Kandi Slammed for Courtney's Comments on Drew Sidora's Sister Mental Health + Ty Young Shades Ralph? 

I agree I hate that for her. Now Ralph is also feeding into that. This is some obvious jealousy going on with the husband and among the cast. Just because she is a talented actress, doesn’t mean she is always acting. She is beautiful and her spirit she shines bright!

It's so true. Kandi has Convert narcissistic ways. People that've been on the show, like nene and Portia who made her take accountability, she doesn't, like

Don’t she? Def don’t sound like a cousin to me at all

Totally agree

I got that vibe all season

Yes yes

What cousin compared herself to a cousin's wife 😅😂😂😂

Exactly, I like Kandi but she knows she would go off of the tables were turned

Exactly 💯. Kandi is that kind of snake!!!

Yeap she is a big hypocrite and low down dirty

Exactly

Girlllll !

Sad but true

Yes I totally agree 🤡

As is Ralph the Head of Lettuce 😅

She is but TOAD, KANDI's husband tried to holla at Courtney, but COURTNEY did not want TOAD, color struct, I say preference, this is why KANDI did not like COURTNEY at first, COURTNEY and RALPH are really not related!!! Drew's sister did not have any business getting into it with bobble head Courtney!!!

IAGREE 100% KANDI DOES THAY ALL TIME EVEN ON HOUSEVWIVES....KANDI SHADY AND 2. FACES SHE NOT GOOD ONE

That fight with her and Kandi was highly produced and fake. They have hella mutual friends. Yall take this show way too deep including kempire

Point taken. It seems like it’s a way to have her hands clean so that the mess doesn’t affect her $

@@phillysfinest215 THAT PART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Exactly

I totally agree, I'm feeling so different towards her now & I was a hug fan of Kandi lke I ws for Porsha. Porsha lost me as a fan & Kandi disappointing me as well

@@Sexy2dfullest Drew’s sister was collateral damage in Kandi’s get back. She’s human and as such is prone to make mistakes. However, her behavior showed her lack of humanity.

Yes... not everyone is as open as Kandi and I think that Kandi needs to realize and respect that.....

The reality is Drew does not always tell the truth. She should have not called Kandi a liar. Kandi is clearly allowed to clear her name.

@@ebonygrant4289 That’s true she isn’t always truthful. However the punishment doesn’t fit the crime.

Thank you! She absolutely deserves every bit of it. Even the reunion looks hateful.

Kandi was talking about how Drew described Allison. Courtney said the ridiculous stuff. Kandi didn’t say anything wrong. Y’all just love to hate Kandi.

@@corky_mcfuck I'm actually a Kandi fan but she literally said it doesn't look like there's nothing wrong with her almost to only that they are lying about mental illness or that it needs to look a certain way. It was ignorant AF and I'm disappointed as a fan that she went that low and for what to kick someone already struggling. Kandi is way above Drew's weight class it was excessive and unnecessary.

Kandi is a snake and messy.

Y’all acting like she said something rude towards drew sister y’all are so dramatic

Her fans never want to admit that

@@alwyzbeenshayla I’m a fan and I’m admitting that this was not a good look AT ALL. She’s using others to say what she really wants to say and there is NOTHING cool about that.

@@tishawnmitchell8098 I appreciate you for being real about it! I started to like her this season until this. It’s just too much.

Teaaaaaaaaaaaa!

​@@alwyzbeenshaylaEVAAAAA😂

💯 she is a snake 🐍

I believe it

Everything everybody was saying about candy they were right

And she will literally explode about it.

Snake

Facts

That part!!!!!!!!!!

🦊 in 🐏 clothing.

In the words of Nene Leakes…”Ya can’t win by being dirty”. Never liked Kandi she is a nasty messy POS. The way ppl keep placing the blame on Courtney is absurd, Kandi has this show to do exactly what we saw 😒.

