I knew Teyana's marriage wouldn't last because of the whole 3some thing, when people open up their bedroom, they're bringing intruders to the relationship.
He was cheating before the 3 somes, or at least the cheating allegations came out before they opened up their bedroom. She probably did it to try to keep him faithful
I’m surprised Iman and Teyana lasted this long. Jeanie and Jeezy never made sense to me. What does a southern Black man have in common with an Asian woman who said his demographic is only good as a side dish.
Never got the idea that Jeanie and jeezy were in love. You even see it in their pictures. That's not love that's a partnership. More like buddy's than a romantic relationship. Jeezy wanted exposure Jeannie needed to get over Freddy. To some degree they have to please each other. In Asian culture it's normal to marry. In African American culture it's normal to have children . Those were their compromises they had fun and honeymoons over .
@@dc8061 no he needs to leave women alone let’s not paint him out to be the victim lol he doesn’t have 4 kids with 4 different women at the end of the day HE is the common denominator
@@zsazsa4159 thank you! I hate how so many ppl assume we deserve straight garbage. Ppl really look at BW as saviors, heroes apart of a lifetime clean up crew smh he need to somewhere & sit with self leave us out of his much needed healing
Chile, I divorced my ex-husband. The divorce was finalized April 2023. We were together 9 years and I found out he was cheating 3 months before our 10-year wedding anniversary. He had been in a relationship for years with some woman at his job and there is no telling how many others there were. I said bye. I sent him back to the streets where he belonged and wanted to be. I didn't care about 9 years of marriage; I cared about loyalty and respect. I feel much better now that he is gone. I wasn't about to stay and play any games with him. He knew right from wrong and decided to do wrong so oh well. Bye loser.
@dc8061 Actually, I'm practicing abstinence. I don't want to date anymore. So no, I'm not going to be with anyone. I'm good chilling on my own. And if I decide to date, I'm not having sex or anything. I'm just going to travel, eat and get money. I don't need you bums to live. So I don't see why you laughed as if you said something hurtful, smh. Poor tink tink
It’s CRAZY that she felt comfortable enough to have a baby with HIM of all people. They swear they are exempt but she just found out she got the same black man. Lord help. I’m not surprised.
I think bc she was his preference ot. She thought it would be diffrent. 😊buy if he's been messing with multiple qomwn all his life his preference won't just make him faithful.
She was with a white man for 10 years and refused to have his child. She wanted a baby with Jeezy, they got married and for whatever reason it didn't work out. Things happen in relationships. The baby will be taken care of, they both have money. What's the issue? Lol I swear yall really hate black men. It's funny and disturbing at the same time.
@msatutude17 he was her preference as well. She knew about his other baby mama's, she still married him lol. It isn't that deep the situation just didn't work out. Why are yall so happy that their marriage ended?
@@DebbieGarvey-dq6cfthis the one I know the ex some where cracking up about this. What's crazy is if she were black this would not be such a shocker because it's typical for BW.
Anyone who’s reading this, please don’t let these situations deter you from marriage. There’s still someone out there who wants the same things in life as you do. Not only does your person exist, but you’re WORTHY of that kind of love in a life partner. Marriage is about CHOOSING one another time & time again. 💕
So glad I could bless you w/that message. I speak from experience. My marriage is gifted from God. Even after 12 yrs together (5 yrs married.. We met very young) I find myself wanting to ask God if He’s sure He sent him for ME 😂 My husbands love & patience just reminds me that no mistake was made 🥹
@@DebbieGarvey-dq6cf You’re worthy too.. No matter your past or current situations. 🙏🏾 Maybe try practicing optimism, grace, & a little patience. Sometimes we have to work on ourselves to be equipped for something greater.
It’s wild that Jeannie said her own trauma was one of the main reasons she didn’t want to have kids but all Jeezy did was give her more trauma. I hope she’s able to find real love and an honest relationship because this ain’t it.
Look who she got with though and his track record, it was destined to happen it was just a matter of time. Some men are just good for creating baby mamas, not stable family units. Thank goodness, I had the good sense to stop dealing with them in my late teens otherwise I too could have ended up a baby mama instead of a wife of 10 years.
@@joanna0988I don't know what he must've said or done to make her feel that way. I could never feel that with a man that has multiple baby mamas already.
