I need someone to talk to... But people around just ignores it. I always feel this way so much pain,feels like I don't matter. I wanted to heal for so long.. I wanted to win this battle 😐
As a kid I wasn’t allowed to cry. My mother never let me and if I did she got madder. So I grew up not letting anyone see my true feelings. I struggle with it to this day. This is one of the few songs that actually show what I feel.
I had the same experience. I'm so sorry u had to grow up like that, but you are allowed to feel emotions! It's natural, dont ever be ashamed of that okay. I know it takes time to be able to show emotion, but you'll get there :)
@@Dancing_strawbrry3 yeah that's all you can do, take it a day and a time and you'll get there eventually I promise, and remember that u are not alone and if u need help, there are people who can help u connect with your emotions
As a teenager my mother did the same.... She cared more about how other people would see it than how I felt.... And it hurts even more knowing she was the reason my 2 sisters moved half way across the country...
Do u no matter how longits takes to do it never have to do some things but just being ready or weas able to do so cause it's all about ur feelings to I understand more than most
Anyone else just sitting back and hear something that shatters your hart into a million pieces and the tears start to sting your eyes and u just blink sight and accept it because u don't wanna cry and let any one see and feel sorry for u ?????
This, as someone whos battled anxiety and depression from a young age. Endured sexual, physical, mental and emotional abuse. i struggle that no one really understands, or gets or knows your heart. Not your pain, not your struggles, not who you are inspite of it all. Instead it constantly feels like judgment for what you lack, can't or won't do and becuase you dont share the ulgy things that you've endured they just can't sympathize. This song speaks to the soul of those who can't put into words how exhausting the struggle is.
Well goodness I had wrote this long very long out message to the one person in this world that holds my heart earlier tonight. But I went back to send it on my phone and it's no longer there like normally it woukd be. I can only hop that she took it already. I guess I will never know.. However this one song here hit to the deepest part deep down into the pit of the core of my soul. I never had a song hit me so hard like this one dud. To the love of my life the Queen of all queesns. You could never imagine that this is the exact reason why you are so damn priceless too me. There are so many many things about you that make you so unique in so many ways that I learn something new about you every single day that passes by.. I have never in my 47 years of living on this earth ever had the pleasure of ever meeting someone as special as amazing as brilliant brave and so on as yourself. You Amaze me everyday every minute every hour every day every night 365 days a year 24/7 a week and 1440 mins in a day. You are truly a very wise person and I honestly wished I could ever be as smart as you really are.. I am not just saying this to ever be saying it.. It's not that I am dumb nor ignorant it's just sometimes I do not catch on as quick as others do. But it still does not ever make me stupid!! Since the very first day I met you I could see how much of a fighter you were and I know that you do not want to hear it and that was what this song also said but sometimes you need to be recognised of the strength you really do have inside of you.. I could only wish I was just like you though. I need you to never give up on yourself no matter if everyone in this world does give up on you. You and I argue like 2 people married too each other or we fight like children most of the time.. This song has touched me so damn much that it went to the pit of my stomach and made it upset because of how much I feel it all.. We are different in so many ways. For I do not mind to open up and tell people how I feel when you do your best to hide yours. I needed you to open up too me and I still do need you to now. Most importantly I need you to just tell me whom you really are that keeps wanting me too see all these things and why as well.. I now understand that you have to say certain things because you always have eyes on you. You never needed to block me out and I know you had to do it this way so you could see if I could be your forever partner in this life. I am so very sorry that it as taken me so long to figure this out but you definitely do not give any slack and you always confused me before whenever I get closer to knowing whom you really was. You promised me before that you wouldn't never in the nest billion lifetimes ever give up on us and I need you not too now. I know that I am replaceable and I know that I do not deserve you.. I know I have fucked up in the past. However I am only human and I can never tell you what our lifes together will be like I can only tell you that it will be worth it if you will just take a chance on us and on me. I want you to be my last of everything. I know you had it hard as a child but have you ever really just stopped and thought for a second that I have also? So stop and ask yourself do you know what it is like to live in my shoe's? Because I honestly do not know what it is like to live in your shoe's. If you will just let me love you the way I know you need and want. You will never have to face this life alone again and you will have me fighting that war with you at your side never leaving you that is me giving you my word!! I need you too really understand what I am trying to tell you by saying all of this cause I do not know any other way of getting you to.. if he is doing things to you please god tell me. Is that what was save me song all about? If it is then I will no doubt about that! And even if it not if it is you that sending me all the poems then tell me what was the one song that you ever sent to me the very first one. There are always ways around everything whenever you need to say anything to me.. I love you
I'm sorry you had to go through all of that bad shit. What you said I feel 100% since a very young age I went through alot of different abuse. Feels like no one understands me or knows me. Has made life hard for me. 😢
Yeah I remember the first adult I opened up to about my suicidal thoughts, sexual abuse, depression, my parents, and what Ive since learned were adhd symptoms but at the time everyone just told me I was airheaded and lazy anyway that person told me it only gets harder from here I mean they were wrong obviously Ive forgotten most of high school so I cant be down about things I cant remember but like were they trying to be unhelpful?