….a baby Mama Joyce, “I just don’t understand with a little bit of oh what did I do.”😂

True,i also want to know 👀

It wasn’t that deep. She was right she didn’t want to trigger someone with a mental illness. What’s the problem? Now the stuff she said on the hot mic was terrible.

Damn! I think she is being held accountable!!! Have you seen all social media platforms🤔

Y’all want to blame everything on Kandi!

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 a whole book! Shame

LIKE Drew lies and lies

That whole part 👏

Facts 😮

Yess Huntea I LIVE for the Hot Mic 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 😂😂

I was here for it ...I had to watch two more times to see what's the big issue....I saw none, guess I have a mean streak as well. Drew's sister is a marketing manager, believe she's working this opportunity to being on TV, not only for herself but to make Drew more relevant than she is on the show. Because if Drew stays paid her sister will also benefit financially....trust and believe that. EVERYONE is looking to come up when they have nothing burning in the fire. 😉☺️

She really didn't,.lke was it jst 2 bash Drew. D grl was just n yr movie & u wnt 2 do all dis bcuz she said u lying abt a kiss. 2 FCKN PETTY KANDI!!!! I thought u ws better dan dat

@@jfinner86 that’s disgusting

I agree!! WHY

Nobody deserves anything y’all be dramatic she ain’t say shit rude towards that girl

Kandi is the biggest snake their is.

Im with you on that i refuse to watch courtneys episode

​@@ingridsk1359facts

Well she said she extended the invitation to all the cast members

Just wondering, what was such a big deal about Courtney that you refused to watch her interview b4 any controversy? I'm not a fan of hers but in terms of the concept of speak on it, it made sense to have her on no?

Mental health is real it's not a joke...

We are all wondering that same thing.

I’m wondering …

Speak on it!😂

Dude is a DOGG🗑️

😂😂😂

Kandi is always cracking inappropriate jokes. About people failed marriages, She thought it was funny when the cookie lady showed up, She thought it was funny that her mother called Todd's dad, a pimp and his mother a prostitute. The only time it's not funny is when the rumor is about her. Which is why stiff I stand by what I said... She deserved it karma.

So now Kandi is responsible for a grown ass woman actions? Please!!!

​@@foulany7774exactly

@@foulany7774 Well, if she thought some rumor that we never even heard said by Phaedra technically would ruin her image. Wait till she sees what this does. People are very serious about mental health.

It was teeny tiny bit more than just a rumor. It was career ending defamatory statements. A little more than light shade and gossip.

I don’t necessarily dislike Kandi but, I have been known to FF through her scenes. Her being a *teachers pet* reminds me of Theresa. Soft edits, spin-offs, lacking accountability and no one can say anything in opposition to them or it’s risking their housewives standing.

I like what you said except the I like Kandi. I’ve never liked Kandi. She always been a snake

@@Natalia-hf3etwtf r u talking about? Both women, especially teresa is constantly trashed by the other women. Gorga is more of a teachers pet. No story for years yet still on the show

@@kirstenrox234 I am FUCKING talking about them both feeling like a teachers pet. If you don’t agree, fine. 👍🏾

That's what she always does. Instead of saying no you should stop she just smiles and make faces like that guy who kissed the girl whilst kandi was sat next to her

He said that in beginning..just for the record

WTH??! I thought they were related, even if 3rd or 4th cousins. Related to his best friend? Now, I understand why some people are saying she is moving like a side chick.

Figured 😂 she is a joke

@@Natalia-hf3et she is definitely moving like a side chick

@@Sexy2dfullest 👏🏽👏🏽

Thank you! That's exactly how I feel.

True!

Kandi is a sick puppy!! She’s a passive aggressive person, she’s never a friend to no one but that husband that she gives a pass the get with other woman, while she kandi gets with plenty women, that’s why she keeps entertaining the dungeon, the dungeon is place where all the weird ones get a pass to screw everyone

Facts

And Drew is hers? 😂😂😂

Kandi not a friend to anyone

YES. Drew has defended Kandi against Marlo all season@@zeligwilson

@@valeriewright5582nobody,and her and Todd wit on a show and said it,lol Todd always bringing up her money,the shade..thts y Todd,we knw..

