The Judge is doing Black MEN a favor, although such is not his intention. Because this may indirectly help spare a decent working and lower middle class brotha the indignities of having to deal with some arrogant, self-deluded, hellraising redbottom shoeshopper who, despite whatever money she makes, might STILL overspend both of you into a dayam bankruptcy court.
One thing I've observed with our women and them attaining those degrees, cars, houses, medium to high salaries and other assets: those degrees dont hug you back and keep you warm at night! The best things in life are not things!!!!
All very true. I red pilled my son on the game...and the rest he learned from experience. He is nearly 30 yrs old, career man, no kids, never been married. And there are many other brothas like him, believe it!
Dear Joe Brown, I agree with you. I am very happy to see her go. She makes 100K and at the end of the year had nothing left. I make 50K and at the end of the year had 10K invested. LOL
I like judge Joe brown but this one I dont agree with. Personally I say the hell with marriage altogether. This shit will NEVER go back to core and values marriage had.✌🏾
I gotta agree. The way I see it now, a woman with a job, let alone a high paying job at that is a step down for any man. It’s cheap to have expensive taste which all women have. I hate to say it but any woman that can make her money, shouldn’t even consider married. It’s not conducive to her lifestyle. Not to mention, it’s unhealthy for men to be involved with women like that. A career woman is equivalent to a woman on death row. She can’t be helped because she couldn’t get out of her own way. It’s sad to say and I hate saying but I follow the math.
I'm a man that was really struggling with my job! I was only making 30 or 35 a year! My ex was making 65 a year! That tore the relationship apart! Some time down the rode! I make 88 too 90 thousand a year! She lost her job! This was in 6 month! Who got the last laugh
The issue is still this........A man that makes 100k or makes and has his shit together i.e.....has his own home, car , etc......is not worried about how much a woman is making (if he's the traditional man). He is going to get with a woman that he can take care of and all he's gonna want her to do is stay home, take care of the kids, cook, clean, look good and have his babies. That's the trade off for his resources and his LIFE (protection). The problem is the women that make 100k still want you the man to be able to take care and protector her, BUT SHE'S NOT GIVING ANYTHING BACK TO HIM. She's gonna look at him as a equal because she makes just as much money as he does.
BGS, as always you are speaking the very truth. While I was in college one of my professors stated to me once you earn BS degree and MBA you would be a fool to marry down. Basically, he stated if I would to earn $100k plus and marry a women who earned $40k, I would lose income for the fact that I would have to bring her up to my level of a life style. If we were to divorce, I would have to pay her alimony due to her life style to which I gave her. Now, that was about 20yrs ago and I was lucky in my last marriage due to the fact that my ex made $80 plus, so I walked away with owning her nothing. I was very lucky this time! It's very hard to find someone on your pay level if you make $100k. If you meet a black women who makes that much plus more she is going to compete with you and expect you to pay for everything while she saves her income for herself. It's very challenging to find a suitable black female who has your back and is on your level of education and pay! Just my 2 cents!
@@BGSIBMOR I watched the video and still come to the same conclusion. No state marriage with a corrupt government and emotional Western Society woman is no risk, which is the best choice these days :)
How is he a drag on the woman’s resources when he’s not asking her to pay his bills? Man “broke” and woman broke are two different things. A guy that’s just broke/regular money wise isn’t gonna roll over extra expense on his spouse the way a woman would.
as if she is guaranteed to not lose her job or get sick or whatever. the value system is stupid --- 40k faithful guy vs 200k player guy??? you do the math- the more money more options greater chance that player will pimp treat and slap her at the appropriate times.
Truth! This is called REAL LIFE I have a family member who came down with fibromyalgia and passed away some years ago. His ex-wife was on this my level shit after she started making more. While he was severely sick she served him divorce ppw because she felt she could do better and find someone who make more. Two years later he passed and she was absolutely SICK about it and to this day all she does is apologize for it. She ended up getting with high rollers and played her OVER AND OVER AND OVER....now she's single and lonely. People better start marrying for qualities and honker down for this economic storm on the way.
