The old man at the start is so lovely. I love people like him in Japan. I’m half black and Japanese and japans is definitely getting more diverse and I love to see that. Japanese people are really kind. When I went to Australia that’s when I noticed more racism. Way more even when it’s more diverse 😂.
That’s my fave grandpa right there 😁 we had a long discussion off camera. He’s lovely and pretty open minded for someone who has never been out of Kanto ahaha
yeah, like the xenophobia might be a little strong in Japan, but i am Australian and live next to an African man and the bogans around here sometimes pick fights with him. it is incredibly upsetting to see... we are all the same species and are all human. we should all remember that, while still respecting each others cultures and differences.
Could it be that the culture is different? Japan seems to be a more timid and avoid confrontation even if they’re racist. I feel places like America and Australia ppl are more outspoken, so the racism is more obvious and known. Anyway, I’m not saying Japan is more racist. I’m just genuinely curious.
@@hana3211-d6n will arent white Australians decendants of European criminals dumbed into the continent, this explain their bad nature they are evil by nature.
@@sakurakou2009 I try to think that we are all humans and I try not to say one race is more evil than the other. However my ancestors (I'm half British and half Belgium, so my British English side) definitely did very evil things. Very bad things... a lot of races have, but... my race definitely very bad. But does that mean we are still evil? No. But there are still many white and many other racist people all across the world. My friend and I talk about how we think humans are still to primitive for how far we have gotten evolution wise. Humans still fight over religion, colour, wealth, power etc. It is silly... it's still like how animals fight over things. If only we could all realise we are all the same species and try to move on from the past while still acknowledging it. I don't know if it's because I'm Autistic... but I've never understood wealth and talent and race hierarchy. To me, we are all equal... some people are evil though and I don't like those people and Don't always believe they should be forgiven. I am sorry for what my race has done...
I am gaijin seated regularly. Doesn’t matter what I’m wearing. It’s usually older women and younger children that avoid me. Otherwise, mine is the last seat to be taken. Interestingly enough, junior high or high school kids don’t have issues sitting next to me so maybe the foreigner presence at their schools is working.
The same phenomenon is in Taiwan. I guess we could call it the "wai guo ren" seat. And like you said, the teenagers are more likely to sit down without frantically casting about for another seat. Many people choose to stand rather than sit next to me.
I lived 10 years in Japan and never experienced, that people avoided me. The opposite was the case: Japanese came up to me practicing English or German with me. That was annoying sometimes, so I practiced Japanese with them. I am a 1,80m blond person, so the opposite to most Japanese, but that never scared anybody.
At first, I felt like I was getting gaijin seated. But in my opinion, Sapporo’s pretty small with only 3 subway lines, so over time, people definitely started recognizing me and would sit next to me with no problem.
I'm not sure if anyone commented this yet, but I think the people willing to respond to you are not the ones that are likely avoid sitting or standing next to you on the train.
As a Japanese person, I never heard and seen the gaijin seat situation in my hometown, but I am sorry those who experienced unpleasant situation😞 Like some people mentioned in the video, I guess that some Japanese people leave seat because of the several possible reasons (I personally agree with the perfume thing), not simply because you are not Japanese. For example, I guess some Japanese people feel not comfortable to sit with strangers including Japanese people. I often find that Japanese people tend to sit the corner seats first, then sit the seats skipping next to strangers, and then sit the rest of the seats. I also found the person sitting next to me in middle part of the seat moved to the corner seat because he possibly feel comfortable with that position. Of course, any discrimination should not happen. I actually think non-Japanese people who live in Japan are very brave because as a person who live in Japan so long, living in overseas using a not familiar language sounds challenging to me. Even if you experienced those situation, please don't think that all Japanese people don't like you. I guess many Japanese people are just not familiar seeing oversea visitors in Japan, and even they have a positive impression, some are too shy to communicate with foreigners. I hope you are not experience getting hurt situation and hope you have a great day🙏
That was such a kind explanation. 💖 I understand the many reasons why it happens, and yes, some of those times, it may be racism. But it's not a Japanese thing, it's a human thing, and all those behaviors you mentioned are seen in every culture. You seem really kind, and I wish you blessings. 🙏🏽
The corner seat is the best seat because you can lean into it without bothering someone, even I will shift over to it if someone leaves. It does still happen where the seats next to me or around me are left free if there are other seats available which honestly is nice for me, I like having the extra space. When it gets crowded, people don't tend to care who they sit next to. Also I will occasionally make myself look 'scary' so I have more space.
Eringi, i can tell you that people are just too fragile really... Its not a crime not wanting to sit close to someone, its a bit stupid XD i agree. but its not a big deal. I was 3 months in tokyo and this happened to me almost all the time i took the subway, but really.. who care? if they want to sit the place is there. If they don't use it because im sitting there i see it as a "their" problem, not mine XD the reason doesn't really matter. Of course if its a person that has too much perfume , or stink, or is loud, i can off course understand that, not even i would sit close to that !^^ I'm italian, and what you described happen here all the time too, and i think everywhere honestly... people always take side seats, then stay far from people unless there are only "close to others" place available.
You are right, and I add one more (especially for old Japanese people): there are still people alive in Japan who lived through WW2 and hey, 2 atomic bombs is not something easy to forget. Therefore I find it perfectly normal that an elderly Japanese man would not want to sit next to a foreigner, especially if he looks like an American (there are many American soldiers and children of American soldiers in American bases in Japan, such as Okinawa). By the way, I wouldn't like him either and I would feel very ashamed if he were the son of one of these mercenaries who have invaded half the world with military bases. *I am Argentine and a few kilometers from my house there is an American base and of course that does not seem funny to me
I want to say that I lived in tokyo for 6 years and did not have this issue. I only heard foreign men complain about this issue. I think people can be shy and men are more intimidating. Also my friends and I were young and cute and maybe innocent looking, not scary in any way. Also, I sat up straight, very properly. I studied Japanese etiquette from a master and there is a correct way to sit for a lady. I love etiquette/manners. Maybe my overall attitude and vibe helped me. I had experiences where obachans sitting across from me would look at me and talk kindly about me to each other and say I was good, they'd smile at me. When I moved to Japan, I already knew basic Japanese so when people talked about me, I understood. Anyway, obachans were so kind and great!!!
@@teamojesusssYou’re all up in these comments girl and it’s petty af. Get your head outta Japanese peoples asses, lmao. It doesn’t hurt to acknowledge the bad sides to these countries.
I’m Japanese but I’m covered in tattoos so, I sometimes get tattoo seated (which I love actually) and I just get stares and glances constantly. And it’s not like I have face/neck tattoos (my hands are). So I think it’s with anything that’s not “normal” people tend to shy away from.
