dear everyone reading this. no matter what you're here for, because you're hurt, or you're happy, or u just like the song. i need u to know u matter and u are beautiful. it is okay to not feel ur best. everyone needs to break down and cry at some times. we all have those days. but we all have amazing days too. if u have taken time to read this comment i know you needed to hear this. everyone has moments they're not proud of. but you've made it this far in life baby. and ur still going. and for that u deserve the world. no matter if you're twelve, or fifty, you have made it so far in life. some people give up too soon and its terrible. but u are here for a reason. don't leave before it's ur time. i love u.
Thank you dear, thank you for your words, saying those words means you have been or still through something that broke you at some point. You are a strong person and amazing creature keep fighting and you will find the love you deserve ....... from someone that read your comment 💕
I got the best compliment from my older brother the other day. He told me. "You know you have never really been cool, you liked what you liked even if it made you look nerdy. You were bullied and had rumors spread about you. But you stuck to yourself and now you're the most authentic person I know. I can count on you for being honest and genuine even if it's some hard truth you need to tell me". My brother was always the cool kid in school and now he is suffering having to find his identity at 32 yrs old. He's jealous of me for sticking to myself the whole time. Just saying, fuck everyone else. Do you. In the end you will have so much respect from people because you're not fake and empty. Love yourself.
Naomi Xx33 wow what your brother said was really genuine and pure. I will take those words to heart for myself because I’m struggling too. I hope your brother can find his identity one day and I’m praying for him. 😘❤️
Wish I knew this 2 I let 2 many people overtake my environment and contribute to my decision I know now how 2 take control of myself much love 2 ya gurl xx
I wish I had herd this song a month ago when I lost the one person who I knew who loved me and would support me through anything....i.... It's okay not to be okay.... And I'm not.
No, not at all. I haven't been thinking about or listening to this song for ages and for some reason I was humming the melody at 1 am in bed and immediately searched for it
This song is actually criminally underrated. The lyrics are EXTREMELY inspiring and heartwarming. I feel like a lot of people overlook this song and it's content because they dismiss Jessie J as just another stupid pop star but honestly, everyone should listen to this song once. Listening to this song at least once a day, is very motivating and gives me a little boost of confidence.
To anyone who is reading this, you’re reading this for a reason and that reason could be that you’re hurting or you just need a sign, I know it hurts and I know you feel numb and I know that you’re hurting but it’s going to be OK I know you may have heard this so many times or you may have never heard it at all But no matter your story or what you’ve been through you’re going to get through it I promise
"Tears don't mean you're losing" No, tears mean you've bottle everything up inside of you and been way too strong for far too long. Everyone's fighting a battle only they, themselves, know about so stay strong, everyone!
To anyone who is reading this and is insecure or anything like that, I want to let you know that you are beautiful, talented, and amazing. Sure, we all have some bad moments in our life where we just want to end it all right there. But you should know there are people who care about you and wouldn't want to see you upset. If anyone tells you different ignore them. They are not worth your time. You are all amazing in your own special way. I will always be here for you!
I'm an epileptic single mother who is recovering from brain surgery earlier this month thank you for everything you said you don't know me but like this song have helped me thank you so much!
To the females reading this , stop being insecure your so beautiful . Stop letting people bring you down , & lower yourself esteem . They only do it because it makes them feel good about themselfs . Your so beautiful and your so worth it , stop stressing yourself over boys as well , now wipe them tears running down your eyes and tell yourself , I’m beautiful and I’m one bad bi****
Don't you love how supportive people are when they have gone through what you are going through. They know the pain, the emptiness, the thoughts that trickle into your head.
Stay strong I walk around like I'm happy all the time even though I not but I'm still here just think about it like this if you look like the only mad or upset one there's other people out there who's upset about what's going on in their lives you see how any people out there that killed themselves over things like th just got a relationship just hang in there you'll be find just don't give up and keep in mind this is coming from a 12 year old
This comment made my week, it is so true and beautiful at the same time❤️ and if you're going through that kind of stuff, just remember life gets better, and if someday you need to talk to someone just dm me on twitter @AleeKrewii, have a nice day. And remember, you're worth it. Ily
Brings me back....My best friend killed himself about a month ago, and the last words were "it's ok not to be ok" RIP Tyler Montgomery miss and love you so much
OMG im so sorry but I know how you feel because I went through the same situation and I became depressed and I was cutting but I met my best friend who helped me through
One of the best cover of Who you are! Superb vocals of Mariane Osabel from Philippines! Watch it... ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-JD5lTshLFyQ.html
I'm crying like a baby this song is EVERYTHING!!! saved me so many times! I'm so grateful for this song! If you going through hard times PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE NEVER GIVE UP! You here for a reason you need to be HERE! Love you people!!! you are strong! ❤️
The only reason we are born is to feed our hard labor to society as fuel for the politicians and the people at the top and their families,we are nothing but another herd of animals like cow and sheep's, I don't even see the point in living anymore
Still listeing in 2015. :'( Anyone else? Am I the only dang one..? We have to admit... Jessie J is amazing! :) This song will keep you humming and in your head for hours. i:
I'm so sorry about your sister. I hope with time things get a little easier. Praying for you and your family at this hard time in your lives and wishing a happier future. I know your sister could never be replaced but I'm sure she'd want you to be happy and live your lives 🙏🙏💗💗 chin up beautiful 🤗🤗
HEY YOUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (keep reading) Dear whoever reads this, You are beautiful and God made you beautiful. Look at the mirror, see? You are freakin' good darling. Never ever mind the voices who always depress you, make you feel bad and you are super annoyed with. Learn how to stand up, be a warrior, a fighter, that's just who you are. Move one, keep your chin up and always look forward! Be optimistic, be positive, be yourself, That's the only thing to achieve everything, your goals,dreams, everything. It's one of the most important keys you should always put in your pocket. Never forget that someone loves you and someone will always be there for you.