@@Mcdowells if you save - invest and plan and do a side hustle you can turn 50 k into 100k a yr. not hard to hustle an extra 20k plus a yr ---if you are single/ married with no kids. focus should be on value and compatibility betw 2 people-- that is worth millions over life
Durags and Socks If the men are smart they wouldn’t even get these women pregnant specially if she acts as if she is greedy . Plus if the spermnator can get these women pregnant without paying child support I am sure a well educated black man can find a way not to as well .
@BGS I had to listen to this a few times. I see every day the effects of women getting what they wanted via feminism and they look beat down. I worked with a woman who was the breadwinner and her husband stayed home with the baby because "he only had a GED and couldn't get a well paying job ". This woman looked miserable working 2-3 jobs. Top that with a disdain on her face when her husband would come to company lunches. Other woman is a staunch lesbian, section supervisor and she's constantly downing bang energy drinks because "she doesn't get any sleep". I work more than her and have majority custody of my son.That 40k man can easily go overseas as well and get with he wants with less drama. I see these brothas overseas a lot.
One of my clients is a nurse practitioner she stated she was in debt so naturally, I said it can't be that bad........175K...yep it's that bad LOL BGS you've been on a tear and it's glad the manosphere is getting back to basics! Old school hammer and nail!
Men tell u the truth we really in a bad position either date black women and suffer date outside and outbreed and water down the race , what they want u to do , or don’t indulge in relationships and die lonely life only got 3 options choose wisely !
Good presentation brother. Benign Neglect Policy of the early 70's(which lead to the highjacking of Affirmative Action Policy) the economic assault on the American Black man through last hired first fired practices, immigration, then the social engineering practices in society that would follow along with our own internal dysfunction and pathology as you have stated have created this imbalance in the Afro American society where the Black woman is out in front and in some cases views herself as superior to her own black man. This is why you have college educated brothers who are 1.under employed, 2.unemployed, 3. working in jobs just existing living pay check to check. The system was designed so the masses of us as Afro American men would have to struggle tirelessly to stay afloat in a society where a white man with a criminal jacket a mile long can earn more $ than a Blackman with a degree. This is why it is important for us as a collective to become more politically astute and take this new movement of ADOS/FBA seriously. We already see the Democratic party has been pushing this train of thought on our women that their survival is predicated not on the survival of the Afro American Black man but how they can position themselves in a white male controlled society. Wake up brothers this is about our genetic survival.
75 million Americans make $30,500 on average. Now if young and both interested in investing in rental properties and stocks then no problem. Because at some point that woman will want to stay home with kids. Promixity principles are vital surround yourself with like minded folks or at least a person willing to build. There is no future survival for families with 40k and under income. Pick one and sit down as my grandpa says. Good video. I would love a video after new census is done.*
What were seeing alot of is black men being financially destroyed for the money has had time to mature.. You get hit with Childsupport early in life it may become impossible to break a 40k barrier. When your young you can be fooled into thinking a relationship will last forever. However if saddled with Childsupport and or alimony it will only benefit the woman period.. A Woman has a slew of Departments government funded to fall back on, and her (extra money) has nothing to do rather if she works, or decided to go to school. So now she's free to hunt MORE men of better economic stature.. Meanwhile the man can find himself in his mommas basement or homeless. That's the reality....
@@dalecity1974 with over 48 percent of black men with no kids there is no kids saddling down a bunch of men. I think oshay/ obsidian did a video on 48 percent of black men have no kids. According to the census black folks first marriage ages are 32 to 35. Much later.
I think in the future the Golden Girls model will take effect for all ages instead of marriage for a larger demographic . A group of 2-4 people around the same age/ similar interests will share housing and living expenses instead of man and wife. The amount of folks having kids and the amount of kids born into a family is going to drop off a cliff even more than this past decade.
ALL DO RESPECT❗As a BLACK MAN, I was taught that NOTHING GOOD ever came from the EUROPEAN MINDSET for the COSMIC MELINATED FAMILY'S. FIAT CURRENCY has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with a MANS MASCULINITY. 2 PEOPLE who GENUINELY LOVE each other take what they have to offer and BRING IT TOGETHER. The JUDGE is on Sum Str8☝️Up 🐂💩. The MOST POWERFUL BLACK MAN is a SKILLED BLACK MAN, PERIOD❗
ALL DUE respect! I said as much 3 videos ago. Don't assume you're saying something profound or new. Stop trying to shout half true information to a black gnostic. Stay in your Lane son...
