Jimmy Carr: The Easiest Way To Live A Happier Life | E106 

This was not the conversation I was expecting from Jimmy but it was definitely one of my favourites….. hit like and subscribe for a new episode every Monday

I am 80, inspirational podcast, I now understand, I can have a new life, having just lost my husband of 59 years to cancer. Not moving on, starting anew. Thank you.

Jimmy is a perfect example of the value of this podcast. We get a totally different insight into the life of someone we think we know. Brilliant content and so important!

"You're not a noun, you're a verb" What a brilliant line, and a great way to look at life.

"95% of life is how you look at it and 5% is what happens to you." I can't even begin to explain how profound this is to me, thank you so much Jimmy.

Thank you for confirming this side of Jimmy which I had a glimpse of years ago. I met Jimmy after receiving a Pride of Britain award, he came on stage after the cameras were rolling. He went to congratulate and speak to every winner. He was genuinely interested, asked questions and was super nice to every single person. He also remembered what everyone achieved and approached every person with kindness and being impressed by the achievements. He of course made us laugh but that was a by side of the whole experience. My respect for him went up after that experience.

This is the first time I’ve ever seen Jimmy show a side of his character that isn’t centred around his profession. What a knowledgeable, intricate guy. Learnt a lot from this man so thank you x

This was one of the best things I’ve ever watched. Thought provoking.I’m 52 years old and feel like a small boy when listening to discussions like this. Taking it all in and thinking about what is being said and seeing how it sits with me. Thank you for making me think with my eyes wide open.👍

HOLY F@*K! How inspiring. I respected Jimmy before this interview, and now I have a PROFOUND respect for him. Thanks for producing this Steven!

Loved this.

Quotes and notes from the podcast: The meaning of life - "Enjoy the passage of time" "You are the story you tell yourself" "Comparison is the thief of joy" "The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the second-best time is now." "You are not a noun, you are a verb" This is the one podcast I wish I had the chance to see in person. But maybe some other time! (PS I am in London, so if it is possible, I would love to see the podcast in person)

Pardon me I'm late to the scene, I DID NOT expect THIS LEVEL of brilliance from Jimmy Carr! I always knew about him but am not huge into comedy, this guy has such skyrocketing levels of intellect, every moment is sharpness and unique philosophical insight. This entire generation can benefit HUGELY from this podcast episode.

I saw Jimmy at the Lowry a few years ago and I've never been in such pain from laughing. It was like doing sit ups for 2 hours straight. Someone brought a photograph of their partner and put it on the seat next to them on the front row. After establishing that she wasn't dead, he just linked so many jokes back to this guy sitting next to a framed photograph, it was incredible. I'm so sad that this interview is over, what a pleasure it has been

"and if you're not, know that's ok..... because it's going to change" Literally started crying at this and what a way to end now one of my now favourite episodes. You know when a podcast just hits you at a moment you really need it... Thanks both!

Carr isn’t my favourite comic but he’s now one of my favourite motivational speakers.

I've never seen him be sincere on video, this is a gem

Im currently going through a process where my brain has been completely stripped of neurotransmitters. Total lack of dopamine, serotonin, and endorphins; with simultaneous increase in cortisol and other stress hormones. Early on I didn't even have the desire to do my favorite things. Literally the only joy I had in the first weeks was putting Mr. Carr on my earbuds and could actually laugh out loud. Legitimately wouldn't have made it through without him. I hope he knows he's a LITERAL life saver. He's a little wrong about being a dealer. He's not a drug dealer, he's a safe drug that I'll never build a tolerance to. Thank you from the bottom of my heart Mr. Carr.

I’m Jimmy at 25, applying for the graduate scheme at shell and thinking ‘is this it?’…. It’s scary of how similar our journeys have been up to this point. The dyslexia, the experience at school, the need to prove others wrongs and sadly both our experience with our mothers… I’ve never cried through a podcast before, this hit home and I thank both of you

I can't be the only one who feels like Jimmy Carr is the new dalai lama, with an incredibly healthy outlook on life. A genuinely shockingly philosophical and inspirational conversation from someone who you expect to be more sarcastic and guarded.

I loved this podcast so much. Stumbled on it yesterday with Lewis Capoldi's interview and then this one caught my eye. What a refreshing open conversation. Jimmy reminded me that while I'm not where i wanted to be, I am content. I have enough. I handled the cards I was dealt and came out the other end. I have raised two good men. I own my house which due to past experiences was important to me for shelter security. I'm not going to retire in comfort but I'm not going to starve or be cold. I have a rescue dog who is my companion. Three good friends who I can count on in crisis. I have so much more than many and I have enough. I'm now in a position where I don't have to provide for anyone but myself and I am finally trying to find my passion. Trying things I didn't have the finances to try before or couldn't take the funds from my family. Slowly I'm learning who i am.

