The choice of title is what keeps making me laugh. This is me...now. Not then. Not like before. Today. Right now. Presently. At this moment. Currently. Now, I am me unlike before. I was me before but now Im more me now. Im me now than i was me before. Me is here. Me is now. Me not past. Me, currently. 😂
I felt horrible for Chris Judd, he seems like such a nice guy. Skank (Lopez) broke his heart. He had no idea she was not marriage material. In the end if you think about it he is actually very lucky! Look at her life now, it's more messed up than ever. Karma is a bitch. What is this her 5th failed marriage now? it's hard to keep track.
11 going on 12 with my fiancé (got together in high school) and as great as we are together, as much as we have shaped each other growing up, we STILL are very different people. We don’t really argue or fight per say cause we have gotten communication down pretty good but we still disagree, and still annoying each other and make us roll our eyes. Are there things I wish she did differently? Sure! Is there stuff she wish I did or didn’t do? Sure thing! But that’s what makes people so awesome and unique. That is what makes things interesting. That is what makes it life.
@mrdavman13 lol right i have the annoying habit when working on a house project of putting stuff in the way of walking and for 19 yrs everytime my husband stubs his toe i get a "damn it Shannon" him knowing full well im not going to change and he has his qurks that drive me batty but learned to live with. It does make life interesting
10 years together in june 6 years married in July it's most definitely not a fairytale. I love him and he loves me but sometimes it takes work, sometimes it's effortless.
No,definitely not. Men are a pain in the azz sometimes, haha. There is good and bad in any relationship I feel. The important thing is we give/receive love and at the end of the day we are there for each other. Lopez disposes of people like they are garbage. I do not feel bad for her now. She has been doing this all her life.
We thought Jada and Will needed to take us out of the group chat. But this was… yikes. She even admitted that Ben himself didn’t even want this. 😅 she’s giving Ariana Grande symptoms of not being able to be alone.
@@ellielane2313 Meghan is super public about everything and sooo self-centered. I rather wonder how Amber Heard fits in with the other three, I haven't heard anything about her in forever.
@@Korcasandromedaathey’re making a joke about how a huge chunk of the people she asked to be in it and couldn’t get the celebs she wanted who where much bigger. There are celebrities in it but in the documentary she got turned down and she didn’t take it that well. So yeah it is funny.
He didn't want anything to do with her project. She did it on her own and embarrassed him showing everyone those love letters. She doesn't have a clue.
Unfortunately she didn’t listen to Jane Fonda who was trying to be a good friend telling her to the effect of”learn your lesson from the first go-around with Ben with the “overexposure “… seems like she didn’t and couldn’t.
A hopeless romantic is simply someone who doesn't know how to be alone. The ability to be OK in aloneness is a gift from the Universe. I've been single.most of my adult life, and while I do WANT ( NOT NEED) to have someone, I'm OK, because I know.how to be alone. Without knowing the woman at all, I've always diagnosed Jennifer's jumping from relationship to relationship as her inability to be alone and fear of loneliness. Apparently, I was correct.
@@valentinomiller6251 you are definitely correct. Its like even with my family growing up, I was ousted aside to entertain myself so I'd be reading a book and daydreaming of meeting someone who understood me. While thats only happened a handful of times in my life, I know how to be alone with myself. You have to be ok with it, it gives you a sense of calm.
@@valentinomiller6251 That is also how you get incels, they're too self absorbed to look for what other people wants and when things are less than perfect they flips out
Imagine spending 20M $ to embarrass yourself! Well you don’t have to imagine anymore lol I have legit second hand embarrassment for her. If she spend even 5% of that on her old neighbourhood area and helped the homeless she would have gotten a lot more praise than spending all this just to look out of touch and this self centred! Literally no one relates to a struggle of millionaires.
Great idea. Wish she would have done that. She could have just released the album and if did well plan a tour. But what she did not only embarrassed her, it broke up her marriage. The idea that ANYONE would not think it was about her relationships, including Ben, she was delusional. They broke up the first time (according to Ben) was too much stress and more public exposure of Ben’s private life than he could tolerate. So, wanting to keep the love of her life, she sets up four major projects (lots of stress) and exposed their relationship to the public. It was unforgivable to give his correspondence to part of her staff!
As soon as I heard she and Ben got back together, I knew she’s gonna pull a PR stunt in some shape or form to tell a narrative like what’s in this movie. I so predicted it.