I think the most shocking thing about these situations to me is the amount of grown adults that are having literal breakdowns over this. There are normal people getting divorced as we speak, the fact that people are admitting to being devastated because “they looked like a good couple” proves that people live through others, not even knowing what goes in behind someone’s door. There are plenty of thriving long lasting marriages that have and have not touched social media. No one should be this tore up over some folks that don’t even know they exist. The divorces are sad all around and it sucks they couldn’t pull it together to make it work, but a couple of failed celebrity marriages does not mean all love is lost.
👏🏾👏🏾 yes, because “looking like a good couple” holds much weight in our society. Like girl what do that even mean 😂 just because people look aesthetically pleasing does not mean all is well and love is there.
I just like having examples of black marriages in Hollywood because Hollywood promotes interracial couples or white couples but hardly black couples. I also love Angela Basset and Courtney.
@@cintaminbunnygirl. You need to get rid of your thirst for “black love”. It barely exists, ESPECIALLY in marriages. BM do not care about BW and you really have to accept that otherwise you’re going to be out here looking crazy.
She felt “safe” to have a baby with a man with his history? No she felt safe to have a baby with a man with his money. They both are irresponsible for this relationship and I hope they’ve learned a valuable lesson.
@@mstiff321 She got a worst black man he tricked her into having a baby when she didn’t even want children, now she finds herself in the same predicament as black women who get with black men, a mother in a fatherless home, HE divorces her, and all her business is broadcasted in the streets. She must be miserable but having to stay strong to take care of her baby just like black women. Hopefully this lesson wasn’t lost on her. Dust yourself off and go find yourself a good Vietnamese man Jeannie.
THIRD.. WHY PEOPLE KEEP SAYING THAT HE HAS FOUR KIDS AND FOUR BABY MOTHERS THAT IS NOT TRUE HE HAS TWO DAUGHTERS AND A SON WHO IS GROWN. I REPEAT HE HAS A SON WHO IS A GROWN MAN AND HIS TWENTIES IN TWO ADOLESCENT GIRLS. REGULAR EVERYDAY ISH THAT A LOT OF MEN HAVE. YOU PEOPLE ARE JUST STRAIGHT UP HATERS YOU JUDGE CELEBRITIES FOR THEIR LIVES WHEN YOUR LIFE IS A STRAIGHT UP MESS. AND UNLIKE THE CELEBRITY YOU CAN'T EVEN AFFORD YOUR BILLS. YOU'RE STRUGGLING TO MAKE ENDS MEET. IT WOULDN'T MATTER IF JEEZY HAD 10 KIDS HE CAN SUPPORT 10 KIDS. YOU CAN'T EVEN SUPPORT YOURSELVES. IT'S RIDICULOUS THAT THINGS PEOPLE DO TO TRY TO BRING COMFORT TO THEIR SELF. IT'S PATHETIC REALLY
“why get married” personally, i do believe the child was part of it, at least for him. However, unlike the black community, it’s not acceptable in asian communities to have a child without marriage, and to me, he knew that. To have a blasian baby requires some sort of upfront commitment. He put in the bare minimum time and dipped.
I'm Congolese. The first man I introduced to the my family was my husband. Not sure how other black communities but first comes commitment then family. To us it's crazy to be hopping around like this. Guess different cultures.
This happened to my daughter! Once these men have a kid, wife and realize what marriage entails he left her and her son. I feel for Jennie. My daughter was blindsided and heartbroken.
She wasn't blindsided, they were having problems but she didn't think he would leave. There's a difference. Being blindsided is not being aware we have problems in the first place and we don't even separate but you wake up one morning and tell me we should get a divorce, out of nowhere...now that's being blindsided. They have been separated for a couple of months now, so she knew this was coming. If anything, we are the ones that feel blindsided because we thought they were doing good, nothing showed us that they were having problems, but they knew very well.
We speak about race so much, folks forget about cultural differences. Jeezy and Jeanie were never going to work long term. They are more different than they are the same.
Bm usually will say that her culture will make her automatically submissive though...life keeps proving them wrong, because regardless of race, a lot of women rock to their own beat...bm are taking L's, IDC if he filed first!
Feeling overwhelmed and suffocated in the marriage is very plausible given Jeannie's mom was also living in the home. That's a dynamic that can either go very well or very bad for a marriage.
