She couldn’t wait at least a year .. she moved in with Jr two months after her break up of 5 years .. come on broh what where you expecting she still misses the x
It’s difficult to leave an abusive relationship because you love that person more than yourself. The day you flip that, and love yourself more, that will be the day your life will change ❤
That's true bcuz I'm going thru the same thing and it hurts bcuz now I feel stupid and dumb for choosing him over our own family and now I feel all alone with my 3 girls and feel more like a different person and lonely I'm hoping I'll have or I'll find a way back to my family I feel embarrassed bcuz they warned me how he was going to be but yet still I chose him I've been with him for like 6 years those whole 6 years went thru a very toxic relationship
And it hurts me going thru all that and my girls seeing that stuff happening i never wanted my girls to grow up seeing their parents argue bcuz i went thru that when i was little and i always told myself that i wouldnt let my kids see it happening
Literally I was thinking the same,she Hella was just going through it but never went crazy on social media,so it genuinely feels like she went through some shit we couldn't imagine
Do you know where I can find where he's speaking about her? People are saying he dragged her name first but I can't find videos of his side. I'm just curious.
You can see her glow leaving that relationship. He was stressing her and that mom too! Wishing her the best! She’s deserves better!!🙏🏾 I’m be tu happy she was given the platform to speak the truth.
@@Sashaxoxox yupppp! And not to generalize, but my ex is also Latino and in his family there were definitely so many stigmas still about sexuality… like his family on both sides is super conservative/traditionally minded, like believes men should be straight and all that machismo stuff, so I think knowing he could never outwardly be himself authentically could have also fueled his hatred towards women.. same thing with Junior. Also it’s evident his mom has internalized misogyny and it just gets passed down
When she spoke about it before this alot of people said she was lying. So quick to judge her bc he started to cry and say she did him wrong. You can hear it in her voice. Im glad they broke up , she deserves better . No one male or female should stay in an abusive relationship no matter how long they been together or how many kids they have!!! Verbal & physical abuse is NOT OKAY
Yall are fast to say as to why she didn't speak up or something, but if you all haven't been in that situation you guys can't speak it happens more common then you think just cuz they are in social media doesn't mean its that easy
Its hard to leave and no one will understand till they live it took me 4 years and no one knew I would hide the bruises didn’t speak up till I knew I was done because I didn’t want people to know and then be like why you still there when I knew I wasn’t ready to leave
Why is everyone hating on Karla it’s literally so obvious that junior did not treat her right, junior just did never deserved her and that how junior treated her family
No fr ikno they made skits but he was a little bit more comfortable in those skits the way he would talk to her like it was cringe how he’d belittled her
Oh my God, victim mentality for females when they cheat on their man, "I'm a victim! My boyfriend abused me! Help me save me!", why does Junior gotta be the one having his name dragged in the mud, when it's all Karlas fault dressing like a hoe going to bad bunny shows and getting other guy's attention.
She’s lying , she’s so dramatic and she ain’t break down not once . I don’t believe none of that. But then again we all are just assuming from what we see. So yeah…
I do believe her!!!! you can tell in her face she is telling the truth so many woman go through stuff like these & they stay quiet because so many reasons so don’t judge her or other woman because you don’t know what they are going through! I love this episode thanks Karla for sharing your story God bless you better times are coming!!❤🙏🏻✨ & thanks Alan for having this platform love you🫶🏼.
Awe I can hear in Karla’s voice that she’s really hurt and still sad. 😔 I’m so glad she left Junior cause she did not deserve that abusive relationship, I’m so happy she’s doing her tho she’s glowing 🩷 I love you Karla
this literally makes me cry as i watch this i defiantly feel for her... she is such a beautiful and strong human being and she deservers the world I'm so sorry this happened to you... i hope the rest of your life is full of joy and happiness because you didn't deserve none of this... i pray god heals you from this trauma cause i can defiantly hear your voice trembling...🥺❤🙏🏼
Who's here after Panchos video? 😮 Karla, hunny, take care of yourself. Work on your mental health, take a break from the social media scene (drinking and partying), and set boundaries with your friend. Sincerely, someone's mama. #healyourself #nosadmusic
Yes just wanna thank you for opening up about what you went through. Because it is hard to leave an abusive relationship. Your younger then me and I can't believe how stronger you are and had the guts to speak up about it. Sending nothing but love to you Karla. Thank you Alan for having her. ❤😢super awesome inspiration.