@@Yllah I thought you were going to elaborate on the method you used to put people at ease. I also think you guys did an incredible job. _especially your use of the Japanese language. I am currently learning to speak Japanese, and I also did a street interview. I was shocked at the number of Japanese people willing to talk with me. I did have a sign written in kanji, that explained that this interview was part of a language class course, and would be entirely in Japanese language. I also used a few eye catching props such as a big can full of candies from America, cold cans of A&W root beer, and other popular brands from America, as well as bottles of cold water. I also had a disclaimer * watashi no nihongo ga machigatte itara oshiete kudasai ne*. I was more than pleased with the turn out.
I lived in the countryside and had a wonderful experience. Sometimes a little too close 😅 but for the most part, countryside was better than metro because I felt like people in metro cities were tired of the bs that could happen. We can't ignore the common foreign tourists attitudes when they visit countries. Everyone doesn't know how to behave. So when I get to the countryside, many people knew they had less contact with foreigners and therefore tried to be more understanding or welcoming.
@@lemon4087 yeah it's been around since June 2022, a few months recently, channels can put guidelines before people comment (can't see on desktop tho). I watch streamers and they have guidelines to remind chat of reading the rules, but now I see more of other RU-vidrs have those too
Lol, how blunt and straight forward. But I can't deny that statement, we enjoy our space and comfort usually. Unless we know you and want to talk, we want nothing to really do with you. Even on bus rides to school growing up, it doesn't mean we hate you. We just want you to think that and leave us alone. Unless we absolutely need to- we won't talk to you. Or unless you are with someone who wants to be on good terms in case they ever see you again.
@seeyouinheaven Americans or foreigner people tend to be very sensitive. Don't bother, they have a mindset that won't change. I have the same mindset lol, I do think that they are more sensitive than most though. It's polite to not complain when you are not in your own home or space. Despite that they may think like a hypocrite (cause most do like comfort like anyone else), trust me that not all are like them
It’s not her job to tiptoe around the topic. If bringing up discrimination against foreigners makes them feel guilty, then maybe they should do something about it.
Interestingly I didn't really experience gaijin seat when I travelled alone. But when I was with a group of friends foreigners, it was common to experience the gaijin seat
A german here My father is like this When he sees a geoupnof forigin men he gets nervojs and scared I told him look even if they wherd crimanals u are nobwoman and u dont look rich so what are u scared off But he still is especialy if its a male group and it doesnt matter easr european middle east african refjgies thats the 3 grlups hes scared of like wtf And i think media definetly did its job there with all the bed news
@@YukiTheOkami I think Europe is quite special in this case because there actual crimes committed by group of people. But this is regardless of their origins. The crime rate in European countries is fairly higher than in Japan. Your dad is being cautious, as he should for his safety. If a group of people (and I emphasize: regardless of their origins or looks) seem off to you, you should trust your intuition. This video does not apply to other countries, but only in the context of Japan
@@Yllah jeh but i am not nessesarrily talking about crimes thaz happen here we get news from all over the world and i thinknthis applies to japan too especialy if something big happened Taking right winged propaganda news into account too wich i am sure japan is not save of either Exsmple same case two portcasters Neutral: " a group of university students broke into a store drunken and coused damage in worth off xxxxx" Anti foriginer propaganda" A foriginer gang broke in to a store demolished everything and gosed assumingly a milion dollar demage" And thats what i am talking about As if japan is save of this type of news o country is
I've never heard of gaijin seat but I think some Japanese locals (particularly those that are not usually exposed to different cultures) just avoid foreigners because it may be troublesome to deal with foreigners. I get that vibe sometimes when I travel there, I don't think it's necessarily a racial/skin colour thing. Kinda like how citizens of a country tend to mix with their fellow countrymen coz they understand the local culture so it's easy to communicate and be friendly. Especially because English isn't widely spoken in Japan as well and there has been some cases of visitors misbehaving in Japan. I can understand how it can come off rather unfriendly and prejudicial though. But more space in a crowded metro train especially in the COVID era sounds welcoming to me lol. Ofc there are instances of blatant discrimination in Japan like any other country, so situations should be judged on a case-to-case basis. Also, I suspect because Japanese culture is a certain way, like a high standard of etiquette etc is expected among Japanese ppl themselves but since they can't expect that of foreigners, some Japanese ppl avoid them. It's not a great way to do things but mindsets can be difficult and slow to change I can understand why the Japanese interviewees may not have heard of the term gaijin seat- it's probably used among foreigners living in Japan so the Japanese locals probably would not have heard of it at all. Also I can imagine that it doesn't affect them day-to-day, so it's not something that will be lingering on their minds
@@manchagojohnsonmanchago6367 Not something unpleasant, just something that isnt/wasnt part of the culture until recently. I am 50+ and in my teenage years literally noone I saw had tattoos (probably sailors and former inmates, but not mainstream ppl, not even the local punks - they wore safety pins as piercings!). Germany, city of 100,000.
i'm half japanese and gaijin seat does exist. it's not that they never heard about it. if you ride public transportation in a regular, there's no way you're not gonna notice it. especially in places like tokyo, when trains are packed and everyone's standing but you see an empty seat next to a foreigner. there are definitely racism in japan, it's just not loud.
Yeah buddy okay if you don’t want Tokyo to turn into NYC then we need this “racism”. It’s a slippery slope from there. There are countless studies on the negatives of racial diversity and multiculturalism.
I went with my family and me and my dad were left many empty seat space when i went pre covid a while back. I knew it was sorta discrimination because i was mixed and my dad is black but it meant extra space during rush hour so i didn’t mind 💀💀
I’m a Japanese guy with wide shoulders and people avoid sitting next to me until it’s fully packed and people are forced to sit. It’s not just gaijin who have this problem 😂
@@timclark428 they may not be aware of the term, but anyone can see that the seats next to us are the last to be filled. I think they may deny this to avoid an unpleasant subject. For myself, I just use that space for my bag - a silver lining.
I live in Japan for around 20 years. I could share some thought: 1. Japanese do not like to disturb others. Including talking on the phone, or chit chat with loud voice that might disturbed others 2. Japanese do not like people with strong smell (parfume).. ise parfum lightly is ok, but if smell too strog it is kind of rude.. because the act effect others that smells 3. Even with Japanese, unless they are very close and familiar, they dont talk much, especially on the train. 4. Talking with voice that might be heard considered impolite. Because of that act disturbed others people that doesn't want to hear the noise 5. Privacy means, you could do your privacy things, but try not to disturbed others privacy. Like smells, noise, etc
Hello, is it true that even you learn japanese in japan, you will not be accepted in community as one of them? And always gonna stay as foreigner in their eyes? And can you inform me about foreigner job acceptance?