You must have lived my life, I do truly understand, I've never told any of my doctors everything, I simply can't go there. And when I do talk about what I think wasn't that bad, people have nightmares. I'm here for you. ❤
I endured all this to I’ve also been bullied for being atherian and being a tomboy so even my step brother did those too me mostly the sexual one though it hurts I understand you my nana’s in the hospital, my dad has diabetes, my step dad doesn’t care what I want, momma stresses herself out about work, so really the only one who is there for me is my boyfriend and my other 2 friends
I wanna let go every single day. I'm tired of fighting tired of being a leader everyone looks to. 17 years of buried emotional pain. It's hard to fight sometimes.
May God hold all you beautiful souls that have posted comments. I can feel a majority of your guys pain but just know that doesnt define you and you are all good enough. May he hold you all in his arms and show you the love that a majority of us wished we received growing up and even some into adulthood and put warmth into your amazing hearts
So very sad that they are wanting to give up that no one knows what it's like and that they don't need advice they just need to be held and comforted in their sorrow and in their turmoil life can be hard life can be unfair and it's sad that no one seems to care please rise above and know that you matter that you have the right to conquer and overcome please be safe and move forward
I nevvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvver tell ppl to move on. that goes against what I do. I don't tell anyone what to do. sometimes I tell yee of little faith kinda stuff. but that's different. it's inspiring faith for them to believe in more, a bigger perspective. please don't tell anyone who's hurting to move on. thanks
So True don't tell anyone about giving up if you don't know what real love is because grieving is love that has no where to go. So just let people grieve in their own way
I cannot believe the different interpretations I said move forward move forward in other words please be safe and be able to move forward and I will have a voice and I will speak truth I don't need people complicating things just to listen listen to what's being said reread it and reread it and reread it until you get the clear picture of what's being said
My best friend died two and a half weeks ago. I’ve had to be strong for his family. He was like a brother to me. I just heard this song and completely broke down and ugly cried. I’ve been holding my pain in to be strong for others. But this song finally let me let it out. Thank you.
I am sorry that you lost a friend that meant something to you you can hold onto the memories of him rest assured that God will send down that person once again in your life 🧬😅
Sorry for your loss, so hard to explain to people wanting to justify letting go. Hoping and stressing over what everyone will think of you. But wanting to do what you feel is best for you. She explains what a lot of people who suffer from wanting to stop everything.
Mine too but she passed away around the starting of the year ...i had dream bout her last night...she was my only close one..she left me behind all broken .
I was a single father of a 6 year old special needs child whose mother left after he was diagnosed at 3 months old. Just lost him to a bad seizure 9 months ago and this song perfectly explains what I’ve been trying to say to everyone who says “everything is gonna be okay”.
This absolutely breaks my heart because I'm a widow and single parent raising my special needs son alone, I couldn't even imagine my life without him. There are know words that would ever bring a parent any comfort after loosing their child under any circumstances, because it's not how we expect our lives to go. At least you know that you did everything you could for your child and made them feel totally loved and cherish in the time you had together. I wish I had something to ease your pain but that's going to take time, you will never fully get over this loss but you will, be able to get up one day and start remembering the good times you spent with him. I have experience loss but not a child. Sorry for my ramblings but I truly wish you the best. 🙏🏼🕊😔 🫂
this song has made me cry harder than I've cried in a very long time! You get so wounded and broken that you just don't want one more person to tell you to just keep going, that it gets better, that you should count your blessings...
Let me be that one last person. I tried to cross over. I go home tomorrow and nothing will have changed but maybe I'll just have to find a new reason to live.
Right. I have felt the same. Like please don't say that. Let me find my way thru life, ups & downs, etc. Random people telling me everything will be "fine" or someone who has no idea or is even there. Family, friends, co-workers, strangers, etc. They don't know u nor your life. I appreciate the kind words, however sometimes for me it's better off left unsaid.
