Keep your opinion to yourself | Give It To Me Straight Podcast | Episode 2 

Bro the airport story I’m dead, Jon gives Phil Dunphy vibes 🤣🤣

“If a train is going 80mph, how long does it take to go 80 miles? 80 minutes.” LOL close, but no cigar 😂 You guys are the best haha

I love the honesty. The friendship advice I’ve always needed 😂

The guy who doesn't wanna get married he's probably thinking a wedding is expensive and not worth it. She could approach it from the angle of "i just want us to have a no-frills ceremony and sign papers" angle.

I agree with Jon on the weight discussion. You don’t want him to mention the weight but you also don’t want him to leave if he’s not attracted to her? So the guy has to stay unhappy? No. Leave. I personally think there is more wrong in the relationship if that stuff can’t be discussed. My weight has fluctuated in my 23 year relationship and my husband knows when I’m unhappy about it. I’d hope he could talk to me if it got to the point where he was not attracted to me anymore and vice versa. As a partnership we help each other out. If that’s lacking then it’s not going to work. In my opinion.

This is literally my relationship. I feel so vindicated 🤣

I’m so addicted to the chaos

Omg!! I always tell my husband that driving each other to LAX is part of marriage but we wind up calling our own Ubers more often than not due to work schedules or whatever. This one hit home! Also I don’t know what part of LA you guys live in but… Burbank airport. You’re welcome.

if you’re someone who will leave a partner because their appearance changes then you’re not ready for a serious and committed relationship. what if you get into a car accident and can’t walk for a year so you gain weight? you’re gonna leave then. go have casual relationships because that’s what you want, not a committed relationship.

Joint bank accounts when married for sure, trust trust trust & be UNIFIED

I always wanted so many kids. But once I had my son I realized I don’t want any more. He’s a good kid and my husband helps a lot with him. But we just have a huge issue communicating and agreeing on how we want to parent our son that my relationship with my husband has been ruined. And it makes me resentful…. And I feel bad about it.

The reason they have ‘greenhouses’ or nets around the pools in Florida is to keep the alligators and iguanas out…or so I heard lol

It’s one hour jon!!! Lol

47:28 I agree with Alex

Not the Uber! 😮😂😂

Lol. It is definitely pronounced “AIR”whon. I’m with Alex

You’re not a jerk Jon! I wish you got more time to talk 😅lol. I feel like when it comes to women and weight, everyone wants to take the woman’s side. You can be old and fit and healthy lol so it’s not really vain in that way. Isn’t fitness like a whole lifestyle? But I agree if they’re not married and he’s unhappy no need to be in an unhappy relationship .. it’s seems a little shitty, but I’d rather that than be put down about my weight when I could be with someone else. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Keep the f’ed up intros coming😂

Christ almighty, do not stay together for the kids. It just makes things worse in the long run. Kids know when their parents aren't happy and have to grow up living in that miserable house of lies under the guise of a happy family. Kids will have to witness parents fighting and will likely blame themselves. The parents will likely end up growing to resent each other which makes the inevitable divorce messier.

John I’m so disappointed in your view here. To Alex’s point , for better or worse …..AS LONG AS YOUR THIN! What a joke!

How good is hearing other people’s 🫖👌

Jon reminds me so much of my fiancé. Like a really nice, caring, loving person but has no patients for bullshit including mine lol

Jon, you really did you wife dirty! What time are you calling the UBER?! That moment was like a car crash you couldn't look away from. OMG! I can't believe you said that. That shit was funny for me to watch. And the moment you were like "I getting scared", you should be scur'd!

😂 Jon: Honestly accurately representing all men in assuming you were part of the “everyone” at the airport I’m literally ROFL 🤣

The issue with the girl and her husband’s school friend hits close to home. They were definitely talking before and he’s just telling her out of guilt. I don’t agree with Alex’s POV that they should get counseling. He already breached that trust with someone else, so she now needs to find evidence for the court to end that marriage and for her peace of mind-for closure. Alex’s point sort of puts the girl in a position where she has to fix the relationship, when clearly the guy doesn’t think there’s anything wrong. I’d say dtmf, don’t stay for the kids; they’ll grow up and understand why you did it eventually. She’ll resent him if she stays.

