why they failed.
@@nicolejennings8389 okay and then what say you about the countless married couples that harm or kill their children? Who is "weak" or "wrong" in that case? You speak from a place of privilege and ignorance.
She was already asking for help in her podcast, she said they're driving her crazyyy... We just have to really listen to these cues... The devil always lurks and waits for the perfect time to intervene.
All we know that mother may have been dealing with schizophrenia and never been diagnosed. So no we as parents don’t normally kill our children but when your at a different state of mind it’s possible to do the unthinkable.
@@Stephanie_pierre99 I didn't say we were all supposed to know she was going to kill her kids, yes we all say that as parents but maybe she never got a break. We don't know what anyone is capable of until they do it.
This is why when my nieces and nephews were growing up if my sisters said they needed a break I would take them for a weekend and sometimes they just wanted to sleep or watch a movie in peace it's true it does take a village every parent needs support
As a single mother who’d never ever hurt her child EVER I have to say this is why family support is so important. This woman loved her kids but trust me I know it can all get so overwhelming and in those times a person needs a break. That’s all that’s needed, a break to just sit down have a coffee listen to music alone or go out for some lunch or SOMETHING to just feel like there’s more to life than the school run cooking cleaning work and everything else we have to do. I feel so sorry for these babies and this mother it’s very very unfortunate.
As a mother I’ve been fed up , I’ve had times where I felt like I couldn’t do it anymore with my kids and all the pressure was on me . But I know I wouldn’t wanna hurt my babies no matter what’s going on . I’d send them away first .
Once again lives lost bc of a failed system if they would’ve don’t their job right the first time and made the charges stick in 2018 these babies would still be alive
They didn’t even say nothing FUCKN you talking bout ! They said the kids was missing but they were at the hospital with the mother !! & THE SYSTEM IS WORST !! Sooooooo stfu
This is the problem. There could have been other ways to give them, and their mother, the life they deserved. No one wanted to help the mother, only separate her from the kids. Mother's need fixing, not just their children.
I went through postpartum depression so bad dealing with the death of my older kids father which passed away suddenly at 38 yrs old August 4 2019 I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy! But thank God thru prayers it got better than it was b4😭🙏🏾😭🙏🏾
People always judge afterwards. However help ! Helping a mother is also helping her children. The whole aspect. This generation need to hold fathers accountable as well and if you see a “Single Parent “ help by any means possible. I see a woman with lack of support,love, work , pay bills. Probably Sacrificing her happiness for her children. We need to be there for one another. Sole parenting can crush you mentally and it spills out on to innocent kids. Men treat woman better.
Sounds like this mom snapped. People always think it’s a badge of honor to constantly have your children. No it’s draining and overwhelming. You see someone who has their kids every second offer them a break. I guarantee they will welcome the idea.
@@maryjohnson6127 Ms.Ma’am please get out my comments w that insensitive unrealistic bs. You dunno what to expect of parenthood until you become one. And every year there are new sets of challenges your met with while raising said children that require different aspects from you as the parent. We are all humans so it does indeed get tiring. I would think an old timer like you would know that.
Stuff like this I hate to see or hear about. My wife made me a father of 2 beautiful kids, and I will NEVER/ can NEVER see my self hurting my babies or causing any fatal harm to the flesh of my flesh & bone of my bone. My heart is flooded with tears for the family for such a sad and tragic event😔😔.
It’s so hard for me to listen to these stories of parents killing their children. Children are so innocent and don’t understand why mommy or daddy are hurting them. It sickens to me think about it. I am a single mother and love my teen daughters more than anything. Never would harm them even when life was stressful. I’ve been thinking about fostering/adopting a child. Stories like this make me want to provide a safe loving home for a child.