I cannot believe how wise he is. Never saw this side of him before, wow

I never imagined that I would sit and listen to Jimmy C other than for his comedy. However, this video alone is proof that everyone has something more than what we see on the surface to offer.

12 mins in and im already moved by his words. This man has brought me out of so many deep dark states with his comedy. It's refreshing to see this side of him too

Had to pause multiple times to reflect on the jabs of wisdom and epiphanies they’re sharing. Love this interview!

Steven you did an amazing job letting Jimmy speak. It's very hard as the host to try and not take the lead the whole time. But you did really well to let it flow naturally! One of the best I've ever listened too.

this is the first time where I can easily say I've been blown away by a podcast. This was exceptional

Your podcast regarding your diary was amazing. It's taken me 35 years to realise what's important for this very short life we have. I say 35 years as from the age of 15 after leaving school I have been on a journey on not knowing who I am and what is life all about? I have just recently thought long and hard about my life. My father passed away in September 2022 suddenly and the destruction of my life happened at the same time. My family became broken and my trust in my family broke. This led me to want so much more out of this life. All the insecurities I had from a very young age and the lack of confidence I had all my life came to the surface. My father passed away and a new me was born. I lost my family the day after my father's funeral because certain things came to the surface. This will probably mean I'll never see my family again ? I feel like I now have to start a new life. As Jimmy Carr states trying to make your family like you or respect you is a fight you can spend your life doing. I have so many ideas for business, ideas that can even help to support and change people's lives. The problem I have which is the same as alot of people come across is money, money to start your business. My father worked so hard at saving all his life, very careful with money not squandering on senseless material items or needs. I will not inherite anything from my father for the simple reason of speaking up about issues that were kept in Pandoras box. The truth the darkness behind family secrets. To realise your mother does not live you as she does your younger siblings. To realise she probably never even wanted you!! There is certain things I hate in life, jealousy, greed, the need to hurt others regardless of the consequences, lack of loyalty and lies. The most dangerous threat in life is the human being. The most destructive being on the planet. Again listening to your podcast to realise how we all yearn to be loved , to be excepted is the most painful emotion us humans enflict on one another and to ourselves. The most success you will ever achieve Stephen is your podcasts. The people you interview the stories you have unraveled I feel has changed so many peoples lives. You are the male version of Oprah Winfrey. Not to patronise anyone who is young and successful, but for your age Stephen I can honestly say you are a person who will always attract interesting and influential people into your world. That is the wealth you have gained Stephen and this I am sure will continue throughout your journey. Much thanks and love. Karen

omg never in my life I thought that Jimmy Carr would be such an emotionally intelligent person and the level of intellectual thinking off the roof, is amazing

I listen via Spotify but I had to come over to RU-vid to say that this is my favourite episode. What a great discussion but also what a surprise how amazing Jimmy Carr is. He’s better than many life coaches etc as he says it so simply and is so aware of his flaws and doesn’t try insist his way is the only or best way.

Paraphrasing: “Being famous/known by everyone is the norm because in history everyone knew us in our small communities” Jimmy just blew my mind.

Always liked Jimmy Carr for his quick wit and side splitting humor. To see this side of Jimmy laid bare was astounding. His intelligenge and deep insights were awe inspiring. Such an amazing man I could listen to Jimmy talk all day, so profound, so honest and a man that 100% knows his way around a dick joke. I found myself hanging on every word. Thank you so much for putting this to air 🙏

This side of Jimmy is phenomenal, I’m surprised we don’t get more of this. Great episode!

shed tears during so many points of this podcast, not because I'm sad, because it makes sense! who knew Jimmy Carr, one of the most famously brutal comedians would be an inspiration to do better

This is stupidly insightful and real. I have been a fan of Jimmy Carrs for a long time, even before moving to the U.K. I always felt there was more behind his stage persona. You can see at what speed his mind moves in his eyes. I have loved exploring what that 'more' is with this podcast. Thank you for creating and sharing this

i have dyslexia and every time jimmy talks about what it was like growing up with it and wanting to prove yourself to others and to yourself is so true and i can relate to everything he says about dyslexia. its very nice to see someone that understands what its like.

When Mr Carr said we are either going toward or away from something echoed part of my favorite quote from the Dalai Lama: “Each person is either going toward pleasure or away from pain. Understanding which is how we learn how to help them.” Thank you for a valued conversation that adds so much definition for the brilliance of each of you.