@@lionheart3074 Let's start with all due respect in all caps. That means you're shouting at someone. You should make it clear who you are directing the argument at. Since I am the poster I assume you are shouting at me..m
The only women in the 100k situation is the unattractive 100k woman, I know two brothers right now that are married to CFO 's and COO's and these brothers were making $50k a year,why? Because men on their level didn't want no unattractive woman and so those unattractive 100k a year woman had to fight for the same pool that the women who are 4,5,6, and 7 and were making 30K and lower for the same men,so there are some exceptions, I know I've seen it up close and personal. Great video.
I've been SYSBM my whole adult life and didn't even know what it was. I just naturally moved away from negative behavior. I just thought they didn't like me personally. I never dreamed it was that bad for everybody. What a shame. Whatever, I will save myself.
His(judge brown) logic is crazy in a time were jobs are disappearing. 58% of the nation makes less than $40.000 I wonder how much of that is black men?
I'm watching all this months into the quarantine and I'm amazed at how predictive BGS material is... It's like all his stuff that is even two years old was made yesterday.
I agree with this assessment for the most part. A woman really needs to be honest with herself regarding her physical attractiveness to men. So even if a woman makes 150k, if she is a 5, on a scale of 1-10, a lot of HVM, will not be checking for her. That is the part Judge Joe Brown is not saying, at least not publicly. HVM like other men are very visual and the appearance is a big part of that.
My game plan is to stay single until I’m in my mid 40s and have generated wealth and status, then have a few kids with a younger woman, probably won’t even get married either. I would like kids but not until I’m close to 50+...
In all things, our greatest strength as human beings (and more specifically men) is to build systems for society within some unpredictable, uncontrollable context such as nature. Sociopolitical systems require the same diligence and resilience of creative spirit. If one is creative enough and wise enough, there's no such thing as a weak position. A woman making 100k who deals with a 40k guy is only dealing "down" if he lies within the exact same professional context (which means she's directly outperforming him, which leads to the messed up dynamic). A female, no matter how much money she makes, can not flex on a man grounded in the naturalistic centers of his masculinity. Male lions sleep just fine letting the females win the bread consistently because they leverage their natural dominance to do things that the females cannot do (protect the pride against other males and the environment, mate, and provide patriarchal guidance for the cubs). 100k is only greater than 40k if it's all under the same rules. If you make 40k through your own entrepreneurship, where as she has to work a job, you are able to leverage your own freedom from the system to provide value. So many households have 1 or even 2 breadwinners (100k+) but yet 90% of the money immediately exits the community. If the females generally made 100k, and the males made 40k but owned their own income streams and held a solid square on "man shit" that females cant do, all is well. For example, the present conditions and "disparities" could possibly be leveraged to create new systems for social life that fix the problems that are arising for western society at large. Think of neighborhood self-gentrification. You could put females into the job market to earn high income and leverage their bankability to buy property that we as men could maintain, improve, etc using skills that we can also use to maintain income streams independent of the dominant white culture. Now we are looking at property ownership, equity building, and independent wealth. All of which can be passed to your offspring on your own terms. Obviously, that would leave men with more repsonsibility as far as kids but that's advantageous as well because now you can rear them outside of the toxic elements of the dominant culture. We can teach them skills that matter as men like surviving in nature, growing foo, fixing machines, building and maintaining shelter, refining their physicality... again, all things that the dominant culture is struggling with, especially on the male side. In short, it could be an opportunity for us to imbue ourselves and our progeny with qualities that would not thrive naturally in the existing dominant culture where both parents (or one) are stuck on the wheel just to maintain lifestyle, probably still live paycheck to paycheck, and still harbor weird tensions garnered by such direct competition. A 92 can't flex on you when you have removed yourself from direct competition with her (but still have your own systems for independent sustenance) and provide a huge array of masculine qualities that are simply out of her realm, AND still satisfy her subconscious desire to secure a strong future for offspring, AND increase both the material and psychological equity of our community as black people with much less reliance on a dominant culture that hardly has our best interests at heart.
