The advice Judge Lynn gave modern women to not hit a man in his weak areas was spot on. Women hitting men in weak areas created the red pill and passport king movement.
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Gentleman, don’t ever talk to a woman about your fears, your secrets, your failures and every embarrassing moment you’ve been through because that’ll give her the ammo to hurt you. Be smart and keep your mouth shut.
There are some women who behave monstrous towards their men, and they wonder why those men cheat or leave. Not every disagreement is a chance to show your ass and hit below the belt. When you take it that far, the relationship will never be the same.
I saw this interview with the Judge & both my Mom & Dad always stressed & instilled these facts in me & my Siblings. Great advice many Black Women need to take heed to.
"My mother told me, she said, "Never hit a man where he's weak. Never. It could be true, it could be real, but you don't hit him where he's weak because it'll turn around on you. You can get him to do what you need him to do, but you never hit a man where he's weak 'cause they never forget it. It lives with them." -Judge Lyne Toller
I will say, out of most of the female Judges she was the most tolerable one when it came to Black Men in my opinion and she spoke plenty of wisdom with not only logic but the spirit of her emotions when it came to her people and her race of men showed. God Bless her soul
Definitely gotta aunty that could learn from this... But she's pushing 50+ I think she's done, and stuck in her ways... Amazing all of those failed relationships she's had she's never saw that common denominator of an attitude and being mouthy was the root... But go ahead women... Do u
I have a Mother, aunties, and cousins that are all the same. Can't keep a man because of their mouths and nothing is ever their fault. I feel sorry for their children.
Women are great at hitting below the belt. They can mess your self esteem up. Especially if you're sensitive like myself. But you gotta love yourself and boost your own self esteem.
My aunt told me you never let a man play hit you. Bc if you let him play hit you and you do nothing. It can get real one day and he will really hit you and think he can get away with it.
Hey sister. That can be the case. Not necessarily. But yeah it can be. Because if u play that too much. Some man(not all) don't know the fine line between play n reality. So perhaps you should be carefull in choosing a partner. Regardless what i say. Humans are complex and could even hit you even without playhitting. The most important part about arelationship is to have protection from family. Like your father or an uncle or anyone who can step in when stuff happens. We arabs when our daughters get hit or abused we dont say divorce. We basically f the man up. And he never does it anymore. Protection is key
A human being is complex. Even without play hit someone may hit u. Protection is key. Your father uncle or cousin should be there for you when stuff like thid happens
@@APG-fu6gk Yes. If you think "this is something I will use against him only when I need to defend myself," then you are already giving yourself permission and looking for a moment where you can tell yourself it's self-defense. Don't even enter that territory in your mind, that's already setting up your relationship to head that direction.
I wish my mom told me things like this growing up. I use to put my husband down a lot. Just to hurt him so he could feel pain like I did. And it always bothered him. He would say words hurt they do stick. And not once did he ever say anything bad about me. It’s something I’m working on . And I don’t plan to belittle him anymore. I do it out of anger some times.
Men shouldnt hit below the belt to women, either. It kills her inside(Ive seen it happen to a friend of mine). I think that why some switch teams at some points in their lives...🤷🏾♀️🤔
@@ShadesOfIvory It's true that both do it, but relational aggression is the wheelhouse of women on the whole. You see this in teenagers; teenage girls tend toward spreading rumors, manipulation, attacking each other's self esteem, whereas boys tend toward direct physical confrontation and trash talk. This carries into adulthood; and while some men do this, women are far more likely to do it, and are far better at it. I'm a schoolteacher, and I see these behaviors in pretty much every classroom all the way from elementary through high school. Teachers are also great at stopping the boys before damage is done, but really rubbish at recognizing what's happening between the girls and stopping it in time.
We stress this for men yet no should hit anyone when they are down especially in our community I’ve seen men and women say harsh and hateful things I’ve seen couples turn confidential thing’s shared with each on one another
Ur right unc men are hurting themselves more often, depression among other mental illnesses has increased significantly with no support but plenty of shame
Judge Lynn Toler has been right always. Not only a male (boy or man) should not attack a female (girl or woman), a girl and woman do not need to attack a boy or a man. We all are created by one Sweet Gracious Great God, with the same blood, different hair, skin colors, even personalities, except the bad ones, and are in this world together. Like hatred, violence does not belong in the home, no matter what it looks like. We cannot change one another: only Sweet Gracious Great God can change a person, and He does it better than everyone else. All we do is love, pray for, and be nice to one another. It works better than exerting unnecessary strength, even with the mouth.
Judge had a really emotionally intelligent mother. These are really good points and work both ways, for Men and Women. I am nearly 57 years old, I do not think, I will be in a relationship, as I have no trust in that part of my life.
I can bet you this majority of men who has been hit in that weak spot emotions have been harden to tje point where they cant take dating or loving a women or anyone serious anymore.
Women are born with that knowledge, why do you think they often do it as a last resort tactic? They ain't gonna change partly because we ain't gonna change.
Women who do that to a man are really weak themselves. They learned this from childhood all the way up to adult hood and this is one of the reasons why some of these women get attacked.
Judge Lynn Toler is absolutely correct I agree 100 percent. You have to know when to speak and when to keep your mouth closed. A relationship without mutual respect is DONE. Please do not hit below the belt.
The moral here is to know: Words have potential to cut like knives, and the wounds from those words have a very low chance of going away because they rest within our long-term memory banks and could cause psychological trauma at the height of tension with life-threatening situations. Watch not just what you say, but HOW you say what you say.
Exactly Judge, it might not happen all the time, but there have been a good amount of cases where things got ugly real fast when women try to cross that line.
Ladies if a man go all out for you, there's a disagreement and he saying how he doing everything and you say,you didn't have too do that ,you chose too do it. You created a monster.