Since I was very young I knew I wanted to be a good mother and a hard worker. When I had my three children I told each of them " I don't care what you do in life , just be happy " . I am 62 now and I'm suffering with chronic pain which is not being managed due to guidelines set to protect addicts. I have no income but I have a living husband and I am always happy. I hope people that are not in pain make the most with their lives as health is the one thing I wish I had back.

Oh.... that makes me sad. I am 70 and this talk has inspired me. I believe your comments are applicable to any age. I have not given up yet! This is an incredible discussion. Thank you

I have never watched Jimmy as a comedian but his sincerity here is superb. One of my favourite podcasts ever

Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Instead of trying to predict and prognosticate the stability of the market and precisely when the change is going to happen, a better strategy is simply having a portfolio that’s well prepared for any eventually, that’s how some folks' been averaging 150K every 7week these past 4months according to Bloomberg.

Blimey, Jimmy Carr was totally not what I expected. His TV persona is slick, quick witted, juvenile and to me - somewhat superficial. yet, this Jimmy Carr is thought provoking, deep, engaging, incredibly interesting. I really hope I get to see more of this Jimmy in future.

Jimmy reminds me of how grateful I am for my kids. They're such relationship focused people and they love so much and care so much for the people in their lives. It's like it's their generation's rebellion against the technocratic world they live in, that they will make time to go hang out with their friends without phones. They make time to connect to other people in a real way. Keep fighting the power, kids!

Comedians are generally the most intelligent and philosophical people, because they are so aware. They understand, usually from a young age, that we're born into a losing struggle.

Sometimes a child gives birth to a father.

"Comparison is the thief of Joy" - favourite quote from the podcast. thank you Jimmy and thank you Steven

Jimmy, you were ready for having a child, wow! Wow, you’re the first person i’ve ever heard say that. I wasn’t ready, I’m still not 40 years later! Some great advice in this podcast! Steve, I empathise totally with your belief that not having enough as a child, having no physical security, being the odd kid out, gave you the drive to succeed. I know for certain that it had that effect on me. Now, in my seventh decade I have enough, and as secure as human life can be.. Its the best feeling in the world but boy, did it take sacrifice and brutal hard work to get here.

This is the 2nd Diary I’ve listened too, and WOW. Absolutely blown away. Seeing the vulnerable side of Jimmy and how passionate he is about everything he spoke about is a real eye opener. I liked him before, but he has really raised himself up. Outstanding interview.

Jimmy you are an absolutely genuine lovely man. I appreciate everything that you shared. I am so happy to hear you are in between your jokes. I am over 70 and you answered a couple of questions I have had for a long time Jimmy. You kept me laughing every time I have seen one of your shows.

The last time I seen Jimmy Carr live was a couple of years ago, and I was walking back to my car with my other half and I was saying how hilarious he is and how much I enjoyed it and I said, I just wish I knew more about him, I wish he gave us a glimpse of what he is like in real life and here we are, he's giving us the real deal and it's amazing.

Absolutely loved seeing this side to Jimmy Carr, one of my favourite comedians. I've been glued to this conversation and hung on every word he has said, the hour and half I've been watching has felt like 5 minutes. A lot of feelings and thoughts I can really relate to, I'm looking forward to reading his book.

This interview has presented such a deeper funny side of Jimmy Carr I love the evolution of his work Great interview

Jimmy carr is an absolute genius and pretty much a philosopher. He understands pain and depression to an astounding degree. He is a great comedian but an excellent man. What a great man.

Wow. Haven´t seen this side of Jimmy before

Love the use of the cancer analogy for depression. I use that all the time that the idea of telling someone with depression "You need to try and cheer yourself up is like telling somone with cancer "You need to try and stop having a tumour."

I've listened to dozens of these and I think this is the best one I've ever heard. Love both of you ❤

What a great episode this was. I have to say I was never a fan of Jimmy's comedy. Ever since I saw him at Uni in 2000. But....what's beautiful about this circle is that I was at one if his failure shows....that he so profoundly described as important towards success. This episode has completely changed my perception of this man. I've listened to it twice already and will vow to listen to it more. He may be paraphrasing, he may be stating quotes, but that's exactly what we (I) need. It's a brilliant collection of ideas and I LOVE this. Thank you so much you two. You've helped me more than you know.

Wow, absolutely hooked from start to finish. It's actually incredible how relevent this discussion is to my life at the moment and how much I really needed to hear what was talked about. Massive thanks to both of you!

