Her mom picking up the camera to record her during an angry rant about being used for views, says it all. This is why Jojo is the way she is. Shame on her parent(s).
Seriously, the reality that Jojo has been used her whole life is blatant and obvious but she really doesn't see it because that's just how life is, as far as she's concerned.
Her mom seems awful. Definite momager & she acted terrible on some of the Dance Moms episodes. I know there’s debate on it being scripted but when someone is being mean to another child.
I know right! It’s so weird how a mother can even feel comfortable recording their child going on a rant especially over something that is very public. They must not have much value on keeping personal business private nor how strange it makes them look to the public eye.
She's got a receded hairline & she's aged out & doesn't wear bows... she got enough $ off some of us about that. She needs to stay out of the B.S & stay in her lane 🤦🏼♀️
That's what growing up in a messed up environment where you are also the one who brings home the bacon will do to a person. You have formed attachment relationships with the adult caregivers in your life, and it has a formative influence. Kids don't discern between good and bad influences, their life is "normal" to them. JoJo has grown up with the understanding that these people are her support, her friends, her peers, mentors, parent-figures. If she has nothing healthy to compare it to, all her toxic relationships are going to seem fine to her. It can take years, and needs mental distance, to realise that in the end, you were controlled and manouvred by people you were supposed to be able to trust. JoJo's sense of identity must be so warped.
jojo flaunting her maturity and being adult like at a young age when in reality based on what social media shows she is incredibly immature and seems almost stunted
She’s very contradictory in her podcast with tana. She CONTINUOUSLY refers to past stories and blames it on her being young (as if that wasn’t literally 1 year ago) and even Avery being young (despite her being 3 years older than jojo’s current age). She constantly tries to prove she’s mature but then will blame it on her being young whenever she messes up.
She is the type who thinks anyone who has less followers than her are just out there to use her but Colleen already had a big following so she couldn’t use her in her mind
I doubt she has addressed the trauma from Abby, Colleen and her own mother. One day it will hit her and its sad but she has to do the work herself. Idk if she ever will.
Avery is just defending herself honestly. She seems to have grown a lot since then and usually distances herself from the drama when Jojo brings it up because she wants views or to try to gain that older audience again. She was so messy to Avery in the breakup and mean when Avery was just? Sad? Like come on girl
@@ZionDoesMakeupOh yes! As a follower of Avery's ex, Soph, Jojo was already close to BOTH of them before they broke up, she even gave gifts to Avery's current girlfriend at the time. What possibly happened was that they were flirting before the relationship ended, which is INSANE. I believe that Avery regrets it a lot nowadays. Soph suffered so much about it, even more because it was so public. Some time after, Avery and Soph met again and Avery apologized, you could see that Avery really felt bad, deeply bad. I hope they are both happy rn and that Jojo tries to grow up, these attitudes are not normal.
I've always hated JoJo, but honestly years ago she was fine, but it wasn't until her teenage years she became problematic I feel like, and now she's only acting like this cause we keep giving her the attention. People defending her saying " she's too young, she doesn't know better" she's a 20 year old woman acting like she's a toddler
I never liked her cuz when she first started RU-vid she was just too energetic for me to keep up, and I honestly didn’t want to. And now that she’s slowed down how fast she talks, I realize she actually has nothing of value to say.
ehhh nobody’s life is perfect at 20. i’ll give her a bit of a pass since her frontal lobe hasn’t fully developed yet and she’s still going through the motions
I don't want to take away from a bad relationship and the trauma that can bring, but if Jojo thinks an ex has used her but Abby Lee, Colleen and her own fucking parents haven't been using her? Like, I don't think I trust Jojo to even know what being used feels like, at this point.
I believe she was brainwashed from those people since jojo knew Colleen at the age of 11 or 12 and you know how Colleen was these. People were with her since she was a child so jojo was probably brainwashed into thinking their the good people since they have known her since she was a child.