She is far up her own ass she thinks she has the greatest love story. No one cares. The wife and mother jennifer was beautiful. I think that calmer will bite back
My mother was married 5 times and it caused a lot of damage for my sister and me. JLo is a ridiculous woman and should focus on her damaged children, instead of her billion failed and failing relationships. I am 50 and cannot believe how at 54 she is this immature to make such a silly project
@@lostwoods5687 Because ultimately what people do does affect all of society. She has millions of fans who do see her as an example to live by. Someone who marries and divorces 4 times has problems at home. I am good (at home). Are you on your fifth marriage?
@@madmarlowe1422her poor children can't get used to any family before it's gone. Both Max and Emmie got really close to A Rods daughters. They were basically a family for 4 yrs. Then POOF , they're gone and here comes Ben with his kids. It's sad And before A Rod it was Chris Judd who lived w them and acted as stepdad. And before that they lived with Marc Anthony as a family. SMH
One time I won a meet and greet to see Kelly Rowland and I met her in the bathroom no security just Kelly and I talking about our momma's and laughing, having a good time, we were in the bathroom talking so long that they had to come get her, I'll never forget that day❤ she called me her sunshine and told me that storms may come but they always pass❤ She didn't treat me like I'm a peasant and I looked at her in her eyes, She's so beautiful in person ❤️
JLO Encounter Story time: Denver CO, 2019, mid summer-ish. JLO and her entourage showed up to the restaurant I was working at, which was one of the premier upscale sushi dens in the Cherry Creek area. I’ve posted this on every JLO video I can find so people know the truth about her. I wasn’t working that night and I was so bummed because I was actually suppose to, but I heard the full story from everyone else. The restaurant apparently had VIPs from time to time, and they would usually call ahead to let us know so we could shut off a portion of the restaurant if they desired. JLO’s group showed up 15 mins to close, no prior notice, and asked that we shut down the entire restaurant for her. I don’t think we’d ever done that for anyone before, but since we were closing anyway and since this was a super VIP, my manager agreed. None of the staff were allowed to leave. I’m not sure if that was JLO’s wishes or just my manager wanting all hands on deck, but apparently the entire front part of the restaurant had to be empty and completely quiet for JLO, so the whole staff was crammed into the back kitchen just sitting around. JLO for some reason was bothered by the sound of trickling water from the beautiful Asian bamboo fountain we had, and made her handler ask that it be shut down. My manager was really torn about this, as that fountain had been running non stop since the day it was imported all the way from Japan, a few years earlier - it was considered good luck. IIRC he communicated this to her handler hoping it would change her mind. Handler didn’t even ask her, likely because he knew she wouldn’t take it well, and just insisted that she needed it off or they'd have to leave, which I wish he would have just let them, but my manager shut it down and was REALLY stressed out about that’. JLO was apparently pouting most of the time and just seemed she couldn’t be bothered with anything. Something had apparently happened to put her in a bad mood which serving staff overheard in bits and pieces but we didn’t get the backstory. She had ordered (through her handler of course) a bunch of rolls not on the menu, basically created her own stuff even though our rolls were literally award winning, and it was a huge pain for the kitchen. I’m not sure if it’s common restaurant etiquette, but I guess with VIPs, our managers would always comp the entire meal as a kind of pseudo “courtesy” with the mutual understanding that the guest would leave an enormous tip to cover the full bill and then some. That’s how it always worked out with prior VIPs, they had always left a significantly generous amount, but usually the VIPs came in as a couple or small group, not a dozen people like JLO had. The bill was somewhere around $1300 and the manager actually called the owner to ask if we should comp it. Owner said “just do it”, I guess he wanted the good publicity, hoping she’d rave about the restaurant in a magazine or interview in return. The manager let most of the staff go after an hour but kept some people on for another, as JLO’s party stayed there for almost 2 hours… so the restaurant had to also lose money to pay a bunch of people who were not working. I’m not sure if the party received an actual itemized and comped bill, or if the manager just communicated that it was all on the house, but either way - JLO should have had a general idea of how much to pay… She left TWO TWENTIES! That’s it. And mind you, there were 2 waiters serving that table. We were all trying to figure out if she just made a mistake like one person was suppose to pay the bill and the other person suppose to tip, or maybe there was a miscommunication. I’m not sure, but since JLO was in charge, it’s all on her. And after hearing all these stories, I really think it was deliberate. That was the first “bad luck” act