I relate to this song so much.. I've nearly committed two weeks ago because it felt like I was in a endless cycle of pain and regret but this song gave me the strength to keep going, my friend committed in 2021 because he thought he wasn't worth it but all I could do was stay standing for however long I could but it felt like I couldn't... Only if I can see him one last time.. (Please keep on standing for whoever is trying to commit we are all here for you you have a bright future ahead of you please don't give up)
Do you realize how many of us all feel the same way with no one to tell because we know they wouldn't care, but random people online will tell us not to do it? The world is messed up. 😞
I also relate to this song that i love it has hit a part of me that answers some questions for my whole life ive been looking for. Im going to be 60 and still havent found a counselor thats interested in helping me. Maybe they just dont know how. All my family and friends have deserted me i have no one to talk to. Thats my fault i went through even more terrible shit last 20 years that my walls are thick i dont trust anyone. Thank you for this song
for all of those out there who need to read this: I know you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, but I promise its there. Sometimes we can't see it because we have lost the light that we thought was our purpose. I know it hurts, and to be totally honest with you, it never stops. It becomes a part of you and you grow with it. Sometimes we have to loose our everything in order to see the right path. that includes loosing yourself sometimes. I promise its ok to be not ok, I promise you are strong enough, I promise that there are people who care for you even when you don't think so, I promise you will stop sinking. I can NOT promise you will be the same. I have lost so much in a very short time, I did not want to keep going. However, I did discover why I had to loose everything. Its different for everyone, but if you keep going you will find it. It took me a long time but here I am, trying to encourage someone else to just hold on a little longer. Have faith my dear friends
Living alone for the last 6y... nothing hits as hard as the silence at night. Not a single soul on earth that gives a fck about the tears you cry every night😢
Nobody should ever have to come out. We are just human beings. Like 25% is not straight. It is very normal, but that 75% ruined it for all of us in the past. But be strong, be a warrior... be a winner
I'm so tired of telling people that Im okay when Im not, I'm tired of people asking "why r u crying " and I just say " oh its nothing", I'm so tired of people asking " why r there scars on your arms" and I always say " u know I got dogs". All of this pain that I'm holding in is killing me and I be thinking to myself ' should I just give up or give life another Chance' and I say " there was a reason for god to put me on this earth"-so for everyone that is struggling all I got to say is keep your head up because god is always there with u. -love, peace, happieness.😊
I’m tired of ppl saying life well get better when u get older well I’m 15 now and life has not gotten better since I was born bc before i was born my big sis DIED!!!!!!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I’m not ok so the ppl who ask “are u ok?” I say ya I’m good but inside I’m died and with my sister and my family…..
I've been wanting to scream this at everyone lately. This song had me bawling like a toddler because it says what I haven't been able to. These lyrics embody my soul and have for a while now. I can't stand when people tell me they understand what it is like living in constant pain with a collagen defect that guarantees my physical condition will worsen. I don't want to stay positive and keep trying. I want them to let me feel the way I feel, and grieve the life I once I had. I'm 18 and can't walk over 100 feet anymore because I am so fragile. And no, eating right and getting sun and meditating will not cure Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, nor autism, and I am tired of hearing the same set of suggestions over and over and over. I know they want to help, but it only makes me feel worse, because I can't do a damn thing for myself and no, there isn't any hope of recovering. I was recently diagnosed this July after a long battle painstakingly similar to the one trying to get the ASD diagnosis, and I am grieving hard because it is conclusive proof I am not going to recover this time, and every day I think of something that shouldn't have been hard as a child and something I'll never be able to do again. I'm falling apart, physically and mentally. What I need the most right now is for someone to be there to listen and care and simply just.. be there. Let me be how I am and feel how I feel, stop trying to correct me. Because, no, they can't understand, they can't pretend to know what it is like to live like this. Invisible disabilities...
@@soulfoxx Thank you so much for your kindness. I saw your comment further up and I really hope things will resolve for you if they can. It's a battle, all we can really do is keep going onwards. I don't know what you are going through but I am proud of you for fighting on.
I know that feeling I am going through the almost same and everyone keeps saying the same things over and over again like they think it will help even tho it won't and never will. Sending a lot of love ❤❤💕💕♥♥
I wanted to let you know. I will never feel your pain or know what its like to be in your shoes. And even if I will never understand, I care. I care. I am listening. I am writing this to you, because you have influenced me to be a better person in this very moment. I know to some it may seem silly, but reading this broadened my perspective. I realize that not everyone needs to have someone give input or advice, sometimes they just need to be heard. I needed this, thank you for sharing.
I lost my husband to Cancer 16 months ago. We were together 35 1/2 years, I was 22 when we got together. I don’t know how to start over at 57. This song is so real to me.
You dont have to start over. Just find the strength to continue. He will always be with you. You may not see him but you can feel him!!! You have a purpose here! Raise your vibration! I love you! We love you! You are not alone!
As someone who was literally born with depression, this song hits really close to home. Having people who've developed depression tell you that they "understand," even though they got to know how it felt before. To not have to put up with depressive episodes all their life. Then having people tell you that "life gets better." Bro, what do you mean? I have to suffer my entire life! There's no cure for depression. Nothing against the people who've developed depression, I just needed to rant.
