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I understand this because of someone I know. If she likes something and it brings more and more enjoyment to her, then that’s her fun. She doesn’t or can’t see from the perspective of the person she adores. She wants to see it, touch it, be near it. She doesn’t understand the idea of sacrificing her pleasure to increase someone else’s comfort.
I'm sure you aren't aware, so I will say it for everyone, that this girl came to attend the fan meet and before she and some more fans could talk to their favorites or the rest, the staff told them that the fan meet is over, so they all had to skip over V, Jimin and Suga. It's all a misunderstanding.
@@hee967 I'm not sure if I understood right (because I used google translate), but don't they need to force a fake smile so people won't "cancel" them and ruin their whole career for being a "mean and coldhearted" idol?
@@Ikkie_번역이 잘 못됀거 같아요 저는 아이돌이 참고 손내밀어야 한다 억지로 라도 비열하게 참아야 한다로 번역 됐어요 오해가 있다면 미안해요 제가 한말 뜻은 저렇게 매너 없는 사람들은 팬이 아니라는 것과 아이돌도 저런 팬들에게 당하고만 있지만은 않았으면 좋겠어서요 아이돌의 인권 존중해 주었으면 한다 입니다
I'm loving idols putting these toxic people in their place more and more. Their physical and mental health is way more important than being liked by weirdos.
*Despite the fact that the K-pop idols are famous due to the fans this does not mean that they have to do and behave as the public wants and Fans have no property rights over them and cannot assault them....we must always remember that they are people like all of us and can easily be hurt both mentally and physically and then we're surprised if some idol don't resists and gets it over with(suicide)😭RESPECT THEM❤....MERRY CHRISTMAS to those who celebrate this holiday🌲☃️*
I think that V was so upset by this because Big Hits kept him hidden for a year because they did not want his taken by another record company (which they can do until the debut). Unfortunately, they did not tell V that. So, now that he was out in the open and able to meet fans, for them to rudely pass him by must have been devastating for him.
Better security needed indeed. It doesn’t matter which point at their career they’re; once they start having an active fan base, tight security is needed for the safety of everyone.
Bighit learned the hard way with BTS. Other companies definitely haven't. They also don't have the staff to care for their idols for concerts. The idols care for each other during breaks and such.
It’s like when a fan throws something at you, you just gotta deal with it like some idols got hit with a phone but then they just laugh it out and take a picture using that phone cuz if they get mad or something they would get criticized about it
NGL, this vid of Tae, Jimin and Yoongi getting skipped over really touch my heartstrings. Plus Tae looked like somebody stole his favorite toy. He was upset upset but held it in as much as he could for the sake of work and the other fans who came to see them.. People can be so rude. PS. If any of the BTS members touched my hand, through a handshake or whatever, I'd have my hand framed and preserved. Not literally ofc, but you get my drift.
I believe what the original video got wrong was calling a lot of the sasaengs and paparazzi “fans.” Many of them go out of their way to take pictures because they sell the prints for money. They are not fans, they are opportunists.
Most of these aren't paparazzi but fan accounts that sell photos and personal information of idols. They're also the same ones that stalk idols' homes, send crap to their houses, etc. They're literally stalkers and they're dangerous, not just to the idols, but to anyone caught in their path when they stampede like cattle.
One of the most craziest story I heard was when a anti-fan of TVXQ Yunho strait up poisoned his orange juice. This is why companies stopped the giving food as gifts
Reminds me when Army found out that Suga, Taehyung, Jimin, RM and Jungkook smoke. All the hate that was posted online was crazy. They are grown adults pushing 30 and you can believe they know how bad it is and that it will eventually ruin their voices or ability to dance hard. However, With all the stress they are under, pretty sure I would either b chain smoking or an alcoholic
Are you sure about the smoking part? Cuz I only know taehyung vapes. I’m pretty sure the others don’t though, I’ve checked a lot of articles and all I could find was Jungkook Taehyung which I haven’t even seen those confirmed. It’s hard to believe they smoke at all since they love their dance and singing so much I don’t think they’d ruin it. I’m just curious where you got this information since to me it doesn’t seem factual.
All of these make me feel bad for these performers BUT Every time I see that clip of V it makes me cry, the other part where he tries to joke with the fan and she pushed his hand away. OMG! It makes me so mad!
Same goes for 03:18 - it’s these crazed sasaeng type “fans” that feel the need to snap “first class pictures” of their faves, and other people’s faves!! They go to great lengths to get to take close ups, ie pics of their own, that they actually own...so they can sell or whatever else!! Scary stuff the way they are willing to fight each other, just cause they felt that one image they wanted was ruined by someone else!! 😬
This one was really hard to watch. What's wrong with people? At what moment do you think doing these things is okay? I just hope the love and respect they receive and see is greater than all of this sh*t.