Amen

It's Todd's movie so let's still support, no shade to Kandi.

​@@hikmahking5351Nope. They're a team.

@@zammymynakersnackstbmoth I know they're a team, but even Kandi refers to it as Todd's movie. She contributed and they do a lot together but the movie is Todd's baby.

Yep and its her prerogative 🤷🏽‍♀️

I don't get why people drink the Kandi Coated 🐂💩. Kandi is as fake as $2 bill. 🤦🏾‍♀️😡🙄🤷🏾‍♀️

Exactly!! Like how u gonna have the same girl on ur show that was coming for you in the first episode 🤦🏾‍♀️

@@neeciiw7840 This is one!

​@@neeciiw7840 # Ratings , ratings , ratings!! They don't care how or why 😅.

Don’t forget when she went to Phaedra’s doctor’s appointment and ran back to tell women she didn’t know what the doctor said about Phaedra’s due date? Phaedra lied but it wasn’t their business and Phaedra was supposed to be her good friend.

I'm actually a fan of Kandi but I been having to give her the side eye lately

It's her platform. Don't watch if you're not interested in the guest. It really is that simple. Stop trying yo police others.

You fans take this shit too damn seriously 🙄

She also outted Phaedra and told the ladies that she was already talking to somebody while going through the divorce, this was wayyy before the rape scandal....If we are friends you don't spill secrets and everything I told you on mad day, she's never accountable for what she does to others, it's not cool. She did so much to Phaedra that was overshadowed by that dungeon/rape scandal, which was wrong on Phaedra and Porsha's part.

If you remember Kandi said when someone goes low with her she will go lower

She been a snake..she didn’t play wit nene like tht..she knws who too do it to

I was surprised when she had Courtney on there as well. Especially since Kenya had issues with her. But maybe she thought it was ok considering Kenya went on to do that recent interview.

😂😂😂 Kandi did cause she is good for a bag lmao wtff I'm sure it made sense to her and was very beneficial to her and the show ...obviously 😂😂

Did what to her?

Folk talks about Kandi bad all the time!!!! Kandi making moves Chile she don’t have time for pettiness!! That’s why God keep blessing her!! Kandi is always wanting to take care of people not hurt them !!! Drew was disrespectful towards both Kandi/Todd after given a great opportunity!! Kandi is very forgiving but we all have to do better!!

booooooooooooooooooo

@@lirrajae12 these are just facts. Lol

This the kinda thing that leads to karma

@@LiveAndLetLivia They are facts i cannot deny ...

@@LiveAndLetLivia correction- its a perspective.

Exactly, Latoya said in the beginning that they never kissed until she and drew were going at each other then suddenly they did kiss.

And why does Kandi care so much about that she should have left it like that,the fact that she told everyone about Toys when Drew said she has never kissed a girl,Kandi is nasty just like Mama joyce

She's a liar because Kandi, Marlo, Kenya, Porsha and Shamea saw them kiss. Plus at the reunion she admitted she kissed a girl before..it wasn't a big deal until she called Kandi a liar..Marlo and Sanya brought it up in Portugal but she isn't calling the other ladies liars who admitted they saw it as well.

Agreed. Latoya did say that on bravo after the show. Kandi will show receipt from the speak on it. But not the Bravo interview. Cynthia stated that she did not see anything, but turn around on speak on it that she saw Drew kiss Latoya... I like Kandi and things that she put out. However, her speak on it for this season was sub par. It was based on bashing people...

They have all been nasty and vindictive.

Yes!

This is who Kandi is.

I agree!!!!!

I was 2 mins in & gt annoyed

rite,always..snake ..as soon as those weak speak on it came out,it showed,everybody she had beef wit she would invite they beef on the show

Yep...and nobody EVER calls her out on her bullsh*t!

yes... I noticed that also...