There is a way out of this mess. There's always a way. But most people will not find it, because most people will not open their minds. Most people will not raise their vibration. If we stopped concerning ourselves with money and materialism THE PARTICULAR WAY WE DO NOW, most of these problems would be overcome, or simply skirted around. But people, particularly these Women you describe.....worship money, and have swallowed the current system's way of valuing people's worth (which is utterly evil and false in many cases). If these Women were wiser, they might pick a Man who had potential, with good qualities, and not necessarily a large salary AT THE CURRENT MOMENT. She could roll up her sleeves and support him while he started a Business, or went back to school. Or perhaps she would benefit from the fact that he knew how to invest their money better than she ever could in Real Estate, or The Markets (which is how real wealth is built anyway). Instead, these hard headed Broads judge their Men by how big or small their CURRENT SALARY is in a prejudiced system, that was designed to keep Black Men out, in large part. Discerning potential in a Man or the virtue of his character takes Vision, Wisdom, maybe some imagination. The problem....the real problem, is that those qualities are in short supply in many a modern Woman. They have succumbed to The Matrix, and once again I say they see their Men the way the System wants them to. It's a vicious cycle that many will not break because they will not evolve. Evolution takes Courage, not to mention Faith....and many of these Sistas don't actually have much of either, no matter how much time they might spend in Church. So alone they will remain unless and until they evolve, perhaps that's just KARMA at work. I can't call it. It simply is........ what it is. Great commentary.
Very good points!! My father once told me, he's happy that I am intelligent (thanks to him), yet he doesn't want me to "price myself out of the market for a quality Black husband". I overstand now.
Well said. I've been saying this for yrs. Then sistas look at us (BM) like why can't we make it but they can't see how and off whose backs they've made it off of.
GReat analysis and commentary! If you go on twitter on look at the responses i say the EXACT same thing you do here! Bravo BGS! I’m gonna post this video in the thread.
Soooo, being that Judge Joe Brown is a smart guy, I take it he was either joking, starting a "Steve Harvey" type show soon, or waiting to give the declaration that the 100k-women shouldn't be pissed off about those men they rejected going overseas or dating younger women lol
@BGS the war is between the Reptiles and Hotep of the Matriarchy and.the other group of (PassportGate + SYSBM + nonecleanup Men ). Remenber women shaming tactics does not work on the mobile thinking blackmen. Therefore their last ressort it to send their Matriarchal drone ,reptiles. And what the plan for the next 50 years ? @BGS I disagree the Gynocracy is not egalitarian. Because want equality and even superiority only when they can get the benefits. Women want men power,want to keep their women privileges and have neither responsibilities.
.... Break .... Yoooo, BGS .. I can't make this up just had a Dream with in it and we were Building! Holla if ya want to the over view! Peace and grace to you and your family! 100
TEDDY PENDERGRASS! SO GOOD!! SO GOOD! SO GOOOOODDDD WHEN SOMEBODY LOVE YOU BACK. TALKING ABOUT A 50/50 LooooOOoovvve Yeah!!!! Get your own BAG YOU 21ST CENTURY CHICKS!!
Perhaps in women making a hundred thousand and up can come to the table and bring that money to the man have him the overseer of her money. that's the way things are supposed to go if you're going to be married to any man no matter if he's making 50 40 or 30 thousand. And if not well the women making all the money you know what they have to do.
@BGS the war is between the Reptiles and Hotep of the Matriarchy and.the other group of (PassportGate + SYSBM + nonecleanup Men ). Remenber women shaming tactics does not work on the mobile thinking blackmen. Therefore their last ressort it to send their Matriarchal drone ,reptiles. And what the plan for the next 50 years ? @BGS I disagree the Gynocracy is not egalitarian. Because women want equality and even superiority only when they can get the benefits. Women want men power,want to keep their women privileges and have neither responsibilities. The last 50 year women happiness declined.That the irony.
Its all repeat of genesis. Sons of seth vs sons of the serpent. There is a reason they use the serpent as a symbol of a liar. Fork tongue for one. Eve falls for same trick over and over and men want women to rule them? Foolish
I don't know if you've heard the name 'Hardcore Tito'. A couple of years ago, he literally, specifically detailed how this will become a "proxy war". Where these heifers would send their: Eunuchs, mama's boys, and man servants, to stand in the front lines for them. His Channels are still up. He's legendary around these parts, and was always honest. He's what these females would consider "Alpha". He sliced a lot of them open, and would describe in details how treacherous they are.