Hey, same here, though I briefly got out and got to experience life without depression. It was amazing. Sadly, it ended all too quick. It came back, differently but somehow even worse. But that does mean you might actually get out some day, not all hope is lost.
More in depth : I was raised in an unfortunate climate, which caused cptsd. This made me depressed from my earliest memories until I moved out. Only then did I begin to understand what was wrong. It made me do some very self-destructive things, but I felt alive, free, somewhat happy at times! I had different things to worry about, was living fast and dangerously. After some time though, life cought back up to me, it settled in, I looked at some poor decisions I'd made, questioning them. I did some research, not entirely on purpose, just stumbled across some stories of others, found loads of similarities in some conditions. I finally understood what I went through and that it's ingrained in me, that it's permanent, has erased my personality, effected my health, broke me. This realization somehow made it even worse. I was always proud of me, of being different. To then understand that literally every fragment of your person is a symptom of a condition is incredibly soul crushing. I'm seemingly stuck now. I so desperately want to go back to my reckless days and try to find happiness again, even if it's a kind of dangerous numbness. But I'm terrified of the uncertainty. It might not work anymore, knowing what I know now. I'm also too tied up in my current life. I'm responsible for others now too. I can't get out. I can't resolve this past either, no one can. All I can do is wait for no one to need me anymore and then find some release. But maybe you can still try? To at least once feel happy, to think clearly and figure out a future? Freedom? I hope so.
My father always wanted that I grow stronger and smarter. No matter what I did, I never was enough. When strong depresssions hit me 3 years ago, i couldnt tell anybody, I got rejectet for searching help by friends and family too. And now I'm sitting here, reading all these comments, knowing I am not alone with such Things. Wanted to end my life for 1 year now. And damn, it is difficult to keep going, but I trie it. Love to everyone here, you all are so Strong ❤❤
ive suffered with anxiety/depression since i was 6. Im currently 12 and ive had so many people try to tell me the same narrative that *suicide isn't the answer because itll always get better*, yeah, sometimes i feel alright but what am i supposed to do when the depression hits again and i can barely move because i feel like any small amount of energy output will mean that i have to get up and hear the same stuff! i know im young, i know that time heals, i know that what happened wasnt my fault, but the sun isnt gonna fix this one! Maybe ill never feel better, maybe one day i will give up, maybe one day ill do the "*temporary solution to a permanent problem*" because maybe i dont care about 15 years down the road! Who says i even want to be here 15 years down the road!.....
Recently i spent a whole day trying to contact my beloved who lives overseas. He eventually sent me a link to this song. My heart was so scared of losing him, in one of his darkest days, i was petrified of losing him yet i was so far away to help him. I am just so relieved he is ok.. but this song, oh my gosh. I don't think I could listen to this song without tearing up and feeling all the raw emotions come back up. JT ❤
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-1bRepCstArk.html ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-iBEoI2u6kII.html Can`t you hear clearly? We came to be, we remain to be. (we came to be as SPIRITS and we remain to be as SPIRITS) carnal is only for a moment. Jeremiah 1:5 | View whole chapter | See verse in context Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations. 1 Corinthians 15:53 | View whole chapter | See verse in context For this corruptible must put on incorruption, and this mortal must put on immortality. 1 Corinthians 15:54 | View whole chapter | See verse in context So when this corruptible shall have put on incorruption, and this mortal shall have put on immortality, then shall be brought to pass the saying that is written, Death is swallowed up in victory.
To everyone on here yes everyone is suffering in one way or another . We’re all fighting our demons past and present . But what I think is beautiful is how much better and faster we heal when we help others heal. TOMMY VEXT formerly from Badwolves said it best in one of his songs called “STRONG FOR SOMEONE ELSE”. He said “Sometimes the only way to save me is by making space for someone else; When I feel the world surround me, can I be the strength for someone else”. So maybe we can turn our attention outward help someone else, be the broad shoulders for another person to cry on . And to all of u who want to give up …PLEASE STAY; you have more of your story to write.
I have a son and a sick mother, it feels like I don't have the right to feel all of these, but life sucks, pain constantly eating me alive. I don't know how long I can bear and hold. I always feel unloved. The only reason why I'm still here is God, I know that He will not leave me and fight this brutal battle with me.
As someone diagnosed with hypothyroidism at 18, dealing with the chronic pain among other symptoms this song really hits home. I'm stuck with this forever and it'll never go away, but no one takes it seriously. At least this song help me to feel less alone.
Pain was a teacher for me. I continue to cut my own body. I find it hard to be happy when people have hurt me and put me through hell. I have a past that isn’t even easy to leave behind.
