Most people do not want to be with an "ugly" person who lacks self esteem like an "ugly" person who is vain. You really need to see yourself in a better light, instead of bringing yourself down bc you're "ugly". But I'm happy that you found someone who loves you. Sometimes, there are ppl who have to kiss a few frogs to find the right one.
At first I was mad that you allowed these woman ran over you, but as thr story went on I sympathize for you brother. I just hope that you will learn from your mistake, and continue to grow stronger. We live, we learn, and we move on.
Make mistakes marry young women in Laos they all poor when they come to America they forgot their roots 99% gold diggers never hear good stories about the young hmong Laos most of them live here till they get their green cards they will run away with younger men in America. But most men live in America never learn the lessons still want young gold diggers to hurt them lol
Honestly.....from my point of view, its not because this brother is unattractive. His marriages didn’t work because he didn’t know those women well. There were no love not even friendships connection to begin with prior to marriage. Don’t have such low self esteem by putting yourself down physically. There are many couples out there that the husband doesn’t match the wife and those marriages are successful. If you do good in life and pick wisely, more likely you’ll find Miss Right. Don’t rush into marriage and be smart when it comes to dating. If a woman rush you into marriage that’s a red flag. Trust me, Miss Right will not rush you into marriage and she would rather take time to get to know you. True love is very hard to find.....you don’t have to be the most handsome guy. Just be yourself, focus on your goals or hobbies.....love will find you when you least expected. God bless your journey and may you cherish your current soulmate forever.
Agreed. His marriages failed because he didn't take time to know these women and he was head over heel fall for them. He did not married a woman that want to be in a life with him. He only married women that were looking to escape from their lives.
yov mus yuav poj hmong nplog yov tau xav 2 zaug nawb tseem zoo tus txiv tsev no tsis mob stroke lawv ces yeej yog poj laib nyob sab tid lawm tuaj txog los yeej yov rov mus ua poj laib dua
some people said you’re stupid but it’s easier to judge from the outside in. Easier said than done. Glad you found someone who treat you the way you deserve. Life is unexpected. leej twg los yeej xav tau lub neej zoo xwb.
Men if they truly love a woman they will put up with anything and accept everything - for better or worse until DEATH! But if they don’t love a woman no matter how good she is she will never receive love. SMH!
I'm happy to hear an honest story. He's absolutely correct that when you married someone who's out of your league, they are just a gold digger. Indeed he finally graduated with a degree in life. First wife and 2nd wife, he forgot to look in the mirror as these ladies was using him as a stepping stone to get to their next level. Glad he finally found some happinesses with someone closer to his level. I think that mirror really help this last time around. 😂
Wow! That’s just mean!! Him looking in the mirror has nothing to do with the women using him. He’s a kind hearted man that has crossed paths with gold digging, unkind women! I’m sure his claim of being unattractive is just his modesty. Please practice kindness. You sound as superficial as his ex-wives. Sad.
If you love someone she should be the most beautiful woman for you. If you see that she is not that pretty, your love is fake. You married her because you want her service, not her true being. If I were your wife and I hear this story, it is a goodbye. Your wives left you becsuse you don't have enough respect for yourself and others.
Pojniam ces thaum nws raug ntxias lawm ces nws yeej yuav mus. Pojniam lub siab muag heev tabsis yog tus txiv tawv kom loj ces pojniam lub neej kawg tag.