Tbh, Jojo is terrible at interviews. Lol she has no idea how to answer questions, both properly and appropriately. I think her team should write her a script for each question she’s asked. 🤷🏻♀️🤣
For someone that has been in front if the camera since 10-12 yo, I'm shocked she isn't media trained yet. Everytime she opens her mouth on podcasts it's guaranteed to be a big yikes.
@@lauriemiguel7990 That was the speech impediment that she had when she was younger. Sometimes you can still hear it a tiny bit. That is different to knowing how to answer questions.
This might just be a me thing, but I have always thought that Jojo reminded me of Logan Paul. Her mannerisms and how she has been behaving as she has been moving into her life as a young adult have felt like she's growing more and more into Logan Paul.
JoJo isnt a kid anymore, and if shes excusing Colleens horrific actions to minors, while she has essentially an entire fanbase of kids, it makes me think she could be a possible danger too, dont wanna jump the gun, just pointing it out
I’ll say it loud and proud. SHE IS NOT SAFE FOR CHILDREN. Between Colleen Shane and James, it’s not just ignorance or naivety, this is now a pattern of behavior.
@@leanasia there’s been rumors that the environment Jojo created was toxic and that she and her mom made petty group chat texts and posts when a few of the girls left (mind you one of them left due to her *disability* )
Well, not surprised considering she’s been friends with Colleen since she was 12 and I mean let’s not forget how dance moms went, kinda the same no accountability behavior. Jojo learned by many adults how to be toxic and not take accountability. She’s been on that Toxic Goss Train for too long.
It seems like Jojo knew what she did was wrong so she got ahead of it by painting Avery as the bad guy, when in reality Jojo is a massive "see you next Tuesday". People need to learn how much people lie and twist things to get what they want, learn to read the evidence AROUND what they say. (Like both ex's having the same story with evidence to back it up, vs Jojo being like "i still don't know what happened.")
That's exactly what I thought that she knew she had to get ahead of it and point the finger first. When you're older and you've been in a lot of immature young relationships it's so much easier to see the signs lol
Speaking badly about someone after having a public relationship and falling out is just in such bad taste in general. The fact that there are literal pictures and videos of her meeting her ex and hanging around her ex whilst she was supposedly still with Avery and she's still trying to push this narrative that SHE was used is crazy. She can't seem to help herself around girls who are already taken lmfao
JoJo always mentions in all the podcasts she's in how mature she is and how she's older mentally but i'm not sure about that. Obviously I don't know what's going on in her real life, but it doesn't really seem like she's as emotionally intelligent as she thinks she is. Also the whole bit about how shes so lucky to have such a good family around her- I feel like she's been exploited for money and fame since childhood and her family makes her feel like that was her choice but really its then pulling the strings.
It is frustrating when people make the statement like she did. People who experience childhoods like hers definitely do not always become more mature at an earlier age, and if they do, they can't always maintain it. A lot of times they regress, especially in early adulthood, because they didn't get really get to be children and don't really know how to be independent adults.
She thinks that because she was working from a young age that equals her being mature. She was sitting in all the meetings with Nick from 12 years onward, she finished her schooling at 15 and was touring at 16. She doesn't understand that being emotionally mature, having common sense and so many other things all go into being mature, not just the work ethic and hustle culture.
@@amandamandamands She never finished school? THAT may explain a couple things. And I assume she didn't finish her education not because she was super smart, just super famous.
@@DerekEno-e1k She was home schooled her whole life (Jess said that the school suggested it on the first day because JoJo tested at a 3rd grade level). Don't know what curriculum etc that she studied.
@@amandamandamands 3rd grade level? Wow. I don't know if it was you or not, but somebody somewhere else says that she was a millionaire by age 12, and a CEO at 14. At first that sounds like a great thing, but ...is it? In line, of course, to what you were just saying above. It doesn't sound like a good idea for her to immerse herself in this Colleen drama.
I gotta say though I could not imagine being 23 and dating a 19 year old like the difference in maturity there is huge. Jojo’s mom recording her angry ranting was definitely a calculated move too. Shady shit all around.