The fact that this is so relatable for me and many other people is heart breaking I just think that no one deserves such a hard life.... for lots of people including me its just like a cycle of pain loneliness suffering and being tired of life I promise all you reading this you can get through no matter how hard life is theres always light many many people will love you you can get through it king/queen I promise....
No matter how hard life is, never give up, strive harder .. Always remember life is a journey of obstacles with hardships and determination .. I keep motivating myself that I can do it ...cuz no one will motivate you but yourself, if you give up you loose.. Because I know that one day I will be on the pinnacle of my success ..And I claim it!!
This song is Sooo True. Some people need physical comfort, others need verbal comfort. Then there are people who just need to push through the pain. To just be there for someone is the best thing to do in someone's time of need. A lot of times, it's just best to encourage others. You can't always judge others. Sometimes, the best thing to do is to let them be. So, take my advice, just support each other through the good and the bad.
knowing the true meaning behind these words hits different...feeling the same pain is worse. Never judge a book by it's cover, wrong. Never judge someone emotions inside by outside expression ❤
I will never say such thing. I will never give up. I will never stop fighting to let anyone not see their worth. I fought depression since age 5... had 5 attempts to end my life and am glad it wasnt meant to be... From 5 to 37, now 43 and counting the good days. To everyone who relates to this message... dont let go... i see you... and you are amazing❤
The fact that I understand this type of pain really shows that people are stronger than they realize if they are fighting this battle and just keep going then that's strong.
Everyday im always hiding my feelings and my problems even when it gets really bad. I never want anyone to waste their time worrying about me but its really hard to hide everything and bottle it all up. This song is perfect for me and i love it so much❤
People do not know what it's like for another person. Best thing to offer is fregant hugs, a comfort sign, that lets them know they are there, fregancy. I love this song
The phrase " Everyone can cry " Well it seems no one cares about that phrase because they dont understand and never will feel the pain I go through and honestly I dont want them to go through my pain so I keep trying, Trying to get on a good sleep schedule, Trying to look at my reflection without being self-conscious, Trying to just keep that small speck of sand amount of hope that can keep me going. People are the reason my hope gets taken away piece by piece everyday. Yet, I still try and I dont want an apology, I dont want a hug, I dont even need love. I just want to get out of this box of shame that I locked myself in for 3 years. But I keep falling back in and everytime I do it makes me more and more weak- And the more I smile the more energy I use. I may not have the worst life but it doesnt matter. Im a human with emotions too. We all are. And everyone has an enemy that is hard to defeat That enemy is myself and everytime I fight im hurting myself. But if I dont fight, The enemy will destroy the ones I love. So im just walking through the same door everyday, Not going anywhere but a circle of pain. And I dont have enough energy to make a full smile when someone says im worth it. I just smile with tired eyes. The guilt consumes me..
I understand you.. N I pray for you daily.. Thoughts can consume US .. Keep smiling.. I promise it will get better.. if you need to scream .. yell out to the man upstairs n remember I see a man who has a huge heart the size Of Texas N I want to hear your heart beat.. you struggle with others things.. I have struggles but I try like you to overcome them n in reality I just want US to hold each other. Who cares if we troll each other FB .. if it makes US closer.. we need our closeness together.. Real closeness.. yes .. I‘ll say that.. HelpME HElp you.. We will help each other n love God.. May you take this to your heart.. for US Let’s talk about the weather.. workouts Just be together before we R together.. love you n want my life with you. I know you feel the same.. Oh Baby My Luv💙💙💙💙❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I used to listen to this song when I used to be depressed and wanted to die. Even if it ended + I am better and happier,by listening to different songs this one popped up. Decided to hear it again once more and dam,memories are pouring back. Especially how I used to think,act,and overall the pain. Glad I managed to get out of that darkness. At least for me is incredible how much I changed over the yrs
I literally lived out this song after losing my son about 5 years ago. I let all my senses go, and as "luck" would have it I married a cruel person who ripped my life to pieces.... take it from me, even though you want to just give up in the moment and do what may not be good for you, it's NOT the solution for your pain. I still love this song but honestly I made my life so much more difficult by giving up and letting go of listening to my intuition... I quite fighting and it wasn't until I was almost pulled into the undercurrent forever that I came bobbing up gasping for air and a desire to fight for better days. We are all fellow travelers - don't do what I just did. You don't know what it's like.... lol 😞💔
Can't believe how much this song relates to me my daughter was taken from me because of my special needs did nothing wrong and my nan passed away 2 days ago she never got to meet her she had alsymers cancer dimentia she was the strongest women I ever met all these new feelings to me hate how its hurting so bad right now feel lost and confused
I've battled with depression most of my life I was abused by an alcoholic mother the state took me away from her at 11 I was in an abusive marriage for 10 years from 16 to 25 then I found out I had a bone disease I finally found the love of my life and he just passed away from Cancer in February i spent 24 years married to him i just feel like why even go on and no one truly cares or understands what im going through every day is a struggle...
