Yeah I should have. I was new to trucking and it didn’t fully melt on me until I found out the back story. In hindsight I wish I would have. I didn’t know how well they knew each other at the time 😂 They didn’t even know each other that long because she became our dispatcher at the same time.
The worst part is going against yourself, cuz you’re basically fighting the part of you that knows what’s going on because you don’t wanna think wrong about someone or actually end up being wrong, so when it ends up with you being right about a person acting funny, it’s like broooooo, I been fighting myself this whole time!! Going against my intuition this whole time!! Fighting myself to be nice to you when my whole spirit is telling me you’re doing me wrong!! Ouchhhh. I can’t believe she did all that!! wtf. And after all this… dude prob ain’t even with her. Dude is traaaaash!! And so is she!! And side note.. I know how it feels to tell people you work with what is going on or what you’re going through when it comes to your dispatcher or boss or people on your account, etc, and they come back with “what? she/he is not like that with me, no I don’t think it’s that, that really happen?!” and it ACTUALLY IS HAPPENING! That shit sucks because they don’t believe you because the shit actually isn’t happening to them.
Exactly!!! 💯 When I all the background information was revealed to me it was almost 2 years later. Even though it was after the fact the anger, hurt, and disbelief was just as fresh as if it happened yesterday. It was definitely a eye opener for me to not second guess myself
