@@carmenbertios6586 , Hindsight is 20/20. He may have realized that it was a mistake. I would say so. If JLo was a 30 yr old, still frivolous and spontaneous, I could understand her excitement in producing this, but, she is not. It is sad that their marriage didn't last longer, no matter what the reason for failing.
@Nolanoyayo I think you open yourself up to some judgemental when you have been married and divorced 4x. And they shared this relationship with the world when they should have learned from the past.
Haters get bad Karma. She's hot! Men want 🔥 hot. Hot, talented, successful women get engaged more. Unfortunately, to narcissist, controlling men. Textbook. Jen is learning to love Jen for all her fabulousness first.
Probably there wasn't a prenup because she wasn't planning to divorce him. I agree that she should have kept things private to save her relationship, I wish her healing.
Marriage is a commitment. You are going to have your ups and down but if real love is there, both are going to make it work. Ask all those people that have been married for decades. It's a shame. She made a beautiful couple with Ben and in her book, she stated he was the love of her life. I been with the love of my life for over 30 years. It has not been easy but we made it with GOD'S help.
I don’t think JLo should give up on love..there is a true love out there for her-she just needs to focus on herself and her kids and let love find her this time❤
He wanted a real spicy Latina but he got JLow and she aint been a spicy Latina NEVER!!. He didn't choose her to be the mother of his children and she didn't choose him to be the father of her children, they both chose to have kids with their own & used each other for LUST,
I don't think that he wanted to have children with her. on the other hand I think that she would have had children with him if he didn't dump her 20 years ago 😂
You mean BEN didn't choose her for the mother of his kids,,,, She was never his first choice, sadly she has no self respect or emotional maturity to make the right choices at her age and for her kids. Ben had the right to leave her again if he wasn't happy. He did her a favor.
They have NO kids together she has more money than she can ever spend so why would she ask for any support . It doesn’t pay to be greedy the house was bought together.
They were better off as just dating and not remarrying. Jennifer has got to learn to stop jumping into all of these relationships. It's embarrassing to her children. The only difference between women like her and Taylor Swift is that Taylor had about 10 boyfriends. But never married. Marriage is way more difficult. Especially with children involved
Question, how many ppl have you guys seriously dated and how many have you just gone out of dates with? I’ve had 5 serious boyfriends and went out with guys in between my serious relationships. I don’t think Taylor’s boyfriend count is that serious compared to many ppl our age. 😂 and the zero divorce count is such a flex. I’d be more embarrassed with jumping into marriage.
"Jennifer has got to learn..." Says who? What right do you have to judge her? Focus on your own life - I'm assuming it needs some work based on what's written here.
Another excuse for Ben to drink. He said if he was still with Garner, he would still be drinking? So, he has another bad marriage-will he take any responsibility? I doubt it
She's amazing - a truly strong woman - yet women cannot resist to tear her apart at every opportunity. She's talented, strong, a survivor, a mother - the best... strong, feminine, iconic
@@hankhenshaw619 I agree. I just think it has nothing to do with her. He is an alcoholic and obviously struggles mentally. It was there before her as well
She left him. He was a drunk, went to rehab MULTIPLE times, and cheated on her with the nanny in the midst of all of that. It's Ben's fault also. In both of these failed relationships.
Living with Ben must have been a nightmare. He never changed. Reason why she broke up with him the fist time. Still self centred and self absorbed, publicly embarrassing her by slamming the door aftershave got into the car, miserable all the time, shame on him. She seemed to make more of an effort
Well Ojani and Alex Rodriguez both smirked and said it wasn't going to last...because J Lo is very selfish she will always put herself first. Ojani said she was out with P Diddy when she was still married to him and Alex said she spun things and made him look like the cheat, when she was already with Ben while her and Alex were still engaged
@@everythinghome2287Well they know the best what she is really like in a relationship. Both have said practically the same about her I doubt both guys got together to destroy her. Even Ben has implied that he wanted a real love with her and she just wanted a spectacle/reality show sounds very self absorbed to me
Lol not surprising This woman couldn't keep a man if her life depended on it 😂 She needs to be single and focus on her kids Its embarrassing having that many failed marriages 😬😆
Getting back together wasn’t the biggest mistake Ben and JLo made, getting married without a prenup was the biggest mistake. Idk what they were thinking.