Why does this song hits so hard... All my thoughts and emotions in one song - I have to say "Yes, it's hard." I always feel like giving up, and people always say "Oh, don't worry, you're just overreacting, it's not that bad. I completely understand" And that just makes me want to yell at them and beat them up the way they do to me, but I know I can't do that. I just wish they know that it's impossible to completely understand another person because you can never be them, no matter how similar you are. And those who says "I'm fine", or smiles the most might just be the one who are falling apart on the inside. And at school people give talks about mental health, stress management and caring for others. I just get SO ANNOYED when they talk about how you need someone to talk to, a good friend you can trust and you always have people who actually care about you. As far as I know, I don't remember a single person ever genuinely asking me if I'm okay. People hardly seem to take me seriously and often misunderstand what I say. When one of my school friends asked me if I ever felt sad, all I can do is turn away from her as say "well obviously". Occasionally, there is a person (who I'm not mentioning) who asks me why I sit alone, if I had any friends, or why I sometimes look so sad. I'm always a bit surprised when he asks me that, but I could never say anything more than "really?" or "It's none of your business". I sometimes just wish I could disappear from this world. I just really want someone that would listen, and I could trust. Screw Christmas and birthdays - a true friend would be the only gift I could ever wish for.
Never had a song that fit me so perfectly... though as much as I want to stop fighting and give in- I can't and I won't. Not just for me but my family too. But thank you for this song.
My friend, I wanted to share with you we are slowly and carefully trying to repair our relationship and find our way back to each other. Please have good thoughts for us. I hope you are well and happy. Take care.
I relate to this song sm. I'm just so tired and I want to give up, but I can't. I'm too scared of dying, too scared of living. I'm just so tired of everything. I hate that saying, "It'll get better!" I hate hearing that. It won't get better, it hasn't got better. I'm depressed and anxious all the time. It won't get better, the worse part about it is that I'm still young. I'm still young, I shouldn't feel this way, but I do.
I love this song. It gives me a good,ugly cry because i keep so many things bottled up. From being SA by the one guy I thought I could trust but no. I will never be the same from that. Be safe out there everyone 🙏❤❤❤
You may not feel like you are enough rn, but it gets better because I'm still living proof. You can't stop fighting. Unlike these lyrics I do know what that pain cycle is like. Ik you can overcome it. You are the only one that can get out of this painful circle and it's gonna get wayyy worse before it gets better but you are strong enough to overcome it. I believe in you! ❤❤
First time hearing this song an really life can be hard at times, but each day is a gift to see the beauty in which areas life takes you, or where to. Just don't give into down side for ur already perfect as each day does go by an really when life is hard just know someone is really there, even when ur lost, dazed, confused or mad just know someone is really wondering all the effects of life situations. Just understand that love can heal when your lost but do look deeply inside to see the brighter side of things, because beauty is here an there. When out of touch of life situations just know someone does love you. Just hear ur heart beat each day knowing ur here to not give up . From a friend to another 💙💙💙🤍🤍.
This is for anyone who feels worthless: I know times get hard and I know you feel like giving up. I can't promise life is all sunshine and rainbows , but I promise something good is waiting for you when you get through all the pain. This is coming from a 14 year old girl in 9th grade that has been bullied since 5th grade. Sometimes I feel like giving up , but then I think of my family , my friends, my pets. They wouldn't want me to give up so everyone pls don't give up God loves you and put you in earth for a reason. Pls don't give up you have so much worth in this world❤❤❤ #loveyourself
Dam I lost my uncle who was like father to me haven't been the same since he left us I taught me how to be a man and how to love other people and how to be just a good human this song brought out a lot of Unhealed wounds and memories of a better times with love ones lost God bless you all and keep your heads up.
My daughters and I would make it a habit to talk to the Lord God every day. It's something I dred evey minute of my life not knowing if they keep him in his prayers. Happiness was all around us because our Lord was there with them. And I pray He is with the today tomorrow and forever.
I feel like this when life is getting the best of me. Constantly getting reminded about the past, getting bullying on a daily basis, life’s fucked up but I’ve learned to shove down and pretend to fine even though I’m not. The family isn’t a strong enough reason to deal with shit.