@@deniztemel5018 I spend most of my life, work, and have fun in Japan. I join some volunteer's group, and some arts club, like traditional Japanese martial arts club, Japanese calligraphy study club, etc. I never ever experienced any racism at all. I think it all depends on ourselves. And it is our own choice. And I do not hate my identity. So I prefer to be as myself, as a foreigner, that live daily lives with Japanese. So, I do not want to change my identity or citizenship. I love my origins,.. and I do love to live in Japan. Every year on new year, I participated to help at a Jinja (shrine) nearby, and I do got invited to make mochi every year with some families (some Japanese family still do this tradition, where the children came home with their own family, making mochi, and have a great time together. So, the answer will be yes and no. It all depends on ourselves. In fact, every year on new year, is quiet busy for me, since I always get invited by some families to celebrate new year with them
Maybe only us foreigners notice this as it is happening to us and the Japanese do it so often that they don't even think about it and thus think it doesn't exist? Or is it a location thing because I definitely experience it very often on the train, even standing.
In my experience, its not really a thing. A lot of the people in the video even said they’ve never heard of it. Its just a certain narrative being pushed unfortunately.
My friend, Japanese people will say that there are no gay people in Japan and that they are the only country with four seasons. Put your thinking cap on.
@@11Nicolaion11 I love how you say “put your thinking cap on” but you’ve clearly haven”t put yours on, when you’ve just generalised a whole population from one opinion said by some conservative. Its like saying all caucasians are pedos just because I only see white people on the news as pedos. Youve clearly never did well in school and it shows
no, its not a thing. This video is so forced on it. I see hundreds of foreigners on a train (im a foreigner myself) and I've never experienced anything like this. Never even heard of such term. These people made it up just so they can probably make a video out of it.
People's experiences are indeed different. I am an Asian gaijin wearing hijab living in Tokyo. I also travelled to other prefectures. I never once experience the gaijin seat and Japanese people are very kind to me. In contrary, I was ignored and received unpleasant treatment from some African ladies when I bought some African foods in an African festival in Hibiya Park Tokyo. They were nice to other people. I could not understand why they were mean, because I only talked to them briefly and politely and I like African foods and cultures. I never go to any African festivals ever since. 😄 Also, when I was living in Australia, I sometimes received hateful anti-muslim remarks from strangers (Caucasian, some with American accent). In Japan, I also received hateful anti-muslim remarks from strangers (all were Caucasians with American accent). Imagine how annoying it is and so pathetic of them to harras me even when they are not in their country. I was not doing anything, not even talking. From my experience, I never receive those kinds of bigotry from Japanese people. That's why I love living in Japan.
It could also depend where the African women were from in some African countries Islamic dictators actively oppress their non Islamic population. Not an excuse for them to treat you that way just some perspective.
@@ugi2559 yes, it definitely cannot be used as an excuse for those African ladies. For example, just because I often received hateful anti-muslim remarks from Caucasians strangers with American accent, doesn't mean that I should treat Caucasian Americans with prejudice and hatred.
I'm an American and I'm sorry you were treated that way. I would never treat a Muslim person that way. In fact one of my closest friends is Muslim and she was my roomy in college. She went through two major incidents where they told her something nasty. She was married to an American too. Geez some ignorant people
@@violetlight8138 the world needs more people like you. Thank you for being so kind. Your words mean so much to me. I understand that most Americans are kind. The bigoted ones are very few. This is why I don't have negative feelings/prejudice towards Americans. My favorite singers and movie stars are Caucasian Americans. I literally watch American movies everyday. I have hundreds of blu-ray and DVDs of American movies. In the world where we all need to love and respect one another, sadly, there are bigots in every country, including mine.
Thanks for posting such an insightful video. I’m an American, who lived in France for years and who speaks French but I did notice much the same phenomenon when I lived there, largely I think attributable to a general inability among average French people, to speak English, but also doubtless partially because of the boisterousness of some foreigners, particularly Americans. I had the marvelous opportunity to work twice in Tokyo for months each time, and I do not speak Japanese. I did not notice (perhaps because I wasn’t perceptive enough) the behavior you describe. To the contrary, I found Japanese people, even those who understood neither English nor French, graciously offer to help me navigate the subways or decipher menus when eating in a restaurant.
lmao the video creator did NOT say all Japanese people do this, or claim that it's always racism. You're the one jumping to these conclusions. It's funny that some Japanese people resort to writing these long responses to "prove" they're not racist, and in the process, make themselves look much more racist than if they said nothing to begin with.
I've been in Japan for over a decade and I never got gaijin seated ever. I'm alt, have a lot of piercings, long pointy nails, and stand out a lot but for whatever reason the seat next to me usually fills very quickly. I wish I was gaijin seated though. Stay tf away from me lol
As a foreigner who experiences the gaijin seat on a daily basis I really loved this video. It gives me hope that there are a lot of Japanese people out here that do get it and do genuinely want us to have a comfortable experience in their country. The first man you talked to made me smile so much 🥰
Could it be because of cultural shyness and the fear of being judged by fellow Japanese? I'm a Mizo and cultural shyness is a thing here in Mizoram, Northeast India. Not that people don't want to, but that they feel awkward and shy. While I agree some do it out of dislike of other races, esp Black people. Anyway, we can't always use western yardsticks to measure Asian societies since the nuances are different.
12:43 I’m in Japan. And fortunately have not experienced any issue of “ gaijin seat”, in fact many tried to offer their seat when I’m with my child.Though sometimes some people don’t mind offering seat but it doesn’t matter. It takes courage for some to even talk to foreigners 😊.
I am Japanese. I saw a critique video of this video a while ago and wanted to comment. i have a few questions. First, let's talk about the "Gaijin Seat". If a Japanese person leaves their seat when a foreigner sits next to them on the train, it is often because most Japanese people are shy and carefree. I think this is not because I dislike foreigners, but because I don't have confidence in my ability to communicate and I get confused about what to do if someone talks to me. Behind this is Japanese culture. We are an island nation, not a landlocked country like Europe and the United States. Therefore, I didn't have many opportunities to interact with foreign countries. In recent years, the movement of globalization has become more active, and more and more people are coming from abroad. If you are Japanese, you speak Japanese. That's why I'm very surprised when I see people from overseas sometimes. It's even better when you can talk to them. Also, even if we are Japanese, we don't often talk to each other when we meet for the first time. I think this is Japanese manners. From your point of view, it may look like you are avoiding it too much, but this is just because you are not used to the opportunity. There is also a linguistic reason for the unfamiliarity with English. It is a feature of Japanese katakana. Japanese is different from other languages in that it listens to newly introduced foreign words and transforms them into katakana and incorporates them as Japanese. For this reason, Japanese can adapt to the changes of the times every day, and the need for English does not increase so much. Globalization is progressing, and English is studied from elementary school to university, but there are few opportunities to use it. Unless you're going to a school or company that emphasizes English. Finally, I would like to mention the manners of the questioner. Most of the Japanese listeners in this video were respectful and polite to the questioner. For example, using comparative expressions or using honorific expressions. However, the questioner suddenly asked, "Why do Japanese people discriminate?" Even though they clarified their reasons and said, "There are Japanese who discriminate and there are Japanese who don't. Not all Japanese discriminate." Why did the questioner use the phrase "Japanese people discriminate"? Quite frankly, I was shocked. Perhaps it is the questioner who has a sense of discrimination? This may also be due to cultural differences, but I think it is important to remain calm and respect each other when arguing. Also, in one scene, after this remark, he proceeded to claim, ``I was actually discriminated against,'' and finally made the listener apologize. I felt very sad about this. he's not bad ! I'm so sorry.