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 well if you don't like someones culture, then don't marry them! LOLLLLL it's not unusual for asian ppls parents to live with them, or live SUPER close bye and be all up in their adult childs life-especially when they have a child. The mom prob was also the baby's second caregiver.
I hate how people are really only looking at marriage as some kind of wordly contract. Marriage is a covenent between you, your spouse and God. Some problems are seasonal but you'll never know trying to run out of it or not talking about concerns in your marriage and figuring out how to get past them. Marriage is a lifetime commitment on both ends to treat each other a certain way, and live a certain lifestyle. Please dont get married if it isnt THAT for you, these folks are making marriage look bad and I am sick of it. Marriage is hard work, youre joining two people together for life so both have to make sacrifices, deal with traumas, etc., but you arent supposed to take it lightly and when you get over those issues it makes your marriage all the more beautiful. PS...im not Christian, im a free form spiritualist so this isnt coming from a religious place this is about principle. Dont get married if you arent about that life and dont know your partner. PERIOD. PS again...im done responding to @'s. I dont have time to argue with fools who arent making any points 😂 I dont have time.
Married or not you better be careful who you have a child with. I'm the product of a horrendous broken marriage. I look just like my daddy. The things my mama said and did to me because I looked like that "no good, wide head dog n**ga" are unimaginable and brutal. It's so not a joke. I feel for that baby. Not that Jeannie would do that and not that my mama intended to do that to me, but they're human and it happens💔
Teyanna thought she was the perfect blend of being a “homeboy” AND a “housewife”. There’s no such thing, you can’t be every woman. She tried too hard to be “down for whatever” and it bite her with that open marriage junk
You can't keep people together who don't want to be!! She has always been herself which is a tomboy mixed with feminine.....no matter of your perfect if a man or woman wants to cheat or leave THEY WILL DO JUST THAT
@@stoneyhighhigh3677I think they mean in that teyana and Iman were in an “open relationship” marriage where they would have threesomes and go to strip clubs like they were friends. Like did she want an open marriage Fr or did she do that to please him and stop the alleged cheating?
Jeezy love affiar was the most hilarious and embarrassing. Bc bros were up their swearing he found his so called soul mate. Lol. Epic failure!! Hahaha 😂😂
@@allanluis3696😂 You’re mad because the same black men that were praising the relationship saying black women will never get this because they never stay down with a man and that Jeannie was with him when he came up ect are choking right now? Black men constantly speak about black women being with Pookies and RayRays but an Asian woman marries a Pookie with money and suddenly he isn’t a Pookie anymore and she’s made him a better man and now look! It’s cool when black men talk shit about black women but when it’s done to them somehow it’s racism?
Lmao, Jeezy getting divorced was inevitable. Nothing about him screams a good man for a HUSBAND. - Jennie said she liked her 🌑 meat on the side and he thought he was getting something special. She got the SBM.💅🏾
I don’t understand feeling “suffocated” by someone you signed up to spend the rest of your life with🤔 Like did he not know they would be living together, raising a child TOGETHER, and rarely be apart? Lol BM love to have a babymama🤦🏽♀️ Let her raise the kid over there, while he continues his life basically child free, show up when he wants and still call himself “active”😂
I've been married for 20 years. Personally, I don't believe that people today are any less committed to marriage than people from previous generations. Times have changed. I can only speak from a woman's point of view, but I believe a lot of women stayed in 30, 40 and 50 year marriages because they had no other options. My parents were married for 44 years before my mother passed away. My father was 18 when they married and my mother was 20. By the time she was 25, my mother had 5 children and no education. My father had another child during the marriage. He cheated - naturally. He was 18 years old when he became a husband. Are we to believe that an 18 will never lust after other women? My father became a better man when he went to AA and stopped drinking. After that, my father put my mother first and treated her like gold. If we went shopping, he would not shop for himself; he shopped for my mother. he would say, "Help me pick out something for your mama." My mother used to say, "Everything your daddy buys me, I deserve." Had their circumstances been different and my mother had an education, she might have left my father early in their marriage. She probably felt stuck. I know my parents loved one another, but my mother waited for my father to grow up. The difference with later generations is that the average woman doesn't have to wait for the man to grow because the woman is able to make it on her own. This is why I always tell young women to get themselves in a position where they don't have to rely on anyone. Even if you live with a significant other, never get a place that you can't afford by yourself. I have a good husband, but you better believe, if he ever decides he wants to leave or he decides to start acting like he has no sense, I can afford my mortgage by myself.