to occur after the fountain was unplugged and subsequently the restaurant had a few incidents of bad luck for the next few months until my manager brought in some Asian medicine man to have the restaurant recalibrated, so to speak. He considered JLO to be inhabited by a "Yaoguai" which if I am correct, is the equivalent of a demon possession. I thought it was all just superstition but the more I thought about it, the more I realized that this woman TRULY has a bad energy about her, and after doing some digging and reading after my restaurant experienced this, not only did I find hundreds of similar stories of her being awful to service people, she is a practitioner of Santeria (according to legal divorce documents that someone dug up) but even without that fact, the woman DOES have bad vibes. I have been waiting years for all this karma to catch up with her. I was like, how has all this awful, selfish behavior not caught up with her? And FINALLY, it has!!! 👏
@@a.walters123yo dude. You basically broke it DOWNNNNN! The energy is bad, witchy, manipulator and pure sorcery. She seems controlling and obsessed about ego, image and seems like her cover is blown. The restaurant story deserves a bigger platform… stay blessed ✨🔥
I think we need to stop taking about her if anything. Narcissists don't care if it's good or bad as long as they are being talked about and she is certainly a narc
@@kr0wn.aSSaSSinthere’s literally no proof of this. Also where’s the logic there’s more people doing negative videos…. And they exist everywhere on the internet.
@@ImJustinPineda Narcissistic personality disorder is super complex. Individuals can have NPD or just a general higher degree of narcissism than the average person. Most celebrities have a higher degree of narcissism than most, kinda comes with the territory. NPD folks can maintain long term relationships as long as it serves them, builds their ego, and gives them the attention they crave. Lots of highly narcissistic people go through many short, intense relationships, but others can hide their true nature and rope empathetic people into their chaos, manipulating them to put up with/justify their bullshit.
God forbid she used her 20 million to help someone ,like two bronx schools asked for small donations ,while she visited old days,for filming,which she denied ,yeah better to indulge yourself to try prove some fantasy ,of hers ,wtf do we ,anyone ,CARE ,absolutely criminal in these times ,she needs to read the room ,ie the zietgist or the world vibe atm ,no more idol worship ,wtf does she think ,we,give a shit !
So...basically she told Ben and Garners kids he was unfaithful emotionally all along ...And wanted to be with HER? The whole TEN years.?.. right....and TEN years with Marc and had kids..basically just told THEM she didnt really care for their Dad......you really saved me from watching this . And you are funny...new subsciber! 😊..... BEN always looks miserable...looks like he could kick himself in the you know whats for going BACK.
None of that is true, she's just rewriting history. Truth is she feel in love with Mark after Ben brok her heart. Then she divorce and feel in love with Casper Smart after Mark broke her heart. Then later fell in love Arod after Casper cheated and broke her heart. Then later Affleck again after Arod broke her heart. But she forgets all this and isn't being honest with herself.
Ran into Garner and Ben once when they were here in Charleston WV (Jen's hometown) while visiting her parents, and I tell you Ben didn't look miserable then. His misery came when he got involved with the OTHER Jen, who's been around the block multiple times with Hella multiple men.
Needing tell everyone how world shattering in love you are is a bit like telling everyone what a good person you are. This is the first of your videos I've seen. It was extremely entertaining, I'm really glad I found your channel.
I asked my 21 year old daughter if she likes j-lo, her music and or movies... A resounding NO... I asked her if she even knew who Ben Affleck is... She said...who? These people just need to take their millions and slip into the world of irrelevance.. their demographic is now middle aged...and we stopped caring years ago...
Completely agree. I’m 44 and couldn’t care less about these celebs. It’s just interesting to hear how much of a jerk JLo is but her narcissistic trilogy of flops will get no air time from me lol.
Exactly. Your daughter is right. Most people who care about Jlo are over 45. When jlo and Ben started dating most 90s kids were not yep 12. We were 3 years old - 11 years old . No 90s late 80s or 2000s kids care about J-lo.
It's like a train wreck. You don't want to watch but you can't take your eyes away from the impending disaster. Except it's also super boring. And Ben.... I feel bad for him on some level because he looks like a hostage. This poor man is going to end up in McLean again if he doesn't escape. Man up Ben. He's a good actor but he can't even fake happy with her
“Beniffer” ugh. Broke up because they were in our faces all the time. So, round 2 when people are sick of lies and inauthenticity isn’t smart. If she keeps feeling she has to tell us who she is, is telling. People who are comfortable with themselves don’t have to shove themselves in your face. She is a product of this broken industry (all entertainment).