The enemy is out and about😱it’s looking for vulnerable people to do his horrific work. Stay on Gods path and don’t detour from that path, because the enemy (devil) is becoming more and more visible. No words can express the sadness I’m feeling for these precious kids. 😢😢
Why do people always have to resort to playing make believe and blaming a make believe man made boogie man for people making bad choices? Why can't you be mature adults and say, looks like this woman, needed some mental health help, and she made bad choices. This woman decided to kill her children, not the devil this little make believe fairy tale religion is ridiculous. You know, why I don't believe in the Bible, because I don't want to look like a fool praying to a God that committed genocide on my native ancestors and enslaved my African ancestors, why would I be that fool? I'm a grown woman, if I do something bad, I need to take care of it, I need to take the responsibility, not blame it on, some make believe devil grow up, do you think Santa Claus is real, what about the tooth fairy there is no proof that any gods exist, why are you believing in such 🐂💩?
I don’t have children yet i believe the are beautiful and innocent. I simply couldn’t imagine a parent wanting to harm such a beautiful being. May they rest in paradise. 🙌🏽
Wth did she kill them ?? What she a single mom struggling to raise them on her own? ...it's still not an excuse to kill your children ..there's places she could've went for assistance
As a mom of 3 & step son this breaks my heart, I was also taken away from my parents at a young age 9 months, & I would never give up on my kids I may not have got the love I was supposed to be & at times being a parent is hard but killing my own is never an option. My hearts go out to the 2 beautiful lives. I wander why this mom did this?
What’s the difference between this and abortion? One y’all praise the other y’all condemn. Rest in heaven all lives ended by the hands of their parents. #prolife
she was not always an attentive mom. idk why the news isn't reporting how in 2018, she set her mom's apartment on fire while her kids were sleeping in there, had a change of "heart" and was found with them in an emergency room. she went to jail for 1 year, and the kids were given back to her because the father did not show up to the court hearing.
@@siamsoup9071 Okay. So she lit her mothers apartment on fire - maybe to make her children and Mom exit the building ? Desperate people do desperate acts. I should know. If she was in jail for a year - what happened to her there ?! The father missed a court date and was denied custody. Ok, did he miss the court date because he had to work ?!?
@@kmc9452 What difference does it make that he missed the court date. Just because youvallow him to deposit is sperm does not make him a father. It's tough, you do not know what happened.
@@fefe6995 but he would have had them.when she was in jail. Giving birth don't make you a good parent either...she lit the house up with her kids inside and now they are dead...
Many people think seeking help for mental illness is weak. If it is diabetes or cancer etc. people look at it differently. We need to get to a place where it is okay to ask for mental help.
This instantly breaks my heart in pieces , those poor babies 😔I know we never know what people are going through but please pray and ask for help , our babies deserve to live ❤️
This literally brings tears to my eyes because as a mom of 3 I know what she may have been feeling at times. I feel for her children and her because even ppl outside the family know how much she cared for her children. Depression needs to be discussed and taken more serious because we’ve all experienced it before. And we shouldn’t be afraid to talk about those intrusive thoughts that pop up while we’re stressing with our children.
I keep telling people that women are TIRED!!! TIRED of boyfriends, husbands & children. Not surprised by this behavior, unfortunately, there is more to come. Men rarely step up & women are absolutely exhausted. May the souls of those precious children rest in peace.
No matter how exhausted a mother is, it's not an excuse to harm or kill your children. Use protection and wait until you're able to support yourself with the help of a man or anyone else. No reason is acceptable for harming a child or elderly person.
I feel so bad hearing this story. Those poor children. That poor mom must've been struggling so hard and couldn't tell anyone. This sounds to me like a mother who was sinking and didn't know where to turn for help. May they rest in peace. Sending love to the families
same here. everyone is talking down on the mother so bad but not one person has brought up the fact that their father was never mentioned. they’re dense and don’t wanna empathize cause “they would never”. i bet she thought she would never do it either but here we are..
The harsh realities of single mother burn out... this is tragic! Black women it's OK to say I NEED HELP. Too many of us are living with the burden of raising children by our self and trying to stay "STRONG" 💔
Just like it's best children have a mother and father. When the father see you're overwhelmed, he'll take the kids while you take a day. But we favor single motherhood over traditional relationships and believe murderous mothers to children are the REAL victims
@@asiabradley6744 "she needs help," "she was burned out," phrases like that screams victimhood. Like she was met with a challenge she couldn't overcome, so the children had to pay. Also, I have a question, why do alot of women praise single motherhood over a mother/father household?