I just feel like to go on a national tv crusade spewing how much you don’t want kids and make your ex husband look bad for it then to turn around and have a child for a rich dude is just kinda weird. They never seemed like a match in the first place in my opinion
CHILD...let me tell you. That bit about when folks divorce and they wanna say they are still friends is spot on. When my sister divorced 7 years ago thats exactly what she said. "We are still friends, nothing has changed" TUH. she can't stand the ground he walks on. Granted he is a horrible human (she kept that from us while they were married), she still tried to save face right after it was finalized. I still don't know why she did it to this day
Shame and fear will cause you to keep secrets and protect a toxic spouse; I did it myself and when I left him everyone wondered why I left a “great “ guy.
@@sunflowerrosegirl. They’re in the comments saying they feel so bad for Jeanie, keep that same energy about all the Black women who get left to raise babies by themselves everyday. 😮💨
@@MichelleG333 like always. They were there for danileigh, Iggy, Khloe, and all the other preferences who became single mothers even though they showed that the don’t like black women. They are so predictable by now
Why do y’all keep saying Jeezy made Jeannie a “baby mama”? Respectfully she will never be a baby mama since she married him. She will be his ex wife. There is a difference.
Idk why ppl are surprised. Call it judging a book by its cover, but Jeezy does/did not seem like the type to really want or even know how to be in a committed relationship. He came from a certain life, and it can be hard to kick that if you haven’t done the work (therapy, mindset change, people change, etc). Being rich doesn’t mean that all of a sudden he’s matured mental to leave “that life” behind. I’m sure there conflicting views on what I said, but that’s just the vibe I get from him
Not surprised about Jeannie Mai & Jeezy, what an odd couple. She saw him as "dark meat on the side" so it was doomed to failure from the start. Teyana should have divorced Iman a long time ago; she went along with the threesomes because he was cheating, so she decided to join in.
That's why they say enjoy your marriage first wait a couple of years & decide if ready to bring a human in the world.. things change people change & a baby don't keep a Man... period
It’s the arrogance for me .Like,to have that type of attitude towards divorcing someone says enough to me about his character .Not saying we knowing every detail about what happened leading up to it ,but man you would think that going through a divorce would humble someone .
You shouldn't feel like you are going to war or to battle when you get married. I hear everyone say marriage is so hard but honestly, I think marriage should be easy because two people are coming together, making things better and easier for each other. It shouldn't feel miserable and sad. Unfortunately, many women, I see or talk to are unhappy, miserable, stressed out and not themselves. I'm so glad I got out of my marriage and didn't lose myself or become miserable. I didn't want counseling or anything. I just wanted out and to be free. Praise God.
Jeezy and Jeanie rushed into the relationship and JEEZY rushed her into the marriage by asking her after only 1 year. Of course she wouldn’t say no, she trusted him. Hope they both learned a lesson.
@@crissoa one year is not long enough to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone. Not sure your age but I’ve lived long enough to know that even 2 years isn’t enough.
@@shannonliimOne year isn’t enough time for people that aren’t serious and living I purpose. One year is more than enough time for those who have direction and know what they want.
a man who woke up and didnt want to be married anymore, wants his freedom wants to get back to the streets, cut him lose Jeannie your better off without him,
Marriage is not a requirement for fulfillment and happiness! You have to have that inside you already! Let’s face it, marriage and relationships are a scam in a lot of cases!
Everyone has to stop putting couples on a pedestal. My friend is still shocked about my divorce and that my husband was cheating. She still can't believe that he was cheating. She said she looked up to us as a marriage she would want to have. I told her, she can't look at things and think it's perfect. Even I was shocked that he was cheating because he portrayed to be this good man, but I was not shocked that he did it because again, he is a man and many of them don't care about who they hurt. They are selfish and are only worried about their needs. Shout out to the true and real men who have morals and values. But it's his loss, not mine. No matter if you are married or not, always practice self-love and self-care. I'm so glad I did and that is why I was able to leave the marriage without feeling sad and down because I chose me over him.