"Enjoy the passage of time" brought tears to this 50+ woman. The next set of tears came when Jimmy answered "Yes" to the question "Are you happy?" It was not that he answered yes, but that he did so with such a stern resoluteness vs. "looking" energetically happy. It reminded me a lot of myself when I'm happy (more pensive and reflective of the moment vs. spasmodic energy). The entire episode was incredibly inspiring -- for young and old. Fairly new to your channel; this episode made me click the subscribe button although each of the 3 episodes I've watched to date has affected me to make changes in my life this past two weeks! Thank you. Another of your episodes I'll be sharing with others.

If someone would have told me a few years ago that I would be adding a Jimmy Carr interview to my ‘Wisdom’ playlist in 2023, they would have gotten a bigger 😂 from me than Jimmy ever did - and he’s cracked me up a lot it has to be said. This was truly an informative and inspiring hour and a half listening to a guy we clearly never really knew. He had my respect as a comedian who had to endure endless barbs from his piers and just keep on going, but as of today, he’s got my respect as a human being with a big heart and a sizable brain to go with. Well done Jimmy.

going through a really dark time at the moment, struggling to see a way out and this conversation made me question my perspective and what I want from life. loved it. subscribed. 👍

Watched him live at the O2 in Brixton. Absolute class. Brutal delivery with the content. Ended with total warmth and humility. Brilliant night, would see him again time after time.

Listening to this at the age of 40 knowing that I’ve only just started my journey of happiness is a contradiction in feelings

Absolutely brilliant episode to hear these two highly articulate, very intelligent conversationalists discuss some inspiring concepts.

I've always loved Jimmy as a comedian, and this interview just proves that he's a great guy as well.

Thank you thank you, dear dear Jimmy Carr, this is the best podcast Ive listened too. You opened my already open mind to an extent I did not feel possible. Thank you x

It's so surprising and amazing to see and hear Jimmy like this. The amount of wisdom is so thought provoking. I don't know much of Jimmy's material, but I love him in QI and always watch the episodes with him over and over again. When I stumbled upon your channel while searching for interviews with Stephen Fry (also an amazing episode), I found this gem. The topics you're talking about are very serious, but it's amazing to see that everyone is having a good time and obviously has no problem to open up to you. At this point I haven't listen/seen a lot of the episodes (yet). But I'm definitely going to. Thank you!

Wow,I don’t know if Jimmy is better a comedian or with his life guidance. Either way,he’s brilliant. I’m actually going to see him tonight.

Always loved Jimmy Car's material. I wasn't expecting him to provoke me with life changing thoughts. Love it

Stunned at the depth in this chat. Jimmy Carr’s clearly well read & personable, really enjoyed the conversation. Thanks!

Jimmy is a gentleman. Met him once and he was a gent. Hes so different off camera

A real conversation ❤ You might have saved many lives on this day

Now I know why I love his comedy so much. He's brilliant and introspective and dead honest with himself.

Unbelievably eye opening..first podcast I’ve cried listening to. Just hit home on so many points! A very wise man he is. Similar to others I only knew his public persona, but I have even more respect for him now! He’s always been my fave comedian and a lot of the situations he describes I’m going through or have been through (in my own version) surprisingly profound and philosophical, love it!! 🙌🏽💪🏽

Experience and knowledge and understanding of the workings of the mind, married to produce wisdom, insightfulness and most important of all, self responsibility - what’s not to like?! Superb episode!!

This episode is ground breaking as it's so much more like a conversation instead of an 'interview'. Such a great episode.

Half way through and had to stop and re-listen to it as the first 30 mins HIT HARD. Absolutely brilliant podcast which i really needed.

The best podcast I’ve ever listened to, this man is so knowledgeable, he is living his life and sharing his amazing experiences👏🏼

I'm loving your series and the many wise and inspirational comments being shared. Just wanted to add something about gratitude, which Jimmy raised in this interview. I have practised Nichiren Buddhism for many years and once heard an elderly Japanese man called Mr Izumi talk about gratitude. He described how the word 'but' can be a pollutant in our life. To explain this he used the example of someone offering you a cup of tea. If we say, "Thanks for the cup of tea but where are the biscuits." all we are expressing is complaint. If, on the other hand we say, "Thanks for the cup of tea it's lovely. Do you by any chance have some biscuits?" we are expressing gratitude purely but also expressing our desire for something else. Thank you.

