The fact that Trisha takes more accountability than Colleen is literally showing that Trisha has matured alot and tries her best to be a better person. Colleen's youtube channel needs to be deleted and she gotta be put in prison
Agreed. That is literally where EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THOSE BITCHES start from: Being kind. And it is easy to distinguish * Genuine Kindness * from * Trying To Groom You Kindness *.
She’s not a victim. Colleen could have very well been so nice to her. But that still doesn’t change what Colleen did to regular kids who aren’t celebrities or have a platform.
@@hiymecorp.258 Colleen has clearly been manipulating her into thinking that its all lies, cause she did the same thing to trisha. Also colleen would say really weird comments to jojo when she was a child in youtube videos. So she is a victim
@@swigglyforce5215 no she’s not. She completely disregarded the REAL victims. Also jojo is 20 years old. A WHOLE A** ADULT. She’s grown enough to realize that Colleen is a groomer just like all her other victims realized it once they GREW UP. She knows right from wrong. She’s not a victim. Stop calling every person that made contact with Colleen a victim. I believe they are actually good friends because jojo has a name for herself. She’s a huge star and I don’t think Colleen would treat a star like how she treats regular kids. SHE👏NOT👏A👏VICTIM👏
She might be a victim, but it doesn’t excuse her from talking about things Colleen did to others which JoJo obviously knows nothing about, and calling those victims “liars.” It was so obvious she didn’t know wtf she was talking about on that podcast. Every time she floundered for words, Howie Mandel’s co-host in that podcast bailed her out. I understand JoJo was probably groomed her whole life - and probably not just by Colleen - but accusing Colleen’s victims of lying is on her, and she’s got to own it.
@@hiymecorp.258 you don’t have to be a child to be a victim. Again, Trisha pay gas had the same thing going on. It’s not about your age but it’s about the fact that they lure you in and slowly manipulate you
but wasn’t that like a professional relationship? like a dancing partnership? (idk i could be very wrong cause i know nothing about them or their friendship so please correct me if im wrong😅)
Ok but I think her saying that kids can't be friends with adults is a little bit of a stretch but having a romantic relationship between a kid and an adult is unacceptable
She has adhd, and I think she’s on the spectrum. She also grew up very very sheltered, very religious parents. no Halloween no movies with magic, no nothing until she was basically an adult. It makes sense.
@@gabrielleoana1092 All the things you listed don’t make you turn out how she did. If there’s something that could’ve caused more significant mental issues that you left out, let us know then.
@@nglidk Who are you to decide how each person’s life experience affects them? Me and my sister both saw my dad hurt my mom and I don’t have the same negative repercussions as my sister, she is still struggling because of it. Each person deals with an unhealthy childhood in their own way. I don’t know her personally, but she did mention also trauma with men who possibly abused her that she didn’t want to expand on.
@@istanboolthe definition of grooming is when a adult builds up a emotional relationship with a minor the manipulate and exploit them. Learn the definition of grooming before you start to yip yap
Kool-aid probably manipulated Jaja Simon, groomed her. Etc etc. I definitely know Kool-aid is and was manipulating Jaja. They become friends at 12 ? The definitely somethjng fishy is going on. I still will support Jojo. But not Kool-aid Ballsinger.
Ironically it's probably partially because she might have been groomed, she said she's known her since she was 12. It's still messed up tho to say people are lying just because she's been nice to her
she met her when she was 12!! jojo says they were very close friends which is very disturbing that a grown women was ‘besties’ with a girl her age ☹️🤢 i’m not defending jojo but it’s quite obvious that she might be a victim of grooming herself, especially as she grew up in the industry, and therefore can’t recognize it or chooses to ignore it 🥲 (again it’s so wrong that jojo is saying this, but i just thought i’d give a possible reason)
Jojo grew up knowing nothing but child exploitation. It's her whole existence. Jojo is the least surprising person to support colleen. Im not a fan of jojo but it makes sense
“Since I was 12” honey..you just indirectly agreed with the accusations😬 edit: oof, the amount of people defending the friendship in the comments is crazyyyy✋😐
Im not defending her but maybe she didn't feel that it is not ok because she thought the "friend relationship " was similar to a relationship with a close aunt
Jojo has also been nothing but a showpony child and its likely that she often has reality filtered for her. So the chances that jojo has been groomed by Colleen are waaayyy up there.