I feel this. I've been thinking about ending my life recently but people force me to keep living, to keep going on, to keep suffering. My mental disorders are getting worse and I'm just so damn tired. No one around me knows what it's like to be schizophrenic with severe ptsd, anxiety, depression, and others. I want to let go so bad. They force me to stay alive and then tell me that it's my job to fix myself and not theirs. That's the thing about jobs...you can quit them
This song and all of your comments just literally just saved my life. Just keep going a little longer! I came to the hospital, and the feeling went away. Im happy im here tho , its time for me to humble myself and ask for help. My mental health has been brutally painful. I keep trying to fix myself. Do this do that take this medication stop taking this medication. Craziness that i have been doing this shit for years. Im a 46 yr old women and i have wanted die since i was 12. Well wish me luck. Im praying that this works but ive been in and out of mental hospitals and it has never really helped. I just had a horrible reaction to wellbutrin. I actually felt it was my time to go and God was finally calling me home. He sees are pain he sees us struggling. I bet it breaks his heart. We think about Heaven and hope to go home. No more tears, no more sorrows. Sounds great to me!
This song is how I feel right now. I am battling Lupus and Rheumatoid Arthritis. I was recently run over by a drunk driver with everlasting injuries. I'm losing this battle.
Stay strong gurl....everything happens for a reason. Believe in god's plan...he must have planned something very very good and special for you...keep fighting...🤗.. remember a teacher(god) never answers to you during the test. Good times will come... don't lose hope. Hope this made you feel better...🤗🤗...sending lots of good wishes and health to you..❤️❤️❤️
You are stronger than you know, we don't know what's it's like and I can imagine what level of pain you have. I can't fix or change what happened to you. And we are complete strangers, but I feel the need to say I care and send you big hugs and let you know you are heard. I was in a bad place a year ago, I listen to this song and agreed with the lyrics, you don't know what it's like. But caring and love speak volumes and I am turning up the volume so you can hear me. Don't give up, Don't Give Up, live your stronger than you know. 💪 God bless you.
Please never listen to the saying everything happens for a reason when it comes to try to justify your struggles. There is no plan or “higher reason” that implies suffering is part of your journey. As someone who is really struggling myself I hate when people say that even with good intentions because there is no valid reason for bad things to happen to you. You don’t deserve to be dealing with the pain you are going through. Life isn’t fair it doesn’t have some magic plan or remedy for all of us. Rest and take breaks as much as possible while fighting for the peace you deserve because fighting gets exhausting. As someone who is also exhausted from fighting waiting for things to get better I truly hope things get better for you in any way and as soon as possible. 😢❤️🩹
It really does one day get better. This too shall pass. You feel in the midst of it all that it will all never end. Your weary and you’ve lost hope in life. The traumatic things that keep happening seem like one after the other. You give up and give in to the thoughts. I wish I would have known before my desperate attempt to end it all that one day it would get better. That all this pain would one day be a distant memory. That one day the Lord would give me the desires of my heart above and beyond. All the things i always dreamt of but lost hope and never thought would happen are now reality. All those traumas and life pains that seemed like they would never end and would always haunt me will one day be a distant memory. None of this would have happened without the Lord. Nothing and no one can heal your broken spirit and heart. But the Lord CAN AND WILL! And I surely wouldn’t be alive 26 years after my attempt to end it all if it wasn’t for the Lord saving my life and stopping my suicide from being successful. Ending it all isn’t worth it. And the fight to not give up is worth it. So for those that feel like they just can’t go on any longer I promise you will find healing peace grace comfort strength perseverance and so much more in the Lord our refuge. He will equip you with all you need and even carry you through it all. One day you will look back and see clearly how the Lord was right there with you. Never leaving you nor forsaking you. The tapestry of life… When your in the midst of brokenness heartaches or trials you see the back of the tapestry. No clear picture. Looking like an unorganized mess. But when the trial is behind you he reveals the front of the tapestry. All perfectly woven to make a beautiful picture. The heartaches and trials shine bright in the tapestry as those threads are woven in gold. The Lord never said this life would be easy but he did say he would never leave us nor forsake us. He ALWAYS brings beauty from our Ashe’s. It is our trials that create character in us. as a parallel of God’s refining us through painful trials. This unforgettable allegory is meant to help us understand the purpose beyond our pain-to conform us to the character of Christ. Clearly, we don’t develop Christlike character all at once. Character is forged over time, especially through fiery trials. Indeed, God is our Refiner. Psalm 66:10 says, “For you, God, tested us; you refined us like silver.” Just as the furnace is used to purify silver in the crucible, our Refiner uses heat to purify our hearts and cleanse our character. Proverbs 17:3 says, “The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold, but the Lord tests the heart.” Each time, with utmost skill and patience, the refiner removes the dross, leaving behind gleaming gold and shimmering