This was such an excellent listen. It got me thinking a lot about how much more access people have to advice these days. Young people at the moment who are just leaving school/college or in their first jobs have so much access to this type of valuable content by way of the Internet. I'm not particularly old (mid 30s) but even 20 years ago this sort of thing just wasn't available. We just had to go and make mistakes - i'm glad I recovered from mine. Like Jimmy, I blindly went through school, university and work until I pursued other things. But a lot of people stay stuck. There was advice from teachers/relatives and books but this is so much more relevant and I'm really glad to see positives from social media/the internet such as this. Maybe younger people can be more informed in their choices than my generation were. I think what Jimmy was saying about how much would you take to give up on your dreams (e.g. the 35K job) is something people should really consider. It gets harder to just walk away from those stable income streams the older you get - so choose wisely. You have a new subscriber :)

Has to be the best interview I've seen in many years, such an intelligent guy and it was great to see him open up so much. Great work.

Love Jimmy's comment on pattern recognition, focusing more on structural representation rather than subject knowledge. Jimmy relates it to being a comedian, but the way he described it, it kind of explained the way the high functioning autism manifests itself.

What an insightful man! I am in awe of his wisdom and humanity, thank you!

You two are best In your ways . Thank you for bringing such a beautiful episode and honest talk to your heart. Thank you from Australia 🇦🇺.

Jimmy is one of the best famous/celebrity/comedians minds for the last decade. A smart, knowledgeable, considerate and well spoken individual. So glad to of been able to see him become the comedian he is and have many laughs. 🙌

I think the friend he was talking about, who passed away recently, is Sean Locke. I feel kind of better knowing they were friends off camera as well and Jimmy brought him his favourite food. Good man! Great podcast! Thank you.

Steven this podcast was/is brilliant. Thank you both for the stimulating intrigue and fascinating dialogue. 😊

I can't be the only one that saw this and thought that I like Jimmy so much more like this! He seems like such a jerk in his comedy, but clearly this is the guy that his partner wanted to have their child with. This is a great interview. I'll definitely check out more of this man's channel.

Absolutely loved this 💜 so good to hear about the real Jimmy Carr, talking about mental health and happiness really helped me realise you can be open about how you truly feel. Love your podcasts :)

I suspected that Jimmy had a serious side and still I'm surprised over how serious he is. Loving his honesty.

It’s weird how sometimes a podcast or video comes to me that is so relevant to what’s going on with me and my life right now. I’m coming out of a period of illness where I was housebound and bedbound for a long time. (Years.) Im recovering, but now need to find my purpose and what I enjoy, as well as get fresh perspectives on just about all elements of life and living. And I didn’t expect to get it from my favourite comedian, I never knew he was so insightful, intelligent and deep!

I've watched this twice bc I love it so much. Jimmy speaks SO much sense here. What a wise and lovely man!

This is such a great discussion. Insightful, respectful, thought-provoking. Thank you!

A good Podcast from Steve every Monday always kicks off the week just right !

"Take some hard work and and time - that's your luck." As a late starter 56 yr old He's soo right.

I worked on one of his shows in Dublin.He was recording a special for netflix and was on stage In and out to recording rig which was outside theatre 100s of times to make sure it was the way he wanted it.Then he recorded the show in front of a live audience night after night..A lot of people are very well paid as a result of People like Jimmy.Hes a great entertainer.More luck to him 👏. I heard him practising a dublin accent for show...that was realy funny.

He is so interesting! So smart, so clued up with life, so good at understanding himself and everyone else too! I’ve stayed up for 4 hours watching him, never gave him the time of the day until Shaun lock died I realised how funny Shaun was I ventured into the others on the program and realised I should be watching the others as they are just as clever. He’s one of my favourites now.

What a tremendously thoughtful, sensitive and deep man Carr is! I had no idea until I watched this interview. Bravo!

There was a moment in this that spoke to me like nothing else has. In short, how do you balance having enough and being content, but also being ambitious and goal orientated? I've tussled with this for years now. I had a family situation that I used to be able to use to drive me. They didn't believe in me and it was an 'I'll show you' reaction. Then I achieved what I set out to do. I have more than enough to be happy. Those family members have passed on and I've made peace. Every single aspect of my life ticks every possible box and I'm happy with it. But then what do you do with your day if you're happy? I can't wake up and go, 'today I'm going to just be happy'. Sometimes I wish for the time where I wasn't enough and I hadn't reached my goals. Creating more goals doesn't work as there's just not that drive behind them that I used to have. The best thing was hearing someone else ask that question, that I'm not the only one who has searched for that answer. Thanks Steven.

Astounded how much I took from this. Was not expecting that

Absolutely amazing interview. I've took alot away from this and I connected with lots of topics that were addressed. Jimmy I'm so glad that you showed this side of you as we never have seen it before. Loved it.