Well my dear friend I'm going to tell you a very very big secret there isn't no death no you're probably thinking whoa whoa like I said there isn't no death there is life After Life and I am a near death experience I have seen that other world and you or somebody around you must know about near death experiences deathbed visions if you have already passed away that's fine but if you are still here don't be scared there isn't no death at all what you will see you will come out of your body then you will see a white beautiful light it will feel the room it is beautiful then you will feel and see god then a beautiful tunnel send you will be going home your true home I am so sorry if this is so heavy for you or your family or Friends but I can only tell the truth love you all Steve
My husband died of cancer in January. I was his caretaker.He never gave up and he did it for his family! I will always love him for that. JJs story is inspiring! It shows that your quality of life is all about what your living for and the happiness you can have in that time you are here. I’ve seen it. God bless you and your family sweetheart!
"You can't think about assisted suicide in just one situation" Exactly. This goes both ways. I am so unbelievably overjoyed that you had this extra time. It is amazing and truly miraculous. Please know that your situation is unique, as everyone else's is. Do not take this choice away from those who do not have the same gift you have been given.
Agreed. Patients should have the right to choose whether they live out their final days or not. This organisation wants to take away those rights. He made a choice to live out his days, not everyone should be forced to.
@@thompsonmatthew That's true. I just watched Jill Finnegan's farewell party video. She chose to end her life, and everyone around her had time to say goodbye. It was her choice, her power over her life. Life is delicate and it's understandable that people around want the dying person to stay for a bit longer. But that's not their life. They're not going to suffer. I know experience is different for anyone but I hope we don't take away the choice and power over the lives of those who suffer
I lost my mom a few weeks ago. I'm still heartbroken. She had advanced cancer, was in remission for a year and a half, but the cancer came back. She didn't die of the cancer itself, but of sepsis during chemo. She was very clear that if she was told that she was terminal, that she would go for assisted suicide. That wasn't wrong, undignified or selfish of her, and I supported that decision wholeheartedly. It's not about me, or any other of the people that loved her, but offering relief when there was none. While she lay dying in the hospital, God forgive me, but I thought it would have been better for her if they had just ended it. I was very torn between my selfish wish and need to have her with me longer, and what was actually better for her. Please, let everyone decide for themselves what they want to do. It's not an easy decision one way or another.
YOU are the beautiful soul here! Not the liar in the video! I am sorry for your loss. I know it says 2 years ago. I lost my mom too. I get it. But I UNSELFISHLY LOVE my loved ones! Like you! And would NEVER DEMAND tht they SUFFER TO APEASE ME! I cant believe how many are praising this video and the woman in it. I am sorry she suffered such a great loss. But she is pushing an opinion, without true facts! and wanting to make decisios that are not hers ot make!
Been through the same situation 21 years ago when my dad was suffering from cancer. I was torn betweem my wish to be able to hug him one more day and my wish to see his pain end.
correct. JJ Hanson Jr. felt that the memories outweighed the pain and the discomfort. He got to create two beautiful children, and he has left his wife with two young boys, that will leave his wife with some company. He didn't leave her alone, and widowed. He left her widowed, but she has two beautiful kids to still continue to make memories with. Others can't say the same, and every single circumstance is understood. Sometimes assisted suicide is the right move, the individual wants the control, wants to be able to die with dignity, they don't want to die bed ridden and hooked to a bunch of machines.
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I’m so happy this popped up in my You Tube. I have been having a terrible time lately and was contemplating taking my life. I was tired of fighting and life felt too heavy. Then I watched this beautiful video and my whole attitude changed in an instant. Thank you J.J. I am as certain as anyone can be that you will be together in Heaven.
Please God, be with Jen. She is hurting and needs more and more signs that her life is valuable. Let her feel that so clearly that nothing can shake her.
@Lucy Heartfilia there's so many new things out there every single day to help those who want to take their own life. I was there. I still struggle and then I look at my kids and my dogs and kitty and I look at the lives of those who want so much to just have one more day. And I realize that today's problems are always fixable. And the people who are dying, they want another day. Something I have. Please get help. Email me. Maybe I can help. I hope so. l.bailey1478@gmail.com you matter. You matter to me and to others.
Please don't take your life. You are loved. There are so many options to help with depression. Please seek out help. If one thing doesn't work for you , something else will. Never give up please.