They should if dated for awhile and feel eachother out before the wedding...She messed this up not him, sorry...He wanted privacy and that's not who she is....
How can Jlo even bring herself to utter "til death do us part" anymore. What a joke these ppl are. Stop acting like u know what MARRIAGE IS. Just stop! She is racing to win the "most marriage " title from Zsa Zsa Gabor who wed 9x.
It's called damage control J-Lo controls the paparazzi and she didn't want pictures of herself going to court because it would make her look like a failure filing for divorce.
@@ApplePie.. Not hard to figure out. Those who have all the money & more can certainly not be seen or found if they don't want to. Cleary J Lo 's PR are told when to tip the paparazzi off whenever she exhales and steps outside. Same for all of publicity seeking celebs.
always sad when a marriage ends but this was so expected. Ben had a good thing going w/his first marriage & it’s hard to settle for less the second time around. I wish them both well & I hope he finds true happiness. Possibly staying away from the artificial side of Hollywood.
Whenever marriage does t work out we blame woman....Ben looks like a person who is always nagging and not happy... Jo only wants a good marriage...but none of her husbands were interested to bound themselves...
Hopefully they can both let this go and move on from each other. She is so full of herself. She may think she is in control leaving Ben. But we all know the truth . He lost interest first and couldn’t wait for her to move on without him.
JLO has a serious issue with marriage she is the common denominator in all her failed marriages go be by yourself you obviously can’t give yourself wholeheartedly to one person and love them faults and all
Ben is trash he been dicking down his exwife since last summer and moved out of their home while JLO was at work in NY to a house next door to the ex. Him and the exwife just returned from a vacation together in Japan. So blame her cheating ass husband Ben the divorce.
I think what this signifies is that "they" but especially Jennifer HAVE NO IDEA what selfless love truly is. Keep doing the broken relationships but for pete's sake stop telling people "no THIS IS my one true love" or giving love advice to others. absolutely ridiculous the mockery they make of marriage.
Ben should charge her for his sexual services...that's why she is furious to him...he was not sleeping with her for monts,he didn't fancy her no more...that's the real reason of the heatress o her for Ben...
She can't stay with the same man. She's toxic. She's the problem in every relationship she's ever been in and in every relationship she will ever be in in the future.
Ben Married the Most FAMOUS Singer in the world and got ANGRY when she went to Events to Promote her Records or Films. Real problem. Jlo is more FAMOUS than Ben. There's always a strong Women behind a Sucessful Man. But a Strong Women stands Alone. 😢
That was the problem JLo is the boss and Ben never got the email stating JLo in charge all the time, geez she gonna be lonely no matter how much coin she has
I’d be miserable too if an ex wife began flexing in my relationship and had to be constantly seen it’s sad but no woman wants to share a husband with an ex wife I know I wouldn’t and the ex only comes back when he is happy and it’s a pattern and then when Ben falls off the rails she cries victim and pretends to be wholesome I will never look at JG the same again nor Ben
ABSOLUTELY !!! KEEP IT REAL, BECAUSE PEOPLE KEEP FORGETTING JENNIFER GARNER PUSHED UP ON BEN WHEN SHE WAS MARRIED TO SCOTT FOLEY.....THEY KEEP TRYING TO COVER THAT SH*T UP
I lost my respect for Garner ,who back in 2002 decided to trap Ben by getting pregnant from Ben, knowing he was engaged to Jlo. A woman who doesn't respect someone's commitment to someone else, I don't respect. Ben will never ever be happy with ANY woman until he gets his act together and 🛑 STOPS DRINKING!!! it's a miracle Jlo lasted this long with him. He's not a bad person but he needs to put a stop to his addictions before getting into ANY relationship. This is why his relationships don't last. Women get burned out and get tired trying to help him stop his addictions. Many times we've seen Ben with a sweaty red face and really upset, it's because he needs a drink!!! They're called alcoholic withdrawals. Garner told her best friend she would take Ben back in a minute. It all started back in 2001 when Ben and Garner were in the Pearl Harbor movie. This is when a very married Garner became totally OBSESSED with Ben. Then at that time Garner asked her then husband for a divorce immediately. Then in 2002 Ben proposed to Jlo. They were engaged. Then it so happens that Ben was called to be in the movie called Daredevil with Garner. Garner knew Ben was engaged to Jlo but she didn't care as long as she got Ben for herself. That's when Garner purposely got