Zoo siab koj tau tus hlub koj lawm os mog ! Hlub tus nws hlub yus es thiaj tsi mob2 siab os ! Cov Tim nplog feem ntau ces xav khib lav tuaj Nyob teb chaw no xwb luag yeej tsi tuaj nrog yus Nyob ua luaj neej os
3 cov me txiv neej hmong laus g zoo nraug aw tsum txoj kev ntshaw poj niam zoo2 nkauj os mog vim tiam tshiab no g zoo li tiam qub es nej yuav khoo tau nej cov beautiful wife los hlub nej mog leaned his story to avoid troubled like him
That’s what happened when you have negative mindset and negative self esteem. Weak + weak ≠ strong. Two people with negative esteems will not make a whole. 1st wife & him - thaub lam yuav pog vim thaub hais thaub qhov txim nyem tsis zoo nrau hos pog lam khaws thaub vim pog xav khiav pog niam tshiab. Both negative - not gonna work. Wife #2 - thaub lam yuav pog vim thaub tseem xav tias thaub tsis zoo nraug ces nyaj poj hmoob nplog yuav lawm khaws thaub. Poj hmoob nplog lub maib ces tus twg los nrhab rau, yuav coj mus miskas xwb. Ces thiaj xaus thaj chaw 1. Kev txij nkawm tsis yog yuav uv or yuav lam. It has to be equally balanced. You have to be true to self to find a true match. #3 matches because he finally became true to himself and she was herself before finding each other.
Tus txiv neej no cas yuav tsis xav Tom ntej Tom qab twb muaj 4 tug menyuam hlob lawm tseem rov muaj dua 4 tug ntxiv nrog niam mos ab thiab. Xav muaj los kawg ob tug ntxiv. Yes thws yus txoj ke.
Yog lawm txhua txoj kev peb xaiv thiab peb taug yog yus ua tus xaiv, yus twb paub zoo lawm tias yuav muaj teeb meem los tom ntej xwb, txawm tsis ntxov los yeej yuav lig tab sis yus yeej tseem xaiv thiab taug mus. Yuav tsum to taub li koj mas thiaj li yog nawb. Cia yam phem thiab tsis zoo dhau mus es qhov zoo thiaj zoo los , good for you.
Hmmmm.... Mister, you allowed those 2 women to use you and stepped all over you. Regardless of how you look, you should still have some self-respect. My husband is not handsome either but I know he won’t be a doormat. Ugh, it would be nice to have a doormat. LOL.
Txiv neej muaj poj niam ua hluas yog ua si ntau rau nws tus kheej yuav luag txhua tus, tab sis poj niam muaj txiv tig ua hluas yog rhuav nws lub neej nkaus xwb. Koj ob tug poj niam muab koj nrauj nkaus xwb ces koj yuav tau tig los xav thiab tsom xyuas koj tus kheej kom zoo txaus nkaus tso koj mam yuav tus tib peb. Yog tsis li no ces koj lub neej yuav rov tawg dua yog koj yuav tus tib peb.
Tus me nus es yeej tsi muaj neej paub txog yus lub neej li yus paub os...peb ces ntshaw2 ib txojkev hlub zoo2 xwb.... as human....peb xav hais tias yog yus hlub nws lawm ces nws yeej yuav hlub kuv rov qab ib yam thiab no xwb os tabsi tsi yog li kiag nawb cov me p.y....yus 8 hlub nws mas nws 8 ntxub yus xwb os... Nrog koj siab os koj tsi give up on love os.....
Yog lawm bro kuv tus ces kuv yeej hais tia yog tsis hlub lawm ces kam tsij mus thaum tseem hluas thiaj li tau koj nyiam no bro kuv thab tu siab li vim lub neej mus tsis tau nyiav mus nyiav zoo dua
Tus nus aw txoj me kev uas pheej mus yuav cov niam mob ab tim ub ces lawv siv koj tuam choj rau lawv tuaj xwb os. Cov hluas nkauj tim nplog ces money money xwb os. Txhob ruam2 mas hmoob meskas aw!!
Tsis tim tus zoo nkauj xwb thiaj muaj lub siab phem. Tus neeg lub siab phem ces tseem lub ntsej muag zoo nkauj los lub siab phem ces yeej yuav mus. Tus neeg ntsej muag phem tsis zoo nkauj los yog lub siab phem ces nws yeej yuav mus ib yam thiab. Ua neeg nyob ces nyob ntawm tus tib neeg lub siab xwb os. Zoo siab tias koj nrhiav tau ib tug pojniam siab zoo los hlub koj lawm. Thiv kom tsuas sib hlub mus kom kawg keeb xwb nawb.