EXACTLY! She spewed how she will "also fight to let him go" then regurgitatted how its about HER and not what HE WANTS by saying he would not have a right to say, I cant take anymore. How utterly selfish is that! "my son got to know his dad" Well isnt that special! Not everyone has a small child they need to consider! Not everyone who is terminally ill,will even be COGNIZANT enough to even be AWARE OF THEIR SURROUNDINGS! But hey, as long as the HEALTHY PERSON WANTS YOU TO SUFFER FOR THEIR WELL BEING, WELL, YOU SHOULD JUST DO IT! It is about THEM after all!
And that's the beauty of having the right to choose what IS RIGHT FOR YOU. There shouldn't be any shame or guilt associated with having to make an immensely difficult decision like that. There are far too many variables for someone or some entity to have say, one way or another, over what you should do with your life. I only hope that people can truly weigh the positive & negative before deciding.... Rest in Peace, Mr. Hanson.
Your story is amazing but your story is NOT everyone s. Nobody should have to live in pain. He lived 3 good years, others might have suffered for 3 years. That's why it's a personal decision that we all should have.
I too left a comment. Patients choosing the assisted suicide route aren't able to choose that legally until they are only a few months from the end of their life. They too often hope for a miracle but if that miracle does not come and living on is just too unbearable, they have a chance to go peacefully.
This guy had brain cancer, from the looks of it, and its terrible. Only thing I fear more than brain cancer is Alzheimers Disease. I feel that this lady is being selfish by telling everyone not to choose assisted suicide. Sure those moments were a gift, but were they a gift for her husband? How much did he suffer so that the older boy could know his dad or so they could have another kid together? The person suffering from an incurable, terminal disease needs to make the final call. Ill say this, if my husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer, he would get the final say and if he wanted to die early and escape the bullshit I'd make it happen. If he wanted to go through all of it I'd be there with him and make it as peaceful as possible. But it would be his choice and his alone and I wouldn't make a video telling people not to stop their suffering.
Tell this to someone suffering with MND and then come back and try telling the same story. You won’t. Sometimes a pain free exit is a patients right. It’s their body, their decision that should be respected.
@ItIsWhatItIs exactly, for her, her choice/his choice. I can't imagine choosing an assisted death for myself but I know others who would and one that has. Patient's right to choose.
All this video is saying that for this particular family, and their specific circumstances, and their level of comfort, and their understanding, and in their situation, the best option was to keep going. Doctors gave him 4 months- he lived 3 1/2 years, with a very obvious good quality of life. She is not advocating against assisted suicide- she is just showing people that 4 months doesn’t necessarily mean 4 months and to not give up hope- because in their case, it wasn’t 4 months- it was nearly 4 years.
Yes but this is tottaly differed illness. With MND he would not have 4 years the same way he had withn brain cancer. She just said that u have to think it twice. I am sure if he would have MND she would think different way. And even people with MND not all wanna die. It is different from person to person
I have cancer and every night I go to bed I think about assisted suicide via "Dignitas" but every night I find a reason not to go through with it, Cancer not only destroys your body, it affects family and friends, depression sets in and it eats you alive. I just pray that when my time comes I don't feel any pain and that family is by my side.
I hope your body does not suffer any pain and God makes it easier for you to live and recover you with a miracle. It's not impossible, The Creator is GREAT!
I hope that you keep finding your reasons. Just know, if you were my loved one I would not want to be your suffering reason. If it came to that would respect your decision. I wish you no pain💗
Pls don't take ur life , I'm nt here to judge pls BT bcoz I care, just live a day as it comes I knw its hard, BT hang in there God works in miraculous ways, just b positive n don't even think abt it, try to eat healthily avoid meat or processed foods, N ABOVE ALL, MIX BLACK SEEDS POWDER WITH WATER N DRINK DAILY N EAT 5 - 7 DATES DAILY ,,, JUST TRY N DONT IGNORE. GOD BLESS U N HEAL YOU
I’m suffering bad ptsd and depression with anxiety, last weekend I wanted to die, JJ your an inspiration for me to keep going. Life is better now because i got help
Glad to hear you got help! And you are doing better, but its also different from what the video is about! And as someone who also had/has PTSD, anxiety, did have a (Drug abuse), OCD I can relate to what you are feeling! But I have thought about it but never even considered it realistically! But if I knew I was going to die in 6 months, when the pain became too much and organs starting to fail! I would also like to have the ability to decide to end it!
Dark Lady It’s not as well documented in places like India because it’s viewed in the exact same way you view it. Mental health and it’s disorders is real, you genuinely are a complete moron if you refuse to believe in scientifically proven disorders. I’m not religious but I pray that no family member of yours ever has to go through depression or something like it, people like you make it that much worse.
