Jaye is super excited for her appointment, until her sister takes over the appointment, even going so far as to try on a wedding dress of her own! Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
Shamera should be ashamed of herself, as well as her mother and aunt. Shamera's sitting there with her lip poking out like a jealous two year old at someone else's birthday party. The mother and aunt aren't helping by enabling this spoiled brat behavior. Grow the hell up, people, it's Jaye's day, hopefully it's her first and last wedding...
It made me so sad for Jaye. Her and her husband shouldn't even invite them to their wedding if they keep this act up, its really bullshit. (Also, Jaye is really pretty I just needed to get that out there because I canT-)
She was crying about making bad decisions and never having the wedding but likely all the kids. Her sister is a bitch and I hope she was ill and missed the wedding so her sister the bride could have a blessed day
Shouldnt have gotten eloped if you wanted a ceremony and dress🙄 I understand they may not have had the money but still, maybe just wait till you can afford it? Idk
Am I the only one who wanted to get in that screen and slap the older sister silly?! I am also disappointed in her mother and aunt for not being the mature adults in this either. That sweet girl didn’t deserve to get treated like this. Jealously is so real!! Jaye is beautiful and I love her spirit!!!
I'm right there with you. My younger sister is just like the older sister and my mother would go along with her all the time. I wish this poor girl the best and I hope her family smart and up
Oh my God I know. I had to cut two friends out of my life this year because they were extreme narcissistic who felt like the whole world owes them everything and they made me feel like shit for it. People like her sister and these two girls are just miserable!!!
@@Viwaldron your family? Because she was trying on dresses for your fitting? Are you not capable of sitting down and talking things through with people? I'm a millenial, and I've noticed an alarming amount of millenials and gen-zers that are very self absorbed and selfish, to the point where they don't talk things through with people in their life and would rather be cowardly and avoid conflict through just "cutting people off." It's ironic because you say you're cutting them off because they're toxic, for behavior that could presumably be resolved through a serious conversation, when so casually suggesting cutting off family, especially in a situation that isn't THAT serious and can be talked out, is extremely toxic.
The fact that the bride was able to stay calm and not cry because of her sister's antics or scream at all of them when they had vanished on her shows sadly just how used to being over shadowed she is even on special occasions...seriously messed up that she's that used to it...i'm glad that once all the consultants were with the bride the family actually gave her the attention she deserved
The fact that mom and aunt ALLOWED the sister to pick a dress to try on and did not stop her shows a lot. Enabler relatives and her selfish sister do NOT need to be at this appointment. I'd reschedule and drop them off so fast. Like nope. You lost your privilege to be a part of my special moment.
Everyone's talking about the sister but the whole damn party left to look at bridesmaids dresses when those were already picked out because the sister didnt like it. The whole party, no one stood up and said, no this is her day. That's so shitty. The whole party wasnt there for her.
Ugh I went to my coworker wedding, on the reception there was a girl in a white short dress with white high heels, turned out that was her lil sister .. everybody was pretty uncomfortable.
What a sweet spirit the bride is! But if that sister got any more jealous she would turn green for real. Eloping was her choice why make Jaye suffer for it. Misery really does love company
Monty and Lori going to sit and act as the bride’s family was honestly so cute and heartwarming. But it’s awful that her actual (disgusting) family left.
I don’t think that I would invited them at my wedding if I was her. If they can’t even be there for me when I’m trying dress , where are they’re gonna be when it’s the actual wedding?
Also, why wasn’t the older sister able to wear a dress? Even if she eloped, she could still wear a dress like that girl in one episode that eloped with her fiancé to get married in the mountains.
Cryxbxby maybe but it wasn’t too cool of them to leave the bride after she had specially asked them to help pick a dress :/ but when the sister said “she just looked so beautiful” that was so sweet😭😭
Cryxbxby honestly why is the family supporting the sister. Omg the sister is trying to take the spotlight on her wedding. She won’t ever be able to have this experience again, and the sisters gonna make it her day. It’s so rude to do that especially while the bride is right there,
@@amenaward Eloping is just rushing to get married and getting married in a sort of secret fashion. Normally, eloping would be just rushing to the court house and stuff
the way her sister took over the whole appointment TWICE...TWICE. That's not just a jealous sister that's a narcissistic sister. As for the bride she looked absolutely gorgeous in that last dress oh my god!!!!
Yeah the sister is incredibly selfish and childish, but the bride is just so cute and sweet. Like, just hearing her talk about how exited she is for her wedding makes me smile, she deserves a better sister
This family was so rude it was her day and they made it all about the other sister the people working there were more like her family than her actual family
@Crystalcave[.]___ [.]-- Cookie That is not behavior that is excused by a 'hug' and insincerity hun. 😒 I'm not married or in a relationship, but on my sisters bridal appointment day, the consultant was pulling the absolute wrong dresses that were completely underwhelming . And I don't mean to brag, but I know my sisters taste better than almost anyone, so I went hunting for dresses that I thought 'she' would like. And she went from 'I don't really know...😓' to, 'Oh my god I can't decided I love them! 😍' And that's all I wanted. I couldn't stand to see her trying on dresses and not smiling. She's the worlds most amazing big sister and I just wanted her to feel like a princess and have 'her' moment.