Zoo siab heev koj yog ib tus txiv tsev zoo kawg thaum kawg koj thiaj tau tus zoo niam tsev thiab os hos tus ua phem rau yus ces tsuas yog tus los tsim yus xwb tsi yog yuav los hlub yus os thaib yuav xav ua lub neej kom zoo os nws tsuas yog poj liab xwb muaj ib hnub nws yuav khuv xim koj heev li os brother
Funny...all men look for beauty n suffer greatly yet, it isnt the lesson learned....its innate in a man's skin so i no feel bad. A half wit hmong man will still always pick the most beautiful n evil eve out there...lol. its always the half wit that can gamble all in for the evil eve...haha
Nej cov ua xav2 mus yuav niam yau tim nplog na mloog zam no nawb cov niag niam mos ab mas siab haj yam siab phem vim lawv cov niag tsa nees yeej cob2 lawv es lawv xav tias ntshe lawv tseem hluas2 ces lawv yuav tau ib tug zoo txiv no tiam sis qhov kawg tsis muaj neeg yuav thiab niag twb tsis txawj ntawv kawm tsis tau zoo hauj lwm ces lub niag neej tsis txog twg nawb
Niam mos ab hais tias hmoob meskas sib nrauj twb tsi muaj leej twg hais cas niam mos ab nrauj lawv tus txiv hmoob meskas cas muab hais thoob ntiaj teb. Nej tau xav tias tus hmoob meskas yog tus rub niam mos ab tes tawm kev txom nyem mus rau lub tebchaws vam meej qhov niam mos ab tsev neeg tsi poob $1 ces cov niam mos ab at least tos kom tus txiv tuag ua ntej niam mos ab khiav mus hlub lwm tus. Tabsis hmoob, pojniam thiab txiv neej tibsi, yeej tsi sawm zoo.
Twb npaum li no los txiv thaub luas twb tsis zeem kiag cov niag maum dev tim plog ces cov yuav tuaj ua neeg ces tsawg tus xwb os tab mas niaj hnub no twb tsis tau txaus rua cov thaub laus os
Yog koj ua li cas rau nws es nws thiaj ua npaum no rau koj na ... tsis lam tias koj tsis tau ua dab tsis rau nws es nws cia li ua phem rau koj pob lov ..
Tus phooj ywg tsis txhob tu siab tus maum dev ntawd yuav mus tsis txog qhov twg ? Hnub twg luag ntxias siv nws thaum luag dhuav nws lawm ces nws yeej yuav pom dab xwb2. Yog nrauj ib tug xwb ces tej zaum yog tim nws tab sis yog nrauj txog ob tug lawm ces tej zaum 50/50 lawm, hos yog nrauj txog 3 tug 4 tug rov lawm ces yeej yog tim yus lawm xwb. vim nej hmoob mékas yeej ruam nej thiaj li mus xaiv tib co niam ntiav tim nplog coj tuaj deev hluas rau tebchaws no.
Nej cov txiv neej twb raug nrauj tseem ntshaw nkauj mos ab ces hah yam raug tsim ntxiv vim koj mag nrauj vim koj tsis zoo nraug.koj tseem yuav niam mos ab koj twb laus lawm thiab ces yuav mag poj niam tsim ntxiv.hope u learn your lesson!
Cas nej yuav ntxub peb hmoob ua luaj qhov twg qhov twg phem ces muab pov rau niam mos ab tag nro nej cov poj niam hmoob meskas zoo ces g khiav nej mus li mo nej tsuas nro nej as yus los xaiv tus neeg zoo nej ho tss yuav as los tus niag poj laib xwb ces kawg li hau hmoob meskas yog tsis ntawm nploj no mus es puas muaj hmoob meskas mas cas hmoob txhua lub chaws txhawj dag txhawj phem cas nej pov rau hmoob nplog xwb os cov ntsej muag hmoob meskas