I don’t like Kandi but I wouldn’t wanna go either lol who wanna sit at the hospital all day

What about how she treated kandi in the beginning? What are you even talking about

Nobody cares about Kenya... Hell she's just getting her karma

Thank you. I agree with you. Courtney is a grown azz woman with no self-respect for others.

Immediatedly and take Marlo, Sheree, Sanya with her! 😂

How she a crisis manager and she is always causing a crisis for herself with the inappropriate comments??? The adoption statements along with the mental health and capping for Ralph crazy ass were all in poor taste. I was trying to give her a chance because I thought she was a smart cookie instead she turned out to be a ding bag. Bravo disappoints again.

This is one of the best examples of Alliteration I've seen in a while😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾

U got dat right!!!

​@SSSS-wq4vn she really didn't though. Fans are just selective and want a problem with Courtney. She never said anything bad about Drew's sister mental illness. She only said she felt she was being exploited for a storyline for Drew and that they be having her drinking, which isn't healthy if she has mental issues. Kandi is who said she didn't believe it and asked Drew about it.

EXACTLY

Snake to the fullest

So on point 👉 but karma has its own mind Kandi should be ashamed for that

Twisted mouth…😂🤣😂 It looks like she’s had some Botox or something to even that bih out! 🤷🏽‍♀️😂

Not twisted mouth🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂😂I couldn’t put my finger on it😂😂

Evil genius is a perfect way to describe her

THIS!!!

Nah, it’s not that. She really is doing to much because she’s pissed at Drew for calling her a liar. If I were Kandi I would not be going this hard. Kandi was sitting kiki-ing along with Courtney about some nasty stuff.

Actually it’s proven what Kandi been all along manipulative and throw brick and hide bitch! She only using Courtney cause she has issues with Drew cause when Courtney first came Kandi had nothing for her now they Kiki-ing! Lmaooo y’all Kandi fans delusional like a beyonce fans

An evil genius is correct referring to Kandi. She doesn't see it for Courtney and now Drew cause she called her a liar and constantly talked shit about Kandi to other people. Kill 2 birds with 1 stone. Kandi has gotten tired of people dogging her and lying on her so she fighting back.

And Kandi is to be blamed for putting out. She clearly didn’t think it was that out of pocket 😖

@@shesosweet2781 I hear you, because this was recorded on 9th August and she could have taken that out before airing it. So on reflection I agree with you.

Season 15 showed her lack of interest.

@@K-ku6hf yep and the feeling is mutual

She needed to go like 5 seasons ago... but she ain't going nowhere....

Truuuuuueeeeeeeee

Payback over a damn kiss? Because somebody said she lied? I’d rather be called a liar than to NOW BE LOOKED AT AS spiteful and nasty …because it was definitely spiteful, nasty, and distasteful on Kandi’s part to even do this or let it air. It was at this moment that we have seen her true colors for a second time. Do we not remember how she and Todd hid Apollo’s stuff in the garage, and she didn’t tell Fakedra? First time her true colors were shown. Now this? Yeah, she looks bad for this, especially with Drew going through a divorce and with the passing of her dad. This video was taped on August 9, which means Kandi, Kourtney, and Jamie had time to really review the video before posting it to the public. It just looks really bad on Kandi’s part since it’s her show and she allows it. I don’t understand why this fanbase refuse to hold Kandi accountable when she’s wrong or boring or whatever in any instance. In this instance, she was wrong.

Every time Kandi does something…you always make sure to mention the part the other person played in the situation, but never Kandi. You think she cares for Courtney THAT deep, to re-edit a whole interview, to paint her in a better light? 🤔 No. She did it for herself, because she also made ignorant comments on her platform in that very conversation 🤦🏽‍♀️

Thank you

It’s about promotion for Kandi not beef. Exactly.

Whatever someone saids is not Kandi fault period! It’s not like she is coaching anyone to talk bad about others !! Kandi has a lot of people on speak on it so what’s the problem…..???

I agree

Exactly smh

This! She should’ve edited out Courtney’s mental health comments first and/or shut it down during filming. I think Kandi lacks empathy at times. However, I refuse to paint her as a villain when Drew is not a complete victim. Drew’s marital issues didn’t stop her from lying on Kandi.