@@kristie9144 yes like even if you're uncomfortable instead of throwing his hand you can say it politely, and he wasn't even holding her hand he was just asking her to sing in the mic just for fun like he was singing
@@rapperthv In siminvest fan meeting people were crying just bc they got to see KIM TAEHYUNG. They were crying while sitting in ground. TAEHYUNG is a gentleman and so genuine person, how can anyone hate him ??? If they hate him then it's the person who is blind by hate
I would love to have the chance to go to a fansign. I cannot believe the rudeness of some of these "fans". I know V was the hidden member of BTS so in the early days he was skipped a lot because no one had a chance to get to know him first. Bet they are kicking themselves now. At the Airport one the person in red looks like Jimin to me and I have seen somewhere that he said he was severely anxious out in public, I know there is a video of him in Japan going to Apple store and he was swarmed and when he got in the car he was visibily shaken and J-hope had been worried for him because he knows he gets anxious in public. Jimin has also received a lot of unalive threats against him. It breaks my heart to see them scared and disrespected, especially since they do give so much to their fans. Fans should be respectful of their personal space. What do these people hope to gain? There are some seriously disturbed people out there.
7:49 during the fan signs, some fans skipped over Suga, Jimin, and V and yes V was upset because he was skipped over multiple times. When Jin noticed it later, he tried to make V smile. If fans go to fan signings, they are seeing a whole group so be respectful 10:05 before they had security guards, fans go wild and try to tackle them 😮 The near kidnapping of the idols is so scary! There should be people around the stage entrances and backstage to filter out who belongs there. It shocks me so much how crazy these so called fans are. Plus that poor boy, Sam, in a middle of an interview and almost got pushed away by rushing fans chasing after another group.
This is new to me in the sense that everyone says Koreans are very respectful towards each other bcuz of age & status but obviously not. It's really sad & disturbing what they go through. Specially now I think the Airport arrivals are getting dangerous bcuz I don't think they are fans there paparazzi going after content only. Security & Staff have to step up & find a better safer way to protect all of them. I like your reaction when Tae got disrespected (mean girl push Tae hand away), you had to pause & breathe you couldn't believe it🤬 You just want to go hug him & protect him when he, Jimin & Suga got ignored. Tae has always said to love all 7 members the same bcuz he knows it hurts. Everyone deserves respect & to feel safe.
I once was told that even if a fan does love an idol, the idols may over time forget the good things fans did, but the bad things fans do will have a bigger sometimes life effect and they will remember whomever hurt them
I love you so much v and I miss you💜💜💜 how you reacted I would react to because if I was able to touch v’s hand I would never wash my hand would put it too my heart💕💕💕 that stupid ungrateful girl 😒 This video really made me cry and get mad and these people who are called “fans” and how they react is just inhuman and they are heartless people. Just because someone is famous does not mean they are not human and you can disrespect them. Although now it’s gotten better and different.
Só digo uma coisa, se eu tivesse a sorte na vida de ir em um fanmeentig do BTS e presenciasse a cena dessa garota com o V, eu esperava ela na saída 😠 Com meu menino ninguém mexe!
It happens at Western Conventions too. At a Walking Dead fan photo op, a female fan BIT Norman Reedus on his chest! Luckily it didn't break the skin. She was thrown out and banned from future events.
This is one of the reasons why I feel so much respect for celebrities. They have to deal with bulls**t like this because if their so called 'fans'. People are always like "i want to be a celebrity" now all im thinking when they say this is "can they deal with the disrespect and they hate that they might/will get frim people who claim to support them
It's not just the paparazzi that have big expensive cameras with telephoto lenses. There are many Fan Groups that have one and they will send someone to these arrival and departures and to shows to take photos. Also, some saesangs are known to have expensive cameras because they sell the photos they take.
The audacity the wanna be picked, getting an opportunity to meet v in person and pushing his hand away , I think she wanted to say she pushed away the famous v's hand that everyone wants to touch 🙄
Ben, Christmas should be a time of good feeling, but you brought this video and it making me angry af, for real... I really hate rude & uneducated people
This is why I don’t blame security when they push them. They are obviously getting too close and they don’t care. They just want to post on Facebook and instagram to show off they have a picture
Some fans don’t know how good they have it with all the face to face fan meets and things they get over in Korea and Japan, most international fans would love to get those types of opportunities. The airport mobs make me up set the most. I don’t understand y they let all those people inside airports in the first place. If they want pictures stand outside and take them as they line up to wait for the cross light to change like they always do, then let the artists enter the airports alone. U don’t need 5000 pictures of the same things. Inside Airports should be for people that have REAL business there, NOT photo/stalking people.
its sad how these people treat idols really badly when they get an opportunity to meet them but the real fans who would never do these kind of stuff to them cant afford to see them. they're really wasting their money to go to fansigns, concerts, just to badmouth and skip other members
I don't understand why some people can't treat famous people like every other human being if you wouldn't do something to someone non-famous don't do it to someone famous.... We are all human famous or not...
