same but I'm a mix between Yoon and Chim TvT I pretend to be coldhearted but I have my moments, idk why, but once you get to know me, i'm super soft and loving, and a lot like Chim lol, my nickname is koala for a reason XD
Nati QS he's not egocentric and he's totally not fishing for compliments bc he's insecure. Jimin is a very loving and affectionate person. He praises and show love to people around him 24/7 so its natural for him to want to feel the same kinda love he's giving to others. He proly feels loved when people praise and acknowledge his hardwork like he know others would feel when he praised them. Its a part of his loving personality.
MiniMonss im the same way. I love and love. I want to make people happy. So when someone praises me back i feel happy. I love being told I'm doing good so i dont beat myself up when others dont see that i am working hard.
This is one of the reasons why i love him so much. The cutest thing ever, he gets so upset when no one say anything about things he does, so he needs to ask lmao i wanna praise him face to face😭
Very true. I struggle with the same thing. I search for approval in others in order to feel good about myself. That's probably why he's my favorite member. I've been getting better, though. I've been learning to love myself more. I want Jimin to love himself as well, because it's horrible being sucked into a downward spiral of needing confirmation from others. I wish I could tell him that. But I can only support him from the side.
I can relate with ChimChim. I'm still learning how to accept myself and all that so knowing that he also has issues with that (and Namjoonie too) kinda helps me. Maybe one day we'll not need to be told we're amazing, beautiful, etc. One day.
123pandatastic Kook was actually doing it for a undercover mission, his goal was that Jimin had to say „Thank you“ to him (which he clearly didn‘t) xDD
And cus it seems like there used to his behavior they know him. Guys think theyve known each other for more than 7yrs its not just cuz hes insecure jimin talked at this before and cleared things up. Hes finding a way to feel the love and affection he gives to the memebers and hopeing for a way of getting the same back its just a part of his loving personality
mmb Park I don’t think you get it fully. Before going to the top, during debut, he was criticized for being not so handsome and was fat shamed even though he wasn’t and he’s a really soft and smiley boy ever since debut but the words really hurt him like it’d hurt any human. He began trying to perfect himself because of the hatefulness. Sure it’s an excessive feeling but it’s not his fault it started. Nobody wants to feel left out, the members are like his family. He’s not the only insecure one, even some or more people may be insecure cause of their environment and people’s opinions on them, hurting them. He’s someone who likes comforting others, even BTS themselves said Jimin is the most comforting one and looks out for other members. And he just deserves and needs love back. He doesn’t want it to be one sided. He treats them all, even armies and his family, equally and respectfully, why can’t the others who bash him do the same? Now answer me that. And they don’t act like that with each other cause everyone, every human and animal beings are different. I don’t know how you can’t understand that. It’s frustrating to see people suffering and It hurts cause I’ve experienced the same many times. I never said all BTS members weren’t worthy of love and only Jimin deserves love, this is a topic on Jimin and I’m stating it about Jimin. Thank you
I'm the oldest but my sister (who is the middle child) feels it all too well. She doesn't hide it either (I feel bad for her sometimes). I hope you guys know that you are amazing and just because you're the middle child, doesn't mean that you don't have any worth or that you're not talented. You're all that and more.
Jimin is the oldest huhu he has a yonger brother but...me *sigh* im the middle child and things dont always go ur way ur either to small for it or too young for it..
Due to his past self body-shaming and still (a bit) present insecurities, our Jiminie Chim Chim always seeks praise from others. Us ARMY's should always shower him with constant love
I love him so much, he deserves the world and all the praise in the world ❤️ for real I wish he wasn’t so insecure because it breaks my heart but I understand why he is. He’s so talented, handsome, sweet, and the most precious human on this planet 😭💗
tbh, my take from this is that he always has that need for love, attention, and validation. like a reminder that, "yes, you're doing good. good job!" i think this is because earlier in there career (and sometimes even now) anits would go at him telling him that he was unattractive, fat, and wasn't good at what he does. even though that clearly wasn't the case, it was told to him enough that he started to believe it and it started to affect him. now, (i truely hope) the situation is better but the consequences of those comments and his belief in what they said still affect him a bit. there may still be that lingering thought in the back of his mind of self- doubt. so, therefore, he needs a reminder that he's doing good, that he IS handsome, that, "no, you are not ugly", and more like that. he needs that validation.
He maybe takes those words to heart more than others, cause if we are to look at it like that, all of them faced criticism. But RM said that Jimin really self doubted and blamed himself for all their failures. Recently he became better with that but he still needs reminders. We are more than happy to provide.
And in addition to this, I'd also want to say that by default Jimin IS a loving person, he's very affectionate towards everyone, and so of course he also wants a similar affection back to him as well.