Butera Diaries i never really read through these and for some reason i read yours. it made me tear up because its exactly what i needed to hear. ive been feeling lost and down lately most of which i felt today. so thank you, honestly.
This is my first time ever hearing this song and I didn’t expect to break down and cry thinking of my 13 year old self and when I was so bullied I wanted to take my own life. Here I am at age 30 and realize their words never mattered and I am beautiful just as you all are ❤️
I listen to this whenever I feel humiliated about myself. I used to be THAT girl who always try more than what she can actually do. It was amazing at first, all the attention and approval I've been seeking was finally there but I started to lose my real self (do I even know my real self?). It felt like I'm just living for the sake of other people. I became exhausted and drained (with a confused mind and heart).
Spicy Peach you should never feel humiliated in yourself. I know sometimes you lose your true self but one day you’ll find it. Just fake it till you make it. That’s my motto.💜💜💜
@@sisig6 I am starting to learn that these past few months. Also cutting off some toxic people really helped me through this process. I feel a lot better now than I did before and I'm starting to appreciate myself more. Thank you for the kind words btw.
It´s incredible how this song spoke to me.I´m christian and for so long i´ve been pretending to be the perfect choir girl so the church wouldn´t judge me. but know i let go of the masks and be myself with all my flaws and let God take care of me and molding me according to His will instead of me trying to change myself based on others opinions. I´m supposed to be a mirror, a reflection of Jesus. but i was just a hologram, i wasn´t real. God bless you, Jessie
+coolanimals102 AJ I am so sorry about your problems the only thing that's best for u to do is tell an grown up and if one don't care keep trying until someone does good luck . :) :) ;)
Hi, so I know a lot of you are here crying because something going on with school or parents or just life but if your parents say you are awful or make fun of you, just know it’s not true. I was abused for years by my step dad. I don’t want to talk about details but it was bad. I know how y’all feel. I was cutting and I felt awful, I would cry every night and never stopped but I was always hopeful for my future. I was excited for it. And you should to. You are handsome or you are either beautiful but I know you are FUCKING AMAZING and all the bad things people say are fucking wrong because you are great and if you HES to talk I will. I love you a lot and I swear on everything that it’s true. You are loved
I am 10 I have depression I had cancer at 8 my dad was never around. And I have suicidal thoughts so I go to this song to give me hope and also it helps. edit:OMG thank you all sm! reading these made me smile i hope all of you are doing well this helps❤
You know there is a word me and my family uses. We say it everyday,everywhere we go,anytime we get scared or feel bad. It is a single word with millions of unspoken prayers in it and we wouldn't get through our lives without. Now I want you to know,whatever happens, always travel on GODSPEED. It's the only speed that will get you through everything in your life. Be safe and try it. You will feel better. On Godspeed my friend.
you are so strong. I’m so proud of everything you’ve done. Keep fighting bby, u came so far. I wish u all the happiness. U deserve everything in the world. Keep ur head up. I love u
This song gives me the chills. I see a lot of comments saying they were or are bullied. Keep the faith. Don't let the bullies win! I had to go through many many years of bullying and still have no friends. The only thing to escape from my mind because of my depression is music and praying
This song always gets me emotional but if you ever think you're not worth it think again everyone is put on this earth for a reason don't let people get to you don't let anyone tell you who you are because you know who you are and who you are is truly beautiful and amazing no matter what skin color, what body shape, how you look, you are fucking beautiful don't let anyone get to you signing off is a FANGIRL (me) I love one direction and 5sos they helped me and so did music in general I love singing, writing music, playing guitar,piano,clarinet, and violin find your talent and make the most of it
SimplyAPro-Fangirl I love singing and im a very emotional person so yes this song put me in tears because when i first heard this song it reminded me that you are nobody but yourself you are Beautiful, Talented, Brave, etc. Most people dont but im very depressed girl in the 7th grade i get bullied but i the type to respond to the bullies because i cant keep what i have to say inside of me. I have anger problems so im gonna respond either way it go.
WOW. never heard this artist before. the lyrics are better than all the mainstream garbage lyrics. beautiful song, We Need more Music like this to be played everywhere .