Exactly, I have no empathy for either ...and this Speak on it was an eye opener for me.... Drew is definitely a Work of art, I can see her dragging things on to twist a narrative to fit to make her appear a victim in all situations, also placing her sister in a position to do the same....they all are trying to benefit from this opportunity of being on television, yet some want to feel for their personal issues and if that's what some want to do that's fine but give grace to the one's who choose not to go along with the okey-doke....and that would be Cortney and Kandi. No one has to agree, only agree to disagree.... Drew, Ralph and Drew's marketing Managing Sister are most entertaining. I'm sure she's guiding Drew to developing her Story line for next Season....😂

What reciepts do we have thus far that drew is a liar

Her sister tried to tell her but she chose him over her family thats drew problem 😮

And, they compete with each other it’s a game of love/hate, with much more hate. Drew was beaming when the expose article came out when she was doing the interview. I think Drew actually leaked that.

@@ayothomas7279 The episodes on the show..

🎯

You're a psychiatrist?

so very true....

Amen! Well said and we'll received! Bullseye 🎯

@@rudolphmcneill515 Below are 10 signs of a vindictive narcissist: 1. They’re Easily Offended Research suggests that narcissistic rage and vindictiveness are commonly exhibited when a narcissist takes offense to something that someone did or said. Because narcissists often think only of themselves, they tend to take things personally and get offended in situations most people wouldn’t be bothered by. The more sensitive a narcissist is to criticism, the more likely it is they’ll become mean, vengeful, and vindictive. 2. They Hold Grudges & Harbor Resentment Vindictive narcissists are known to have a hard time letting go of anger and resentment, and may hold grudges against people for things that happened long ago. It’s almost as if they’re mentally ‘keeping score’ of every slight, critical remark, or joke made at their expense. They may blow up in the moment and still harbor resentment. Other times, they appear aloof or unbothered while inwardly plotting their revenge. 3. They Are Usually Angry or Upset With Someone It’s not unusual for a vindictive narcissist to be angry or upset with someone. They may even share their frustrations with others and rehash the reasons why they are irate. If you’re dealing with a vindictive narcissist, there’s a good chance that they are always mad at someone, as vindictive behavior is mainly driven by anger.1 Partners of vindictive narcissists often feel like they can’t do anything right, are constantly being criticized, and that their partner is continually upset with them. 4. They Blame Everything on Someone Else A refusal to accept accountability is a telltale sign of narcissism, but may be more prevalent in narcissists with a vindictive streak.Projecting blame onto someone else (even if they’re innocent) serves many purposes for a vindictive narcissist. One is that it allows them to dodge personal responsibility for anything they may have done wrong, further protecting their egos. Painting someone else as the ‘bad guy’ provides an excuse to target and retaliate against the person. 5. They Don’t Know How to Work Through Conflict Poor emotion regulation and impulse control are at the core of NPD, making it difficult for them to remain calm enough to ‘fight fair.’ Immature defenses, fits of rage, and vindictive acts are most obvious during conflicts and disagreements.Because vindictive narcissists are easily upset and unable to express themselves peacefully, they tend to either explode, storm off, or shut down during conflict. This also means that most of their disputes are unresolved, which may partly explain why they hold grudges and plot ways to get revenge. 6. They Have a ‘Get Even’ Mentality Vindictive narcissists have a ‘get even’ mentality and keep score of when someone has upset or offended them, often with a long list of names attached. Being unable to regulate emotions, take responsibility, resolve conflicts, or find empathy and forgiveness for others means getting even is the only way to let go and move on. 7. They Weaponize Information When people make the mistake of sharing their secrets, insecurities, and sensitive ‘intel’ with a vindictive narcissist, they usually end up regretting it. After collecting this information through charm, manipulation tactics, or other dishonest means, a vindictive narcissist commonly weaponizes this information. They may use it to blackmail, control, or threaten someone; or they may use it in a narcissistic smear campaign designed to ruin someone’s career, life, or reputation. 8. They Belittle Others to Feel Bigger Vindictiveness is sometimes believed to be an indication of severe narcissism, especially because it’s closely tied to antisocial and abusive behavior. One way this may be exhibited in daily interactions is belittlement. A vindictive narcissist will often put people down, give back-handed compliments, make cruel remarks, or say and do things to make others feel small (especially when they’re feeling small themselves). 9. They Have a Mean & Sadistic Side The more severe a person’s NPD is, the more likely it is that they’ll behave in ways that are cruel, dishonest, and even abusive. These antisocial tendencies can show up as a lack of empathy, callousness, or cruelty.The most psychopathic narcissists may even enjoy causing pain and suffering. These sadistic tendencies can be a sign that someone has both antisocial and narcissistic personality disorder (called malignant narcissism). This is also known as ‘Schadenfreude,’ a German term referring to the pleasure of hurting others. 10. They Use, Abuse & Then Discard People Extreme narcissists are unable to form close, healthy, and lasting relationships with other people.They usually view relationships in a transactional way, strategically trying to charm and con their way into the inner circles of people who have things they want. This could be fortune, fame, power, status, or valuable skills or personality traits that can be exploited. Once they’ve acquired their target or found a new and ‘better’ alternative, vindictive narcissists quickly end the relationship and move on to their next victim.