6:12 Dollars to donuts, the next conversation about the dress was "can I have it when you're done?! We're FAMILY!! I want it for when I renew my vows!! You won't NEED it!!" And Mommy will go right along with it and call Jaye "selfish" when she rightfully tells her sister to kick rocks.
This reminds me of my sister. She announced she was pregnant to all of my friends at my sweet 16 birthday party. Then she announced she was engaged at my sister's bachelorette party to like 20 of my sister's friends. Everyone was so embarrassed... obviously nothing like trying on dresses at her bridal appointment, but a similar deal... Edit: also now I'm getting married soon and I'm a little worried... she just got a divorce and we just found out she has a secret boyfriend who hasn't even met her kids yet... somebody save me...
Do WHATEVER you have to do to stop her from stealing your day. YOU could try announcing her stupid little relationship at your wedding to embarrass her and air out her dirty laundry. Take away her power to steal the spotlight by doing it first. And if she b**ches about it TELL HER OFF. You and your other sister that she screwed over at her bachelorette. And all of your other siblings too if you have any. All of you team up and tell her exactly what you think of her and tell her exactly where to go which is straight to hell and OUT OF YOUR WEDDING IMMEDIATELY.
@@tatianawyan6308 elope means "run away secretly in order to get married, especially without parental consent" so she basically ran away and got secretly married. But- ifk why she is crying...it was her choice to do that
@@nai.lani_1830.uwu. actually that’s what it used to be, eloping is also just literally going to the court house and signing the papers there and no wedding ceremony. Eloping is what I want to do, I’m so not spending money on dresses and venues
Don't ever secretly shop behind the bride's back. If you dislike the bridesmaid dresses the BRIDE selected, keep that a secret and go with it or leave the party. The entire moment is for the bride, not for the bridal party or family. I love that Jaye didn't back down when her sister chose something she would like that Jaye wouldn't. And I'm super disappointed in the family for participating in the shenanigans by leaving the couch to appease the sister instead of supporting the bride by staying.
I have so much respect for the bride for not losing her mind the second her sister came out in a dress of her own. Tbh I wouldn’t have had that patience
Yara Jasim and I’m quite sure that I would be right to say this her family probably tried to stop her from eloping not that they didn’t want her to get married but they wanted to give her a wedding as well and for most parents giving their child a wedding is a rite of passage for parents.
I understood "eloped" as a shotgun wedding. Even if, she could still have a wedding ceremony even years after or a vow renewal. But in the end it's just jealousy of the younger, prettier, classier sister.
Man, her husband have some terrible In-Laws, but that BRIDE??? *Dude, you struck GOLD!* Glad they *somehow* all made it through in the end without further drama.
I bet the family always tolerated her stupid behavion. Spoiled woman. My son started being jealous about his baby sister, well, I fixed It very quickly.
@@katbowen4800 If we do not help brothers and sisters understand how family is important, sometimes they grow up hating each other, in a stupid competition. It is not a competition, we must hold hands together and help the family grow stronger. I bet you mother is a great mother and must have done a very good job.
@@fatimadeanda6658 obsessed with a bunch of Korean boys and calling themselves "ARMY" For what? A bunch of Korean dumbass who wear makeup like ladies fuck BTS!!!!
I think the family, having had an elopement within the generation, didn't understand the significant feeling behind shopping for a wedding dress. They treated it as "just buying a dress" and figured it'd be fine to multitask, but they failed to realize how much it meant to the bride to be picking out her wedding dress.
I feel so bad for the bride. She’s so sweet and her family just allows her sister to ruin this day for her. Like, why did you think it was okay with her to try on wedding gowns and look at bridesmaids dresses.
She's pretty strong .. i think it all came from standing up for herself all her life.. it's the one reason i think scrutinizing family has some possitives
Kenshin Himura Hell yes! I hated how the mom was implying that it was even a rivalry to begin with. No, it's not a rivalry, it's the mom letting her bratty daughter get her way. You can tell the bride has to always be the bigger person because god forbid anyone tell that rude sister that she isn't the frickin center of attention. She likely had to put up with this shit all her life growing up.
I mean, my brother and I have a rivalry, but we’d never, ever, let it get in the way of something special like this. What that sister was doing was just childish and horrible.