I just wish I could give her the biggest hug !🥺 She’s such a strong person, I’m so happy that she was able to get out of that situation because not a lot of people are able to💯
Karla is such a sweetie 💕 i love her laugh. it's catchy . GOD BLESS U KARLA 🙏 GOD LOVE'S U SWEETIE. No matter any struggles u ho through, God fights your battles .
It’s the act of a narcissist.Drag somebody down before anybody finds out the other side so when they speak the truth the other person will forever be the liar and the Narcissist gets away with it all
Karla..I'm so sorry and sad that you went thru this. Thank you so much for being brave and speaking up. I believe you..100%. I pray you and your family heal from this trauma. ❤❤❤
Listening to her relive this and get shaky in her voice when she was talking about him hitting her and cussing her out and she was just scared…made me tear up. I remember being in that place and feeling helpless. 💔 I hope she heals from this and never goes back.
I can tell she’s not fully saying everything. I feel like she still can’t believe this happened to her. She’s still sinking into it. The reality of it all. I’m sorry she had to go through this. I know she’s not lying. She’s holding back tears and more truth.
@@kimsworld9912 Hypergamy is undefeated she possibly thought she can do better since she got social media clout and found an excuse to be with other dudes with more money etc.
I’m so proud for speaking up.. you are amazing and a beautiful young lady. Keep loving your self and get to know your self. You are strong. Keep pushing forward. 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️💪💪Very well said at the end..
I KNEW she had gone thru Domestic violence with JR when i saw his live at the bar drinking with his Manager and he threw up in the cup infront of his camera while LIVE getting aggressive with someone else at the restaurant he was at . (This happened like 3 weeks ago) I know a aggressive drunk abusive mf’er when i hear/see them prayers for you Karla ❤️
Alcohol definitely plays a role in it but I think based off what him and his mom allegedly said that it’s normal for the man to mistreat the woman in the relationship they know it’s wrong but they still think it’s normal so sad glad she was able to get out of that cuz it only gets worse as you go on with the relationship.
But she drinks too. They both drank hella all the time. You are right alcohol ruins relationships therefore they are both in the wrong. & as a woman it looks so unclassy to always be drunk or drinking idk just my opinion. This is why i stay away from alcohol, never leads to anything good
@@minnasmr2488I dont drink either but I would never say a woman looks "unclassy" for drinking. Once again men can get away with murder for being guys. Your comment reminds me of those viejitas who are like "se lo busco".
@@alejandradiaz6506 girl this is why us girls always lie to one another. We can’t handle the truth. Always gotta be sensitive over everything 🤦🏻♀️. Im not gonna hold my tongue to not “hurt somebody’s feelings”. I said what i said.
@@minnasmr2488 What truth? No one is being sensitive. You just give that "calladita te ves mas bonita vibe". They both drank that night, he beats her and blacks out but shes the "classless" one. Be for real.
iam so sorry that happened to you mommas thnk god yu got out beforw je put yu six feet under i went thru that 13years iam proud of yu for walking away❤
Omg Karla I’m so sorry you went through that, seeing the person you love change into a monster hurts and is so confusing so much. Just remember none of it is your fault you do not need to justify his actions. Keep getting through life by yourself and love yourself. Stay strong.
This is the problem with yall arguments You say he cheated then yall say there’s no proof then she says he’s abusive but there’s no proof either only both of them know the story
I never liked Jr he always gave me the ick & toxic vibes. Happy to know you left that relationship babe & doing so much better! you deserve so much better 💗
Tbh this open my eyes even more. I wasn’t a good person to my ex either and tbh I do regret it, but it’s on me. Karla thank you for making me realize even more what I have to do as a man but as a person to never make these mistakes ever again. Me watching this today open my heart knowing I could’ve or done better as a person. Till this day, regardless what happen between me and my ex, I’ll always want her to be safe and always care for her no matter what🙏🏻
El que a vivido lo mismo que ella sabe bien ❤ muchas bendiciones karlita 💕 nadie sabe lo que que ella siente y si ella está explicando su side of the story nobody will understand and nobody has to ! So keep rude comments to yourself. I lived through the same! Im also from Minnesota so proud of you to represent us 😍👍🏽💕
alan i love how you listen and youre very empathetic towards karla, especially with this being such a sensitive topic it makes me so emotional seeing her say her story. sending my love and support to the both of you God bless the you all for sharing this. LOVE YOU BOTH !!!