I agree but i really dont think his constant need for validation started when he joined bighit This is coming from further back in his past Do u remember back when he was in highschool doing modern dance , not only was he head boy but he also practiced HARD during that time. The reason jimin works so hard is because he feels that he is only as valuable as his acheivements Thats why he finds it so hard to take breaks or to rest when the get time off. In his mind if he stops achieving and people dont see recognize these achievements then he is of no worth.
Not related but why do people *_MaGiCaLLy_* become so insecure that they have to go to extremes to be "perfect"? No one in this world is perfect, and people should know that instead of judging themselves trying to be perfect.
Su Tart CAUSE YOU NEVER EXPERIENCED IT PROBABLY, not every human is as dumb as you. I’m sorry I’m not sorry. It’s so frustrating. THEN AGAIN THIS IS HUMANS WERE TALKING ABOUT! Jimin has gotten hate during debut era because they said he was too fat or not handsome but he’s not even fat or ugly, he’s beautiful and the one that smiles the most. He cares for everyone yet Haters keep hating cause they don’t have a purpose in life and will keep judging.
he seems like someone who’s really self conscious and his confidence relies on praise from others. we should all praise him lots and lots and give him lots of love!
if they did a #GOTBANGTAN show either jimin & jackson would be competing for praise & attention from their members, or just praising each other the whole time bc they know what each other needs lol
Jimin is also giving so much praises, complements & encouragement to each every members to their work & achievements & show his full support by always mentioning & praising member’s new solo song in his personal Vlive, always posting complementing tweets & said how much he likes each member’s song. Our wise Jimin know how important it is to show appreciation to people’s hard work & he knows that right amount of praises & encouragement would motivate people & give more energy to make them keep going & do better. As other BTS members said many times in the past, Jimin is always the most hardest working member in BTS & his magnificent performances is the result of all his talents, efforts & hard work. So I think he deserves all the praises & appreciations that he is receiving, just like other BTS members!
Awww!! I don’t know how to feel about this! It’s really adorable, somehow a bit sad, and ALMOST seems annoying but I know it’s not. I love Jimin but I can’t always figure this boy out. Now he’s got me psychoanalyzing this video to try to figure out why he does this. Oy. **sighs lovingly** Like did no one praise him as a child or young member?? Does he want/need the self-esteem boost?? Or is it just something to be cute (since he does cute KILLINGLY well!!)?? Ignore me, I don’t know what I’m talking about. 😆 Enjoy the cute! I will! 😄
Thank you so much for this video, I've been looking for such a video ❤️ I love Jimin very much, he deserves all the appreciation and love in the world, because he's so precious 💓 And his reactions are so cute, too 😻💘
You are very much welcome, it was such a pleasure making this, I couldnt stop smiling while editing. Jimin is always sure to shower others with praise and he deserves the same treatment.
I will speak up about something because ppl in the comments are becoming annoying. STOP SPECULATING ON JIMINS MENTAL HEALTH / SELF ESTEEM! We dont know him and we should stop projecting just bc our situations/behavior seems similar or we took some psychology classes in high school. We will never know why he does/says things and its ugly to categorize it as „a cry for help” wtf? This is a compilation of videos out of context and heavily edited, we dont know him in real life, we dont know how he thinks or his motivations. I would ask you to just take this as something fun we can laugh at, and for the new fans, please educate yourself more on Jimin rather than jump to a conclusion based on a YT video bc it doesnt give you insight to his personality.
@@kayleethatoneweirdchick2465 everyone has problems within theirselves and everyone had felt being insecure too, often or all the time. but that does NOT imply problems in mental health. well yeah, maybe he does have a problem in mental health, or maybe not. but the fact that he admitted his insecurities, self esteem, is not enough to imply that he really has a deep of a problem. we are not psychologists, sIT DOWN
@@doodleyeon Self esteem issues, self deprecating, negative conscious, and misguided thoughts. They all lead to mental health issues, especially when together. Also, considering I had straight A's in my psychological class', when I was in highschool and I'm an adult, who suffers from mental illness, I have more room to talk. Thank you very much.
Jin and Jimin, people usually don't like when someone praises themselves or constantly asks for praises. But you just know how adorable these two are that I absolutely love this habit of theirs. They are so kind, adorable and caring that anything they do just makes sense. I genuinely now have normalized praising myself or asking for praise because I don't find it weird anymore. It makes sense and makes me feel happy.
After watching the newest episode of Burn the Stage, I now realized why Jimin wants to hear praise. He really does have low self esteem. I want to gift every single praise in this universe and give it to BTS.