@@jmcdrawer5031 I never said she was a victim though. I said this was tragic. I seen cases like this before. It stems from No help, post partum depression, no access to mental health care etc. And I can't answer that question but maybe you should also ask men why they decide to leave women to raise children alone. Being a parent isn't EASY by yourself. Do I agree with her sick choice NO. But don't come at a stranger on the internet because my choice of words didn't fit your narrative.
@@asiabradley6744 the reason I come at strangers is because it's alot of minors who read the comments as well and believe single motherhood and baby momma culture is normal. One sure solution to curve many cases of this advocating more father/mother households. When your husband sees you overwhelmed and burned out, he'll take the kids so you can take time to recoup. Unfortunately, I seen more talks about how family, neighbors, and the government should get involved instead in the comments. Barely any talks about a nuclear family. If we refuse to come back to that, more case like this will continue and more children will be murdered
Who are you to judge fool....who the **** do you think you are..you don't know what she was going through or suffering from....its tragic and sad on both sides
This truly breaks my heart 💔 no one knows what single mothers go through mentally!! The fear and the courage you have to have is enough to break. It really does take a village to raise a child but when it's just you it can be mentally harmful!
Some days I feel so depressed and miserable I pray to god to just take me and my child away. There has been times when I felt suicidal and felt like I couldn’t, wouldn’t, and shouldn’t leave my baby behind. Dark days and dark thoughts, only GOD helped me get through. Some days are better than others but everyday, mentally, emotionally, being a Human is hard, let alone being a MOTHER. Some people will never understand and I guess it’s not meant for them to. God knows your heart, your intentions, your struggles the pain you face, the thoughts you think. He sees you trying, he hears your prayers, he knows your heart, your soul he knows you. Even if the humans of this world don’t. Rip to the sweet little babies they didn’t deserve to have their lives taken away. God bless the world. 🤍
This hits home because lately my 2 kids have been driving me nuts and both are going through a phase especially my almost 6yo, I have these days where I feel like I wake up just to survive basically do the same shit everyday... I am diagnosed w anxiety and depression pretty bad as well, rarely get to sleep, always tired... and I have my days where I'm like I will knock your head off but I just breathe or I'll walk away before I hurt my kids I could never do this though 😭 ts gets tough, you gotta know when to ask for help 💯. RIP to them babies. Smh.
Some people should Not be Parents!!! She sang the TRUTH in her Song, (She tried to make it seem like a joke), it wasn't a Joke! The children don't have to Suffer anymore. May Jesus 💖 Christ have Mercy on her soul because they're severe consequences for shedding *innocent Blood and hurting the little Ones."
Can't say for certain but sounds like mental illness. Don't be ashamed to get therapy and or take medication that treats mental disorders. Family/friends don't be ashamed of talking to your loved one if you suspect mental illness and try and get them help
When I was 8, my classmates mother killed her three kids (6 months, 7 years old and 8 years old) by shooting them all in the head and wounding an 8 year old kid just outside playing. It was such a tragedy, I remember that day like it was yesterday. So sad 😢
@@rusty315 I remember hearing adults in my neighborhood saying that she had a nervous breakdown. Her children were always well taken care of then one day she lost it. The other kid that she shot who was just outside playing survived but was later murdered in a drive by shooting when he was 21.
It's so easy for people who dnt know what was going on in her mind to judge her. My heart goes out to the Mom and her Beautiful Angel's. May she get the proper help she needs. Rest In Peace young King and Queen🙏🙏🙏🙏
She was probably on some type of medicine or antidepressant medication. A lot of medication have really bad side effects and make you want to hurt yourself or others.
Everyone looks happy in the eye's of other's but never show the depression deep inside ..RIP TO THOSE KIDS i wish things like this don't happen but unfortunately it does..
The neighbor gave testimony that she was a good mother, the recordings and the pictures gives us the same idea so she had to have snapped. My sister thinks it's the pressure that this country puts on us all. Other countries get better benefits and healthcare etc.