@@trymeonforsize9343 Honestly similar situation. My sister is a good 10 or so years older then me, but she has such a bad attitude. My mom and I can say something and shes like "cut the attitude" even though we don't have one. Only reason my mom doesn't say anything is cause she helps pay the bills and we can't afford to have her leave. We both just bite our tongue and say nothing. Though the day I move out I will be telling her off. I just feel bad for this bride, her sister obviously wasn't rude to everyone in the family so the mother should have put an end to it. Especially on a day like that, not let her just do it.
I know but she never got a wedding so right now she's living the dream through her sister so she gonna be emotional and kinda selfish she has to she what she missed which isn't a good feeling
where are the avocados? Exactly! Shamera can schedule her own appointment on a different day to try on dresses if she’d like. But that day was her sisters.
What shocked me even more was neither mom or the aunt stepped in and told that sister that it is NOT HER day. They both went along with her childish attitude as though it was OK.
Worse is that she partakes in it🙄🙄 If my mom saw my sister trying on a wedding dress during my appointment, she would've smacked some sense into her before she even walked out👏
I agree my own brother 3 years apart from me anything I do he tries to make it a big competition including our birthday and now that his kid was born on my daughter bday it's worse 😣😣
Marquis the fuck does that mean? My mom made it a point of duty to make sure my sister and I respected each other and got along as children. I vividly remember her shutting down any signs of toxic rivalry when we were younger, and I thank her for it, because my sister and I are best friends to this day.
Having a family like this takes a toll on you. She’s handling it surprisingly well but I think that says more on how much they’ve conditioned her with this behavior. It’s truly sad and I hope she finds peace with people that actually have good intentions for her.
I can’t even believe that the mom just stood by and did nothing about it too... she even agreed to go looking for bridesmaid dresses when she was trying on a dress
“I hope Jaye doesn’t get upset” Seriously, wtf is wrong with these people? Of course she’s gonna be upset about that fact her jealous sister is gonna find a way to upstage her and make this day about herself instead of keeping it about the bride.
@@whoami23358 are you genuinely asking or are you trying to be a smart ass...? Genuine answer: they're not really designers to my knowledge, but in this case it doesn't really matter given the context and reason of the comment being for the purpose of a compliment Smart ass answer: who gives a rat's ass what they're actually called, it's a compliment and the fact that they did this was amazing so look past being all self-righteous and shit this is their moment of whole hearted recognition, and the fact that someone would try to be a smart ass while someone is complimenting someone says a lot about the type of person you are Whichever context you meant your comment, pick one and apply, and completely ignore the other. I gave both because i hope it'd a genuine question, but some people are just hopeless, so the other is there as well :)
"I want my family to share this moment." Why ?!? This is the BRIDE'S moment - no one else's. I have no idea why they'd even be involved. If I was the bride - I'd be the only one at the appointment . . . with MAYBE my Maid of Honour with me. Maybe.
I know! You could hear it in her voice she wanted to cry while still smiling. She looked absolutely beautiful in her chosen dress. And why were they looking at bridesmaid’s dresses when they have already been chosen? I think her mum and Aunty needed to check themselves as well. The three of them should not have to be reminded why they are there.
IKR? They seriously couldn’t be bothered to just sit tf down and wait for her to come out in the next dress? 🙄 I know it takes longer than the show makes it seem but that’s so rude.
Little late on the answer here but the bride doesn’t pick her guest, she gives the producers a list of people who’s going and how they’re related so the producers can pick, they usually choose something to get more drama out of it
Because that bitch is the 1st born that's why she things everything belongs to her, and her bloody family also made her feel like that. I'm a middle child, i know this thing very well!
I cannot BELIEVE that her sister started crying and said “but I’ve never tried on a wedding dress before :’(“ honey, NO. this is your SISTER’S day, YOURS will be on another day, hopefully. Completely gross.
I see sibling rivalry and selfishness like this and thank the Universe I don’t have this kind of toxic BS with my sisters. Smh. When natural family sucks, find non-blood ones. We all deserve love and support.
It literally broke my heart when the bride was trying not to cry when she saw her family wasn’t there, she just kept smiling, and even when her sister wore a dress she didn’t freak out
I think the sister is just used to be second best to the spoilt brat of the sister - who is clearly the mother's favourite. I just hope the bride is the favourite of their dad because otherwise her life will be too sad for me. (T~T)
This was SO rage inducing. Imagine your trying on dresses for your wedding- one of the BIGGEST days in your life. And your sister, your jealous sister starts trying on dresses and your family ignore you for her. Like, girl you chose to not have a wedding.
I wish she would’ve said “ok this is the dress” while they were gone, taken it off and bought it before they came back... so they never got to see it 😈. But I’m petty 😂
The way the older sister acts and talks, like she doesn't care and when she apologize it sounded like she didn't give a f**k. To the bride you look beautiful I'm so happy that you found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, congratulations!!! You look absolute stunning in all the dresses!!!!!