BORDERS BY AMBER IS A BEAUTIFUL SONG TO 😭😭😍😍 Tomorrow- Bts Just Right- Got7 No More Dream- Bts Promise- Exo Okay those are kpop songs. Just thought I should add them in there. Idk if you speak Korean but just read the English subtitles lol. 😂💜💙💜💙😍
...but tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising, there's nothing wrong with who you are... that's one of my favorite part.. thank you for the message of this song:) It's a good day To have a good day! :)
It's 2015. Nearly 2016 actually, and this song still means so much. Just remember that you, yeah, you, are beautiful. And the saddest thing is that you probably don't even see it. No matter what, the darkest of times, you are loved. I love you, and there is someone out there perfect fro you because you are perfect. Just a reminder :)
I grew up listening to this song,and I'm 21 now...and it's still one of my fav.songs...and it still touched me so deep .... Thank you for this song Jessie💜
My favorite song by far. Just remember this : "None of us are perfect. We all have battle scars, and there is not a definition to perfect. The greatest achievement is to be you. In my opinion, 'You' is the definition of beauty and you can achieve great things." I hope this made your day :)
Sometimes its hard to follow your heart, Tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's Bruising, theres nothing wrong with who you are😭😭😭 can't get enough of this song so relatable😭😭😭
To somebody who needs to hear this, People are facing the same problems as you, people are insecure, people are hurting, people are losing their selves to society and everyone is going through something even me. Just remember that their are people who are going through the same thing as you. they're reading this right now so know you're not alone. Keep going everyone is here for a reason and someone in this world understands your pain because were all in it together and were going through the same things trying to swim our way out of this, Have a great day and i hope you guys realize your worth! seriously xo
To all the moms out there that are raising themselves and trying to raise these littles days are hard but it's all worth it. You're doing a great job, your beautiful and your kids love you. Stay strong God doesn't give you what you can't handle
I have absolutely no idea who you are or why you're here or what you have been through but i do know that you matter. You are so strong and i am so proud of you. I know i might not be the person that you wanna hear this from right now but i still think you should know how amazing you are and that its okay not to be okay. You have better days ahead of you, sometimes it takes a little bit of breaking to get there. Trust me, the right time will come and you will thrive. Remember love, u can't have the rainbow without the rain. I love you so much!! ❤ You got this!!! Don't ever give up on yourself beautiful!!
I’ve been coming back to this video about once a year since 2011 or whenever it came out.. 9 years of this song helping my depression. It’s also one of the main songs that got me into singing because I loved practicing stopping singing nasally
Ive been abused many times by my uncle . And all my family are on his side and dont want anything to do with me . This song seems to help me but does seem to still make me have a tear in my eye . Lifes actually difficult atm ... but Jessie j's songs always inspire me. Im 16 & im uncles 19 but it happend from the age of 10 up till 15. fuck the haters who have disliked this song.
I haven’t cleaned my room in months because I feel like it’s to big of a task, I don’t get out of bed unless I have too, I keep breaking things, I keep lashing out on people, I hate who I am. But this song has really helped.
Everyone here is beautiful in their own way, dont let anyone say any different, you are you, ''Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing, it's okay not to be okay.'', dont let anyone put you down, you are the one for someone else out there. Dont be let down, you make it happen, you go out there and be yourself.
I was once called crazy. I still am. I'm an outcast. But honestly, I tried to be normal. Worst two minutes of my life. I still wasn't happy. I wanted to be numb, to disappear. But then I met my family. Not the ones who are tied by blood, but the ones that are tied by love. So, I dropped the knife, and decided to suck it up. I may be bruised, but I'm happy. I once was told, "Love isn't being the other half of someone, it's reminding that loved one, they're already whole." Thank u sis. Thank u j. I love you guys more then life.
Fish_Jelly 05 i love u sis and I'm there for you cuz I know what it's like to just lose faith in yourself I will try to be there as soon as possible I love you until next time
Fish_Jelly 05 and I might be wrong but I think it's the fact that I'm the one who told her that family isn't the one who is Tied by genetics or blood it's the ones who are there for you and that actually care
Aww so many people are going through break ups and depression just like she says in the song dont lose who you are. Dont keep your head up,you are beautiful:)
WOW. never heard this artist before. the lyrics are better than all the mainstream garbage lyrics. beautiful song, we need more music like this to be played everywhere
Today my art teacher Mr. Terembes told me that 'If someone calls you fat, and you're hurt, that's what you think.' meaning that if I'm hurt by a hurtful word that's what I think of myself and I didn't even realize it. I was called fat and I cried, because I think I'm fat. But he told me that we're all beautiful and it's only society that's bringing us down. Sorry if you don't care, Idk I literally just realized this and I feel like an idiot. :|
when i hear of others getting called fat anf how they get hurt over it i want to scream out and tell that person to snap out of it because the word fat does not begin to describe who you are!!! but then i remember how much it hurts me alone when someone calls me fat. the thing is we have to take our own advice omce in a while. if we can comfort others why not begin with ourselves? when we can love and respect ourselves we can truly help others. this makes me want to cry.
This has really helped me a lot through my depression. My friends and family see me as a really happy person but they never see the depressed side of me xxxx hope this has helped many people