The interviewer was not saying "all Japanese people discriminate". In English, referring to "Japanese people" does not mean "all Japanese people", it depends on the context. Here, it only referred to the ones who do discriminate.
Hi I am from the UK and I really feel I might understand the Japanese fear of saying the wrong thing to a foreigner. If your culture has a lot of unspoken rules about communicating just amongst yourselves, then speaking to any stranger is taxing, foreigners more so.
I remember travelling to japan with my classmates and teacher in 2018, we weren't sitting but standing. The funny thing is that I'm a pretty light skinned east african girl and I had straight hair during that time. So people couldn't really tell if I'm a foreigner or not lmao. I remember these two middle aged japanese women talking about me (not in a bad way though). They were speculating wether I'm a foreigner or not. "あれ, 外国人ですか?" They were so surprised that it made me feel like a unicorn from outta space. Then I accidentally dropped my yen coins from my pocket ( so embarrassing ) and they helped me to pick them up. Even some people from around helped me picking them up. So I said "ありがとうございます". (Thank you) And it was at this moment, they knew, I was indeed a foreigner. That was quite an experience. So yeah, I think that all the points people addressed were pretty accurate. I think it's important to not take things personally right away. Bc I think even if you are a foreigner, when you are in need people won't shy away to help you out in some way. Even if they were scared sitting or standing beside you in the beginning. It's only human nature to be scared of the unknown. The question is always how you deal with it. On the other hand I think odour is a BIG one. My teacher made sure none of us were using perfume or way to strong smelling shampoo etc. and she even made us abide by the so called "japanese dresscode". It wouldn't be surprising if someone changes seats bc you smell to strong. Luckily this is smth that can be fixed :D
This happens to me quite often as well. Although, it could be for many reasons. I am the type of person who only wears all black and has a bit darker makeup and is quite tall but I am also the type of person who follows the rules, strictly. I never talk on the train, never eat or drink and always remain to myself. I could come off as a bit shocking to some older people but it still hurts a bit. Most of my friends here have darker pigmented skin and I myself have noticed more discrimination towards them than myself as a white person. Not only on the train but in the street or in a restaurant. Even if my friends' japanese is better, Japanese people still decide to talk to me when my japanese is not as great and that's what makes me so unbelievably mad. Discrimination happens with almost every foreigner but the more different you are in appearance, race and skin color the more you'll get discriminated here. I am happy that things are changing because times are changing so it is a slow process but I hope that in the future, more people will be open to the idea of foreigners. We're all just people with lives of our own regardless of our country or race. If most people here knew and understood that, perhaps everyone could live comfortably together. Homogamous or not.
I'm a big black man that moved from Japan last year after 7 years. I must say people always sat next to me on the train. I never felt discriminated on the train. When I hear about this issue its usually from my white friends who are used to being the majority. I'm not saying it doesn't exist...I just never noticed it. Actually I would prefer if nobody sat next to me because a lot of the Salary men would have some bad body odor at rush hour...lol.
I sympathize with the old man in the blue T-shirt.🙄 Even though he said "I don't know, I don't avoid foreigners" he seemed to be being blamed and made to apologize by the interviewer as if all Japanese were jointly and severally responsible. 😂
You’re reaching really hard with that. People have different personalities. He was apologetic while other people weren’t. It seems you have some biases against the interviewer
When i went to tokyo didn't have a single issue with this. Actually had a few people sit directly next to me pretty frequently even when other spots were open. Tbh as a black person it surprised the hell out of me.
There is discrimination against Asians in America and Europe, but not everyone is like that Even if there is discrimination against foreigners in Japan, not everyone is like that.
I get what you trying to say and nobody is ignorant of discrimination elsewhere in the world but for this video, it would be nice to know why it happens in Japan. Stating that there is discrimination elsewhere does not help us get to the why part.
@@maysethusha9718 It's always the response from "Japanophiles", load your sentence with "but this happens in other countries too!", because the romanticised image of Japan cannot be judged directly, in the eyes of these people.
Just no. You sound like the kind of person who says “white lives matter” and “not all men”. Clearly defending against some attack you falsely perceived on your idealized image of Japan. Invalidating peoples experiences by saying “but decent humans exist too” isn’t serving anyone.
I think this is more like lookism of some kind. I'm Japanese and I look like a typical Japanese person in the sense that people don't assume I'm a foreigner. But I've also experienced this many times. It's likely because I look scary or something. I don't remember how many times I've been told that I look scary or like a yakuza member. Some people just look scarier than others, and it just so happens that a lot of foreigners, especially non-Asian ones, look as intimidating as a yakuza-looking Japanese person like me.
I think another aspect of this, in SOME cases, is the way foreigners sometime sit. I often see foreigners on the train sitting down bent over on their phones in a way that they are just taking up a lot of space, or at least more than they would be if they were sitting straight up in the seats. (I occasionally see Japanese people doing the same thing, but much less) Being aware of other people and how your position might inconvenience someone else is obviously something you get to understand after being here a while. But maybe some Japanese people see these types of people and get an impression that sitting next to foreigners might be a little trouble some. ( just an idea from a fellow gaijin that knows what it's like to be gaijinseated ^^ )
I am glad you understand. You are absolutely right in your opinion. I have traveled abroad and from my perspective as a Japanese, people abroad seem to be surprisingly close and relaxed with others. This is a scene that is not so common in Japan.
This is one of my objections to public transit and airplanes in the U.S. We're a very Me society. One reason I didn't experience the gaijin seat in Japan could be body language. I do not hog space. And I'm also the exact size of the average Japanese men in my generation (younger folks are bigger in Japan).