@debbyfadoju7976 Thank you. Right now, I'm just enjoying me and only me. It's all about me, and I don't want anyone in my world who will try to destroy it. I'm not dating, and I don't want to right now. I'm just traveling, eating good food, and getting money 😊😊💯
Why do men struggle so much with infidelity? It’s almost like they are hard wired to do it. I don’t know a single man that hasn’t cheated on his wife but I know women who have stayed faithful for years even when unhappy. Ughhh so frustrating
Jeannie Mia has openly said she has a temper. And didn't notice she had a temper until she met Jeezy. And she did not respect her ex husband. She said she saw she had a fire in her because Jeezy was someone she respected.Nah I think Jeannie knew but posted that pick of the baby praying as in her last way to try to save the marriage. But knew deep in her heart it was over.
Yeah, she’s not naturally a “submissive” woman. Despite saying that’s what she wants to be. I remember old clips from the real with her 1st ex-husband and noticed how overbearing/annoying she was with him.
For Jeezy to file almost unexpectedly while Jeannie was posting about her husband proves something happened within their marriage. Either Jeezy or Jeannie did something unforgivable. I don’t believe it was cheating.
I can believe that he felt suffocated because every negative reaction he seems to have had to Jeanie seems to have been around that. I notice how much Jeanie is all over that baby like she’s starved for affection. The fact that he lived in a different state despite the fact that they have a whole baby together. How he mentioned Jeanie micro managing him about his suit. How aloof he came off the whole time that most couples are more affectionate with each other etc. The whole time, Jeanie made excuses for it all the same way she made excuses for Freddie until his real personality came out
@@jasmine-fw4yq It was during an interview before their wedding. Someone interviewed Jeezy asking how the wedding plans were going and he mentioned the suit situation. I wish I could remember which platform it was. I just searched something about their marriage or wedding with both their names
I think this is only coming as a shock to Jeannie partially due to a lack of self awareness on her part. She said out of her own mouth that she has a temper and that her previous husband didn’t check her on it. When she got with Jeezy, he showed her that having a temper at her VERY adult age is not okay. That may have been a part in it. She also had more respect for Jeezy than she did her previous husband, whom she also said she didn’t want kids with. Only to pop up with a kid with Jeezy. This may just be her getting back what she put out. Also, why did Jeezy marry her if he knew how she was? She didn’t hide it. Honestly, I think both of them knew it wouldn’t work out but they still did it.
@@Totododofodo the question is WHY she didn’t want a child with her ex husband. It could be a number of reasons, but her not respecting him could have played a part in that. If he did cheat, that is terrible, but her hands are not clean. Also, me saying that her hands are not clean doesn’t mean that his are clean. Only the child deserves empathy and understanding here because these 2 grown adults knew exactly what they were doing.
Jeanie Mae should have stuck with being childfree and not allowed herself to change her mind. Now, it's a great possibility that she'll regret her decision. I wish everyone the best.
Jeezy and Jeannie Mai didn't grow apart in 2 years. Iman's cheating allegations go back to year 2 of their marriage. Respectfully, that is not growing apart
It's not ok when it comes down to a lifetime commitment to God first. Everyone is saying marriage is a contract. That is for worldly people. Marriage is a covenant between you, your spouse, and God. That's IF the people getting married are real believers of God....a lot of times, people don't put in the work to even stay close instead of growing apart let alone understanding that some things are seasonal in marriage.
Their relationship was destined to fail when they started bringing other people in their bed. Having an open marriage is a recipe for disaster. Also I wouldn’t technically call it an open marriage if only females are allowed to join, bet he wouldn’t let another man come in, it’s strictly for his pleasure only. Tey said herself her first time with a female was with her husband (iman) I’m pretty sure she only did it to please him and keep him “home” even tho she wasn’t comfortable with it.