Rudeness should not be permitted at fan meets, if you are rude, dismissive or aggressive to one you should be removed from the queue and put out. These need to be part of the agreement and followed through. People see one person doing wrong and when they don’t get reprimanded or punished others think it’s fine to do and after that it gets worse and out of hand. Like at the airport there is no security stopping them from getting under those stupidly pointless blue ribbons, once one comes under its open slather. Ridiculously dangerous. Solid barriers need to be in place so they can’t get their grubby little hands on them.
I despise these types of fans, but especially even more so as an international fan that doesnt get those types of opportunities to meet and greet my idols and show them love and appreciation.
I will think hundreds times before speaking with an idol on a fan sign or event cause I don't know if I will get to dee them again and I shouldn't end it with them being offended what is wrong with people?!?!
This video is so upsetting. Who do these people think they are to treat other people like this? They claim to be "fans"? Famous or not, no one deserves this kind of treatment. Infuriating 🤬
Kudos to these idols, i would get cancelled the first day i became an idol. Idols are also humans, if only their agencies will allow them to stand up for themselves. And not let these people step over their self respect
To Be honest there are soo many groups that go thru this...to me its scary asf cuz u dont see enough security for our beloved idols..ik Stray Kids go thru hell and back everytime..with death theeats...and let me not even get started on Idols at the airport...like why mob them...ins dont get why the airports allows this shit!!!🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Those "people" who pass by members of a group in the fan signings are beyond braindead. 20 yrs after that event they will be showing friends/family the autograghs. When they admit that they just passed those members up,they will be the laughing stock. Not to mention that yrs down the line,those autographs will be worth some money. But only with all the members.
03:00. that does not seem to be a paparazzi...that looks more like a sasaeng fan that has enough cash to be able to purchase a camera with a quality camera lens!! Paparazzi would act more respectful in this setting, as it is outside a recording studio...they’d probably stay at the area designated for press/photographers!! Not run after the members as they’re entering the building!! Cringey deluxxe...
People have been known to harm idols by pushing, pulling on them, touching them, sneaking into hotel rooms, stealing clothes, kidnapping, and poisoning, as well as causing car collisions and sending death threats. So many times we have had people put razor blades , blood and hair into fan mail or even cameras into gifts and hit idols, which led to there being a ban on idols excepting gifts from fans.
"Fan" culture i Asia is f**ked up... People treat idols like their property, say and do whatever they want to and nobody does anything with that. Security often fails, band members stay shut just doing nothing and companies are scared of loosing "fans" money so they alow all of this to happen. I just couldn't be like that! "Don't say anything, shut your mouth" No! You shout you mouth and go away if you have a problem! Can you imagine western celebrities being so humiliated and disrespected all the time? We saw many times that they can and do protect themself from toxic "fans".
Idk how old the video you chose is, and it is a great video btw, but as a Stay the recent Felix fan calls have made my blood boil.. i don’t know if you’ve heard much of it but basically a girl made Felix act like a cat (HE WAS CRYING) and said Hyunjin ‘stole’ her away from Felix and other mean comments
Also the one where the girl told Felix that she was his dessert for after he finished eating his meal. SO DISRESPECTFUL!!!! I would love five minutes alone with this b_ _ch that made our sunshine cry.
Honestly I have so much respect for the idols that go through this and still not throw hands bc I would’ve thrown hands and jumped them fr fr, they are idols not objects
I genuinely don’t get fans who pay thousands or however much a concert is just to throw items at their ‘idols’ like what? Do they not think that they could harm them or something?
Those people taking pictures are not paparazzi. They're sasaengs posting pictures on fansites and social media and selling those pics as well as personal information such as their flights, schedules, and locations. TVXQ has the worse record of sasaeng incidents including slaps, car chases and being followed by sasaengs in taxis 24/7, drinks with super glue in them, fingers closed in car windows, stalking outside their hotels, homes and whatever building they were in, sasaengs working at phone companies so they can monitor the members phones and call or text to harass and threaten the women on their contact lists, breaking into hotel rooms and stealing personal items or leaving used feminine personal items. Their sasaengs were notorious in the industry.
even bodyguard's can't do anything this days ....i don't know why not the other fans kick the s hit out of this rude people are they all in this rude s hit
The clips where fans grabed idols on stage are crazy like wtf the same thing in air port videos its just awful. One of the more recent videos of WayV the Chinese subunit of NCT at the air port they got mobbed by the fans and even their manager got assaulted because someone confused the manager for one of the members Xiaojun.
Man I want companies to ban the fansign like how far and how much audacity this rude ass called "fans" have it like the idols just wants to interact and have great time with their fans but this fans who had an opportunity they're behaviors it's just trash and so dangerous for the idols. I feel so sad for the all kpop idols to even this days have to go through this. All the companies they should strict the rules about fansign even the live videocalls with idols.
Some fans are deranged, mean spirited and beyond delulu...harrasment,stalking,throwing things, i saw a post about a weirdo with a very disturbing sign at exo concert.....i literally coiled ...etc