I think what people need to learn from both this and the Danny Masterson case is that just because someone was nice to you doesn’t mean they’re incapable of causing harm. Just like every kind person has their moments of darkness, every awful person is capable of being kind.
@@highasduck5282 it’s just not fair to compare a physical action with something very vague online. We don’t know what Colleen’s intentions were in the group chats.
@@kekid178 there are a shitload of screenshots everywhere online. colleen was sending nudes of Trisha to minors, which is illegal. what are you talking about? maybe do some research? it's not vague at all.
Congratulations, Jojo. Your experience does not equal everyone elses. There are hundreds, HUNDREDS of screenshots, and dozens of people coming forth about their experiences with Colleen. Just because she was nice to YOU does not mean she was that way to everyone.
Tbf, what if Jojo was groomed by Colleen to believe that she (Colleen) could do no wrong? I get that Jojo isn’t a child anymore, but since she’s known Colleen since she was a child, there is a possibility that she (in a way) groomed her
@sourpatchflame that's very plausible Considering she had an abusive figure In her life as a child (Abby) I wouldn't be surprised if Colleen took advantage of this
She realized she needs to get her act together for her daughter. Having a mother who is one of the most hated people on the internet would not be good for her.
First of all... tf is wrong with an adult being friends with a minor or whatever? Like it's all sex-based? It's not. People making that weird by calling it inappropriate is a mistake itself. It's not all bad, ever heard of family? Siblings? Family aint all blood bro. Ppl need to stop looking at it all that way, it's sickening to those who don't do bad stuff.
If Colleen was a man then they would've been canceled 2sec later. Predators come in both genders. Two women SA me as a child. Both were very trusted, longtime family friends. They started out trying to me by friend, us do things together without everyone else. It's grooming. It's disgusting.
That may be to you but trust me, not all friendship with strangers or older to you will be healthy unless the adults are fully aware. My narcissistic religious abusive mother groom me and five of my older brothers, the consequences? I had to be selective and very picky when it comes to friendship with someone who is older than me. The internet is already bad, I can't risked to get groomed again just to become the next Jojo, it's just immaturity and ignorant at finest. If you ever talked to people who are younger than you and you take the advantage by saying "I am kind, trust me" vibes, I guarantee you that your actions will be the loudest signs of red flag or green flag. You're the adult, do not act on it. As for the children who are younger, all my wishes to them is to get your ass together and face reality. They should call for help if they are uncomfortable, not accepting the fact that majority of adults are kind or caring to them, it's naive mindset. Anyone can become friends who are older to them but my advice suggest that two individuals of the minor and adult should still practice boundaries. If not, then it's the adult fault, not the child. I still have perfect relationship with my brothers, even after what happened between me and them. They're traumatized, they couldn't move on because they were forced to grow up, the same as I am when I was 7 years old. My eldest brothers suffer with anger issues, all of us are but internalizing it. Being groomed by your parents or strangers that you can't control it is something that most people should face it as "major" consequences, you can't tell everyone to be friends with them if they are being "kind" or not. It's still wrong, nothing should be normalize about children being friends with adults, it's pure nonsense and naivety. Adults with good intentions are reasonable enough to be friends with but most people use "kind" words in their distorted way of thinking, it's not right in morally sense. If humans are that simple, then human trafficking wouldn't be happening or rather, harsh assault onto children as a whole.