Exactly!

If that is the case, then don’t edit the video AFTER backlash!! Stand by your original post

True......disappointed wth Kandi...100 percent. Lost respect for such action.

@jhatchett7101 I agree, and normally she doesn't, but we have to remember you have to follow RU-vid guidelines. Also, in the politically correct culture that's been created, it doesn't leave a lot of room for people to say things that are too offensive. If you don't want your video to get taken down or demonetized, it's best just to make the edit and then address it.

That part. Courtney is a grown woman and has not hid her opinion on Drew even prior to Speak on It.

What’s interesting about a side piece disparaging the main’s sister’s mental health? This brand of “interesting” is how we end up with the Marlos of the world and shoddy production thinking vile = ratings

@Kempire 🐘 is one of the BEST RU-vid Channels! Especially if you want the facts.

​@@Gods1andonly👍🏼😊👑🐘💯

@@pinkfoxycake 👍

Kandi yams ain’t innocent either

I agree with you

@@FalconsGirl1so could you explain because I’m really confused as to why ppl are mad at Kandi

Doesn't matter. She knew the mess, and it's her platform, so she accountable

Kandi was one of my favs but deciding to have Corny on her platform was not a good decision. Kandi laughed with Corny while she was making those disgusting comments on mental health and her “cousin’s” divorce. Ralph has been feeding Corny info. and Corny should have been neutral and stayed out of it.

I think they’re mad she didn’t check her.

If I know a person likes to open their mouth for the sake of opening it,then I'm gonna use that person and say things that I know for sure that person is gonna say more and say nasty things

No Kandi is wrong as well because she said she asked Drew if the sister really have mental illness? Like wtf, Kandi mental health doesnt have a particular look

No she can't be a capricorn. We ain't like that

@@aminarassoul 💯

Capricorns don't act like that.

Isn't that what y'all wanted? 😂

She’s desperate to save her peach.

Always messy and the season was horrible

She’s always messy production just wants her off the show so they’re showing it now

It was ugly

My thing is, does she even know if Allison is on medication for her mental health??? And also let's not act like Courtney actually cares about Allison's mental wellbeing. It was to be shady and use it against her and by extension Drew.

BTW I wholeheartedly agree with your comment, I'm just adding my 2 cents.

We don’t know if she’s on meds and every med doesn’t prohibit you from drinking.

@@alwyzbeenshayla WE don’t know Courtney might know.Not even the whole speech was aired… Meds or not drinking is not healthy for the brain so if you have issue it might be a good idea to drink.

This !!!!

❤❤❤ real shit she secretly likes Ralph