Nah she had that baby for HERSELF. Lol I highly doubt the man with 3 kids and 3 baby mamas was pressing her for another child. Jeannie knows how to say no I’m sure he was coo with her not having a child I believe SHE wanted that baby
I needed to hear your advice on having babies for oneself because I can see how one can get caught up in love and change their ways because they feel safe with a man. It’s crazy. The baby is beautiful and I doubt she ever regrets having her but you have a point when you said have a baby because you wanna be a mom. Not for a marriage, not for a man. Women need to hear this. Stay true to yourself y’all ❤ 🙏
Anyone else feel that Jeezy secretly resented the trips to Vietnam and Jeannie always wanting to do the most? Jeannie is a TV personality so it’s her job to always post and make her life look glamorous, but a man like Jeezy simply doesn’t want to be told what to do or, I think, bike through Vietnam and drink tea. He just doesn’t. He wants to drink whiskey with his boys and do whatever he wants. Not be a prop for Jeannie. I think the more she tried, the more he disliked her and it drained and irritated him.
Marriage is two people deciding to be together until they pass on! And in too many cases people do not see it like that! No one said everyone needs to get Married in order to live a happy and satisfying life! How many time do we need to see that marriage does not equal happiness or a healthy happy childhood for the kids? Y’all still putting marriages on this pedestal that they rarely live up to!
Jeannie wanted to get a mixed baby to be at the bbq. Jeannie might have fetishized him and that is suffocating because it typically involves the person celebrating they married a person of color all while trying to force them to assimilate to their culture. She might have forced all her values and culture on the baby too leaving him no voice in parenting. There are plenty of women who date black men but do not like black women or anything from black culture. I’m hearing she moved in her family that could have been the last straw.
To be 100 % honest, I usually feel like people that marry too young eventually grow apart. I believe that's the case for Teyana and Iman, they were still growing. For the people in a relationship or married, do you ever look at your partner and think, if it was 5-7 years ago, we wouldn't be together? Because you know you were a different person?
Theres SO MUCH to say but before anything YOU COVERED THIS SO WELL !!! Completely Respectful and Empathetical. Again, there so much to say. My Hearts and Prayers are out to Both Families ESPECIALLY Iman & T I Genuinely in my Heart dont feel they are supposed to be apart AT ALL. Alot of whats transpired is spiritual and needs God The Father Jesus The Son and The Holy Spirit Only God can Restore the hearts, minds, will and emotions of Man So my Thoughts and Prayers are Foreal WITH THEM !!! smh at the times and culture we live in. May God Restore TRUE LOVE back in The Land
Marriage is commitment & means somebody in your face all day. People grow & learn separately & hopefully it will work together but at the end of the day when you have kids together there is always a connection whether u like them or not.
I mean her family did live with them so they never had time alone. Foreign cultures often live in groups so that was new for Jeezy and it may have been too much. The first few years of marriage can make or break a couple and with the family right there to be in the thick of it couldn’t be easy.
It’s sad to see marriages breaking down, I hope they get things together and know vows are forever and it is written in heaven first. Marriage is not just saying you’re married it’s endurance, patient , submission ,love ( giving ), It is important to search yourself deal with the imperfections within you to agree to become one with another
I thought they were polyamorous with all the threesomes they were having? I don’t judge anyone’s sex life if it’s safe and no unwanted babies, but this seems like a confusing dynamic (monogamy and threesomes at the same time) but if it was polyamory how would there be cheating? Idk
There is a difference between polyamory and married couples having having threesomes. This may not be the case for Teyana’s situation, but there are plenty of folks who are not sexually involved with all or any of their partners and prefer an emotional connection without having sex as the expectation or goal. Adding another person into the dynamic definitely has the potential to make things complicated or confusing though.
No baby ever gonna save a marriage and the fact he filed and she did not see it coming ouch. I feel there is a reason he filed for divorce and don't believe he felt suffocated either.
I heard about the venus retrograde a couple days ago and read up on how there will be alot of couples seperating. Idk feel like theres some validity to it with all these couples i wouldve never imagined breaking up doing just that😮
Jeezy whenever he was on the Real tv show as a guest and especially when he dropped by for Jeannie he would always have his shades on. Strange. Jeannie referred to him..her husband as Jeezy. Looking at everything there were signs of some of disconnect on his part. I wonder how much of himself he actually shared with her. I think he got with her for clout. A preference who was on big platform and with there new family gave him more mainstream exposure and wholesome image. I think he may have blindsided her.
Most of these states are requiring the separation prior to getting divorced, so its not always really about a needing space. Although some couples probably do that, it's because legally, they have to have a separation before they can file. Especially when you have children. My first husband and I had to be separated for 6 months before we could file for divorce. And we didn't even have any children.