As a 22 yo bisexual i feel like Avery is a bit more bimbo than she lets on lol i wouldn’t take the ages thing too seriously. I personally wouldn’t do it, i think it’s too close to 18, but Avery probably didn’t even consider that. If Avery was just thinking about it in black and white terms, jojo was over 18, plus has so much more money and she seems great at first impressions and convincing adults of her maturity/big dicking people. I think Avery saw it as like a 33 year old and a 29 year old vibes wise if that makes sense. Like in her mind they’re actually in the exact same age range. Like might as wellll have been in the range to have been in high school together, give or take a year of mono or the flu. I can see how Avery fell for her for sure! I think she really believed in the relationship sadly :/
I will never understand why people immediately grab a camera to film someone in a very vulnerable state! The parents wanted to Shove her in front of a camera because then they could profit big time. Shame on her mother to do this!!!
I will say one thing I realized after watching the cancelled pod with Jojo is that Jojo isn’t as sweet and humble as she wants to appear which makes sense as to why she continues to associate with the most problematic influencers
That is the thing though, she was home-schooled her whole life, besides the time on Dance Moms the last couple of years since she came out is the first time that she is consistently spending time with people her own age. As far as interpersonal skills with people her age (and working out dating, liking people etc) she is only learning them now and is going through the messy middle/high school years.
I think expectations on maturity at a mere 20, is quite insane. 20 is just out of ternagehood, you may think you know everything at that age but you still growing and learning. Especially navigating relationships. Heck, some people are like this at 50! I think people put weird expectations on supposed idols. She's human. Yes, likely lacking interpersonal skills from the homeschooling but honestly, she's not as bad for her age as everyone is making out. Look at how Trump behaves and he's like 70 odd years old. Give her a break 😅
very ironic how JoJo feels used by her ex-gf,who is probably around the same as her and probably cared about her than her friendship w/ Collen Ballinger's grooming ass sexualizing her.
People like Jojo drive me crazy and I feel so bad for Brooke because every time she began to speak Jojo spoke over her oh my gosh that's so annoying. I don't know if it's intentional or if it's just a whole new level of self-obsession and not being aware of anyone else or their feelings but it's just so Frustrating
This really shows how being a kid and teen on camera for years shouldn't be a thing. Her entire teenagehood was filmed and your messiest moments are usually in your teens. Now she's an adult and it's her entire persona to be messy. It's embarrassing and very sad to see.
Jojo comes across as a bad parody of a white, bimbo, blonde surfer guy in a z-list movie. The limited vocabulary. The surfer, cali accent. The overly forced, cheshire grin she always wears. Seems to have zero depth AT ALL.
This is some highschool ass drama. How old is Jojo? The fact that anyone gives a shit about which girlfriend texted who's ex and is back together with whatever # girlfriend is wild...
she is 20, she was home-schooled and when she was a younger teen it wasn't cool to like JoJo (unless you were tween and younger) so it is only since she came out that she has started spending time with people her age so yes that side of her is catching up now as she didn't do that phase at the time that most people do.
It’s not that she can’t take accountability, it’s that the level of maturity that she has compared to…let’s say Colleen, it’s not on the same level. That plus the fact that she’s been a victim to more than one person, her cognitive dissonance is not up to par. We can and should still hold her accountable while also realizing that she herself is also a victim who could possibly benefit from therapeutic help.
@@redballoon9007 never not once did I say that she wasn’t a victim so you just fabricated that wind or something. I’m talking about the part in which she brings up her age as a shield the way gen z does. She’s not a child. She’s an adult and what she’s saying is wrong. Period. You can be a victim and wrong at the same time. Which is what Jojo is doing
@@EssenceEtienne Upon further thinking, I don’t think the age thing is the problem. It’s literally the trauma. She doesn’t understand what she’s saying is wrong because all she knows is that the people who were using her weren’t really using her and so she’s taking that experience and applying that to others (which is wrong). Yet again, she needs time to unpack that before she came make any statements about Miranda’s victims Also what do you mean “the way Gen Z does?”