She probably thinks we’re too dumb to understand her “genius” 🤣🤣🤣 People are asking why Ben didn’t stop her but I doubt he could without her accusing him of being jealous of her superior “talent”. He had to step aside and let her make a fool of herself for the low low price of $20 mil. She could’ve fed how many hungry children with that? I guess we’ll never know.
@Tinydancer805 Actually, it did belong to Kat. Kat had already recorded the song, released it, and made a video when Jlo released her version. Jlo copied Kat 🖨🐱🐈
She is so meduocre. Its mind blowing that with 20 million that"s her genius idea. She ain't that smart or special. Happy she finally showed the world her true artristy 😂😂
She's not a creative person but thinks she is. I cry every time she talks about writing a song 😂. She's just competing with Beyonce and other talented artists
@@thandekankosi9832 She is not creative at all and she can't write anything good, of depth or original. She wants to be Ben now. Narcissists wants the character traits & skills of others. She calls herself an artist over & over.
Love addict: a sad way of saying needy and co-dependent. She thinks we care or forget that her and Ben, adults in their 30's, called their marriage off on their own. They weren't kids controlled by their parents.
Right ? Ben pointed that out in the documentary ! He was taking about reading the script , and said that it seemed that she was trying to say that the break up caused her to go into this despair ( I’m paraphrasing ). But that they can forgive it and asked had she forgiven him . She kinda shakes her said no and stays silent . Ooof! 😳
What's really funny is people still loving her and say she's such a great singer when she doesn't even sing most of the voice ain't even her real f****** voice everybody else's but hers
I saw a comment or video mentioning her “borrowing” music from people and went on yet another deep dive last night. Christina Milan is singing the WHOLE damn chorus of Play. I can’t believe in my early teens I thought it was her singing. And loads of other songs I’m just sitting there thinking “that is a black woman singing right there.” I’m glad Usher made them run him his money for Get Right
The rumors say she got with Ben because she knew what was coming down the pipeline with diddy and she thought that the worlds nostalgia of bennifer would save her from being dragged and exposed. Didn’t work out so well for her it seems…
Jen and Ben are about as appealing as Cher and Gregg Allman. Actually, Jen and Ben are about as appealing as a buffet without the sneeze guard. Jen and Ben are as appealing as Mr. and Mrs. Cornflake. Jen and Ben are as appealing as but-crack smell. Jen and Ben are as appealing as runny mashed potatoes. Jen and Ben are as appealing as...ok i will stop. It could go on all day.
Agreed.💯 If it wasn’t for all this stuff that has come out about her recently, I wouldn’t have even known they were back together. The public never even cared about their relationship back 10+yrs ago, it was all pr/the media hyping them up. Do any of us really care who’s dating who in Hollywood? I certainly don’t!🥱🤷🏻♀️
"Bennifer" was never a real thing. It was almost exclusively the tabloid/legacy media that was obsessed with "Jennifer." Just look at all of the films Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck made together and you can see how LITTLE of an audience they actually had. All mega flops and in the case of Gigi's director it was a full-on career ender.
I can’t help but feel as if JLo isn’t actually talking about being in love with a person (like it’s clear she’s going through a midlife crisis as an irrelevant celebrity and falling out of love with that lifestyle as well as most importantly P.Diddy), but she is incapable of self-reflection.
The song you are thinking of is “I’m still in love with you” by Alton Elis which then became an interpolation song in the early 2000s by Sean Paul ft Sasha
Thank you for your service and sacrifice! This is SO TERRIBLE. How is she not embarrassed? "It has choreography" is the most positive statement I've seen about this movie! 😂
I wonder if JLo realizes that she’s her own worst enemy? All she has to do is set the ego aside for ONE second, learn to laugh at herself sometimes and she’d be golden. These projects are a step in the opposite direction for that goal though 🙃 same advice goes to Ben, remember when he used to smile? lol
I watched the documentary, and then couldn't watch the movie. She lost me when she was sharing all of Ben's letters. Also, I don't think anywhere it's mentioned that he wrote her for all those years. It was just a combination of letters from the first time around and then letters from the second time around. Because trust that her ambition is part of what Ben's allure is for her. If he would have been writing her throughout all those other relationships, she would have dumped anyone of those guys in a heartbeat to be with him because he's more, he's better... he's infinitely more successful than any of the other men she's been with. This ties into it heavily even if she'd never admit that. Also... in her delusions, I think she thought this movie would end up being at the level of Lemonade with the success that had. Which... no, girl... not at ALL at that level. And finally, to her refrain of 'it's just me' it's not that she has to change, it's that she needs to grow and THAT will change the way she keeps doing the same thing over and over again.