First off never bring your past in a new relationship I’ve been with mines for 9 yrs I haven’t once ever asked her about her past because to me I’m her first
You deserve better girl ❤I’m proud of u for letting go u really don’t need that in ur life ! I went thru that too and it sucked Badly 😢this literally made me cry u don’t deserve this !! U we’re such a good girl , there’s no excuses for how he acted
1:01:30 it’s very true you don’t know someone till you move in with someone alone you really get to see their true colors. I can relate to it moving in with my boyfriend after a year of being together everting turned and alcohol brought the devil in him it took me 6 months to finally call my parents and pick me up and lil clothes and never looked back .
We need part 2 !!!! Please ! I want to know more about the parents finding out what was going on, and were the dad was like I want his name and were hi lives. What happened next. I'm happy you were brave enough to stand for yourself.
I don’t personally know her but I love you Karla 💓💓💓 Being able to speak up even when it still may be hurting takes a lot of courage. I’m so proud and happy as another Hispanic woman to see you speaking up and telling your story. Your voice, your thoughts, your pain, your side. It’s easier to keep quiet but you finally had the opportunity to speak on your testimony and it couldn’t have came at a better time for a lot of us going through similar pain and growth. Keep going mama may God keep blessing you !! Alan, amazing job 🎉
We love this for you Queen your brave for telling your side of the story shout out to Alan for giving you the opportunity to air that shit out! You glowing without that POS in your life dont look back babe!!❤️❤️
I totally feel your pain . I was in an abusive relationship when I was 18 & I didn’t tell anyone until I was like 28 I’m now 31 I was so embarrassed to say I went through that. I pray you continue to heal ❤
I’ve been following Karlita for a while now, I love her personality & better yet we’re both libras October 6 💖😛 Glad to see her enjoying her single era!
Thank you Karla for sharing your story. . I went through the same thing . And it’s really hard getting out of a relationship like that. But it gets better. When you finally get out. Also don’t blame yourself. ❤️❤️
This is so sad on the part of her relationship because it happened to me besides the abusive part. It’s so sad how it’s like normal for us to feel that way to defend this person we think will change. I would always feel this is only me and only I can forgive a person over and over. This was so intense to me and I really feel for her. Had me in tears. I hope the best for her!
Karla I’m so sorry you went through this. I’m so glad you have opened up and you are going to help many girls. ❤ ya and you take care. You keep going and make continue creating content don’t give up. 🙏❤
I’m just happy she left she has so much going for herself! She’s so beautiful I hope she has nothing but good vibes coming her way and more traveling she looks so happy now! ❤
I hear ppl saying its hard to learn English for kids outside of the US. But I was born in the US and my parents just spoke Spanish. So growing up I had trouble learning English.
I believe HER 100%. I lived through her same experience, so many of us do. We stay and pray they change, but they don't. When us SURVIVORS finally leave, we are labeled as the "bad guys" lol. Nothing better than being single and FREE from abuse!
Karlita: when we lived with his parents we would get into heated arguments and the parents would hear. And like im the back of my head i knew this was wrong and toxic but i would justify his behavior and blame myself like maybe its cause of something i said. But i knew this isn’t normal he probably thought he could keep getting away with it. So then i told him we needed to move out on our own 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Low IQ people: wow i belive you 100% thats story makes perfect sense 😂😂😂😂
Hands down my favorite episode ✨♥️ Karla you are strong & you are going to thrive in whatever you do! Self love is something I am working on as well. We owe ourselves that 🫶🏻👏🏻 May God bless you always 🙏🏻
Prayers to Karla. Im so happy she got away from that relationship. Yo go girl! Know look out for you and your mental health. That is more important at this point. ❤❤❤😊