Please come and watch BrooklynTokyo's video. I think you will find the answer to your question in the responses in the comments section. Here is my opinion. Japan is a mono-ethnic country. Therefore, if there are people from overseas, we naturally tend to look in that direction. For example, if there is only one black flower among yellow flowers, it is natural that it will catch their eyes. I think this is what many foreigners mean when they say they feel the gaze of others. There should be no sense of discrimination in this regard. Also, we Japanese who grew up in an all-Japanese environment naturally have a different perception than people from multi-ethnic countries. It is better to lose the perception that it is natural to speak English. In Japan, there is a saying, "When in Rome, do as the Romans do. If you come to Japan, you must follow Japanese rules in everything. This is everything. Naturally, the reverse is also true. When we Japanese go abroad, we observe the rules and manners of the people overseas. I have opportunities to speak to people from overseas, and many of them speak to me in English even though they are in Japan for some reason. If you come to Japan, you should at least learn some Japanese language or have the idea of using Google Translate to speak to them. Also, people from overseas often speak loudly on trains. In Japanese trains, the rule is basically to be quiet. I think these points make many Japanese people feel bitter as they are not able to practice "go to the hometown, follow the hometown". Basically, like the people in this video, there are few people who have discriminatory thoughts toward people from overseas. The "discrimination" that foreign people feel in Japan is probably due to one of the following reasons: 1. they do not speak English, so they are confused and do not want to get involved; 2. they are large and bulky; 3. they do not observe Japanese manners; or 4. they do not speak Japanese well enough. I think this is due to one of the following reasons. I would appreciate it if more people from overseas would understand this. If they understand this, I believe that Japanese people will warmly welcome them when they come to Japan. Except for a few racists.
I m Japanese but i got the same type of experience when i lived in Madrid, Spain. I guess it could happen anywhere. Here in Japan, I avoid sitting next to man and woman wearing a thick down jacket in winter time⛄️
It’s a simply fear of unknown which is human nature. That’s a pretty much same response I received when I visited/drove through tiny village of Appalachian mountain, it happened on Rt 50 somewhere in Kansas as well. It was kind of awkward but once I started taking to the people things were much more smoothly went, talked to them,know people,try understand each other. Yap,I’m Japanese who lives in states long enough to have grandkids. Racism? unless you want crap happen to you or looking for one I don’t see it much as some people want to believe there is, I’m not one of them.
Japan is a safe country and we do not like unpredictability. Our greatest fear of all is suddenly being spoken to in English. Japanese people cannot speak English, but they make an effort to answer in English. Being spoken to in English on a quiet train with many people on it is like having to answer in a large university classroom in English that you cannot speak. It is inevitable that you want to avoid it. The strong smell of perfume , people speaking to you in English, and the fact that you are large with your legs spread apart are all reasons why people do not want to sit next to you. Some foreigners do not consider the situation of Japanese people, and if they feel uncomfortable, they say, "Discrimination!" This is probably another reason why we avoid foreigners. If they make a fuss about discrimination against us for acts that are not malicious, then it is better to stay away from them. There may be a lot of discrimination in other countries, but creating discrimination and turning people from other countries into racists with your own paranoia will only make the situation worse. Bringing racist acts in your own country to other countries and saying, "It's offensive! Racism! "is selfish thinking. If a Japanese person went to another country, he or she would investigate the situation in that country and make sure that his or her behavior was not wrong. The basic rule is "when in Rome", do as the Romans do.
@@fazbell Offense is taken, not given. If you take offense to something where none was meant whatsoever and you try to justify it through a prism that is familiar to you but not applicable to the situation at hand, then yes, it is you who should step back and re-examine the situation and your own behavior. Japanese culture values 反省 which very roughly translated means self-reflection. When an unpleasant situation happens, first examine how your behavior and actions may have caused it or contributed to it. On the other hand, westerners are highly confrontational, rather than defuse a situation they escalate, even if they are not right (wholly or partially). And the irony is you are doing the same, you got a genuine Japanese point of view which is not invalid and gives you a better understanding of the other side, but here you go completely missing the point and dissing a hole culture while at it. Great job.
But this concern is being raised by foreign residents of Japan who find themselves avoided on trains *despite following the rules* Taking your own anecdotal experiences with bad actors and then generalizing those into a practice of avoiding all foreign residents based merely on their outward foreign appearance and nothing else is in fact discriminatory. And this whining defensiveness is extremely annoying and pathetic. You’re in the majority and nothing is going to happen to you even if you continue to discriminate but you still feel the need to whine about RU-vid videos that have no actual effect on your life
@@Andrew-jb2iy Is it really though? As a foreign resident myself that has been here for close to a decade, the only ones I hear complaining about this are Americans, especially non-caucasian. Again, if you have a strong smell (does not matter if B.O. or perfume or detergent), or are loud, or overflowing into MY seat, look like you got a chip on your shoulder or look like trouble then don't be surprised if people want a bit of distance. You make it sound like all Japanese discriminate against all foreigners, which is simply not the case. As a tour guide, I've met thousands over thousands of foreigners in Japan over the past decade. We never had a problem with this, and the only ones bringing this up and immediately crying racism were...surprise surprise, African Americans. And not single one of them was "Japanese size". Regarding the bad actors - that's called learning. Yes, blanket stereotyping is not good, but it exists for a reason. If you have repeated bad experiences with any group (no matter what that group is, whether ethnicity, religion, gender, or a species of ferrets for all I care) you will be more wary around that group. If you buy only Ford cars and each of them breaks down on you and even burns down, you as sure as heck won't look kindly on someone who comes in all high and mighty and starts breating you about your experiences. These clickbait videos insinuating that Japanese are inherently racist are just clickbait to get views, sympathy and outrage.
I used to think there was such a thing as Gaijin Seat too. But after living here for more than 6 months and observing everyone on the train everyday, I’ve realized that normally, even Japanese don’t like to seat next to Japanese. It was never that they don’t like to seat next to a foreigner, but more of they’d prefer no one seating on either sides if they can.
I lived in Japan for 3.5 years as a foreigner and traveled to many prefectures as well but Gaijin Seat never happened to me. I’m a brunette Caucasian but as short and as petite as most of the Japanese girls, so maybe it was the reason. There were even times when Japanese people would squeeze themselves between me and another Japanese just to have a seat on trains. Interesting that people in Japan ask for permission to seat next to you on buses and they always did that in my case.