I was thinking about this too, there's mentor programs and big sister or brother programs. There's guidelines of what is appropriate no going to their house being alone in private stuff like that. You're not besties, the child might think it that way but that because they have limited understanding of relationships
And how do we know she isn't just trying to make money off a bad situation the same as a lot of people. Like those reacting to her videos and giving their opinions on what they think might have happened or what she did wrong during her shows. To me, it's just old news now. Let's just move on our lives.
@goreandhoodies3626 it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that colleen crossed the line. So Trish is a nazi 🤔 🙄 so what she says makes it true, Not everything a nazi says makes it true. I'm not a fan of Trish. I never have been since before all this, and yes, I've watched a few of her videos other than about colleen.
She met colleen when she was 12. They were probably "friends " jojo might've been gr**med by colleen and jojo was manipulated to think that colleen is innocent when shes not
i love seeing trisha step up the way she has after becoming a mom. now we all see how principled and protective she was capable of being. and she may still have blind spots, just like all of us do, but still. standing up for what is right is commendable, even when you're not right about everything all the time.
@@anothermiddleschoolburnout8816 Oh, I thought the PA stood for pedophillic arsehole or something and I was like "Uh?". Why do people say she's matured since she had her baby?
@@Δ-Δ-Δ-Δwell parenthood changes a lot of people. It wouldnt be too suprising if her baby was a good change for her. Also she seems to be more toned down. Plus that was a long time ago.
@@potato-kw1er I'm so happy to hear this. I always found Trisha Pasta so iconic and so queen. Glad to hear she's entered her heroine in redemption arc.
JoJo only measures the quality of someone’s character by how “nice” they are to her. Remember when she said Candace Cameron Bure was the “rudest” celebrity she’d ever met, all because she didn’t want to take a picture with JoJo? 😂
She met colleen when she was 12. They were probably "friends " jojo might've been gr**med by colleen and jojo was manipulated to think that colleen is innocent when shes not
Maybe they’re Both right? There was no grooming on Colleen’s part. What did she get out of it again? She was just childish and immature and spoke to fans and shouldn’t have, but that’s it. People love to blow things out of proportions.
@@urmom8391 because Macaulay Culkin used to sleep in Michael Jackson’s bed when he was a minor, and he said Michael never did anything to him so he stood up for Michael when everyone was calling Michael a pedophile. and Jojo is saying because Colleen talked to her when Jojo was a minor but never said anything to HER, she couldn’t have done anything wrong. 2 very similar situations. just because a criminal is nice to you, doesn’t mean she’s not a criminal. just because Macaulay Culkin said Michael never touched him, doesn’t mean he didn’t touch other kids. same thing here with Jojo and Colleen.
Jojo before-☀️⭐️🌈🦄🌸🫶 Jojo now-🖤🌪️🖕🏻☔️🏳️🌈💔 I think we can all agree that this is true as we have seen new JoJo’s new song, karma.. I.want.the.old.jojo siwa.back.
There are cert scenarios that an adult can have a child friend. Like the big brother/ big sister program. Thousands of kids have greatly benefitted from a mentor like that. Wen i was 23,i hired a 14yr old babysitter. She was a good kid from a really bad home. Her mom ended up in jail and her dad moved to Florida when she was 16 leaving her with me. I took this child in as my own, but i wasnt ger parent..i was a friend of her family 's. She stayed with me till she finished her 2nd year of college and till this day, i consider her my little sister. Having a genuine and appropriate relationship with underage people when you are an adult is a possibility. Theres nothing wrong with caring about someone. Its only wrong when your intentions are wrong.
Okay so I do disagree that a minor cannot be friends with an adult… I’m 16 friends with a few girls 18-30ish (not like hangout friends). However in terms of Colleen, she’s proven to be a groomer so that is extremely inappropriate. Jojo was 12 being friends with her… so she was probably being groomed without realizing it
I heard someone else say before how Jojo was brought up around toxicity (dance moms for example) so when she hears about how these ‘friends’ (James, Coleen, Shane) of hers are being accused of crimes and things, she doesn’t process it.