pregnant, then Jlo found out and broke the engagement with Ben. Ben married Garner. Violet was born. Then Ben wanted out of the marriage with Garner. Garner purposely got pregnant again so Ben wouldn't leave her. Ben stayed. Every time Ben asked for a divorce, Garner held him back by getting pregnant. Ben told Howard Stern that he felt trapped in his marriage to Garner. Ben wanted a divorce, but Garner didn't want Ben to leave, so she proposed that Ben stay at their back house and he could have his side kicks as long as he was discreet. Then paparazzi caught Ben with the nanny, that's when Garner finally signed the divorce papers. Garner has always been immensely obsessed with Ben🤷🏼♀️... Garner would dump her present boyfriend if Ben were to decide to hook up with her again. Garner is totally obsessed with Ben! Garner reminds me of the old movie called FATAL ATTRACTION with Michael Douglas and Glenn Close!!😂 If Ben returns to Garner then he's not a real man, he's just a wimpy alcoholic who needs a mother figure like Garner who will turn the blind eye with his affairs. Ben needs to 🛑 stop with his addictions!!! Ben comes from a long family of alcoholics. Ben's father was a hardcore alcoholic and Ben went thru a tough childhood with an alcoholic father. His father finally stopped his addiction after 13yrs in rehab! Bens grandmother and uncle were both hardcore alcoholics and both committed suicide. Ben is a train wreck ready to crash! He doesn't realize how bad his addiction is. He is presently taking depression and anxiety medication. Jlo is a 24/7 workaholic. She's constantly busy with her business engagements , her cosmetic line, her Delola wine products and many other investments she currently has....ect, . She's always on the go, she's a health fanatic, and Ben is the total opposite, Ben is a immensely layback man who loves being home sipping on his liquor 🥃🍷🍸🍹. In life, many times, opposites do attract, just like Gwen Stefani and Blake Shelton, Gwen is glamour and true fashion, and Blake is a dress down layback type of person ,BUT they don't have addictions like Ben does. Jlo wanted Ben to get back busy filming and directing movies which he's very good at doing. But it's hard when you have an addiction you can't let go of. At least he's managed to do the sequel for the movie THE ACCOUNT #2. Jlo just wants the best for Ben! Whether Ben is with her or not, Jlo truly wants the best for Ben....and Ben knows this. But most recently, it seems Jlo has given up on trying to help Ben kick his bad habits , and addictions. In the future , Ben will date many women, but none will want a permanent relationship because they want a real man in their life's, a man with no addictions. If you look at Ben closely, you can tell he's aging faster due to his drinking...😢
ET you really should consider doing a piece that analyzes the sexism and misogyny surrounding this relationship/separation. The way Jennifer Lopez has been treated, especially by women, is truly disturbing and clearly shows the internal sexism and misogyny that women have toward other women. Why is she held to such a high standard while he gets coddled by the media, social media and mostly by women? This has truly been astonishing to watch the horrific way people speak of Jennifer as if they personally know her and live with her and her children. You, the media, have greatly contributed to how female celebrities, especially woc, are treated. Perhaps it’s time that you take a deep dive into how some curry, despite all the female empowerment movements, is still anti-women. This case is a perfect example.
Liz Taylor was celebrated! But Liz was also a white woman so she got a lot more of a pass. In addition to sexism and misogyny, Jennifer Lopez, is also facing racism. He’s white and she’s Latina. The derogatory terms people use when criticizing her every move vs the living and endearing way they describe him, his ex and their children. Even on this very thread of comments, people claiming BA wanted a “spicy Latina”. It’s 2024, and that’s how some women refer yo Latinas. It’s very offensive and disturbing. Even the way his children and ex are pitted and compared to one another is deeply discriminatory as if they are somehow less than. It’s VERY disturbing.
She’s been engaged 6 times, and has been married and divorced 4 times. I think we know who’s the problem in the relationships…. Also I’ve heard she’s just awful in general
He is a user. Garner spent too much time helping him, she loved him more than he cared for her. He was bored, moved onto Lopez who he knew would take him back. Now involved with an unmarried and childless younger woman. He is trouble, steer clear from him. 0:03
❤Ben’s behavior is exactly matching his character he played in accountant . Ben is emotional violent specially when he has liquor , his temper is bad , could be more violent . Its why Gardner could not stand had to divorced him .