I am a female german and lived/worked in Japan (Sapporo) for one year, also travelled there several times. People did always sit next to me in the train and bus. I was even annoyed sometimes because i wanted to sit alone, there was so much free space but someone had to take the seat next to me. Anyway, i dont think its about being a foreigner. Its more about your whole appereance. I am 1,60 cm small, skinny, actually body type same as japanese and dressed like the japanese. If you are a big, probably also overweight guy with beard (facial hair is not sooo common) then people could be bit scared and you have to consider the seats are smaller in Japan. Gender, cloth, body size, facial hair, tattoos, hairstyle, strong parfum/no parfume everything together is deciding if people sit to you
I am sorry if the translation is incorrect. I am a Japanese high school student and live in Tokyo. I take the train for about 30 minutes when I go to school, but I've never heard of anything like a gaijin seat, and no one around me has ever heard of it. So, I will summarize my own views. 1. First of all, Japanese people still have a culture of wearing masks due to the Corona disaster, and many people are afraid of Corona. However, as far as the video shows, the interviewer's women don't wear masks, and the Japanese usually wear masks. In other words, if she doesn't wear a mask on the train, there is a great possibility that she will be avoided. (I don't often see people without masks in Japan.) 2. Even among Japanese, there are people who lacks consideration leave when someone sits next to them. So I don't think this is a matter of racism or anything. That's my opinion. I am waiting for objections to my opinion and comments of approval. Please feel free to comment.
Masking could be a cause given at least in home countries, face masks can be an incendiary cultural issue like the US. I can see how if tourists ignore face masks, immigrants can be associated with. However, the interviewer likely is not wearing a face mask in this video since her persona is a large part of the channel, and her daily off-camera habits may be different. In your experience, what habits do you notice with foreign residents in Tokyo regarding masking? I assume most adhere to masking norms to avoid social tension and are likely disconnected from the cultural battles in their birth countries. Long-term foreign residents, like students and immigrants, are likely the group most affected and vocal about gaijin seat since tourists may not notice the phenomena during short trips Also your translation came out well and should be proud, especially if you wrote it by hand. Love your username btw
Well, i ve lived in Tokyo for 2 years and took the bus to go work everyday , and well, i didnt see foreigners often, but always i see them, there wasnt really nobody avoiding them, but yeah, just wanted to tell it based on my experience
Your comments are really good. I do think the masks especially would be a big factor. Also, Tokyo is probably the best place since it sees the most international traffic, tourists and exposure to western culture in all of Japan (at least, to my best knowledge). So probably this 'gaijin seat' is more noticeable in smaller cities/towns/countryside.
This is a matter of unintentional prejudice. I lived in Japan for 7.5 years. Before coronavirus and during. The gajin seat has existed all during that time. How often do you speak to foreign people not in a school setting? Of course if you speak to other Japanese people, you will get that sort of response. I noticed the gajin seat the most during crowded trains or if I had a darker skinned friend with me. Foreign people understand its not intentional. But think of it this way- if in America, people don't want to sit next to Japanese people because they speak a different language or don't have tattoos- isn't that wrong? Edit: Also- this is important- in English "racism" can be both intentional AND unintentional. In Japanese that doesn't always translate well . Often Japanese people think it's racism only if it is intentional.
The gaijin seat has been a thing for decades. I’ve never been to Japan before and even I had heard of it! Also, one of the people interviewed wasn’t wearing a mask either so it’s clearly not just a foreigner thing. Many people decide to take their masks off when outdoors but will put it back on when they go to closed spaces like the train.
I'm Japanese. In my opinion, I think that foreigners are positioned between people who actively avoid and ordinary Japanese people. There are various types of people that I want to actively avoid, such as those who behave strangely, are badly dressed, have a large body, spread their legs wide, or have a strong smell. Rather than being a foreigner, it is bigger reason to avoid them because they are big or have a strong smell. Also, I avoid sitting next to a foreigner than a normal Japanese person, but rather than someone who looks scary. Basically, I sit next to a normal Japanese person, then next to a foreigner (someone who isn't big or doesn't smell), and if it's not vacant , I stand. I think there are many people who unconsciously choose who to sit next to and avoid . I think it's a human defensive instinct, because this kind of thing happens even outside of Japan.
@@kalinga2nihonbehaving strangely probably like how crackheads act or just a weird person and badly dressed as in looking homeless I guess that’s what he’s trying to say ?
@@kalinga2nihon Person on the phone on the train. Person who talks alone all the time. Person speaking loudly. Hip hop culture fashion.(In Japan, there is a perception that hip-hop culture is strongly associated with drugs.) These are not very popular behaviors in Japan. However, this is not limited to foreigners. Japanese people will be equally disapproved of this kind of behavior. My English is so bad so I'm using a translation. Sorry if it is hard to understand.
it certainly is a defensive instinct. Man, don't forget that the "foreigners" dropped 2 atomic bombs on your heads, killing about half a million civilians... I would also be afraid, mistrust and look at them with suspicion, especially the Americans or their descendants who have military bases in Japan (and in half the world by the way). They must appear barbaric in the eyes of Japanese society and it's 100% normal.
I hate how scent became a issue. I gotta say that's pretty universal. Don't matter what race you are or where you are. Their's someone thats not going to like a scent you find pleasent but disruptive to others.
The first Japanese man they interviewed was very open minded. ❤ I just visited Tokyo, Osaka, and Shinjuku. I feel like Japan is much more open with diversity. Japan is safe, people are friendly. It’s such a lovely country. I love Japan.❤❤❤❤
I am using a translator, so my English may not be good, but I hope you will read it. I am Japanese, but I hesitate to sit next to Japanese people as well as foreigners. This is out of a precautionary measure to avoid causing discomfort to the person sitting next to me. In addition, there is a sexual abuse on Japanese trains called "痴漢" (molestation). To avoid this, many people, both Japanese and non-Japanese, do not sit next to others. I also take the train to school, and even if there is an empty seat, I would not sit next to it. This is because I would feel just a little uncomfortable if I were to sit next to someone. I don't want others to feel the same way, and I don't want them to direct their dislike toward me, so I don't act the same way. Japanese people are more introverted and sensitive to other people's feelings. There are at least some who avoid foreign people because they feel discriminated against them, but I believe there are more who do not. I am a high school student and I have not seen any of my friends in school who have an aversion to foreigners.
I drive so fortunately, I don't have to deal with this on a regular basis but it has happened to be before. I live in the countryside and I'm heavily considering moving to a bigger city. Definitely showing some Japanese people this video cause they love to claim other Japanese don't do these kinds of things.