And i really do believe that Jas, cause this is way to sad.. a neighbor heard crying and screaming but no one called the police or went next day to check on t family .I don't understand us at all...Rip
Didn't have good enough Healthcare? Did you not have welfare? Rest of us have to pay for our insurance. Stop using excuses. Maybe this covid craziness is made everybody crazy
@@franeccher1709 I'm assuming you specifically used the phrase "free benefits" because she's black. That's low of you but I digress. I was more so implying preventative measures or programs. I don't necessarily know what makes people snap but they must all have something in common.
It takes a village and Baltimore city community has lost that breaks my heart every day to see it. It doesn’t matter mom, dad even if it both parents sometimes parents need help! 💔
This woman should have reached out to someone, before having this happen. This had to be contemplated over and the moment she felt that she was going to do that, she could have given them up. Shoot, I would have even stepped in to freaking help. 🥺🥺🥺🥺 as a mother, I do not understand.
You know how many single mothers reach out for help to family members, just so that family member to talk bad about them. A lot of ppl suffer in silence because when you ask for help, the help turns around and tell everybody
@@haitianmajic so killing your children is the answer? It’s like defending a pedophile who molests a kid by saying they have a mental issue they didn’t have anyone to talk to cause they would be shunned. Still not an excuse.
I am the child of a single mother. I know it wasn't easy for her but she raised me well and got me to adulthood without killing me. Although this woman seemingly had some sort of mental breakdown, she is guilty of murder. She should be jailed as a murderer. A call to a hotline asking for help before this horrific act should have been in order before getting to this point if she couldn't deal with single motherhood.
It’s so sad what beautiful children and she just looks so normal like a normal mother who loves her children 🥲🙏🏾lord give this world strength healing love and guidance we are lacking as a whole 😤🙏🏾
Like someone else said,,you never know what goes on behind closed doors,,which means No one never really knows the real story all the time either,,you can never be too sure..I mean, what if she was dating someone and the guy she was seeing did something to her children and then she got accused? Or what if someone invaded her home, had her hostage and did something to her kids and then she got blamed...any scenario could be imagined...I don't believe every single story about parents killing their kids🙄she could've been accused and forced to confess to a crime she didn't do.
I thank God for keeping me sane being a solo mom of two, working, and going to school. I had tiresome days but when I saw my kids Smile as me when I would get home I got life back into me. I took them everywhere I went and if kids wasn’t allowed I didn’t go. Thank you God for a praying grandmother that is gone and still praying over us.RIP sweet babies
It’s sad that she felt she needed to result to doing this to her children. Mental health is so serious i don’t take it lightly as someone who deals with depression and bipolar i sympathize for her emotions. I pray she gets the help she needs and rip to the children 🥺 such a sad situation, absolutely heartbreaking 💔 my prayers are with the family 🙏🏼
@@jaharaibrown7660 I’m 🤔 confused. How is the dad to blame? By all means it’s important to have fathers in their kids lives but tbh if she was not mentally stable …. She could’ve still killed them even with him in their lives. It’s hella women out here that’s single moms, like myself and we’re not killing our children. I don’t see how humans have to be screened to do everything else in life like drive a vehicle, employment , college education but there’s No screening or requirements to have and raise a human being. Smh where was her family? They didn’t notice that shes crazy as hell? Nobody ever picked up on anything off about this chic? So selfish that she felt as though her life was more valuable then her babies. What made her feel like she had the right to live but they didn’t? She could’ve given them to someone else to raise them .
@@jaharaibrown7660 I wasn’t disagreeing with your comment. I agree with you…. I was tripping that the other person said the kids might still be alive if they dad was around, but I couldn’t reply to that post. My bad for the misunderstanding.
As a mom with ppd, I know how hard it is to hide the anger & hurt you deal with on a daily but I've learned to control my thoughts so I can raise my babies right. The ages are unbelievable. She should've gotten mental help a long time ago. It's important that when a parent asks you for help, HELP! It's extremely hard dealing with feelings of wanting to hurt yourself or someone else especially as a single parent.
