The point that we must embody the word as the work can be the most challenging when it comes to self love. Before one can lovey thy neighbor as thy self, the self must be loved unconditionally. Most people struggle with this idea. But it is really the key that unlocks the whole relationship. Self-love is often mistaken for being self-centered. But it is not. It's loving one's self enough to be grateful, worthy and true to very one who is within. To love your self is to know that love itself begins within, wherefrom it is known as indivisible, unshakable and undeniable..