With the partner putting on weight : 20 pounds ish should be ignored. But if your partner put on 200 pounds suddenly, yeah. Not good (but if that’s the case, there is likely a medical/mental health reason so if you’re committed long term, try and help). But my bf and I have chatted over it and agreed, 20-30 pounds shouldn’t be discussed but 100 pounds is “hey baby, let’s go for a walk together” and NEVER making them feel bad. But it’s valid to be concerned over a huge difference and be very kind.

That one lady that said I don’t have kids but my husband has 2 is trippin… you have 2 kids lady!!!

The fact that Jon was so confident in the 80 minute train answer, but that’s not even the right answer 😂😂😂 I love them

I'm dying over the hand punch 😂

Coming from a female i think the weight topic is over sensitized. Sure some ppl are just vain but it’s important to note that weight isnt only about your looks, it directly correlates to your lifestyle and values. If you start a relationship with someone who has certain values and they change, that makes you just as incompatible as not being attracted to them. Personality can overcome looks, but when your weight changes by a significant or obvious amount it points to things in the personality that have shifted too. When you share significant parts of your life, like eating, with someone you want them to match you and your partner gaining a lot of weight or letting themselves go means that many things outside of physical appearance may no longer match up. Of course it all depends on the individual and their situation but to say that having an issue with your significant others weight is purely based on being vain and shallow just isn’t accurate a lot of the time. Not to mention that weight gain often leads to health complications so it really can be a lot to put on someone and I dont see anything wrong with someone deciding to get off the ride.

I agree with Jon, I can see how the Uber situation could be confusing. I would have assumed the deal included both partners. And I would have been in trouble 😅

Really enjoyed this. Looking forward to future content. I don't think its a big deal that there was a mess after a boys weekend. Clean as you go is a good message.

Jon got helluh gaslit on that weight question lol If you assume the best intentions from every party, and you're no longer attracted to someone physically, lead by example and talk with them about the things you do like about them and are attracted too. Your significant other will naturally try to accentuate those traits. If even after that, you're still no longer attracted, then leave. You don't gotta tell someone they're ugly and you shouldn't feel bad if you lose attraction to someone.

You were in my town! I love you guys but please don't move to Florida we're full 😂

Against the card industry?!! I’m sitting here listening as I make my handmade Mother’s Day cards I sell at my work! 😩💔 I always listen to u guys when I’m card making!!

I wanna have dinner and then party with you guys!!

I'm so confused are you guys married or roommates?

Are you the worst advice givers, yes! But man I could watch and listen to you guys forever!! LOL!!

I AM OBSESSED WITH THIS PODCAST YOU GUYS ARE SO FUCKING FUNNY

Wow I can imagine if they have 2 kids things are slipping up 😂😂😂

So excited to binge all your episodes… I love you two ❤

I love you guys 😂😂😂great episode

Love the episode!!

1st off, I enjoy watching you too. 2nd, Jon I think you may have ADHD. Referring to when you forget the first part of the question as it’s being read and then you need cliffs notes 😂 and comparing that to math word questions. I’m with you buddy, happens to me all the time. I felt that.

Put Kat on there. 😊 Maybe have a guest or something. I like your short videos. Pretty funny. And I’m very curious of both of your takes on California living, pros and cons. Also, I’m curious which scotch brands you like. Just some suggestions for content. Keep up the good work. Aloha from the North Shore.

On the weight one, I think that it has to do with health. I have not said anything to my partner about his weight but I gained weight and he suggested we get blood work done to make sure we are healthy because diabetes run in my family.

Jon needs to learn how to just listen. Lol. His hypermasculinity is also kind of annoying. But I’ll keep watching because their reels are funny. But he needs to see a therapist.

You don't know the love you will feel until you have kids...its ok to not have kids for sure, but also, its ok to want kids and its amazing and you wanna love them for longer once they're here.

The pressure sucks to have kids...but I really don't think you will ever regret having kids