Nobody cares. She wanted to show gge world that they are back together and how much she loves him snd that Ben emails her love letters. Which nobody cares.😂😂😂
Ok so there's ANOTHER SONG NO ONE TALKS ABOUT that JLO (aka payLo) has borrowed and I never here mention of this song bc it's originally Brazilian Portuguese and then it was done in Spanish. "Llorando se fue", popularized by Kaoma's 1989 hit single "Lambada". Ironically, there doesn't seem to be much original thought from this so called "artist".
That Love Addiction is a thing!! I believe I have that too and one of the steps to get out of that it is to STOP IDEALIZING people and relationships and watching any romantic unrealistic Hollywood movies. Real relationships aren’t like that!! My husband and I are coming up on 20 years together and it’s very hard but we both have to compromise but doesn’t sound like she knows how to do that or maybe even know how to apologize. Good Luck to Ben Afleck! I feel sorry for the guy!!
I watched the documentary of the making of this 'movie' (ie, extended music video) and it was one of the most painful hour and 20 minutes of my life. There was no question that I was NOT going to watch the music video, but your analysis of it is truly excellent. Great insights.
JLo’s best movie was Selena. I watched Marry Me and it stinks. It’s basically about her life. She got dumped and jumped into another relationship within minutes.
The best tho is the part in the movie where she tells Jane while Jane is touching up that the story has a happy ending & she falls in love…..with herself. And Jane says, “Oh” with this look like “yeah, I know”.
Listen, I consider myself a hopeless romantic. In the sense, yeah I want to meet my person and be through shit (because shit happens) with them, and know that we stick together no matter what life throws at us. This is my definition of “being a hopeless romantic” - to want a person you are committed to and who committed to you in return. Will it happen? Who knows. But while it didn’t, Im completely happy by myself with my dog and my “hopeless romantic” side just reads romance books, fanfiction, reads historical accounts of love stories, watches movies (not docks about celebs lol). Much healthier expression of romantism then jumping from relationship to relationship, in my humble opinion😂 And ohmygod, I can’t imagine how embarrassed would I be, to make a movie about myself as if I am already dead and was nominated an award for contributions to arts or something? Like, stoop. We all are self-absorbed creatures to an extent, but not to a millions-of-dollars-vlog extent, right?
Even worse when you consider they’re rumoured to have separated again 💀 Exactly, true, authentic romance has to happen organically, not by forcing ourselves or the other person into becoming someone else entirely to “make it work”. Nah, gimme a book and a puppy any day of the week!
PR woman here. I used to think she was cool back in the day . Then finding out what a shitty person she is to service workers and staff and other unsavory stuff just turned me off . Low key: I love her perfume 😂
I think this movie would’ve been so much better if she just let Ben help her. Even what he makes had a more cohesive story than whatever this marathon of tropes called a “movie” was. She would’ve been better off allowing Ben to help her with making the documentary and left it at that. Make the romance a checkpoint if her life and marriages and MOVE ON.
This whole project was very narcissistic but the bullying needs to stop. She's getting trashed for her age. These young tik tokers have no boundaries. Social media gives a free pass to these people. We have to do better
@michellechanelle2401 mocking someone over age is not calling out. You all always advocating for mental health but go deep down with the bullying. If you don't like her, don't watch her, simple. Is this the education u pass to your children?
@@filipepedro8272 You obviously don't know what you're talking about. People are calling her out for her shitty behavior towards others including her fans. You talk about people's mental health while you totally ignore how Jlo made all those people feel who she was so nasty towards. Mocking her little 20 million dollar vanity project was nothing in comparison. And anyways Jlo said she's not bothered by the haters.
I thoroughly enjoy listening to this video. You’re super funny and you have a really good point of view. Definitely someone I can rock with! Can’t believe you only have 1k subs!?????