It’s heartbreaking watching someone go through a terminal illness and those who do will all do it differently. For you guys assisted suicide wasn’t what you wanted but for others it is so we should all be mindful of people’s rights to choose. It should be a choice available for the person who is suffering the illness or disease. It’s not about those who are left behind. Sorry for your loss, I am happy for you that you had that time with JJ, it was a blessing.
I prefer to be able to make my own decisions. Some wish to hang on till the very end, which I find no fault with. Some wish to go with dignity. I also find no problem with that.
Dave Arndt I’m terminal and I feel exactly the same way. Am I ready to go right now? Nope. But when I get to the point I’m ready to go. I want dignity. I don’t want my kids watching me dwindle down to my death one day. I watched my mom draw her last breath. I don’t wish that on anyone
Wow. I went from a happy mood, listening to upbeat music and made my way here. I’m sooo sorry for your loss, love. You’re an *A M A Z I N G* wife and very supportive. God bless.
I say this with all due respect and love! Everyone's situation with diseases and cancer it's different! I choose to leave that choice of assisted suicide to the person who is suffering! I am so very happy and you were blessed to have 3 more years with your husband! Which is a miracle within itself! Everyone's journey is different! And everyone knows what they can tolerate and what they cannot tolerate! I will never go against someone's choice to have assisted suicide! Please accept my condolences on the loss of your amazing husband and the father of your children! May you and your children be blessed always! ❤️
Thank you. I don’t understand why they would even want to take that choice from someone else. Just because it wasn’t right for you, doesn’t mean no one should be able to do it. I imagine he wasn’t in constant, severe pain, but many people who consider euthanasia are. They don’t want to live that way, and they shouldn’t have to.
I do to some people suffer so much pain nothing helps. It's hard to watch them in so much pain. If they want help to die it's there choice they are the that's hurting.
I'm sorry for your loss. I'm glad you had the choice. Whether to continue treatment or to end life with dignity. The Choice was yours...And it should be this way for all...
A very brave wife you really were to stand by your man.may god of the heavens keeps taking care of you every single day of your life a big hug and many kisses to you and your two angels.
What are you talking about? 3 years is a heartbeat in these times when you're sick. You obviously have no idea about pain and how it can be ruinous. She said she loved him so much. And I believe that.
@@denisepaulsenful I do not understand your comment. I stated 3.5 years with your loved ones is time well spent...assisted suicide is not for everyone. I also know pain can be horrible...but its ones own choice to make.
@@keelinmorris2115 I am confused about what she means...she said 3.5 years is a blink but that blink was well spent with family and having another child together. I am unsure is she watched and listened to the video.
Really random things I was thinking the same thing it’s amazing caused he was told he would passed away in 4 months but ended up living a extra 42 months
I watch this and it make me cry so much, I thankful for so many things . I was diagnosed with colon cancer stage 4 in 2005 and I was told to live life to the fullest that only god knows when I would die, so I did and here I am 2019 . I lost a son put god gave me 5 grandchildren , just want to thank her for her beautiful love story so we can keep our faith . god bless her family
I understand what she's saying, and I'm glad he had time with his children which is so important for him AND them, but for some end of life with a disease is just too painful and people should have the right to make a choice if they want to consider that path.
Respectfully, I disagree. I’m currently 50 years old, 10 days after my 20th birthday I was diagnosed with an extremely aggressive case of Crohn’s disease, and a year later, when my large intestine ruptured, they also found intestinal cancer. Since that point I have had 37 absolutely brutal operations that has removed 95% of my entire gastrointestinal tract, I have Darryl three relapses of cancer, and I live each day just to fight to stay alive, but as the years have gone by, my suffering and pain is beyond words, and I’ve made my intentions clear to everybody that I love, I want to die with dignity, on my terms, before my diseases take me to a vegetative state, or I could stay in that stage for months, possibly years. The moment I am no longer able to get out of bed, into it please try my best to enjoy each day, in my life, as I see it, is over. To simply exist is not enough, for my heart to beat, it’s not enough, if I can’t live my life, then my life will be over. I’ve already made every arrangement necessary legally and personally. I even had a living wake, which was actually a lot of fun, they even step me in a coffin and push it up against the wall as they greeted my guests! Despite the indescribable pain and suffering, I still have not lost my sense of humor, and I can be pretty wild, as my guests found out that day. I think I scared half of them to death! LOL! I warned them that I wasn’t going to go out quietly, and I have no intention of doing so. I’ve already got the drugs necessary To stop my heart, I can take them anytime I wish, but not yet. While each day I deteriorates a little more, when the day comes when I can no longer do everything for myself, and become a