I guess I am the last person in this world to notice that JiMin is an attention seeker. Like NamJoonie said, he needs a lot of love and attention. He is so cute that he knows how to be a cute attention seeker. Thank you so much for the video. Unicorn Kisses
For a man like him, Jimin is quite sensitive. Not to put it in a way that men aren't allowed to be sensitive, but what I'm trying to point out is that jimin is actually fragile. Fragile with his emotions, and is cautious to the emotional needs of others too. As most of us know, Jimin works very hard to get what he wants and to do better at whatever he's doing. But when he fails at something, either a tiny blemish or a big mistake, Jimin gets troubled and bothered about it himself (Just like in that episode of Burn the Stage). Compliments make him feel better because Jimin also had a hard time loving himself, because he was too harsh on himself to do better at what he's doing for him to escape from the bashing of other people. (Cause people used to call him obese, fat, ugly, untalented, etc. which were so not true!) Jimin is definitely not an attention seeker, nor an egocentric person, (sadly, anti's called him that too) for me he just wants to feel loved the way of how much he loves others too. But these days, we could totally see jimin loving himself more and more and owning up to that album title of theirs, "Love Yourself". I'm really happy that whenever they are asked "what is your favorite part of your body" jimin owns it up as says "i love my everything!", also, that interview where they were asked "what was your favorite hair color of yours" he replied "i think every hair color had a different vibe from another and so i loved them all differently" while others had answers like "red" (hehe loved that red haircolor too on you vhope).
uwu I feel the same but I dont have the confidence to ask for compliments bc I dont want it to seem like I'm self-centred. I might say 'do you like this?' or 'do you like what i did there?' about something I did but I wont outright be like "Hey! What about me?" But the intention is similar to Jimin's, I guess, I just dont want to voice it so straight forwardly. I completely understand Jimin though and so I give him all of my loveeeee ♥️♥️♥️
ah, jiminie's so adorable though, i think that's why i love him so much. baby, your kink is showing. XD i dunno if it's a kink though, so much as it's that he feels the need to do well, and if he's not doing well, then...he feels like he's not doing enough. which probably has to do with his self-esteem and how he regards himself in terms of what they do in the group and stuff like that...the baby needs his praise, lol
Its mostly because he struggles with anxiety and self hatred. He most likely suffers from some sort of eating disorder, as well as severe anxiety. In order to support him, its possible the other members feel the need to let him know its not nearly as bad as he thinks it is. He has once stated theres been times he'd go over 10 days and eat only one solid meal. Theres a lot of pressure on him to be a certain type, compared to the others who are just accepted as is. So they're just trying to let him know its not as bad as he thinks and he has their support
See, this is what we are not going to do. We cant assume he has an eating disorder just bc he had ONE extreme diet at some point. Even he said he wont do it again. Lets not play the psychologist for him and diagnose him based on random isolated moments.
*You should put in the video all the times where Jimin has praised the other members. It would be at least 1 year long* . I really don't think he has a "constant need", these words in the tittle are a bit too much. I think everyone likes to be praise, specially if they have worked hard for it.
this is somehow a bit sad and shows how insecure he gets sometimes. he even worries about little things. i think we should love him all we can to show him how special he is to us .
I have this need to, but I never express it because I’m afraid people will hate me, so I’m never praised, or complimented, but I’m too shy to ask for those things. I’m the kind of person who needs reassurance that I’m doing the right thing or doing well or that I am a good person. I don’t get it tho :/
GUYS LETS TREND SOMETHING FOR HIM!! COMPLIMENT HIM, TELL HIM TO START FINDING HIS SELF WORTH, TO LOVE HIMSELF LIKE THEY´RE ALBUM ABOUT IT. HE WON´T CHANGE OVERNIGHT BUT I HOPE HE WIL START TO REALISE THAT HE IS WORTH IT.
This may be cute and all but this is legit the cry of an insecure person or someone who’s self esteem has been put down plenty of times in their earlier years
Can we not do this though? We dont know him so we cant speculate on heavy things like these. We arent their therapists to force our conclusions on them based on a compilation of moments put together.
I really do wish that he understood how amazing he is and how many people love and appreciate him and wish that they could tell him how amazing he is.. I comment this a lot but I feel like it’s needed. Jimin is one of the most amazing human beings I’ve ever seen. He is incredibly amazing at dancing and singing.. he gives me chills every time I hear his voice or when he feels the music.. Tbh seeing his stunning face gives me chills.. He is so loving and thoughtful and talented.. I want him to understand that I appreciate him in every way and that he is loved in this world by tons of people💗 Please stay healthy and eat many meals! Fighting!🌸💕🌺❤️
Jimin is so cute Jimin is so handsome Jimin is such a good dancer Jimin is such a good singer Jimin is an amazing idol Jimin is such a good brother Jimin a such a good son Jimin gives so much love Jimin is a precious pure soul So let's give all our love and support him as well💜💜💜
It saddens me to see him beg for attention like that, my baby is a little insecure but what’s not to love about mochi?! I’m glad the other members love him and cherish him.
Omg thank you for the video ! I was on the drop of a mental breakdown and I knew how much BTS made me calm down and happy so I thought of watching some videos. Your video is the first one I saw and I love Jimin so much he just puts a smile on my face. Again, thank you