Japanese here. If you really want to see if Japanese people avoid sitting next to foreigners -Sit on a seat next to a edge seat (locals prefer edge seats and avoid middle seats. I always stand instead of sitting if edge seats are not available.) -Take off sunglasses (weird as it may sound, many locals dislike people wearing sunglasses in public transport.) -Use deodorant if you have strong armpit odors (Unfortunately this often applies to certain nationalities) -Avoid using very strong perfume -Don’t spread your legs and shoulders (Locals often try to squeeze their shoulders and save space to the next passengers. Seat length are very narrow on these trains.) -Hold your backpack on your laps or the shelf -Don’t converse loudly across the seats (I’ve seen it countless times in Tokyo) There are several codes to follow on a Japanese commuter train, and people won’t say it out loud. If someone don’t follow it they simply give a blank stare and avoid them. This is also the case with local people too. Most of locals don’t care if you’re foreigner or not as long as such rules are followed. I’m certain people will sit next to you 99% time. And in case someone avoid sitting next to foreigners, it’s not due to the hatred or negativity. I haven’t heard or known anyone who hates foreigners and avoid sitting next to them. These people are usually very shy or feared of being spoken in English. Majority won’t care and they just want to sit and relax rather than standing if the seat is comfortable. One thing I want to highlight: If you’re sitting in a middle seat next to a local passenger, and edge seats become available, this person will likely move to that seat. I’ve seen many foreigners ranting this is racism but it’s not. Local simply prefer sitting on the edge seats as it’s more spacious and don’t have to worry about squeezing their shoulders not to bothers next persons.
Went to university here, lived here several times, for years at a time. My arms are visibly tattooed. Never in my life have I experienced this or heard of gaijin seat. I have friends from all over the world, all different ethnicities and none of them have ever mentioned this. If this is a phenomenon then it'd say it's perhaps only happening in the countryside or under very specific circumstances. Funnily enough I myself will not sit next to gaijin because I don't want to have a conversation lol
I used a translation software, so sorry if it sounds strange. Most of the time, I think it is paranoia. Some people may be like that, but it is not limited to Japan, and there are people who keep their distance from foreigners in every country. I don't like to describe Japan as if it is particularly bad. But if I were to consider the cause, I would say that some Japanese are naturally afraid of foreigners when they learn about the horror of foreign crimes in the news. I have seen many videos, for example, of a black man with a big, muscular body, who looks to be over 6 feet tall, beating up an Asian grandmother. This is neither your problem nor the problem of foreigners, but the problem of too much security in Japan. There is also the issue of body size. If there is a seat with a large Japanese person and another seat with a small Japanese person, I will sit next to the small Japanese person. I prefer to sit next to the smaller Japanese because I want to feel relaxed. Maybe it is not a question of nationality, but rather your size, and you just happen not to be sitting in that seat. I try to observe this story because there are many foreigners who tell this story, but I have never once seen such a scene on a train in Tokyo. However, the foreigner himself may have experienced a lot. If this happens, instead of rubbing it in that you are a foreigner, why don't you try to make it easier for the person sitting next to you by not spreading your legs apart? Also, if you really want them to sit next to you, smile and talk to them and tell them they can sit next to you. Japanese people are shy and don't get many chances to talk to foreigners, but it makes me happy to hear you say so. 翻訳ソフトを使ったので、変な表現になってたらすみません。 大抵の場合、被害妄想だと思います。 中には、そういう人もいるかもですが、日本に限った事ではなく、どこの国にも外国人に距離を保つ人はいます。 日本が特別悪いような表現は好きではありません。 でも、もし原因を考えるなら、日本人の中には、ニュースで外国の犯罪の恐ろしさを知ると、自然と外国人を怖がる人もいると思います。 体が大きくて、筋肉質な体で、身長も180センチ以上もありそうな黒人の男性が、アジア人のおばあさんを殴ってる映像など、沢山見ました。 これはあなたの問題でも、外国人の問題でもなく、日本の治安が良過ぎる事が原因です。 また、体のサイズの問題もあります。 私は、体が大きな日本人がいる席と、体が小さな日本人がいる席なら、小さい体の日本人の隣に座ります。 なぜならリラックスして座りたいからです。 もしかしたら、国籍の問題ではなくて、あなたの体が大きくて、たまたまその席に座らなかっただけの事もあります。 この話をする外国人の人が多いので、私はよく観察するようにしていますが、東京の電車の中で一度もそのような光景を見た事がありません。 とはいえ、外国人本人は沢山経験しているかもしれませんね。 もしこのような事が起こった時には、自分が外国人だからだという理由にこじつけるのではなく、隣に人が座りやすいように、足を広げないなどの工夫をしてみたらどうでしょうか? あと、本当にあなたの隣に座ってほしかったら、笑顔で話しかけて、隣に座っていいですよって話しかけてみてください。 日本人はシャイで外国人と話す機会はあまりないけど、そう言われると嬉しくなります。
Where are these alleged videos of large black men beating up elderly asians? Never seen one in my life. Also, I have no doubt that if that did happen in Japan, there would be a huge movement to deport every black person. What youre saying is unreasonable, and we have a word for it in english: RACISM
I never experienced and I'm a bit small. So maybe that part is correct. I don't like people who spread their legs wide either! But they made a mistake if they sat next to me. I'm very athletic, and my thighs are iron. There is zero chance for you to push my legs. :)
Some people in the UK, think of the Japanese as being Cruel, Viscous, Snidey, and Brutal Gang Leaders...I think you call them Yakuza ....but that's the Bigoted ones... So you see, around the World you will always get these types of Bigoted people that continue to Racially Profile/Stereotype others....people need to EDUCATE themselves
I haven’t noticed this but at onsens, every time my husband gets in a pool, the current occupants get out and move to another. And yes, he uses them correctly.
I experienced a case where a woman wouldn’t even enter the spring when I was in there. She showered, went in the sauna and then came out. I thought it was quite amusing because I’m sure she didn’t come for just the sauna.
I’ve heard from other foreigners in Japan that this exists, but it very rarely happens to me. There have been a few times where I’ve wondered if the seat next to me is empty because I’m a foreigner, but 95% of the time, someone will sit next to me
I have asked this question from Japanese people I’ve met. Honestly, the gaijin seat situation has been improving as Japanese people become more and more used to foreigners in Japan. I think it’s simply unfamiliarity. Remember, Japan only experienced an influx of foreign residents about a decade and a half ago. So, it’s a pretty new thing to see foreign faces in the trains. And the people I asked pretty much say the same thing - they’re worried about getting asked a question or directions or in any way being put in a spot where their lack of English skills will be highlighted. It’s a kind of insecurity for them. Japanese people usually avoid uncomfortable situations like that. It’s not because they particularly dislike foreigners. As for the perfume, yeah, I’ve seen people switch seats even though the person wearing the perfume is Japanese, that is a legit thing. So maybe some foreigners wearing strong perfumes misunderstood why people refused to sit next to them. Another thing to pay attention to is if the person did not sit at all or deliberately looked for a different seat. Cause it’s common for people to ignore a seat and remain standing especially if they’re getting off just a few stations away. Tokyo trains are notoriously crowded and if you sit down, you’re farther from the door. Chances are, it will be harder for you to get off the train when it becomes packed. There are a multitude of reasons, but foreigners from countries where racism is rampant do tend to jump to the conclusion that it’s racially motivated. Just food for thought.