"How her and Jojo broke up" -- How SHE and jojo broke up. Jojo broke up. She broke up. Her didn't break up. Why do people keep using "her" instead of SHE? We don't say, "Her went to the store" or "Her had a fight." Stop with this idiocy.
It's because she's still annoying but she isn't a little kid anymore. It's one thing to act the way she does and be 16/17 and acting like that as you're entertaining your 20s.
If most or all of your friends are toxic then odds are you’re toxic. Friend’s influence each other and make each other feel safe and seen. Jojo is toxic. I don’t need someone to expose her to figure that out. Shane, Colleen, james, Trisha, and more. She’s a complex person with the ability to be good but she’s obviously a toxic friend and lover. I know these are just different sides of the truth but I’m inclined to believe her ex over her. She started off on reality tv where she has spoken about always knowing that she needed to play it up for screen time since she was 9!! She knows what she’s doing.
Even if she is young, Jojo could be toxic. It is very probable that her parents and childhood shaped her, like it happens to everyone, but does it matter? I'm kinda tired of her being portrayed as a victim of circumstance.
Jojo made a no-no. That being said, she's very young. 20 isn't mature, her brain still has 5 years left to develop. I say that as someone in my 30s, I wouldn't be friends with a 20-year-old. Nope. I also think she doesn't realise how victimised she's been by Colleen and other people in her life.
@ 6:00 Omg I’ve been feeling like Jojo reminded me of my toxic ex gf and now this. Why do narcissistic ass exes always do that and to do so publicly too, so rude. Then they act like you did them bad and dirty, huhhh?
Gen Z love to talk a big game but they're always sub tweeting and doing shit like this instead of just growing a pair and saying what you need to say about someone
Yknow what, i believe Avery. That’s messy as hell. Bruh. If i caught my gf hanging out with her ex without me and alone i’d be livid. Like talking to her out of her own oblivion? Come on man. It’s one thing to be polite to your ex, but like… being so intimate (for the lack of a better word) with your ex like that is so messy and fucked up.
Jojo seems very full of herself assuming everyone is using her. I'm sure positive that she HAS been used by many people, but it seems like any time a relationship goes wrong it becomes "oh they were just using me" when she was the one is who was being a cheater and talking about people constantly. I'm sad that it's turning out to be that Jojo is a shitty person
Because her family has been using her for money. When her main connection with people has been being used as a money making machine. She'll automatically think she's being used in every situation
@@rerai5996 what's sad is anyone with actual good intentions for JoJo probably would get chased off by her family if they started showing her REAL love
@@zuglymonster that's not her fault her shitty family used her, her whole life till now. The probably manipulate her into think they are all she's got in this world
Jojo grew up and was about to be a former child star so made her whole identity about being gay and is a walking flag so she'd be relevant again! So she really don't need to be complaining if she got used!! She caused her own drama so she'd stay in the tabloids!! Her mom made her this way too!
That video abt her "being used" seemed really fake and over-exaggerated. Avery seems like a lovely and genuine person. I've never known much about Jojo but the more I see of her, the faker she seems.
Idk but the internet has been needlessly ruthless with Jojo. Not to defend her, I don’t know anything about the situation or about her. But there’s a disturbing trend of tearing her apart over every dumb little thing
friendly reminder that Jojo Siwa was 12 and Colleen was 28 when they became friends. jojo was groomed by colleen herself. wither or not Jojo realizes it she a victim
Ladies, you don’t have to be in relationships like this. It gets better as you get older, I promise. As long as you are willing to work on yourself.. your needs.. your communication skills.. your willingness to keep your side of the street clean.. and your ability to show other how you need to be treated.
as you get old, youll realize that not everyone will want to grow like that and even if they do, thats good but they still might not be good for you. hopefully you will grow to be ok with your own company.