burden to my spouse, my family, and all the people I love, I’m taking those pills, and leaving this world behind with grace and dignity, filled with the love and support of the many people I’ve been so blessed to have in my life. Generally it’s not up to us when our time comes, but in my case, and other similar cases, we seem to show our animals more compassion and then we do ourselves. We would never allow our beloved cats or dogs to suffer, and put them down, so what’s so terrible about doing the same for a human being that you love? I know for a fact I am beyond any treatments, I will never ever heal or be cured, can I see no logical reason why I shouldn’t do this. This one thing I’m not telling you, but I will, even though you probably will not believe me. With my colon ruptured, I flatlined for two minutes, and in those two minutes, I had the most beautiful near death experience you could possibly imagine. I went to Paradise, literally, where I saw my family, that had already passed away by that point, and was completely surrounded by the most overwhelmingly wonderful sensations of pure love, pure joy, contentment, happiness, and there was no more pain, no more sorrow, just love. Unfortunately my grandfather told me I couldn’t stay, because I still had work to do, so I awoke in the ICU. Every since that experienced I promised myself one thing, that while I really don’t want to die, if ever I’m in a situation where I face and agonizing and slow death, I would take whatever steps are necessary to end my life with dignity and to return to that beautiful place I once visited all those years ago, and to be with the people I love most. I am so sorry about your husband, I understand your apprehension’s about assisted suicide, And I respect your opinion, I just don’t agree with her, but you have my deepest sympathies, I know that your husband will be in a better place, and out of all pain and suffering forever. And sooner or later when your time comes, you will be reunited together in paradise forever. God bless.
I can understand this young man predicament, I am in excruciating pain 24/7, but I don’t have the courage to do this. I wish this family blessings and a happy fulfilling life. God bless.
I understand where you're coming from, but I think most people who are considering assisted suicide are in excruciating pain. I think many people will choose to live as long as they can, but when the pain starts, it's a different story. So please don't take that away from them.
You are so insightful and loving. He chose the right person to speak up for himself and I’m so glad you four experienced those priceless memories. I’m so sorry for your family’s loss. ❤
What a beautiful love story! I feel everyone should be able to choose when the time is right to end their own life! There is enough suffering in the world , why would we want to prolong it? Let people choose how to leave this world with dignity!
@@teviottilehurst God is good, Always good and they are together now. God knows this man's heart. 🙏 for forgiveness please so one day you too can be with God in Heaven.
That hit me , to see what my mother and sister went through when my father passed away . I was 1 year 3 months when my dad passed away from cancer. Then my mother passed when i was 15 and my son died from duchenne muscular dystrophy at the age of 19. Life is a gift we can share with anyone and everyone. Dont miss a minute of it.
Geeze... I was gonna say that "this needs to be said to my wife" But then, I see these other comments... Why some of you dudes gotta be dick wads tho.?.?..? Dayum
Look, I was 15 when I watched my bio dad suffer a horrific death from lung cancer. He went from 250 pds to 90 in 6 months. I held his hand as he has last breathe. He was in sever pain, the meds no longer worked. It caused me tremendous amount of stress and sorrow. I developed a drinking problem at 16 because no one helped me deal with it. His good sure didn't go it either. I turned 26 and developed NHL b cell and my kids had to watch me suffer, I almost ended my life then, but I survived by science. Got throat cancer at 32 and again at 43. I did plan on suicide but science has come along way. Life has been a bitch but I fought to survive and it had nothing to do with a god just good treatments. I now suffer from PPMS and pain is a constant and pain meds can not be used for to hypermetabolizing them. I will end my life in my terms and these people saying I don't have a right is nuts. My whole family , husband children parents all agree that I should end it on my chooosing. Humans can only take so much give compassion.
I too watched my dad suffer from to til last breath from lung cancer... It was a horrific experience, and I'm still traumatized by having to watch him go out like that. Though I'm glad he went quickly. I don't blame anyone for choosing to end their lives earlier, than to experience such a horrific end. Compassion, and care for quality of life at this point is a must
I'm so sorry for your loss but it blesses my heart to see the love you shared and all the beautiful moments you experienced and can hold in your heart forever
I gave my word to honor my husband's wishes. He fought, then decided he was done, he wanted to go home to God. It was truly hard for me, but l had promised him. He chose hospice at home, we got him home on Wed, he died on Friday. God bless the Angel's of hospice. What a great group. I would not have missed a minute with him from diagnoses to the very end. I was reminded there are three ways to heal. Physical, spiritual and pyscologicly. I think he hit two out if three really well. Sometimes there is much healing even with losing your loved one.