It's not rocket science. It's based on personal experience. I don't like sitting next to strong perfume odor. I don't feel safe next to gangster looking people. People are merely minimizing the risk of feeling uncomfortable.
Foreigners in Japan is not a new thing. It began in July of 1853, especially the fact that it seems that it is taught in Japanese history about the 4 ships that first arrived here, because all Japanese people tend to know about that. So it has been going on now for several generations. I get your point, but I ask myself what rock would a Japanese native have to crawl out from under to only now in a new millennium think that there are foreigners present in Japan? It is just not a topic which a Japanese person would have to get used to foreigners in Japan.
@Blues Till are you kidding? Of course there were foreigners in Japan before but it's hardly a melting pot. People visited and went or did business in certain hubs, but didn't stay long enough or settled down in wide enough areas to create an actual diverse population. Right now, out of the 127+ million people living in Japan, 97.9% are Japanese. I live in a small town close enough to Tokyo, and I've seen personally the very gradual increase of people from other countries settling in. Even so, there were days when I don't spot another foreigner the whole day even when I go around town. I've also seen how the Japanese cope - a couple of decades ago there were no English announcements or displays in buses. Train ticket machines were all in kanji. Now, you can pretty much handle everything without speaking a word of Japanese because English is everywhere. This was just in the last two decades. You can even ask the bus drivers and passersby and chances are they will try to answer you in English. They didn't at all before. Before the government started campaigning for internationalization and tourism around the 2000s or 2010s (not sure, but it was quite recent) not as many foreigners were visiting or moving to Japan because of the language barrier. It was so rare to interact with foreigners that English education in elementary schools only started in 2011. Before that, they didn't feel the actual need for it. Do you live here? If you live in internationalized hubs like Tokyo, then I can see why you'd think that way. But I can be sure that you only came here recently, since if you did about the same time I did, you'd be familiar with the feeling of being the only foreign face in a train.
I've seen it happen in my country where people will avoid a foreigner just because they're worried they might start chatting and their English isn't good enough. Oftentimes, the person most comfortable with the language gets pushed to sit next to them.
Same in Hungary People can speak conversational level in english, then they say they dont speak english because they are afraid of making a fool out of themselves in front of foreigners. We are also very reserved with the seating situation, we only sit next to eachother as a last resort 🤣 If you see someone in a park sitting on a bench and they still have space next to them, we dont sit there, thats officially their place now🤠
@@Yllah I live in the Philippines. For most part, many people don't mind chatting with foreigners. I've experienced being the one to be pushed to converse. I hated it at first, but over the years its become a little easier.
Japan is still very much a homogeneous country with very small proportion of the population being gaijin. Particularly Westerners who look different are looked upon with scepticism and fear. I personally don’t think they have malicious intentions- they are just not used to being close to people who look differently.
I think it's not that foreigners "looks scary" for Japanese. I think it is scary for them. The situation. In their head. Many of them are scared, not of the person, but the possibility of egagement. It is language barrier. And language barrier is scary for many Japanese.
@@makkamara So, do you have videos of interviews about gaijin seats in Kazakhstan, gaijin seats in North Macedonia, gaijin seats in Argentina, gaijin seats in Nepal, and gaijin seats in Finland?
I once experienced sitting next to people from other country who had a very fluffy hair style, and she always moved her head talking to her friends over alleys and so every time she moved her head looking right, looking left, her hair brushed my face. And also she talked loud and didn't sit still. So I was getting unhappy sitting with her next to me. Since then, I've watched people if they have big fluffy hair styles and sit straight before I am seated. People includes Japanese.
Fluffy hairstyle as in Afro ? Something I have a big Afro as well, but I mind my gestures when on trains , cause everyone have to be comfortable. That was not cool of her
About moving seats, that also happens to me (I’m Japanese). And that’s when the seat in the corner opens and I dunno why but Japanese wants to sit in the corners. And also, there’s one time I got in the train and there was 1 seat open on both sides (one side was next to a gaijin-san) and I sat next to the Japanese without thinking and I was like, ooohhh this is what we do without even thinking and I tried to wonder why? and I figured that, for me it’s because the seat next to the gaijin-san looked smaller cuz he was a big guy. And I just simply chose seat that had more space that time. So I feel like most of the time, it’s not really about not wanting to sit next to a foreigner 🤔 I’ve only heard about this “gaijin seat” from my gaijin friends.
I'm japanese and when I did unique hairstyle, my next seat was often empty. When I notice strange vibes, I check myself because I don't want everyone to feel uncomfortable. Then I feel "sorry for make surprise by my fashion" and "I relieved. This vibes was not by my bad manner or something". Of course, sometimes I meet true rasist but this kind of person is all over the world. I also think it's freedom to hate something. If the person who hate me just leave from me is peaceful solve. (Sorry for my bad English.) 奇抜な髪型の時、私もいつもより隣の席座られないよー。触らぬ神に祟りなしだからねー。違和感感じたら不穏にしちゃってるかなって自分を振り返って、私のマナー違反とかのせいじゃなくて良かったってなるよー。完全なる差別をぶつけられることもあるけど、これは日本に限った問題ではなくこういう人間はどこにでも一定数いるからしょうがないねー。何かを嫌うのも自由だし、もし私を嫌いな人が私からそっと離れてくれるのなら、それはそれで平和的でいい解決法だとも思ってるよー。
In the process of trying not to make others uncomfortable, people end up living uncomfortably themselves. In the end everyone becomes uncomfortable by trying to make others comfortable. How does that help ultimately? 他人を不快にさせないようにする過程で、人は結局、自分自身が不快に生きていることになります。結局は誰もが他人を快適にしようとすることで 不快になるのです。最終的にはどのような有益な結果が得られるのでしょうか?
@@kalinga2nihon Thank you for the reply and use 2 languages. If you feel so, I think you care other people too much. This is not job. We can live our own life. The balance is important. Just I feel comfortable when I make others comfortable. It's similar I feel happy when I make others happy. Making comfortable is not only for other people but also for me. It's depends on person but my thoughts is like this. 仕事ではないので無理して誰かのために行動する必要はなく、自分の好きに生きていいと思います。自分の中の天秤にかけて判断するしかない。 誰かを快適にしたら私も快適です。これは誰かが喜んでくれたら自分も嬉しいのと似ていて、他人のためにやっているように見えて自分がしたくてしている気がします。もちろんこれは私がそうだというだけで、千差万別だとは思います。
Never heard of the gajin seat so thank you for this video. Was in Japan already twice as a blonde young woman and never experienced something like this. It even happend multiple times that (mostly schoolgirls) fell asleep and laying their heads on my shoulder. Some woman even sat next to me and started conversations which was amazing.