silver . . . more pure and precious than before. To gauge his progress, the refiner looks for his own reflection on the surface of the silver-filled crucible. The more dross removed, the less distorted his reflection. The Bible says our Refiner sits over the refining process to purify us, “He knows the way that I take; when he has tested me, I will come forth as gold” (Job 23:10). Only when the refiner looks into the crucible and sees a clear reflection of himself is the process complete. Finally, the silver attains its highest degree of purity! And that, my friend, describes our Refiner’s loving intentions for allowing us to be in the “furnace of affliction.” As we trust Him to use our trials to cleanse our character and purify our hearts, we will begin to see the “silver lining.” Isaiah 48:10 says, “See, I have refined you, though not as silver; I have tested you in the furnace of affliction.” But how do we hang on to hope in the midst of our trials, especially when the heat is turned up beyond what we think we can bear? We persevere by pressing into the heart of the One who allowed the trial . . . trusting in His perfect plan and His character . . . and surrendering our will to His will. Remember, the pain God allows in your life is purposeful. The heat is never intended to destroy you, only to conform you into the character of Christ. His gaze is continually affixed to your crucible. As the heat of painful circumstances intensifies in your life, know that the Lord will never leave you nor forsake you. “He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver; he will purify . . . and refine them like gold and silver” (Malachi 3:3). “When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze” (Isaiah 43:2). My prayer is that these words from the Lord will be a comfort to you as they have been to me. www.hopefortheheart.org/july-2013-letter-from-june-on-trials/
It's a endless struggling battle sometimes for some and as a Survivor of living life without my Dad without him i Try to Encourage others to always talk . I'm always here for them but sadly it doesn't seem like i have the same Support back That's the Struggle for me I Consider myself always to be Fighting and it's the hardest thing to do alone.
I've been one to comfort and help and hearing this song my brain came up response as the song went on so fast. It's showed me how far I've gotten in my journey to help others and how fast I can want to help and know what to say.
I feel this way all the time I hate how people think that it gets easy fast it doesn't... people just say stupid phrases to try and help but it starts getting annoying....
I've been going through some difficult times myself in the past when I was younger I felt so alone I just wanted to feel loved ever since I've grown up I still feel the pain in my heart I've tried to speak to people but they just don't understand the pain I'm going through it messes with my mental health physically and emotionally
Damn I feel this deep. The endless waves crashing over me, just trying to keep my head above water. Somedays I just want to stop fighting. My son is the only reason I do keep going. I won't give up because I won't leave him alone. I pray anyone who feels this song like I do realizes there is someone in their life worth staying around for. Your worth fighting for. I promise it can get better. Everyone else might have given up on you but your worth more then you give yourself credit. I'm learning this now as I'm starting my life over in my 40s. Surrounding myself with the right people and removing the wrong people.
It's like you took the words out of my head and I'm sure so many other's, and u turned it into an awesome song thank you! But I pray you get thru the pain ur going thru!
When I say I started crying, I mean it this is so relatable! Behind the smile and happiness I put on around my family and friends, there’s sadness that I let out when I’m locked up in my room! My room is the one place I let my feelings be free, my room is where I go when I wanna cry! This song reminds me of all the fake friends that left me in the past including my own father, a father who I had so many good memories with before he left for another woman! Tbh idek if I can continue on with this life anymore it just gets harder and harder each day😕😕
Sometimes I'm exhausted from just existing 😞. I lost my fur baby 2 mos ago. I had him for 16 years. He was 17. I was not able to have children due to SA trauma. He was my child, my son, my best friend, my world. And without him I am so lost. I wanna give up. Everybody keeps telling me it will get easier as time passes. But it's not. I lost my son. I held him in my arms as he drew his last breath looking into my eyes like mama why. Everybody says it's just a dog. But he wasn't. I grew up being passed around from family to family soni never had anyone person in my life for a Long amount of time. Peanut was in my life longer than anyone else had ever been in my entire 43 years on this earth. So when I lost him I lost my world. Sometimes I really do think about just giving up and giving in. Unaliving myself so I can be with him again. I don't know how to function. I'm so lost and alone. 😞😞😞
I understand soo much. My Oaklyn was my girl not some cat but my daughter.,I too can’t have human kids but my cat was my child. I lost her 2 half years ago . I think of her daily and want to be with her soo much. x
I can relate to the song because no one pay attention to me my dad doesn’t even know what to do anymore my family is fucked and comepletely broken down from everything my friend passed away 2 year and 3 months ago but I’m no there anymore
I lost my brother on 10/14/23 and it’s still hurting just as strongly as it did when I got the call that he was gone. I try to stay strong for him but every little thing reminds me that I can’t just run into his arms and hug him, that I can’t text him and get that immediate response of him yelling “sissy”. I just wanna let go and see him again💔😭😭