She seems like one of those people that when you tell them what happened with someone and she knows them she’s like ‘you’re lying, they would never do that to me, they’ve always been nice to me, there’s no way they act different with other people’ 😂😂 i feel like bc how she grew up she has some unresolved mental issues. Someone can be nice to you, it doesn’t mean that they’re an angel sent from heaven, they could still be a bad person to someone else, jojo doesn’t seem to be able to process that.
Jojo is GETING inappropriate behavior from her and I don’t think that’s ok like I GEUSS they can be friends if Jo-Jo was not friends with her than jojo probably would have not been like this she kinda ruined a bunch of kids childhoods like mine in my opinion she needs to be canceled for what video she made to attract kids.
Jojo and Colleen being friends gives me the same weird feeling that Maddie and Sia does. I’m not sure whether or not to be disappointed in Jojo, feel pity for her as a potential victim, or both.
I think we can understand that Jojo grew up in an environment where that sort of behaviour was normal and acceptable and empathise with that while also wanting her to stop talking and excusing groomers. I think in 10 years she'll likely see the world differently but we shouldn't be giving her a platform to continue to express these damaging views in the meantime.
Jojo is so out of touch with reality it's actually really sad to see. Give her a few months when she realizes this "grown up" rebrand isn't getting her the attention she needs and she will start using Colleen for her victimhood tour. Anything to cling to her 15 min.
Nobody is victim blaming. When a victim becomes problematic themselves, you should call them out on their inappropriate behavior. Everyone is calling out Will Smith, while acknowledging he's Jada's victim..
Simple answer, new controversy over lapse the old. Seriously though Trisha’s controversy isn’t really comparable to Colleen’s. Yeah it’s bad but not ‘pull out a ukelele at accusations of being a child groomer’ bad
@@onlyanuliactually she did look at a vid with Shane and her sexualising a minor on camera!!! Not over text,so she shouldn’t be that praised and act like she didn’t do the same shit which is fucking horrible
Babe she literally groomed jojo too, she was TWELVE, trisha is correct, colleen has groomed jojo into defending her too. Its sad how jojo went from abby to colleen, I hope she eventually realises the amount of abuse and grooming that has gone on in her life and can eventually recover❤
Dan Schneider is a tough boss. There is no evidence he committed any crimes so I'm not sure what you're getting at. As for JoJo, they could be friends and it not be predatory.
The first time a pedophile approached me I didn't even realize. Even though my hands were shaking and I could feel my heart beat, I thought he just wanted to be friends with me. As kid that didn't have any friends (now I have like 1, lol) I emphasized with the justification I made up myself. Maybe he just wanted friends, and I understood that need. But even then I was extremely reluctant to give him my number, I stalled so much until my friend (yep, that one friend haha) appeared and I RAN to him. Only later did I realize that he was 30. I'm 13. What adults are friends with teens??
No adults should be “friends” with minors, obviously family and family friends are different though. I’m so sorry this happened to you, if you know more information about him I’d advise you to call the authorities.
I feel like it’s not extremely inappropriate for adults to be friends with minors, but people should always keep in mind that it can be WORLDS easier for grooming to occur. i think you just need to be very vigilant to be friends with an adult as a minor, no matter how close you can get.
I don't think a adult being friends with a child is cause for alarm. I mean look at Mr. Feeney from Boy Meets World. As long as it's clear, clean that you're just friends, it should be a none issue.
Heres my perspective: JoJo had no idea she was being manipulated, and was defending who she thought was her friend. However, one thing that Trisha said is wrong. Yes, adults can be STRICTLY friends with minors. Maybe JoJo only saw the kind, friendly side of Colleen. A teacher can be friends with a student, and the student would see them as their favourite teacher, but if that teacher suddenly m*lested a kid, the student may not believe it at first because they couldn’t believe that the person that taught them so long was actually a predator.
